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Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Brunosamel(m): 6:42pm On Dec 29, 2019
Hello guys, I have been worried about this issue.
I just graduated recently and am at the peak of my career trying to shape up my life for the better future with my girlfriend, someone that I have been dating for the past 6 months.

We have so much in common and built our relationships with love and trust. The journey wasn't easy but we were able to settle our differences and understand each other.

Recently she met a childhood friend whom she had a crush on when growing up, but the guy never asked her asked to be his girlfriend never said anything to her cuz he saw her as a small girl then.

The guy is into business and has quite established himself. Last 2 months the guy asked her out and she told me about it cuz she needed my permission whether she should go or not and I said okay she can but it will only be first and last time she will go out with him.

To cut the story short, last night I called her line and she was on another call for more that 30 minutes. I confronted her about it and she started crying, was begging me that she was sorry and that the guy is really disturbing her, asking her to give him a chance, to the extent that she should leave me for him, he will give her anytime and even train in the university.

She told the guy she can't leave her boyfriend becuz she loves me so much. I was dumbfounded and I don't even know what to do about it cuz I don't have the resources (money) at this moment

Relationships gurus what do you think about my situation I need your opinion and suggestions cuz I love this girl so much and want to settle down with her cuz she suffered with me and I suffered with her.

Say whatever you want to but just be brutally honest with me....

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Talkwisdom(m): 6:45pm On Dec 29, 2019
Brunosamel:
Hello guys, I have been worried about this issue, I just graduated recently and am at the peak of my career trying to shape up my life for the better future, my girlfriend, someone that I have been dating for the for the past 6 months... we have so much in common and built our relationships with love and trust... the journey wasn't easy but we were able to settle our differences and understand each other....

Recently she met a childhood friend whom she had a crush on when growing up, but the guy never asked her asked to be his girlfriend never said anything to her cuz he saw her as a small girl then..
The guys is into business and has quite established himself... last 2 months the guy asked her out and she told me about it cuz she needed my permission whether she should go or not and I said okay she can but it will only be first and last time she will go out with him...

To cut the story short, last night I called her line and she was on another call for more that 30 minutes.... I confronted her about it and she started crying was begging me that she was sorry and that the guy is really disturbing her....... asking her to give him a chance, to the extent that she should leave me for him, he will give her anytime and even train in the university.... she told the guy she can't leave her boyfriend becuz she loves me so much.... I was dumbfounded and I don't even know what to do about it cuz I don't have the resources (money) at this moment

Relationships gurus what do you think about my situation I need your opinion and suggestions cuz I love this girl so much and want to settle down with her cuz she suffered with me and I suffered with her.... say what ever you want to but just be brutal honest with me....





Bro,Don't bother yourself about girls,talk some sense into her the little you can and allow her make her choice.
Don't ever,I repeat, don't ever force love on a woman.

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by soberdrunk(m): 6:46pm On Dec 29, 2019
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy hahahhaha!!! You want to drag woman with a "deep pocket" man!!?? Why do you want to complicate your life? Isn't it obvious enough that she has already started a relationship with the other guy? Do you need 30mins to say "No"?? angry

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by donstan18: 6:48pm On Dec 29, 2019
You are obviously on a long thing.

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by loadedvibes: 6:49pm On Dec 29, 2019
Lol, give her belle already grin

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Sabkesh(m): 6:53pm On Dec 29, 2019
Bro it's a normal thing, if she truly loves you very well, then tell her to delete the guys number....
Cause if the guy calls her and she answers most often, bro she might say yes due to the fact he has money.
Just use sense for her to cut off every contact she is having with him for the main time...
And don't try to break her heart this time, cause right now anything can happen by temptation...

