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NigPatriot:

OP, So you've never heard of family planning?

This concept of sin has kept Africa backward for way too long. Condom is one of man's best invention, just imagine a world, where for every sex encounter; a progeny is born. Then we would be walking on peoples head by now.

Condom is one of man's best invention, i like that one..

donstan18:
This topic further explains why people say that over religious fellows are not logical in reasoning.

You are 10/10

What kind of fvckery is this?

There is nothing like usurping God's right to determine how many children a couple can have, can a man help God !. I mean he can easily punish you by giving you 36 children at once. We can't outsmart God. Condom for married people is not a sin, however it should not be used to justify fornication for the unmarried.

If una born unwanted pickin and husband like to come inside and watch it flow out like a BOSS......

Nah religion go train the pickin.......

izicooo:
Condom is one of man's best invention, i like that one..

Just dey chop dey go, with no fear..... Unless condom break and the raw sensation too sweet.......

4gunners:
Objectify, you say. Some people reason ehn...So they should continue to procreate...

Yes,objectify. Man almost always has to objectify his fellow man,consciously or not, before he can commit a crime against him. In the case of contraceptives, the spouse and the possible out come(the child) are objectified,-that is -they are robbed of their identification as persons and treated like objects. In treating a person as an object humanity demeans and objectifies itself.

this is taking religion too far ahead condom use between married couple is a sin na wa for African holiness. why did God give man a brain in the first instance is it for decoration? or to occupy space? abeg make somebody explain to me do we just keep on deceiving ourselves? this is disgusting

Lexusgs430:
If una born unwanted pickin and husband like to come inside and watch it flow out like a BOSS......

Nah religion go train the pickin.......

guy your brain no go rotten lailai

Chaiiii,Na every thing go dey bible.No use condom so that in 10 years you go born 10 children.The phone you are using to do nairaland,is it in the bible.So it is now a sin nonsense.

why Wil l be using Condom with my wife in the first place?

ashatoda:

guy your brain no go rotten lailai

That nah the reason pickin full everywhere for 9ja..........

Typical of religious fellas. Everything is a sin to these religious people and they are more sinful in the actual sense. These countries have high number of irreligious people and they are waxing stronger:


1. China (7% feel religious)
2. Japan (13% feel religious)
3. Estonia (16% feel religious)
4. Sweden (19% feel religious)
5. Norway (21% feel religious)
6. Czech Republic (23% feel religious)
7. Hong Kong (26% feel religious)
8. Netherlands (26% feel religious)
9. Israel (30% feel religious)
10. United Kingdom (30% feel religious).


Some years back, it was a sin to have a television set in your house by some religious houses.

You had better start using your cerebral hemisphere.

jesusjnr:
IS IT A SIN FOR MARRIED COUPLES TO USE CONDOMS?

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This post is an offshoot of a recent thread titled, "Are we truly safe when we commit sin with condoms?"

https://www.nairaland.com/5582353/truly-safe-when-commit-sin

That thread was primarily intended to use the Truth of Jesus Words to disprove the idea being sold by the world in the name of "safe sex", that someone who commits a sexual sin, let's say, adultery, using a condom could yet be truly safe.

But then a someone with the moniker @Prettyjanet1 pops up with this interesting question:



So that's obviously where I got the thread title from, and this was my answer to the question:



So married couples using condoms was not considered a sin to me then, and that corroborated my position on the Op of that thread that I wasn't against the use of condoms because I didn't believe that it was a bad thing.

But then came someone else with the moniker @Godsonjolly with the following question:



This was my response:



Then he said:



But his comment seemed to make some sense to me, hence my response:

Therefore his comment agreed with my inclination on the use of condoms amongst married couples, because I believe that God should have the last say on the amount of kids a couple should have, even though at the time I didn't consider it to be a sin if they did so.

However the difference in this case was that I somehow just found it hard to include the part that "it was not a sin to me" in the final post of my conversation with him, as I did in my response to the first question, even though I had initially typed it. So I just had to chop that part off before posting, because at that point, it just felt quite uncomfortable to include it, as it just didn't seem right.

So it seemed my initial position about married couples using condoms during sex not being a sin had began to experience a bit of a wobble.

And to add to that uncertainty, there was a development I had noticed after making that thread, and it was the word "condom" suddenly beginning to feature in my tongues. But I felt very uncomfortable with that for obvious reasons, even though I had just done a thread that had something to do with that, as I had expected to move on from that since I had accomplished what I intended with that thread. So the last thing I was expecting was for it to start showing up in my tongues.

But it was later when I began to say "condom na sirin" repeatedly in tongues, that the picture began to become clearer of what the message appeared to be, as it sounded like "condom na sin" in pidgin English.

