calex9496:
op, same tin just happened 2 me, yesterday sef.. i called my bae and sensed discomfort, i continously queried her and she said she went to her ex's house, bt she stil wont tell me wat happened, because the way she spoke, my mind was telling me sumtin happened between them, she even rushed me and ended the call, i called back bt her line waz off.. judging 4rm her voice, i smell cheating and her concience was really dealing with her.. well, i have decided 2 focus on my studies and forget abt her, am just waiting 4 her 2 call and tell me wat exactly she is upto, even if she doesnt, no problem.. i love her bt it wont make sense me sharing her wit sum1 else, also i looked back at my family and discovered i have responsibilities, so no need delving into sometin dat wil raise my b.p level now.. lemme create a beta future 4 myself now..

Jones47:



Same city different location...ikom, cross river state

Jones47:



Exactly my fears!! Yet she still tells me to fear not, that I'm the one she loves'
I just confuse!!!

Bigflamie:
Kiddies everywhere on Nairaland

Lamanii22:
Lol... The fact that you type in pidgin really got me... The fact that the guy's in the same vicinity with your gf is really dangerous for you oo... She'd fall for him over again plus you made mention of the guy being richer... You know he would start taking her out and stuffs.. Girls fall for all these things fast...

Jones47:
I thought love was simple, turns out it's more complicated than just falling in love!!!

Since last year January, when my babe travel out to start school, we never see but I dey do the normal, I dey call, dey text the send her card and money. Well things no come dey go smooth so I come cut the rate at which I the do the above.
First week of December, last year, I lost my phone since Na only my iPad remain. I no fit call her that often. Though I been dey happy because even as d phone loss, it offer me more economic benefit than if it been dey. Although I dey Abuja and she dey cross River, we plan say we go spend time during this holz but I no come get enough money to travel so I lock up
Normally, the way our relationship be, we exclude jealousy and encourages sincerity. So on a regular, me no dey jealous or feel bad when we discuss some kind things.

Yesterday, I come try call her, after much talking, she get mind dey tell me how, she and her ex been sit-out abi na make-out during xmas period and how dey guy dey even tell her say 'prophet say na she be his wife' and that 'he still love her' and all those kind shit.
It no even stop there. she still tell me say, though she never talk to am today but the last time them talk, the guy said that he will come around for the new year period and even tease to get her with him behind closed doors... That she don tell am say he dey waste him time because she want just dey cool with am make him no feel say 'anything go happen between them again'..
My fear now na say, na only this babe me don invest much for and besides the guy in question dey on more bread than me..
I dey strongly feel say my babe dey keep me on attachment level so that she fit still dey obtain from me..
Abeg I need advice on what to do..
Make I no start foolishly this year.. Thanks

ATTemi:
It is too early to start 2020 with girl matter, go and make money.

The bitter truth: she has made love with her ex already, 4gt that tales by moonlight story she dey tell u.
Girls find it hard 2 stay faithful with a broke guy!

frozen70:


You messed up your write up and murdered both the combination of English and pigin language

No one could understand you comprehensively

Jodha:
She was telling yhu all this gibberish and yhu were smiling and listening?....

Do yhu really love her or yhure afraid that all yhu invested in her will go to waste...?

If yhu really love ....tell her ...and make it clear to her how serious yhu are...

Because the way i see it....even yhu ...yhu are playing games too..

calex9496:


You are right, just brace urself 4 d inevitable, fact is dat gals can pretend and claim wat dey arent capable of doing.. just be strong, as it is 4 me, in case she breaks up wit me, i wil jejely remain single til further notice, the series of hrtbrks has been 2 much.. quite unfortunate dat i love wit all my hrt, dnt want some1 2 break it again..

Jones47:



I've got help already!!
Your signature speaks volume!!!

slimanyd:


Next Time , Say sluts and whores fall for such things . Av met ladies, As in, obinrin, seems, you don't understand me, I mean beautiful and cultured ladies who money can never shake , flip your dollars and park your Bugatti beside them. They've made up there mind on who they will marry no matter the guys present status.

Mehn , I duff my hat for those kind of Ladies.

