Apination:
Who's even a broke guy? A guy who's capable of feeding clothing and putting a shelter over his head but earns 25k monthly, and is able to save Or a celebrity living in a mansion, has a car, fancy dresses, eats in expensive restaurants but is in debt, which of them is broke?

ubunja:
there are two ways to up your SMV. either get money and get women who'll come to you for that money.

Or get the body and get women who have money already who'll come to you for that body.

I'm all for option 2. I wasn't built for the 9-5

ubunja:
it's better to chase women. You cant fvck money.

shotin:
I don't know why people carry woman matter for head like crayfish, hustle for yourself and be self made, women are wired to go for the highest bidder, that's the bitter truth... Broke guys are always on vexing mode ... Later they will say girls no wan date them because dem no get money, look at yourself pretty well, will you allow your immediate sisters to date a broke guy like you? The thing is make money and you will see girls are nothing, dem go dey flock you like lost sheep. Money is good bros... If not for anything at least for your unborn kids, Hustle ooooo.....

victorian:









Are you a billionaire yourself?

Davido is reeking in billions from his music, all his three kids are American citizens, all his baby mama's are well catered for and have their own businesses sponsored by him and he's just how old again? 24 years old!

How about you? Sorry to ask but what have u achieved so far?

Rebelworld:


If a woman does not have a very steady income or is financially stable, she should not think of men or marriage!

Apination:
Who's even a broke guy? A guy who's capable of feeding clothing and putting a shelter over his head but earns 25k monthly, and is able to save Or a celebrity living in a mansion, has a car, fancy dresses, eats in expensive restaurants but is in debt, which of them is broke?

boiz2men:


Too late I'm swimming in love

Now I feel like its you I have waited for all my life.

You are not taken. If your fingers have no ring, our fingers could still cling

TenthMan:

Humans are blessed with the gift of thought and reason.

It separates us from other species.

If we go by human instinct, the female will always choose the male that has the highest/better propensity to produce offspring with healthy genetics and a male that will support her with resources and security. It is therefore basic instinct for a woman to choose men who are financially capable in today's world. Also, the female is considered vulnerable when she is pregnant and nurturing her young. After this, she has always been productive resource wise.

People calling for women to select/choose/stick to men who have little or nothing are asking the women to override their basic instinct. A lot of women are having none of it. Men who accuse women of ''not knowing tomorrow'' do not know how nature works. A woman will rather stay with a man who she sees his fortunes/resources than one which is imaginary. ''I go fit get am'' no be property. It is the woman's right to ensure that her offspring are properly nurtured. It is the woman that gets pregnant. It is the woman that bears the child. It is the woman that nourishes the child. Hence do not expect the woman to take such major risks by selecting a ''weaker man''. In the past, the males had to prove themselves competing with other males. Nowadays it is financial strength and material comfort that is the yardstick. Not brute strength and the ability to hunt a mammoth.

The woman is also aware of the risk in the man's desire/propensity to procreate as many times and with as many females as possible. She needs security for her own offspring. The woman too, if the man is found weak,unable to provide at any point in time, may lead to allowing another man have his way. People are shy to state these facts or simply do not like them because they do not conform to what they believe, which is fine.

What the women have to know is that happiness is not usually based on lavish comfort. Men also have to note that because she stayed with you when you had nothing does not make her a good person/mate either. Nothing is guaranteed.


My responses are objective (knowledge/fact based) and you must know I answer without any form of bias (cultural, religious, tribal, ethnic, class, gender, age, race, nationality, blood, acquaintance, etc.)

Lightangel65:


Why do you guys like women so much there are other fun things in life, besides nothing good comes from them

pansophist:


If I understand your option two correctly, it is basically to define oneself as a sex doll for women? that is the lowest existence a man can ever assume. If you intend to mean that a man should keep fit and accentuate one's attractiveness, then yea, that's part of the deal, not the deal in itself.

ubunja:
the very problem I have with this "go make money women will come" chorus some men like to sing. As you make your money the girl is tasting all the dicks around. When she gets tired she then gives you, Mr money, the chance to marry her. In the US after marrying you she has your baby then divorces you. Then you have to pay for her upkeep while no longer sleeping with her. With a guaranteed check monthly she now goes back to whoring. Smh

ubunja:
the very problem I have with this "go make money women will come" chorus some men like to sing. As you make your money the girl is tasting all the dicks around. When she gets tired she then gives you, Mr money, the chance to marry her. In the US after marrying you she has your baby then divorces you. Then you have to pay for her upkeep while no longer sleeping with her. With a guaranteed check monthly she now goes back to whoring. Smh

poik:


There is something called pre-nuptial agreement.

emmaodet:


Victorian, see even if all what you said are true, i want to raise an awareness to you now that most nigerians fail to see or acknowledge.
Making it, Financial race or hustling even though requires putting a lot of efforts and energy, it doesn't guarantee success or good outcome.
If you want to see it clearly, let's look at the educational sector, probably it will be clearer to you.
It will be of no use if you/we all keep talking down or rubbishing poor students and regularly telling them to go and Study hard so as to get good grades (make money).
No matter how hard you study or read, person wey dey dull dey dull and there is Nothing you can do about it - As a matter of fact, a large percentage of students/class will be in the lower class, fail, advised to withdraw than upper class and distinction.
It is a Natural Law beyond us.
Of course, once a while you will see people motivated who will spring from pass to upper class or distinction but it won't be much.No matter the books the poor students buy, it won't make them brilliant.
Life is not easy and even though it is easy for us, pls don't let us look it from our view to judge others.
Even if everybody is been given 20m each, what do you think will happen? Hyper inflation and the money will become useless because large amount of money chasing few things and everything will fall back to ground zero.
Pls let's be guided

pansophist:


If I understand your option two correctly, it is basically to define oneself as a sex doll for women? that is the lowest existence a man can ever assume. If you intend to mean that a man should keep fit and accentuate one's attractiveness, then yea, that's part of the deal, not the deal in itself.

ImaIma1:


Fortunately or unfortunately, it doesn't work that way. A man can marry a struggling lady and set her up with a job, business, etc. However, it doesn't work that way for men because they are seen as the major breadwinner. Besides, a man's pride won't let him

ImaIma1:


Fortunately or unfortunately, it doesn't work that way. A man can marry a struggling lady and set her up with a job, business, etc. However, it doesn't work that way for men because they are seen as the major breadwinner. Besides, a man's pride won't let him

Lightangel65:


You and man's pride, I blame men who pay attention to women, life is short that are just waiting it away, leaving meaningful things like games and traveling.
Seems men make women lazy, if men start marrying rich ladies all these talks won't happen.

jakandeola:
mama baby I dont like dis

ImaIma1:


Am I wrong about the bolded?

Men marry rich ladies also but my point is that a wealthy man marrying a jobless lady is very common. Some men even prefer it because they want a housewife that would be home to bring up the children.

Will you agree to be a house husband?

ubunja:
personally I don't drink and I dont smoke. I also hate soccer and any sports. You do know if a man doesn't drink and smoke then pussy is his vice. And Neither do I watch TV. (bores me to death).

ImaIma1:


Is there anything I say that you like? Apparently, we don't agree on any issue

victorian:









Are you a billionaire yourself?

Davido is reeking in billions from his music, all his three kids are American citizens, all his baby mama's are well catered for and have their own businesses sponsored by him and he's just how old again? 24 years old!

How about you? Sorry to ask but what have u achieved so far?