I began to have the feeling that perhaps the Holy Spirit wasn't pleased with the impression I had given about the use of condoms on the Op of that thread, where I said that I wasn't against the use of condoms and didn't believe that it was a bad thing, so that i would correct it.

But it was when I came back to the thread and saw where I had categorically responded to @Prettyjanet1's question, and said that use of condoms by married couples wasn't a sin, and had followed my responses up til the final response I gave on that same matter, where I was no longer comfortable to say it was a sin as i had done initially, that it became much clearer to me what actually happened then, and what that had to do with my spoken tongues about condoms.

So I believe the message of the Spirit of God is that it is a sin in God's sight for marriage couples to use condoms, just as that brother @Godsonjolly had insinuated, to correct my initial response that it wasn't a sin.

And though I don't think it's a sin that could lead married couples to hell, I believe that God is not happy when married couples use condoms during sex, as it usurps Him of His right as the One who determines giving kids or not in a marriage.

This may have been one of the things that displeased God concerning Onan that made Him slay him as was suggested by @Godsonjolly, for in the Bible days there were no condoms, so child bearing among married couples was solely God's prerogative, therefore Onan may have also dishonored God by what he did.

This is not intended to frighten or judge married couples, however I believe that especially for christians, it's best to follow the examples given in the Bible where childbearing in marriage was usually attributed to God, and the amount of children was determined by Him, so that condoms would not take God's place in determining how many kids they have.

That would obviously require married couples completely trusting God concerning childbearing, but i believe the marriages of those do so surely shall surely reap the rewards of them placing such extent of trust in God, because God alone best knows how many children a married couple should have.

God bless.

I just want to clarify this to you jesusjnr, God is not a stammerer, whatever he wants you to know, he will state it clearly for you, sometimes even twice or thrice.
As for what you were saying during your tongues, go and read through Kenneth E. Hagins' books on speaking in tongues.
When God wants to speak to you, He will do so through means like direct word, dreams visions, trances etc. Now when you speak words during tongues, it's mostly for other people.
May God send you more knowledge.

The same op that is saying condom is a sin will be d same person saying there are no jobs ! How will resources ever be enough if we don’t reduce childbirth ? It’s like u people have no grip on d reality around you ! Even d people that saddled us with this religion thing realize d need to control population ! But trust Nigerian Christians - they solve all practical problems using a bible that was written for Hebrews and Israelites thousands of years ago but rush to get visa for countries that developed themselves using practical solutions based on their realistic situations . It’s just so sad how religion has reduced is to a bunch of brain dead people .

If you are Catholic that is.

otipoju:


Im just saying that before Abraham, there were men. I also do not support abortions but my prayer always is that God will not ever put us in a tight corner. We will not see what will pass us.

So i cant judge anyone unless it becomes a habit for the person

d best thing is after sex pour lime or grape in ur woman private part.to spoil the sperm from forming instead of abortion

yettymuse:
SIN don suffer for una hand! Mtcheew

very stupid question. complement of d season dear.u Neva come in rooms again.hope all is well?

Seriously! These people just make u wonder whether it was chicken brain that was put in their skull ! How anyone can lack critical reasoning skills to this point is amazing!

AreaFada2:


The thing tire me o. No wonder China is cracking down on religious excesses. Not to become another shithole.

jesusjnr:
IS IT A SIN FOR MARRIED COUPLES TO USE CONDOMS?

---

This post is an offshoot of a recent thread titled, "Are we truly safe when we commit sin with condoms?"

https://www.nairaland.com/5582353/truly-safe-when-commit-sin

That thread was primarily intended to use the Truth of Jesus Words to disprove the idea being sold by the world in the name of "safe sex", that someone who commits a sexual sin, let's say, adultery, using a condom could yet be truly safe.

But then a someone with the moniker @Prettyjanet1 pops up with this interesting question:



So that's obviously where I got the thread title from, and this was my answer to the question:



So married couples using condoms was not considered a sin to me then, and that corroborated my position on the Op of that thread that I wasn't against the use of condoms because I didn't believe that it was a bad thing.

But then came someone else with the moniker @Godsonjolly with the following question:



This was my response:



Then he said:



But his comment seemed to make some sense to me, hence my response:

Therefore his comment agreed with my inclination on the use of condoms amongst married couples, because I believe that God should have the last say on the amount of kids a couple should have, even though at the time I didn't consider it to be a sin if they did so.

However the difference in this case was that I somehow just found it hard to include the part that "it was not a sin to me" in the final post of my conversation with him, as I did in my response to the first question, even though I had initially typed it. So I just had to chop that part off before posting, because at that point, it just felt quite uncomfortable to include it, as it just didn't seem right.

So it seemed my initial position about married couples using condoms during sex not being a sin had began to experience a bit of a wobble.

