diji04:
Women weren't created by God for sex only with men there are numerous things a lady can offer in a relationship apart from sex sex,but mostly you find most men viewing women as sex object which is very wrong myself is not exempted.

For a while now I have been guilty of such act, my question is how can one view or take a lady for what she is other than sex, I know is difficult Because of the way most ladies dress these days.
pls the Mod can help move it front page for a broader perspectives thanks.

diji04:
Women weren't created by God for sex only with men there are numerous things a lady can offer in a relationship apart from sex sex,but mostly you find most men viewing women as sex object which is very wrong myself is not exempted.

For a while now I have been guilty of such act, my question is how can one view or take a lady for what she is other than sex, I know is difficult Because of the way most ladies dress these days.
pls the Mod can help move it front page for a broader perspectives thanks.

diji04:
Women weren't created by God for sex only with men there are numerous things a lady can offer in a relationship apart from sex sex,but mostly you find most men viewing women as sex object which is very wrong myself is not exempted.

For a while now I have been guilty of such act, my question is how can one view or take a lady for what she is other than sex, I know is difficult Because of the way most ladies dress these days.
pls the Mod can help move it front page for a broader perspectives thanks.

ubunja:
what exactly do women have to offer in a relationship besides sex?

Akinbahm:

Here we go again, dont come nd brake the table ladies are trying to fix...

Gone are the days our Mother's have a lot to offer our Father's then they bring more than sex to the table but the so called of nowadays girls(70%) have nothing upstairs other than to drain you emotionally, psychologically, financially & mentally and offer u just 5minutes enjoyment to compensate you....

CAPSLOCKED:
FOR ME, I THINK THEY OBJECTIFY THEMSELVES MORE THAN YOU EVER WILL. WHILE MEN ARE EXPECTED TO DRESS CLASSY AND WELL COVERED, WOMEN THESE DAYS ALWAYS WANT TO LOOK THE OPPOSITE. IF AS A LADY YOU DRESS LIKE CHIMAMANDA ADICHIE, YOUR FELLOW WOMEN WILL MOCK YOU AND CALL YOU DEEPER LIFE.
IF THEY'RE NOT LOOKING LIKE KIM OR THE WAY YEMI OR TIWA LOOKS ON TV, THEY'RE NEVER TRULY HAPPY WITH THEIR EXISTENCE.
TODAY'S WOMEN WANT TO LOOK AS FAKE AS POSSIBLE. THEY WANT TO LOOK LIKE EACH OTHER. ONE GIRL STARTS A SILLY TREND A MILLION OTHERS FOLLOW, NOT MINDING HOW DUMB THE IDEA IS.

ESTHER VILA SAYS TO GET WOMEN'S ATTENTION, INVOLVE A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN IN ANYTHING YOU DO BECAUSE WOMEN WILL ONLY PAY ATTENTION TO YOU WHEN THE TOPIC IS ABOUT ANOTHER WOMAN. THEY WOULD WANT TO BE LIKE THAT WOMAN IN YOUR MUSIC VIDEO, MOVIE, TALK SHOW, OR EVEN A WAR. MEN WILL PATRONIZE ANYTHING, BUT WOMEN WILL PATRONIZE ONLY THE THINGS THEY SEE ANOTHER WOMAN IN.. SO THEY DO THEIR TRASHY DRESSING, MAKE UP AND STUFF, JUST BECAUSE ONE OTHER WOMAN IS DOING IT AND THEY REALLY WANNA BE LIKE THAT WOMAN.

WHEN YOU SAY MEN OBJECTIFY WOMEN, THAT'S YOU SHIFTING THE BLAMES TO MEN FOR ALL OF WOMEN'S ERRORS AS USUAL.
MEN DON'T CARE ABOUT THEIR HAIRS, OR NAILS, OR PIERCINGS OR RAINBOW SKINS. THE MEN THAT CARE FOR PHYSIQUES ARE ONLY LUSTING. THE ONLY PEOPLE THAT CARE ABOUT THESE THINGS ARE OTHER WOMEN. I DON'T THINK ANY MAN WOULD LIKE FOR HIS DAUGHTER OR WOMAN TO ALWAYS LOOK HALF-DRESS AND TOO ARTIFICIAL. ONLY WOMEN DO THESE THINGS TO THEMSELVES.