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Cholls(m): 6:55pm On Dec 29, 2019
My brother women matter no dey taya you ni. Why worry about what is out of your control...give her a day or two so that she can make up her mind on who she wants,it is either You or the Other Guy. If she choose you fine and good but if its the other guy, then wish her well and move on...women are here to show you men pepe

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by yarimo(m): 6:57pm On Dec 29, 2019
Bro just get ready for heart break, all what she is saying to you she loves you is absolutely rubbish. They are already dating.
Brunosamel:
Hello guys, I have been worried about this issue, I just graduated recently and am at the peak of my career trying to shape up my life for the better future, my girlfriend, someone that I have been dating for the for the past 6 months... we have so much in common and built our relationships with love and trust... the journey wasn't easy but we were able to settle our differences and understand each other....

Recently she met a childhood friend whom she had a crush on when growing up, but the guy never asked her asked to be his girlfriend never said anything to her cuz he saw her as a small girl then..
The guys is into business and has quite established himself... last 2 months the guy asked her out and she told me about it cuz she needed my permission whether she should go or not and I said okay she can but it will only be first and last time she will go out with him...

To cut the story short, last night I called her line and she was on another call for more that 30 minutes.... I confronted her about it and she started crying was begging me that she was sorry and that the guy is really disturbing her....... asking her to give him a chance, to the extent that she should leave me for him, he will give her anytime and even train in the university.... she told the guy she can't leave her boyfriend becuz she loves me so much.... I was dumbfounded and I don't even know what to do about it cuz I don't have the resources (money) at this moment

Relationships gurus what do you think about my situation I need your opinion and suggestions cuz I love this girl so much and want to settle down with her cuz she suffered with me and I suffered with her.... say what ever you want to but just be brutal honest with me....





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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by zPHENOMENON(m): 7:02pm On Dec 29, 2019
Rich man wan collect poor man wife. yoruba folks Will understand better. That's one reason i can't date without my money in the bag.
However, bros leave d girl to choose. Don't, i repeat, DON'T TRY TO PERSUADE HER TO STAY. Times like this ladies ain't worth fighting for. My 2cents

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by YungMillionaire: 7:03pm On Dec 29, 2019
I don't understand. Your girlfriend asked you if she could go out with her crush and you said yes? Did I read that correctly OR did you type it wrong?

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:07pm On Dec 29, 2019
What if I tell you that Satan might be using you as a weapon of delaying and stealing her blessing through your lustful relationship with her? And are you sure she is your destined future partner? If not, better release her. WIFE, NOT GIRLFRIEND, IS A PROPERTY. If you love a bird, free it. If its truly yours, it will come back. UNLESS YOU PUT RING IN HER FINGER AND PAY HER BRIDE PRICE, SHE'S NOT YOURS. Free yourself bro, no dey cage yourself. Growing and mature golden fishes still plenty for water.

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by ednut1(m): 7:08pm On Dec 29, 2019
Hustle and forget woman for now. Can you train her in school No use ya own spoil another man own. U can turn her to side chick

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by daddytime(m): 7:12pm On Dec 29, 2019
Go after another man's girlfriend too.

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by MJBOLT: 7:15pm On Dec 29, 2019
Brunosamel:
Hello guys, I have been worried about this issue, I just graduated recently and am at the peak of my career trying to shape up my life for the better future, my girlfriend, someone that I have been dating for the for the past 6 months... we have so much in common and built our relationships with love and trust... the journey wasn't easy but we were able to settle our differences and understand each other....

Recently she met a childhood friend whom she had a crush on when growing up, but the guy never asked her asked to be his girlfriend never said anything to her cuz he saw her as a small girl then..
The guys is into business and has quite established himself... last 2 months the guy asked her out and she told me about it cuz she needed my permission whether she should go or not and I said okay she can but it will only be first and last time she will go out with him...

To cut the story short, last night I called her line and she was on another call for more that 30 minutes.... I confronted her about it and she started crying was begging me that she was sorry and that the guy is really disturbing her....... asking her to give him a chance, to the extent that she should leave me for him, he will give her anytime and even train in the university.... she told the guy she can't leave her boyfriend becuz she loves me so much.... I was dumbfounded and I don't even know what to do about it cuz I don't have the resources (money) at this moment

Relationships gurus what do you think about my situation I need your opinion and suggestions cuz I love this girl so much and want to settle down with her cuz she suffered with me and I suffered with her.... say what ever you want to but just be brutal honest with me....





