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Re: Do Long Distance Relationship Last? by Heyyounotyou(f): 2:15pm On Dec 19, 2019
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Re: Do Long Distance Relationship Last? by Nobody: 2:16pm On Dec 19, 2019
Heyyounotyou:
Lol .. Yea it is !
At least i wanna try something new. I just want a friend at least. You know what do.

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Re: Do Long Distance Relationship Last? by itzprezy(m): 2:26pm On Dec 19, 2019
I have been in a long distance relationship since 2012.we only see once in a year.coz she lives in abuja and i stay in port harcourt..with regular communication it will last...but trust me it will tire u out sometimes...but I will not lie that I have cheated on her with two different girls here in Port Harcourt..God forgive me

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Re: Do Long Distance Relationship Last? by Heyyounotyou(f): 2:33pm On Dec 19, 2019
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Re: Do Long Distance Relationship Last? by Nobody: 2:44pm On Dec 19, 2019
Stop liking my post you evil girl. You wanna torment me first right No p grin

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Re: Do Long Distance Relationship Last? by bindukwe(m): 2:47pm On Dec 19, 2019
Heyyounotyou:
I know he’ll see this but Idc .. na love I love I nor kill person grin
Met this guy sometime ago.. we started on a good note..
Texting and chatting... Video calling and all that ..
Said he was interested in me, but I had my doubts.. I shared it with him and asked if this relationship thing was going to work .. He assured me and said if two comes together and agree on something it will definitely work ..
He clearly stated that afterall people that are close also have relationship issues ..

I believed him and we continued the charade .

He came to my state of residence inside this month .. I went to see him ..we were both happy to see eachother.. There was no sexual activity involved just kissing ..

So when he went back.. we were chatting and he said he didn’t think about this whole distance relationship thing properly and that don’t I have doubts.. I then told him I had but he has cleared it by assuring me that we will make it work !

He said it wasn’t going to work .. I was like why lead me through all this .. This’s someone I’ve already started seeing our future together and praying for his betterment cause he was always complaining of his financial and family predicament..

I was ready to keep myself and hold on to him !! But he just came up with this long distance relationship ..
He could’ve thought about it from the onset nau.. why put me in my feelings??

I feel hurt and don’t even want to hear about LDR no more .. I’ve blocked and unblocked him on all social platforms but he’s always in my mind.. I’ll move on tho .. Na only time e go take !

Any thoughts about LDR or he just doesn’t like me again ?


It could be anything, all possibilities are valid.

You can barely have a serious relationships with LDR.
It requires so much resources to sustain. Points you make with one physical embrace would require tons of video calls and text to match.

Physical relationships last more. I guess that's an obvious statistic.

He probably saw that he couldn't carry on with his promise.
It would be a good time to ask if you want to be with someone who breaks promises?

And his actions as described by you seems inconsiderate.
He should have provided a soft landing.

You can't start something and not finish it well even if the original plan fails.

If you ask me, I'd suggest you move on.
Re: Do Long Distance Relationship Last? by BlitzNG(m): 2:57pm On Dec 19, 2019
bindukwe:



It could be anything, all possibilities are valid.

You can barely have a serious relationships with LDR.
It requires so much resources to sustain. Points you make with one physical embrace would require tons of video calls and text to match.

Physical relationships last more. I guess that's an obvious statistic.

He probably saw that he couldn't carry on with his promise.
It would be a good time to ask if you want to be with someone who breaks promises?

And his actions as described by you seems inconsiderate.
He should have provided a soft landing.

You can't start something and not finish it well even if the original plan fails.

If you ask me, I'd suggest you move on.



To me, I feel he is not wrong and at the same wrong. Reason is that he told you his mind at a stage where you can easily move on with a decision to be with someone you see daily PR weekly because if it gets to that point of meeting your parents or family members and then back out, it could be devastating.
On the other hand, he should have known from the outset what he wanted and how he wants it to be. He should define his purpose and goals in a relationship. Does he like long distance or not? Think it twice before leading the other party on and abandon him/her along the line.

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Re: Do Long Distance Relationship Last? by bindukwe(m): 3:09pm On Dec 19, 2019
BlitzNG:




To me, I feel he is not wrong and at the same wrong. Reason is that he told you his mind at a stage where you can easily move on with a decision to be with someone you see daily PR weekly because if it gets to that point of meeting your parents or family members and then back out, it could be devastating.
On the other hand, he should have known from the outset what he wanted and how he wants it to be. He should define his purpose and goals in a relationship. Does he like long distance or not? Think it twice before leading the other party on and abandon him/her along the line.