I GUESS YOU KNOW WHAT HAPPENS WHEN THEY DON'T GET ENOUGH LIKES ON THEIR TRASHY INSTAGRAM PHOTOS.
THEY FALL INTO DEPRESSION AND LOSE APPETITE FOR MONTHS. THAT'S TO TELL YOU HOW MOST WOMEN'S LIVES NOW DEPEND ON THE COMPLIMENTS AND VALIDATION OF OTHER PEOPLE. ESPECIALLY OTHER WOMEN.

ubunja:
what exactly do women have to offer in a relationship besides sex?

diji04:
Women weren't created by God for sex only with men there are numerous things a lady can offer in a relationship apart from sex sex,but mostly you find most men viewing women as sex object which is very wrong myself is not exempted.

For a while now I have been guilty of such act, my question is how can one view or take a lady for what she is other than sex, I know is difficult Because of the way most ladies dress these days.
pls the Mod can help move it front page for a broader perspectives thanks.

CAPSLOCKED:
FOR ME, I THINK THEY OBJECTIFY THEMSELVES MORE THAN YOU EVER WILL. WHILE MEN ARE EXPECTED TO DRESS CLASSY AND WELL COVERED, WOMEN THESE DAYS ALWAYS WANT TO LOOK THE OPPOSITE. IF AS A LADY YOU DRESS LIKE CHIMAMANDA ADICHIE, YOUR FELLOW WOMEN WILL MOCK YOU AND CALL YOU DEEPER LIFE.
IF THEY'RE NOT LOOKING LIKE KIM OR THE WAY YEMI OR TIWA LOOKS ON TV, THEY'RE NEVER TRULY HAPPY WITH THEIR EXISTENCE.
TODAY'S WOMEN WANT TO LOOK AS FAKE AS POSSIBLE. THEY WANT TO LOOK LIKE EACH OTHER. ONE GIRL STARTS A SILLY TREND A MILLION OTHERS FOLLOW, NOT MINDING HOW DUMB THE IDEA IS.

ESTHER VILA SAYS TO GET WOMEN'S ATTENTION, INVOLVE A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN IN ANYTHING YOU DO BECAUSE WOMEN WILL ONLY PAY ATTENTION TO YOU WHEN THE TOPIC IS ABOUT ANOTHER WOMAN. THEY WOULD WANT TO BE LIKE THAT WOMAN IN YOUR MUSIC VIDEO, MOVIE, TALK SHOW, OR EVEN A WAR. MEN WILL PATRONIZE ANYTHING, BUT WOMEN WILL PATRONIZE ONLY THE THINGS THEY SEE ANOTHER WOMAN IN.. SO THEY DO THEIR TRASHY DRESSING, MAKE UP AND STUFF, JUST BECAUSE ONE OTHER WOMAN IS DOING IT AND THEY REALLY WANNA BE LIKE THAT WOMAN.

WHEN YOU SAY MEN OBJECTIFY WOMEN, THAT'S YOU SHIFTING THE BLAMES TO MEN FOR ALL OF WOMEN'S ERRORS AS USUAL.
MEN DON'T CARE ABOUT THEIR HAIRS, OR NAILS, OR PIERCINGS OR RAINBOW SKINS. THE MEN THAT CARE FOR PHYSIQUES ARE ONLY LUSTING. THE ONLY PEOPLE THAT CARE ABOUT THESE THINGS ARE OTHER WOMEN. I DON'T THINK ANY MAN WOULD LIKE FOR HIS DAUGHTER OR WOMAN TO ALWAYS LOOK HALF-DRESS AND TOO ARTIFICIAL. ONLY WOMEN DO THESE THINGS TO THEMSELVES.

I GUESS YOU KNOW WHAT HAPPENS WHEN THEY DON'T GET ENOUGH LIKES ON THEIR TRASHY INSTAGRAM PHOTOS.
THEY FALL INTO DEPRESSION AND LOSE APPETITE FOR MONTHS. THAT'S TO TELL YOU HOW MOST WOMEN'S LIVES NOW DEPEND ON THE COMPLIMENTS AND VALIDATION OF OTHER PEOPLE. ESPECIALLY OTHER WOMEN.

kkins25:

This would be completely true if we didn't factor-in Biological properties that commands the woman to do all this thing you've mentioned above.

diji04:
No man will feel good if only what his girlfriend or wife offer is sex most ladies can't keep a conversation about innovative ideas or things around their environment I know many girls who don't even know the names of their governor or deputy, many can't even give a career advice to their boyfriends not to talk about using one naira to make two naira

CAPSLOCKED:


I WOULD LIKE TO DISAGREE WITH THE BIOLOGICAL FACTORS. THAT'S AN EXCUSE.
WE KNOW MOST PEOPLE BEHAVE THE WAYS THEY DO DUE TO SOCIETAL AND ENVIRONMENTAL IMPACT.