And to add to that uncertainty, there was a development I had noticed after making that thread, and it was the word "condom" suddenly beginning to feature in my tongues. But I felt very uncomfortable with that for obvious reasons, even though I had just done a thread that had something to do with that, as I had expected to move on from that since I had accomplished what I intended with that thread. So the last thing I was expecting was for it to start showing up in my tongues.

But it was later when I began to say "condom na sirin" repeatedly in tongues, that the picture began to become clearer of what the message appeared to be, as it sounded like "condom na sin" in pidgin English.

I began to have the feeling that perhaps the Holy Spirit wasn't pleased with the impression I had given about the use of condoms on the Op of that thread, where I said that I wasn't against the use of condoms and didn't believe that it was a bad thing, so that i would correct it.

But it was when I came back to the thread and saw where I had categorically responded to @Prettyjanet1's question, and said that use of condoms by married couples wasn't a sin, and had followed my responses up til the final response I gave on that same matter, where I was no longer comfortable to say it was a sin as i had done initially, that it became much clearer to me what actually happened then, and what that had to do with my spoken tongues about condoms.

So I believe the message of the Spirit of God is that it is a sin in God's sight for marriage couples to use condoms, just as that brother @Godsonjolly had insinuated, to correct my initial response that it wasn't a sin.

And though I don't think it's a sin that could lead married couples to hell, I believe that God is not happy when married couples use condoms during sex, as it usurps Him of His right as the One who determines giving kids or not in a marriage.

This may have been one of the things that displeased God concerning Onan that made Him slay him as was suggested by @Godsonjolly, for in the Bible days there were no condoms, so child bearing among married couples was solely God's prerogative, therefore Onan may have also dishonored God by what he did.

This is not intended to frighten or judge married couples, however I believe that especially for christians, it's best to follow the examples given in the Bible where childbearing in marriage was usually attributed to God, and the amount of children was determined by Him, so that condoms would not take God's place in determining how many kids they have.

That would obviously require married couples completely trusting God concerning childbearing, but i believe the marriages of those do so surely shall surely reap the rewards of them placing such extent of trust in God, because God alone best knows how many children a married couple should have.

God bless.

All these legalistic Christians sef.

Putting yourself in chains worse than the pharesses.

What is the aim of condoms? To prevent pregnancy.

So it is a sin for a Christian couple to prevent pregnancy?

Cc: computergeek

When I said religious people turn me off, this is a prime example.

No wonder some people joke that to be a good Christian, you need to suspend your brain.

How can you use condoms for prostitutes, usr condoms for one night stands and still use condoms for your wife?

Is she a prostitute?

Pataricatering:
Seriously! These people just make u wonder whether it was chicken brain that was put in their skull ! How anyone can lack critical reasoning skills to this point is amazing!

Sex is no food.

Have sex when necessary but without condom.

jakandeola:
d best thing is after sex pour lime or grape in ur woman private part.to spoil the sperm from forming instead of abortion

I really worry for the girl wey go take this advice .

Didn’t they teach you acidity in school? You want to put those acidic fruits in a woman’s vagina that is prone to irritation and infection.

Wawu. So if they have sex everyday , oya na to cut lime and grape fruits pour inside. I can’t any more.

I'm embarrassed by this alarming level of delusion shown by the OP. We are almost in 2020, are we supposed to still be thinking backwards?

Ginaz:


I really worry for the girl wey go take this advice .

Didn’t they teach you acidity in school? You want to put those acidic fruits in a woman’s vagina that is prone to irritation and infection.

Wawu. So if they have sex everyday , oya na to cut lime and grape fruits pour inside. I can’t any more.

pple dont have sex evryday. I dont know but I know some food are not good for pregnant woman and can spoil pregnancy. lime or gin like ogogoro or energy drink can spoil a pregnancy of 1 month.and if it didnt spoil d baby have health issue.he became like an imbeccile

This thread exposes the reason why Africa was given the nickname "The Dark Continent"

The complete irrationality and illogical thought processes that went into OP's write up is actually harmful to healthy brain cells.

OP There is a book called Men of Purpose. It highlighted a few Christian inventors from the Industrial age and how they expressed the Wisdom of God to solve global problems.

Aside from that book it's self evident historically that the Reformation actions of Martin Luther and the printing of the Bible by Gutenberg which gave the poor access to the Holy Scriptures was the springboard to the Industrial Age itself.

My point is that the OP has wasted his brain on creating a false doctrine that drips with mediocrity.

When Oyedepo said that God gave Mankind brain so that He could rest...it's for people like this.

So our wives and mother's should be giving birth yearly like beasts.

God Save Us

Pataricatering:
Seriously! These people just make u wonder whether it was chicken brain that was put in their skull ! How anyone can lack critical reasoning skills to this point is amazing!

Not bad..

Yeye question