Which is why i suggest she should move on.

He has doubts that he can't overcome, if he could he wouldn't say it.

Close relationships like this needs affection to thrive.
Distant calls and chats won't suffice.


You'll become disinterested over time and break away without saying anything. Nothing was holding you back.

Its too casual to last unless its temporary.
And temproaraity comes with defining the relationship

What she has with the guy is defined by feelings.
He's still an internet friend she has feelings for.

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Re: Do Long Distance Relationship Last? by Heyyounotyou(f): 3:20pm On Dec 19, 2019
That’s the point .. why lead me when he knew he was gon change his mind!
I always asked him countless times if it was going to work and he was assuring me all along .. I won’t even think of trying this rubbish LDR thingy again !
BlitzNG:




To me, I feel he is not wrong and at the same wrong. Reason is that he told you his mind at a stage where you can easily move on with a decision to be with someone you see daily PR weekly because if it gets to that point of meeting your parents or family members and then back out, it could be devastating.
On the other hand, he should have known from the outset what he wanted and how he wants it to be. He should define his purpose and goals in a relationship. Does he like long distance or not? Think it twice before leading the other party on and abandon him/her along the line.

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Re: Do Long Distance Relationship Last? by Heyyounotyou(f): 3:22pm On Dec 19, 2019
Sadly true..
what I had for him was genuine.
bindukwe:


Which is why i suggest she should move on.

He has doubts that he can't overcome, if he could he wouldn't say it.

Close relationships like this needs affection to thrive.
Distant calls and chats won't suffice.


You'll become disinterested over time and break away without saying anything. Nothing was holding you back.

Its too casual to last unless its temporary.
And temproaraity comes with defining the relationship

What she has with the guy is defined by feelings.
He's still an internet friend she has feelings for.

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Re: Do Long Distance Relationship Last? by fecoleef123(m): 3:37pm On Dec 19, 2019
Hmmmmm
Re: Do Long Distance Relationship Last? by dave4rella(m): 4:05pm On Dec 19, 2019
cool

We're you the one that didn't allow him to knack?

Or he didn't just make a move?
Re: Do Long Distance Relationship Last? by Heyyounotyou(f): 4:14pm On Dec 19, 2019
He made lots of moves.. But I resisted cause I wasn’t feeling him at that point.. Maybe it was my creator’s way of saving me from more torture and pain! quote author=dave4rella post=85051708] cool

We're you the one that didn't allow him to knack?

Or he didn't just make a move? [/quote]
Re: Do Long Distance Relationship Last? by Heyyounotyou(f): 4:14pm On Dec 19, 2019
Heyyounotyou:
He made lots of moves.. But I resisted cause I wasn’t feeling him at that point.. Maybe it was my creator’s way of saving me from more torture and pain ! quote author=dave4rella post=85051708] cool

We're you the one that didn't allow him to knack?

Or he didn't just make a move?
Re: Do Long Distance Relationship Last? by dave4rella(m): 4:16pm On Dec 19, 2019
Heyyounotyou:
He made lots of moves.. But I resisted cause I wasn’t feeling him at that point.. Maybe it was my creator’s way of saving me from more torture and pain !quote author=dave4rella post=85051708] cool

We're you the one that didn't allow him to knack?

Or he didn't just make a move?

OK then, maybe he's reacting to that
Just let it slide
Move on
Re: Do Long Distance Relationship Last? by Heyyounotyou(f): 4:18pm On Dec 19, 2019
I guess so ..
If that’s the reason he should’ve told me nau grin
dave4rella:


OK then, maybe he's reacting to that
Just let it slide
Move on
Re: Do Long Distance Relationship Last? by dave4rella(m): 4:23pm On Dec 19, 2019
Heyyounotyou:
I guess so ..
If that’s the reason he should’ve told me nau grin

You self you dey stingy with toto

You for allowing him fvck
After all the chart and all
Re: Do Long Distance Relationship Last? by Nobody: 4:32pm On Dec 19, 2019
dave4rella:


You self you dey stingy with toto

You for allowing him fvck
After all the chart and all
gringrin
Re: Do Long Distance Relationship Last? by Heyyounotyou(f): 4:44pm On Dec 19, 2019
Lol
Mad o grin grin
If he wanted the Toto he should’ve told me and not lie with love thingy ..you wan chop free puna without pay . . Omo he dive rock !
He think say I be mumu
dave4rella:


You self you dey stingy with toto

You for allowing him fvck
After all the chart and all
Re: Do Long Distance Relationship Last? by dave4rella(m): 4:51pm On Dec 19, 2019
Heyyounotyou:
Lol
Mad o grin grin
If he wanted the Toto he should’ve told me and not lie with love thingy ..you wan chop free puna without pay . . Omo he dive rock !
He think say I be mumu


grin

Wetin toto go cause for this life eh

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Re: Do Long Distance Relationship Last? by Heyyounotyou(f): 4:55pm On Dec 19, 2019
Lol ..
dave4rella:



grin

Wetin toto go cause for this life eh
Re: Do Long Distance Relationship Last? by Nobody: 5:20pm On Dec 19, 2019
Heyyounotyou:
Lol .. Funny you ..
He was all over me.. I won’t want to go into details.. Maybe my instincts were right and that was why i didn’t give in to his sexual advances !

My dear very many times when a lady keeps denying a guy her gindi, duri, obo, pussi, some other guy or guys are in one corner chopping the thing like kua-kua.

Long distance relationship grin I laugh. Remembered during youth service, a corp member was chopping this fine babe without him knowing that she is already engaged to another man far away (long distance).

Before the one year program ended, she traveled for her wedding. It caught the guy by surprise. He couldn't believe. THE WORST PART IS THAT, BEFORE SHE CAME BACK, THE GUY HAD STARTED LOOKING FOR SOMEONE ELSE, AND GOT ANOTHER FINE BABE. GUESS WHAT?! WHEN THIS NOW MARRIED LADY CAME BACK?! SEE FIGHT. NASO SHE BEGIN FIGHT D GUY SAY HOW HIM GO DEY RUNS ANOTHER BABE WHILE SHE IS NOW AROUND. SHE STILL WANT D GUY TO D CHOP HER.

Nah dis kind of babes go lie to their engaged guy say dem be virgin only for wedding night she go begin dey talk plenty-plenty tory about how her uncle rape her.
ABEG!!!
Re: Do Long Distance Relationship Last? by faithesco(f): 5:28pm On Dec 19, 2019
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Re: Do Long Distance Relationship Last? by faithesco(f): 5:30pm On Dec 19, 2019
Iloveu2:


My dear very many times when a lady keeps denying a guy her gindi, duri, obo, pussi, some other guy or guys are in one corner chopping the thing like kua-kua.

Long distance relationship grin I laugh. Remembered during youth service, a corp member was chopping this fine babe without him knowing that she is already engaged to another man far away (long distance).

Before the one year program ended, she traveled for her wedding. It caught the guy by surprise. He couldn't believe. THE WORST PART IS THAT, BEFORE SHE CAME BACK, THE GUY HAD STARTED LOOKING FOR SOMEONE ELSE, AND GOT ANOTHER FINE BABE. GUESS WHAT?! WHEN THIS NOW MARRIED LADY CAME BACK?! SEE FIGHT. NASO SHE BEGIN FIGHT D GUY SAY HOW HIM GO DEY RUNS ANOTHER BABE WHILE SHE IS NOW AROUND. SHE STILL WANT D GUY TO D CHOP HER.

Nah dis kind of babes go lie to their engaged guy say dem be virgin only for wedding night she go begin dey talk plenty-plenty tory about how her uncle rape her.
ABEG!!!



Re: Do Long Distance Relationship Last? by Heyyounotyou(f): 5:38pm On Dec 19, 2019
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Re: Do Long Distance Relationship Last? by Heyyounotyou(f): 5:39pm On Dec 19, 2019
I see you !
fecoleef123:
Hmmmmm
Re: Do Long Distance Relationship Last? by Nobody: 5:43pm On Dec 19, 2019
Heyyounotyou:
Lol . Not every girl has the tendency of cheating.. except those wey Toto Dey scratch ... .. what I felt for him was true tho ... maybe he needs his girl and pussy close !

Hmmmm....toto no dey scratch you abi?! Na itch e dey itch you. grin

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Re: Do Long Distance Relationship Last? by Heyyounotyou(f): 5:56pm On Dec 19, 2019
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