THOSE QUALITIES I MENTIONED DO NOT OCCUR NATURALLY. THEY ARE INHERITED, TRANSFERED FROM ONE PERSON TO ANOTHER.

DO PEOPLE DECIDE TO START BLEACHING OR DOING INTERNET FRAUD BECAUSE IT'S A BIOLOGICAL THING? WE HUMANS LIKE TO COPY OURSELVES. THAT'S JUST IT.

diji04:
No man will feel good if only what his girlfriend or wife offer is sex most ladies can't keep a conversation about innovative ideas or things around their environment I know many girls who don't even know the names of their governor or deputy, many can't even give a career advice to their boyfriends not to talk about using one naira to make two naira

diji04:
Women weren't created by God for sex only with men there are numerous things a lady can offer in a relationship apart from sex sex,but mostly you find most men viewing women as sex object which is very wrong myself is not exempted.

For a while now I have been guilty of such act, my question is how can one view or take a lady for what she is other than sex, I know is difficult Because of the way most ladies dress these days.
pls the Mod can help move it front page for a broader perspectives thanks.

kkins25:


I think you are wrong on many levels. Most men would fill good. As long as the woman can satisfy his sexual, ,perverted urges. As long as the woman can do what ordinary women do them she is ok by many men.. its only a few men that would want a lady who engages them mentally. If what you say is anywhere close to the truth, professors would not fall easily for the seductive tacticx of the feminine beast.

ubunja:
what exactly do women have to offer in a relationship besides sex?

StacyO:


I love reading your writeups on nairaland though.
But this your comment, mmmmmmm
Never knew es stultior asino.
No one offers you anything, you both agreed to it. One might enjoy it more than the other,one is always ready to jump into it whether by touch or sight,one has to be ready in a certain season or time. Why its good to be celibate till marriage.
I understand you want to be an mgtow or whatever,females (feminists). Please,while you're at it,try to apply your upper six too.
Its not a fight.

ubunja:
that's why all I need is a sex slave. Not someone pretending to offer more than she can't or more than I don't need. Just open legs. Bonus if you cook and clean.

Akinbahm:

I think you didn't get the picture diji04 is trying to paint out mum and dad role is far beyond sex at times married Men fall out of bussiness plan/strategy and needed someone to strategise/reason along with them but unfortunately most of these girls are not up to the task since what they are bonafide of is sex...


The Professor of a thing u raised doesn't correlate because the Professor that falls for the tactics of a famine beast was because of Sex & not sth beyond sex, that's why u see some Profs request for sex from these dullard Hoelosohos because they knew they have nothing upstairs and if you notice very well these Profs keep their company with intellectual people to acquire more knowledge because they are sound & productive with intellects unlike the other who av nothing to offer than sex...

kkins25:
societal and what not, it all boils down to biology of the species. This Is a fact. Men marry women nd not the other way round (naturally) so the woman is burdened to utilize whatever tools or means necessary to be the selected mate. Thats why women are so jealous of themselves. Its all in the biology. This days getting the real big boys is even difficult, not to mention we live in a male dorminated society. So one thing that is constantly running through the mind of every girl is, how do I out perform my rival.... two ladies could be best friends since kindergarten but when a young man gets into the picture problem arise, things fall apart. Unlike males who can bang one chick nd be ok with it..

Not to say my friend that you are wrong, No!! Indeed society influence behaviour. My point is ; its that intristic component in their biology that makes them go to the beyond.

Rapmoney:
How old are you? You seem not understand life.

pansophist:


You are absorbing women of the responsibility to not objectify themselves. Though your points are somewhat understandable concerning the biological underpinning of female behavior. Humans, unlike animals, are superior in the sense that our senses supersede and regulate our instinctual predispositions. Also, your points will be valid if every single woman on the planet behaves like that, which is not true. Also, it is not solely because of mate competition that makes women dress so sexually provocative and objectify themselves, it is also because they know that society sees values in her body, and displaying it way above what is considered reasonable is a huge ego boost which gets her addicted.

ubunja:
that's why all I need is a sex slave. Not someone pretending to offer more than she can't or more than I don't need. Just open legs. Bonus if you cook and clean.

diji04:
No man will feel good if only what his girlfriend or wife offer is sex most ladies can't keep a conversation about innovative ideas or things around their environment I know many girls who don't even know the names of their governor or deputy, many can't even give a career advice to their boyfriends not to talk about using one naira to make two naira