Around this time last year, I was in dilemma as my friend's younger brother, who I was supposed to take apartment together with was yet back to school. I had issues with my previous roommate. In the course of waiting, I just did not want to stay in the previous house and decidedl to hang with a FRIEND'S FRIEND (assume ALEX. Original name withheld) who's in his parent's house. He has a room and parlor self contain there and he was staying with his friend. I didn't pack my loads in as I was yet to totally move out of my previous house. I've been there for like a week or so, this guy so nice to me. But I was never comfortable because dude is a stranger and I don't always connect easily.

One night when this Alex friend wasn't at home, we were the only one at home. I was deep asleep when I noticed a touch on my laps. I woke up instantly like "wtf is that"? His hands was on my laps.. I thought he was deep asleep too and was a mistake or something, then I removed his hands and continue my sleep.. Within a short time, his hands was rubbing my body.. I stood up instantly and rushed out of the room. I had to sleep in the sitting room before I could pass the night there. Before I woke that morning, he had left the house. His friend later came that day and asked of him, I said he left without giving notice that he'd probably be back by evening, but for two days this guy didn't come back. When he eventually came back, he just acted normal, and that made me thought it wasn't really like he had anything in mind. Perhaps was just normal sleep-walking and other hallucinations.

After like a day or two my roommate came to join us. Together we were hunting for house while in the guy's house.. One night, he did exactly same thing again while the 3 of us were on bed. As usual, I left the room for the parlor. In the morning, my roommate was the first person to confront me like, "bro this guy na gay oh. If you see how hin dey touch me. Na on top floor I later sleep oh". As usual this Alex guy left his house.. Only to come back later in the evening. My roommate and I had to find another place to sleep that night before eventually getting our apartment before the end of that particular week.

Another scenario happened recently on my way to school. I was at the back of a car with a guy and a woman. Right from I entered the car, this guy was staring at me like.. I thought he just noticed my dressing or something, but while we were going, he was resting his hands on my leg. At first I thought it was because it wasn't really comfortable for him, but even when the other woman came down, he still was. I didn't want to ask him to take off his hand because I thought it would sound like and embarrassment, I just let him be after all we were almost in school.. Immediately we dropped off, I could hear him calling "Guy". I just loud my music and quickly move away.

These experiences are not as much as attempted rape, but they are really uncomfortable situation, especially the first.

Have you experienced something similar or worse before?

Do share.

Cc: lalasticlala

God forbidden

I've been there for like a week or so, this guy so nice to me.

I don't support sexual harrassment of any form, but you don't follow a guy to his house and spend the night if you are not planning to have sex. What were you expecting you both to do all night? Bible study?

You say he was so nice to you? Probably buying you isi ewu and Heineken- you were gulping it down. You didn't know you will pay back?

Watch how you sleep in guys houses and chop their money. There is no free lunch, even in free town.

Sorry about your experience.

pocohantas:


I don't support sexual harrassment of any form, but you don't follow a guy to his house and spend the night if you are not planning to have sex. What were you expecting you both to do all night? Bible study?

You say he was so nice to you? Probably buying you isi ewu and Heineken- you were gulping it down. You didn't know you will pay back?

Watch how you sleep in guys houses and chop their money. There is no free lunch, even in free town.

Sorry about your experience.

many will not understand the sarcasm

pocohantas:


I don't support sexual harrassment of any form, but you don't follow a guy to his house and spend the night if you are not planning to have sex. What were you expecting you both to do all night? Bible study?
ce.

I didn't expect anything from a fellow guy.

Hmmmmmmmm.... Jide!!! OK.

both gay

It has never happened to me. I hope it never does sha, as I will literally forget bottle for the guy head.
If you are a gay guy, at least find out from your love interest if he's gay before going to touch. Touch kee you there.

i have said it before and i will say it again
it is only when u send out gayish signals that a guy dude will pick on you
when you wear skinny pink trousers under the name of fashion
when u use eyeliner on your brows or use light paint on ur lips cos u say u want to look cool
when you always voice out about disliking the opposite sex
when u have posters of a shirtless CR7 in your room
when u you always gush about how some guys look hot without their shirt on
when you fixated on another man"s tool size
when you do all this rubbish then surely a gay dude will hit on u.
Act like a man and u see gay dudes avoiding you.
Lots of guys these days act too feminine.

pocohantas:


I don't support sexual harrassment of any form, but you don't follow a guy to his house and spend the night if you are not planning to have sex. What were you expecting you both to do all night? Bible study?

