It shows that relationships is beyond sex in the first place. After 10years reality should have set in. I remember babes in the past that were sexmaniacs, and gave splendid sex to me several times a day with several positions, yet I never thought of spending my life with them because clearly, the essence of life was beyond that. Cheers

Truth be told... Most times, it's not the sex drive that wanes, it's sexual attraction between partners... This is quite natural among social animals especially apes and man.

As someone mentioned above, getting married on the sole foundation of sexual gratification will be a pathetic and futile sojourn.

IyaTola:
Why does sex slowly die off in a Marriage after 10+ years??

my Own Opinion!

Men are too weak to perform their duties, simple!

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Mine finished after less than 6 months... She got pregnant and 1 year later got very chunky... Sex is overrated anyway - at least for some of us gentlemen that values more than just the carnal aspect.

Niaja or African men don't know how to rekindle love life.


Okay.
Question for married couples here

How many times this last year have you taken your wife out for vacation.

How many times has both of you gone out alone to enjoy yourselves the way you used to when you are not married yet?

Some men Prefer to hang out with friends more, unconsciously building great bond with his friends rather than his wife. Most men here hangs out with friends 7 days in a week, why wouldn't the affection die over time.

Your attitude in marriage makes it die off.

Cheating and the rest of them

Thegeneralqueen:
I think the question should be why do men stop having sex with their wives after ten years of marriage only to be sleep with call girls.......In this new era marry a Nigerian man at your own risk

Let us know when you get engaged to a foreign husband. Self deceiver

madgoat:
Thats why one needs a side chick to spice up the sex life

That's why the wives still needs a side guy

THUNDER4real:
Sex sex sex, u cannot com and kill yourself ......This is the reason you should marry your friend, friendship don't die off....Marriage is not all about sex, u will get tired one day no matter your libido level..

a bi ooo. Man shall not live by s3x alone ooo.

The taste has gone bland.. spice it up with seasonings, pepper and more fire

That's a lie! Mine will be 11 years tomorrow and it's like we just started. Marry your best friend, please

Is this why old men chase young girls?

Don't put me off marriage pls

Necksonnel:
10 years too long self

lol. I dey tell u

IyaTola:
Why does sex slowly die off in a Marriage after 10+ years??

. Because that is the sole reason you got married. Sex!!!

Chimacks:
That's a lie! Mine will be 11 years tomorrow and it's like we just started. Marry your best friend, please

. That’s it sis.

Oyindidi:
Men are too weak to perform their duties, simple!

Bia Madam..... I have be reading comments the come down....
immediately I gat to your own comment, my mind changed.

Note: Men are not too weak to perform. Rather women wahala wan de house the tire men self.... Women wahala plenty for house joor....

Well, Am not yet marry.....

Most white ladies prefer giving birth through CS just to maintain their tightness, while our African women blows from 1st child to no.8 child through their holes, tell me what could have happen there.

It starts much earlier than that

donbachi:
New year lie...mine is 12,feels like its yesterday.

Same with me,some of my reasons are
1..she is fine n friendly
2.she is obedient and dresses as stipulated by Islam.
3.. Hardworking and religious
4..she is my kind of woman,has a very tempting back side and front end.
5.. She is very neat to a fault.
6..Yari,Yari,Yara

Thegeneralqueen:
I think the question should be why do men stop having sex with their wives after ten years of marriage only to be sleep with call girls.......In this new era marry a Nigerian man at your own risk

lol. U nor well

lol it dies because you let it . keep spicing things up and don't count how long you have been married , travel for week get aways , don't be shy or scared to get freaky with your Woman or man . Spice up the sex life and you guys should be good for more than 70years slf

Dats y divorce is rampant in the western community

THUNDER4real:
Sex sex sex, u cannot com and kill yourself ......This is the reason you should marry your friend, friendship don't die off....Marriage is not all about sex, u will get tired one day no matter your libido level..

Well, na lie. It's why some men or women still cheat. You'll get tired of same person, but exploring your sex life might never become boring if you're sexually active or a sex addict

guru90:


Bia Madam..... I have be reading comments the come down....
immediately I gat to your own comment, my mind changed.

Note: Men are not too weak to perform. Rather women wahala wan de house the tire men self.... Women wahala plenty for house joor....

Well, Am not yet marry.....

You never begin weak like vegetable men get wahala pass women

IyaTola:
Why does sex slowly die off in a Marriage after 10+ years??

It's not diminishing return... It's because is premised on the wrong kind of attractions. For instance, while physical attraction can trigger sexual behaviours before marriage, post marriage is solely by character. For most marriages, character is the reason why sex plummeted cos behaviours can be a huge turnoff

Oyindidi:
You never begin weak like vegetable men get wahala pass women

That's not true. Truth be told, it depends but with the right attitude, one can have a good sexual relationship post marriage.

lolzzzz guy u funny die

SarakiBukola:


IyaTola because Tola needs more of your attention than Baba Tola's preek.

But in all seriousness.... familiarity breeds contempt. TOO MUCH EXPOSURE.

Jay-Z wouldn't admit it, he's tired of fvcking Beyonce.

How do i know ?

He told me so...

Normal levels,.
U can't eat egusi soup for complete 3 days and have the same level of satisfaction..


For some of the sure boy, u can't watch same xxxvid back to back to back to back.. and enjoy it.. as for me I watch like 5-6 vid at once