Build a value around youself. Some times people ask questions like,"y is it that d pson i'm better off she/he is with the pson that rejected me, why ugly girls wed and d fine ones look, ugly guys wit d fine girls, d reason is simple, it is because d pson has added something unique to hs/herself, such can be money,education, a skill, house,car,a job etc, with dat, such a pson stand ahead of u, although u migth hv a good look but dat is not an a enough reason to grab n sustain a pson, u kno smbody som wher is better off, now the choice to be with a pson comes with alot of consideration appart 4frm d physiqe wat else is attached, d value of such attachement increase your point of getng such a pson., so in your quest for a good relationship dont forget the importance of materia things especially food, can u put food on the table of u spouse as a man or can he afford food on ur table as a woman, as you know, nobody feeds on love in as much as lov is important.....reality is reality.