You say he was so nice to you? Probably buying you isi ewu and Heineken- you were gulping it down. You didn't know you will pay back?

Watch how you sleep in guys houses and chop their money. There is no free lunch, even in free town.

Sorry about your experience.

No sense

pocohantas:


I don't support sexual harrassment of any form, but you don't follow a guy to his house and spend the night if you are not planning to have sex. What were you expecting you both to do all night? Bible study?

You say he was so nice to you? Probably buying you isi ewu and Heineken- you were gulping it down. You didn't know you will pay back?

Watch how you sleep in guys houses and chop their money. There is no free lunch, even in free town.

Sorry about your experience.

you were trying to be sarcastic but ended up making no sense.

It Has Never Happened To Me i Do Walk Around With Gun Incase such Incident Tends To Happen

wizflame:
It Has Never Happened To Me i Do Walk Around With Gun Incase such Incident Tends To Happen

Loooooooooool

Ngl is be too shocked to react immediately if another guy tries any funny business with me. I’d defo beat them up later tho that’s for sure

pocohantas:


I don't support sexual harrassment of any form, but you don't follow a guy to his house and spend the night if you are not planning to have sex. What were you expecting you both to do all night? Bible study?

You say he was so nice to you? Probably buying you isi ewu and Heineken- you were gulping it down. You didn't know you will pay back?

Watch how you sleep in guys houses and chop their money. There is no free lunch, even in free town.

Sorry about your experience.

This Gehl av mad finish

lefulefu2:
i have said it before and i will say it again
it is only when u send out gayish signals that a guy dude will pick on you
when you wear skinny pink trousers under the name of fashion
when u use eyeliner on your brows or use light paint on ur lips cos u say u want to look cool
when you always voice out about disliking the opposite sex
when u have posters of a shirtless CR7 in your room
when u you always gush about how some guys look hot without their shirt on
when you fixated on another man"s tool size
when you do all this rubbish then surely a gay dude will hit on u.
Act like a man and u see gay dudes avoiding you.
Lots of guys these days act too feminine.

Every disappointment is a blessing my brother. The kind body wey I get dey chase girls away sef so no gay go ever near me.

It happened to me when I was in school. I newly packed to an accommodation so my landlord son that gave me the house came to see me. I was lying down on my matrass wearing boxers. When he came I laid on my rug outing his head on the matrass for my mind which day this one start. He started conversation which I was not really into so before I know it I dose off only for me to notice someone hand heard fall and rested on JT. I move and his hand fall on the matrass him pretending to be asleep too. The next minute same happened I stood up and told him to leave I want to sleep. Some other time I noticed some guys will come and rub their manhood on my bumbum, the eye I will give you. On some the occasion I will be like is this what women go through on daily bases.

zed7:
It has never happened to me. I hope it never does sha, as I will literally forget bottle for the guy head.
If you are a gay guy, at least find out from your love interest if he's gay before going to touch. Touch kee you there.

Settle down e-gangster, settle down. You’re in luck: things of the sort hardly happen to your kind.

meobizy:

Settle down e-gangster, settle down. You’re in luck: things of the sort hardly happen to your kind.

You've been warned. Select your targets well to avoid early death. Not everyone will tolerate your gay âss.

zed7:

You've been warned. Select your targets well to avoid early death. Not everyone will tolerate your gay âss.

The same way you’ve beaten corruption out of the government. Oh, yes, I hear you.

I barely smile....im sure u would think im a soldier at first......so no guy would wanna try shit with me

I have had such an ugly experience before, though it happened long time ago.

That's why shortage of information,ignorance and innocence can attimes work together. Inorder words, lack of adequate information which creates room for ignorance can make you get involved in a crime, even though you are innocent.

For you to know how ignorant I was then, I have had such experience before I started hearing the word"gay, homosexual".

The idiot would play all kinds of rough play with me only for him to open my shorts, trying to insert,an action I always turned down immediately. His sexual attempts on me was more than ten times. He would trickily invite me over to his house(I stopped going after two or three attempts) and less than twenty minutes,he's already trying to hump on me. The good news is that,he didn't succeed,and I later relocated to Lagos. He's the reason I dislike vikings till date (he became a member after I left. All my close pals are either Aye, Buccaneer, Eiye ), you cannot be a viking and survive around me. And, he's in Europe now,if not I would have brought back the issue,mess him up totally.