Jones47:
I thought love was simple, turns out it's more complicated than just falling in love!!!

Since last year January, when my babe travel out to start school, we never see but I dey do the normal, I dey call, dey text the send her card and money. Well things no come dey go smooth so I come cut the rate at which I the do the above.
First week of December, last year, I lost my phone since Na only my iPad remain. I no fit call her that often. Though I been dey happy because even as d phone loss, it offer me more economic benefit than if it been dey. Although I dey Abuja and she dey cross River, we plan say we go spend time during this holz but I no come get enough money to travel so I lock up
Normally, the way our relationship be, we exclude jealousy and encourages sincerity. So on a regular, me no dey jealous or feel bad when we discuss some kind things.

Yesterday, I come try call her, after much talking, she get mind dey tell me how, she and her ex been sit-out abi na make-out during xmas period and how dey guy dey even tell her say 'prophet say na she be his wife' and that 'he still love her' and all those kind shit.
It no even stop there. she still tell me say, though she never talk to am today but the last time them talk, the guy said that he will come around for the new year period and even tease to get her with him behind closed doors... That she don tell am say he dey waste him time because she want just dey cool with am make him no feel say 'anything go happen between them again'..
My fear now na say, na only this babe me don invest much for and besides the guy in question dey on more bread than me..
I dey strongly feel say my babe dey keep me on attachment level so that she fit still dey obtain from me..
Abeg I need advice on what to do..
Make I no start foolishly this year.. Thanks

slimanyd:


Next Time , Say sluts and whores fall for such things . Av met ladies, As in, obinrin, seems, you don't understand me, I mean beautiful and cultured ladies who money can never shake , flip your dollars and park your Bugatti beside them. They've made up there mind on who they will marry no matter the guys present status.

Mehn , I duff my hat for those kind of Ladies.

ATTemi:
It is too early to start 2020 with girl matter, go and make money.

The bitter truth: she has made love with her ex already, 4gt that tales by moonlight story she dey tell u.
Girls find it hard 2 stay faithful with a broke guy!

Michellekabod2:
I have a feeling the threads being opened by lamenting guys are just trolling...its getting more frequent by the day


Cc:martinez39,ubunja,CAPSLOCKED,MJBOLT

Akinbahm:


Awon omo alalubarika, those types of girls one should never regret not using condom with them...

MJBOLT:

i doubt if it is trolling because on average girls are smarter than boys when it comes to relationships.


Mumu boys plenty for outside

Akinbahm:


After making the money then he should start chasing girls. Why are you peeps making girls matter complicated for una self?

ATTemi:
Depends on ur definition of complicated.

Happy new year.

Jones47:
I thought love was simple, turns out it's more complicated than just falling in love!!!

Since last year January, when my babe travel out to start school, we never see but I dey do the normal, I dey call, dey text the send her card and money. Well things no come dey go smooth so I come cut the rate at which I the do the above.
First week of December, last year, I lost my phone since Na only my iPad remain. I no fit call her that often. Though I been dey happy because even as d phone loss, it offer me more economic benefit than if it been dey. Although I dey Abuja and she dey cross River, we plan say we go spend time during this holz but I no come get enough money to travel so I lock up
Normally, the way our relationship be, we exclude jealousy and encourages sincerity. So on a regular, me no dey jealous or feel bad when we discuss some kind things.

Yesterday, I come try call her, after much talking, she get mind dey tell me how, she and her ex been sit-out abi na make-out during xmas period and how dey guy dey even tell her say 'prophet say na she be his wife' and that 'he still love her' and all those kind shit.
It no even stop there. she still tell me say, though she never talk to am today but the last time them talk, the guy said that he will come around for the new year period and even tease to get her with him behind closed doors... That she don tell am say he dey waste him time because she want just dey cool with am make him no feel say 'anything go happen between them again'..
My fear now na say, na only this babe me don invest much for and besides the guy in question dey on more bread than me..
I dey strongly feel say my babe dey keep me on attachment level so that she fit still dey obtain from me..
Abeg I need advice on what to do..
Make I no start foolishly this year.. Thanks