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Help! My Fiancee Is Always Short Of Blood by dedons: 4:06pm On Dec 21, 2019
Greetings to the health experts in the house.

My Fiancee who is 26yr old recently did her genotype test only to discover that she is SS. I'm AA though.

She has never felt any symptom of a SS patient all her life until recently when she started complaining of frequent body weakness. She was taken to the general hospital and a lot of test were carried out on her blood only to discover that she is SS. Her PCV also showed that she is far below the normal blood level.

The specialist in charge immediately recommended blood transfusion for her which was done and her PCV increased well.

Just less than a month again she started complaining of the same body weakness. She was taken to the hospital for another PCV test only to discover that her PCV count has dropped tremendously.

she is currently on another round of blood transfusion but it's no longer making sense as we don't know the actual cause of the frequent drop in her PCV count.

Please I would appreciate your sincere contribution to this issue. I would like to know the cause and possible solutions to this whole thing as I intend getting married to her this year.

Thank you and God bless you all.

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Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Short Of Blood by ITbomb(m): 4:14pm On Dec 21, 2019
Let her get pregnant and have a child as soon as possible.
I'm not praying but that may be the start of a long journey
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Short Of Blood by dedons: 4:38pm On Dec 21, 2019
ITbomb:
Let her get pregnant and have a child as soon as possible.
I'm not praying but that may be the start of a long journey
I don't understand bro. What do u mean by "start of a long journey?"
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Short Of Blood by Nobody: 5:27pm On Dec 21, 2019
You have nothing to fear.You should be thankful to God that she's now aware of her genotype. you see,ss patience have an abnormal red blood cell which has a shorter life span(compared to healthy ones)&so they suffer from anaemia(low pcv count).
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Short Of Blood by Nobody: 5:33pm On Dec 21, 2019
Unfortunately,it's just one of d crises she would encounter as SS patient but you need 2 stand by her in times of trial. I'll suggest she should be placed on special diets rich in iron& supplements, incorporate green veggys in her meal&reduce stress.

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Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Short Of Blood by dedons: 6:42pm On Dec 21, 2019
favoryte33:
You have nothing to fear.You should be thankful to God that she's now aware of her genotype. you see,ss patience have an abnormal red blood cell which has a shorter life span(compared to healthy ones)&so they suffer from anaemia(low pcv count).
Thank you sir
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Short Of Blood by dedons: 6:42pm On Dec 21, 2019
favoryte33:
Unfortunately,it's just one of d crises she would encounter as SS patient but you need 2 stand by her in times of trial. I'll suggest she should be placed on special diets rich in iron& supplements, incorporate green veggys in her meal&reduce stress.
Thank you sir
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Short Of Blood by ctleurocollege: 6:59pm On Dec 21, 2019
Stand by her that's all
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Short Of Blood by dedons: 10:28pm On Dec 21, 2019
ctleurocollege:
Stand by her that's all
I will because I sincerely love her but I need a permanent solution to the frequent blood shortage.
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Short Of Blood by Nobody: 5:28am On Dec 22, 2019
Sorry bro, have to reply you because you are one of my long long online friend I met here long ago. To be frank, I pray for devine healing for her. At this stage, she needs your full support mentally, physically and whichever way u can stand by her. From experience, she may be in and out of the hospitals for long for tests, admissions , and the likes. SS is not something that to joke with especially when it gets to stages that she will be short of blood here and there, she is having a crisis.
Red blood cells usually live for about 120 days before they need to be replaced. But sickle cells usually die in 10 to 20 days, leaving a shortage of red blood cells (anemia).
Without enough red blood cells, her body can't get the oxygen it needs to feel energized, causing fatigue. So it's either she keeps on with the transfusion or bone marrow transplant, in either way it costs lot of money here and there. It's not her fault, it's not yours either. Probably the ignorance of the parents.
I don't want to scare you but it requires prayers, a dedicated heart and support , no matter what comes out for her. I won't advice you to get her pregnant as someone earlier suggested because it may be worse than what you think during pregnancy and if anything happens to her, her family will not hold you responsible especially when you have not paid her pride price.
Wishing her the best recoveries and devine healing.

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Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Short Of Blood by dedons: 7:25am On Dec 22, 2019
priceaction:
Sorry bro, have to reply you because you are one of my long long online friend I met here long ago. To be frank, I pray for devine healing for her. At this stage, she needs your full support mentally, physically and whichever way u can stand by her. From experience, she may be in and out of the hospitals for long for tests, admissions , and the likes. SS is not something that to joke with especially when it gets to stages that she will be short of blood here and there, she is having a crisis.
Red blood cells usually live for about 120 days before they need to be replaced. But sickle cells usually die in 10 to 20 days, leaving a shortage of red blood cells (anemia).
Without enough red blood cells, her body can't get the oxygen it needs to feel energized, causing fatigue. So it's either she keeps on with the transfusion or bone marrow transplant, in either way it costs lot of money here and there. It's not her fault, it's not yours either. Probably the ignorance of the parents.
I don't want to scare you but it requires prayers, a dedicated heart and support , no matter what comes out for her. I won't advice you to get her pregnant as someone earlier suggested because it may be worse than what you think during pregnancy and if anything happens to her, her family will not hold you responsible especially when you have not paid her pride price.
Wishing her the best recoveries and devine healing.
Thank you my brother.