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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by MJBOLT: 7:18pm On Dec 29, 2019
the thing shock me sef,the op messed up and he's here lamenting about "not having resources".

YungMillionaire:
I don't understand. Your girlfriend asked you if she could go out with her crush and you said yes? Did I read that correctly OR did you type it wrong?

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by YungMillionaire: 7:23pm On Dec 29, 2019
MJBOLT:
the thing shock me sef,the op messed up and he's here lamenting about "not having resources".


My guy I am still confused. Is it that Nigeria is now breeding weak men or this has always been the case?

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by DenreleDave(m): 7:23pm On Dec 29, 2019
Brunosamel:
Hello guys, I have been worried about this issue, I just graduated recently and am at the peak of my career trying to shape up my life for the better future, my girlfriend, someone that I have been dating for the for the past 6 months... we have so much in common and built our relationships with love and trust... the journey wasn't easy but we were able to settle our differences and understand each other....

Recently she met a childhood friend whom she had a crush on when growing up, but the guy never asked her asked to be his girlfriend never said anything to her cuz he saw her as a small girl then..
The guys is into business and has quite established himself... last 2 months the guy asked her out and she told me about it cuz she needed my permission whether she should go or not and I said okay she can but it will only be first and last time she will go out with him...

To cut the story short, last night I called her line and she was on another call for more that 30 minutes.... I confronted her about it and she started crying was begging me that she was sorry and that the guy is really disturbing her....... asking her to give him a chance, to the extent that she should leave me for him, he will give her anytime and even train in the university.... she told the guy she can't leave her boyfriend becuz she loves me so much.... I was dumbfounded and I don't even know what to do about it cuz I don't have the resources (money) at this moment

Relationships gurus what do you think about my situation I need your opinion and suggestions cuz I love this girl so much and want to settle down with her cuz she suffered with me and I suffered with her.... say what ever you want to but just be brutal honest with me....








Chai very painful.. Calling ur babe and she is on another call for like 30 mins or 1 hours na to just mad remain

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by DonBenny77(m): 7:33pm On Dec 29, 2019
Brunosamel:
Hello guys, I have been worried about this issue, I just graduated recently and am at the peak of my career trying to shape up my life for the better future, my girlfriend, someone that I have been dating for the for the past 6 months... we have so much in common and built our relationships with love and trust... the journey wasn't easy but we were able to settle our differences and understand each other....

Recently she met a childhood friend whom she had a crush on when growing up, but the guy never asked her asked to be his girlfriend never said anything to her cuz he saw her as a small girl then..
The guys is into business and has quite established himself... last 2 months the guy asked her out and she told me about it cuz she needed my permission whether she should go or not and I said okay she can but it will only be first and last time she will go out with him...

To cut the story short, last night I called her line and she was on another call for more that 30 minutes.... I confronted her about it and she started crying was begging me that she was sorry and that the guy is really disturbing her....... asking her to give him a chance, to the extent that she should leave me for him, he will give her anytime and even train in the university.... she told the guy she can't leave her boyfriend becuz she loves me so much.... I was dumbfounded and I don't even know what to do about it cuz I don't have the resources (money) at this moment

Relationships gurus what do you think about my situation I need your opinion and suggestions cuz I love this girl so much and want to settle down with her cuz she suffered with me and I suffered with her.... say what ever you want to but just be brutal honest with me....





Forget her bro she's gone old love no dey die, six months is short. Some were together for 5yrs and still split

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:35pm On Dec 29, 2019
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Lol, give her belle already grin

Ah swear grin grin..knack am one or two

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by xxxtedyxxx(m): 7:36pm On Dec 29, 2019
How can you give her. permission to go out/ accept the guy?

30 mins on call....?

That babe doesn't value you.

Forget about her affected air of honesty.

That's a huge mistake brother.

Its like you have really invested into the relationship, thats why you seem worried.

To be honest with you, there is little you can do. Everything depends on your girl. Money is the number one factor for attraction women, followed by fame- sadly, you don't have much cash to contend with her childhood friend.