Although,it wasn't a total good news,as I had this girl who always wanted to do it with me by all means. Anyway, story for maybe next time.

The truth is, it's better to be defiled by the opposite sex than same sex. Sex with the opposite is a sin,with thesame,it's an abomination.

Warning: Never you trust your kids, brothers, sisters with anybody. Especially when you know they can hardly differentiate/discern between good and bad...

meobizy:

The same way you’ve beaten corruption out of the government. Oh, yes, I hear you.

Guy, stay your own na. Go to sexuality section, you'll meet an interested person there.
I don't know why you're quoting me. You want to test if I'm bragging or not, attempt this in real life not online.

Yhup..I was about 12 or 13..was a counselor/ chaperone at a program for young people. Was horrible.

zed7:

Guy, stay your own na. Go to sexuality section, you'll meet an interested person there.
I don't know why you're quoting me. You want to test if I'm bragging or not, attempt this in real life not online.

Story. You are bored this morning hence the multiple mentions.

meobizy:

Story. You are bored this morning hence the multiple mentions.

You're obviously retarded. Ignored henceforth.

zed7:

You're obviously retarded. Ignored henceforth.

Kikikikikikiki.

I was in 300 level when I had my only encounter. I had just taken a break from reading and got outside the hostel when I heard 2 guys gisting in a dark area in front of the hostels.I recognized their voices so I went to join them for gist. On getting there, I discovered they were 3 actually, 2 friends and 1 jambite that was always very friendly to me. After a while, the 2 friends left, leaving me and the jambite to carry on gist. I excused myself and took a step aside to pee. While I was peeing the jambite came from behind and began fuddling with my chest (breast) . I was so shocked, disgusted and irritated, I pushed him away very hard that he fell and i ran to my room. I still feel voilented anytime I think of it. We never spoken again till I left school 2 years later

Unfortunately it has happened to me once but today is not the day to share such stories

Yes Ubunja. He is gay. Check out his dark porn profile on this forum.

I traveled from the north to the east just so that I could write post utme there was this babe that me and her had already arranged that I'll be staying at her place for the one week period I'll be in school,turns out she had a minor accident and had to delay for two days so I spent the first day in the general hostel. That same day,an acquaintance of mine told me about his brother's friend who was still in school,so I weighted the odds and felt a room with just one extra person would be better than sleeping in a hostel of about 8-10 people, meanwhile this my friend had already gone back to his brother. In the evening he came and took me to the friends lodge,it's was a fine place and the guy was even nicer, probably more than he should be...my subconscious picked up a red flag...we went in and this nigga kept springing up topics for discussion,we talked and talked and even when I was tired I kept on saying "eh,eh" so that I wouldn't seem rude to my host. Later that night,after we had eaten,nigga asked if I smoked and as a Sabi boy wey I be I said yes,he went and bought one packet oh Bohem cigarettes I couldn't shout how much I hated cigarettes,so I told local man that I don't smoke cigarettes cuz I only do the GREEN guy was suprised, still he went out and bought one pack of AZ,mehhnn we wrapped up and smoked like hell.

>>>fast forward to later that night<<<

So nigga probably thought I was too stoned to ever wake up, firstly I felt a hand on my thigh...I froze...( personally I hate body contact,even my babe knows that so she sleeps on her side of the bed and doesn't touch unless the need be ) so I was surprised as to why I was getting touched,I moved his hand away in the hope that it was all a "sleep inspired" something,not less that two minutes later local man crept his hand on my ass...my freaking bombom!!! That was the straw the broke the camel's back,I turned around and slapped him,nigga woke up feeling macho threatening to deal with me and that totally confirmed everything. I just started shouting, "Oluwatobi is gayyy" , "Nigga,you see all the pussy and nyash and bress wey dey this world and decide say na man nyash you wan kpansh!?!!!!" Local man stopped threatening and started begging me to quieten myself i couldn't sleep again so I just stayed up all night pressing phone,of course we can't fight nature,sleep came and when it did I had to relocate to the floor. Immediately,my alarm rang for 4am I packed up my bags and left the niggas place and ran back to the hostel. Around 2pm later that day,my babe called me that she was back.

Even girls with male monikers are commenting, wonderful Nairaland.