The amazing thing is that she has been healthy all her life until recently when she started complaining of body weakness and was discovered she is SS.

I don't really understand why the symptoms never showed up since birth until now.
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Short Of Blood by Laird(m): 7:42am On Dec 22, 2019
How are You sure.she did not.know.her genotype since but kept the information to.herself.to avoid potential boyfriend's running away.


Anyway shaa make and decide what You want
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Short Of Blood by ctleurocollege: 9:05am On Dec 22, 2019
dedons:
I will because I sincerely love her but I need a permanent solution to the frequent blood shortage.

Let her work on her diet by eating more vegetables and fruits and also take 5 litres of water every day
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Short Of Blood by ppeessuu: 9:54am On Dec 22, 2019
Bro sorry about ur girl condition.
From my experience she has and infection that is killing her blood faster than normal n and the earlier u discover the infection the better or else u will continue in this circles of shortage of blood.
Bacteria like h pylori in the digestive tract cause low blood , dizziness n many more.
Bacteria like ecoli causes low blood too.
So am very sure some bacteria infection is killing her blood.
Let her eat freshly cook vegetables daily without fish, meat n carb.
Let her take natural supplement like trevo or rain soul to also increase her pvc.

Pls pls n pls invstigate the infection oo
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Short Of Blood by Uyi168: 11:01am On Dec 22, 2019
She can't be ss and not have any of the symptoms in 26 yrs..

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Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Short Of Blood by Uyi168: 11:04am On Dec 22, 2019
ppeessuu:
Bro sorry about ur girl condition.
From my experience she has and infection that is killing her blood faster than normal n and the earlier u discover the infection the better or else u will continue in this circles of shortage of blood.
Bacteria like h pylori in the digestive tract cause low blood , dizziness n many more.
Bacteria like ecoli causes low blood too.
So am very sure some bacteria infection is killing her blood.
Let her eat freshly cook vegetables daily without fish, meat n carb.
Let her take natural supplement like trevo or rain soul to also increase her pvc.

Pls pls n pls invstigate the infection oo
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Pcv not pvc..
And also,she's having blood shortage because her RBCs only last 10-20 days compared to the normal 100-120 days and not necessarily those bacterial infections u put up there..
Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Short Of Blood by CAPSLOCKED: 12:00pm On Dec 22, 2019
dedons:
My Fiancee who is 26yr old recently did her genotype test only to discover that she is SS. I'm AA though.


ARE YOU SURE YOU'VE NOT BEEN TRICKED?

IN THIS MODERN AGE, IS IT POSSIBLE THAT A 26YR-OLD IS JUST FINDING OUT HER GENOTYPE?

HOW CAN AN SS PERSON NOT KNOW SHE'S SS? HOW CAN YOU SAY SINCE SHE WAS BORN, HER SS SYMPTOMS RECENTLY STARTED MANIFESTING NOW THAT SHE'S 26, ABOUT TO WED YOU?

YOU, MY HUMBLE FRIEND HAS BEEN LIED TO. ALTHOUGH I DO NOT KNOW WHY SHE WOULD DO THAT, BUT IT IS NOT POSSIBLE FOR A 26YR-OLD SS CARRIER TO NOT KNOW SHE'S SS. WHAT ABOUT HER AS PARENTS? DO YOU KNOW THEM? HOW WERE THEY NEVER WORRIED THAT THEIR SWEET DAUGHTER MAY BE SS?

OGBENI YOU'VE BEEN DECEIVED, AND WILL FURTHER BE DECEIVED WITH MORE CØCK-AND-BULL STORIES.

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Re: Help! My Fiancee Is Always Short Of Blood by dedons: 3:55pm On Dec 22, 2019
CAPSLOCKED:



ARE YOU SURE YOU'VE NOT BEEN TRICKED?

IN THIS MODERN AGE, IS IT POSSIBLE THAT A 26YR-OLD IS JUST FINDING OUT HER GENOTYPE?

HOW CAN AN SS PERSON NOT KNOW SHE'S SS? HOW CAN YOU SAY SINCE SHE WAS BORN, HER SS SYMPTOMS RECENTLY STARTED MANIFESTING NOW THAT SHE'S 26, ABOUT TO WED YOU?

YOU, MY HUMBLE FRIEND HAS BEEN LIED TO. ALTHOUGH I DO NOT KNOW WHY SHE WOULD DO THAT, BUT IT IS NOT POSSIBLE FOR A 26YR-OLD SS CARRIER TO NOT KNOW SHE'S SS. WHAT ABOUT HER AS PARENTS? DO YOU KNOW THEM? HOW WERE THEY NEVER WORRIED THAT THEIR SWEET DAUGHTER MAY BE SS?

OGBENI YOU'VE BEEN DECEIVED, AND WILL FURTHER BE DECEIVED WITH MORE CØCK-AND-BULL STORIES.
Unfortunately, I believe her. I've been with her for over two years now and have never seen her seriously ill.

Thank you for your contributions sir.

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