No vex...but I see your girl falling for this guy atlast.

Hookup with your girl..and give a wonderful f.***k....

Reset her brain with your "poron".

chop your investment, so when she eventually leaves, you won't feel hurt.

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Gynn: 7:36pm On Dec 29, 2019
From what you said, it can safely be assumed that the girl is still in her late teens or early twenties. She hasn't gotten higher education yet. She hasn't yet experienced the full range of temptations life has to offer in terms of relationships

Based on the above, here's my advice, EXCEPT you both have definite plans to better both your lives and grow together educationally, career-wise, financially etc...

... please allow her to go and meet her destiny helper (childhood friend in this case) if she has got genuine feelings for him, and he has proven beyond all reasonable doubt that his intentions are noble.

You both aren't married yet, or engaged. Nothing is certain

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by DonCandido(f): 7:39pm On Dec 29, 2019
Let me give it to you straight, you are a CERTIFIED M-U-M-U.

You gave your girl PERMISSION to see an ex flame who has achieved everything a girl wants and which you can't give her? Now you are seeking expert opinions?

Know this, you don't have a girlfriend anymore. She is gone! You gave your dinner to the cat!

She may even be with guy and getting some good....... as you read this.

Confused man, go and get a JOB! Hustle hard and hustle fast, get your own girl and hold on to her forever!

By the way, what's a jobless guy doing with a girlfriend? You want to indoctrinate her into poverty by association?

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:39pm On Dec 29, 2019
Apparently OP, this fight is not yours. Its her fight, if she chooses you..fine

If him...fine. Move

But I would say is this, you may be delaying God's plan by not letting her marry him and by doing so delaying your own blessing too.

Or it might be a test from God to know whether sense still dey head or not...(no offense bro smiley)

All in all...It is not your fight.

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by CAPSLOCKED: 7:41pm On Dec 29, 2019
[quote author=MJBOLT post=85325716][/quote]

WHY ARE YOU SHOCKED? I DON'T KNOW HOW ALL THESE ABNORMALITIES CAN BE ABLE TO GO ON IN THE AVERAGE GIRL'S MIND AT ONCE.
I HAVE MANY TIMES BEEN IN HIS SHOES. EVERYTHING IS A PHASE.

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:45pm On Dec 29, 2019
DenreleDave:




Chai very painful.. Calling ur babe and she is on another call for like 30 mins or 1 hours na to just mad remain

Lol... This guy you funny o. Hahahaaa

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by personal59: 7:47pm On Dec 29, 2019
my brother am sorry you are a goner

all the excuses are just for you not to feel too bad


ehya Pele




but broda you are funny and less a man. imagine, giving your girlfriend permission to go out on a date with an old crush.

thank God for the girls life because you would have made her the husband........ spit on weakling man

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:48pm On Dec 29, 2019
Lol @ all the comments up there. You guys gat no chill.
Just reading comments. grin grin cheesy

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by pocohantas(f): 8:03pm On Dec 29, 2019
I just graduated recently and am at the peak of my career

Peak of which career? All these small boys sef. You think life and love is dy/dx.

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Kobicove(m): 8:04pm On Dec 29, 2019
Brunosamel:
Hello guys, I have been worried about this issue, I just graduated recently and am at the peak of my career trying to shape up my life for the better future, my girlfriend, someone that I have been dating for the for the past 6 months...


Please free the girl to go and marry a guy who is ready for marriage.

Stop wasting her time with your bullsh1t love cos when you make real money you will suddenly realise she is not up to the standard you want undecided

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by Jodha(f): 8:05pm On Dec 29, 2019
The choice is hers... whatever yhu do or say...if she wants to leave yhu she will...

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Re: Another Man Is After My Girlfriend by nelklyn(m): 8:09pm On Dec 29, 2019
I read where you said You are at the peak of your career trying to shape up your life for the better future

It beats my imagination What exactly you need a girlfriend for at this stage of your life?

Please go and hustle and if you must, do hookups only! that’s the only way you’ll have emotional stability to achieve your goals

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