makydebbie:
I'm going through this same thing with my 16 years old cousin. I really don't know what to do anymore because I've told her the dangers of her actions yet she's still going out without letting anyone know only return hours later and I don't want to resort to beatings because I'm sure it'll make her even more rebellious.

Ishilove:
Beat the pedophile, not the ignorant teenager.

You just have to talk to her again and spice the lecture with some hot slaps because you counselled her TODAY about sex and it's ramifications, yet she still wants to go ahead to waka useless waka. No, this is a very dangerous step she wants to take. Some factory resetting slaps are in order for disregarding all your advice less than 24hours after giving it.

After the slaps, draw her close and counsel her again because that is the best you can do. You can only show these children the right way; whether they choose to take it is entirely up to them.

How many slaps dem give u wen u do ur own?

Tori46:

Tbh, I am already fed up. I just hope they won't learn the hard way.

Use recent news of ow a guy and his mother used a girl for ritual as a case studies . Counsel her on sex and its disadvantages using physical and spiritual means.


Lastly, remember if anyone in ur family has done it to someone's daughter, they may do it for ur sister too oooo

Please let's chat privately on WhatsApp 07039476669.There are much better ways of doing this.let us restragies

You see what Facebook has caused now these young stars are using it for the wrong things

Enwhen:



Very simple , leave that idiot 27 years old fool, it's more important to work on your own sister, if u beat the both of them , u would regret it, u will just only poison the mind of both mostly the stupid 27 year old..


Now , your sister is learning fast, all u need to do , reset her mind set with enough slap, don't flog her pls, just be give her hot slaps on her face... There after seat her down talk to her , counsel her with good examples , ask what she wants to be and how she is planning to achieve it , talk to her very well, thereafter , try by all means possible , take her out to a cinema and buy ice cream , CHK, spoil her with anything she want make her happy and during this period be telling her how much u like her and only trying to protect her from evil guys who want to destroy her future and dump her , if u have any close bad example I've it to her , also help her by setting a time that I would love to see her with a reasonable guy , maybe after university of possible.... She needs more talk therapy than beating ..sip it.

I like your plan, e make sense! The only part i'm not sure is leaving the 27 year old idiot... At 27 him suppose don get sense say na small baby girl be that na... At 14!!!! Haba! So meaning... Like say her brother no see the chat now, possibly that guy go just scatter that small baby girl life like that! It is very bad! Because... If you leave am now... He go go do the same thing to another small baby girl somewhere else! Is he not suppose to be thinking of marriage at his age? Dem need reset him brain sharp sharp, any which way, it must be done shaaa! Hope you get me.

i really dont understand how beating the 27 year old boy (or even killing him) will change the mindset of your sister...is the 27years old boy the only guy ur sister have access to on social media? Anything u intend to do has to be 95% on ur sister.............according to u, she's still naive and a virgin, u should still be able to work on her psyche.

OP,you are really funny. such a mission u are about to take is what others who did it in time past are regretting now. from d way u write,i can deduce u are educated enough 2 know d right thing 2 do. u need 2 sit your sister down&put sense into her head.

smat101:

Exactly what I planned, to keep chatting with him and lure him in one corner..then treat his fvck up but not with oshodi boys

If the guy is smart, he will notice the chat is different and would be careful. What I think you are to sit your sister down and show her the chat.

Tell her how much you love her and how she is your pride. Tell her of the glorious future she has and how sex cab destroy it.

Tell her how men destroy the destinies of girls. Tell her its easy to become a prostitute and have various STDs when she loses it. Tell her the different STDs, especially HPV which could lead to cervical cancer in future, chlamydia which could cause heart failure, and of course, HIV/Aids. It's time for a proper sex education.

After that, ask her to lead you to where the boy stays, and then disgrace him before handing him over to soldiers or police.

makydebbie:
I'm going through this same thing with my 16 years old cousin. I really don't know what to do anymore because I've told her the dangers of her actions yet she's still going out without letting anyone know only return hours later and I don't want to resort to beatings because I'm sure it'll make her even more rebellious.

but what is wrong with all these teenagers self.... It is like all they know is looking for friendships and how to fvck

Bebetter:


I like your plan, e make sense! The only part i'm not sure is leaving the 27 year old idiot... At 27 him suppose don get sense say na small baby girl be that na... At 14!!!! Haba! So meaning... Like say her brother no see the chat now, possibly that guy go just scatter that small baby girl life like that! It is very bad! Because... If you leave am now... He go go do the same thing to another small baby girl somewhere else! Is he not suppose to be thinking of marriage at his age? Dem need reset him brain sharp sharp, any which way, it must be done shaaa! Hope you get me.

well for d sake of other possible victims..but if its about the poster's sister o, beating the guy could even land him in more trouble.....i think the best thing the police can get from the guy is even a statement/undertaking as he has not commited the act yet.........maybe he should report him but no beat am o

Bro, don't beat your sister, you can call the guy to meet him somewhere safe and talk to him like a gentleman to stay away from your sister, then report him to the authority and let him be aware that you have reported him.

For your sister, you need to tell her the consequences of having sex at her age, the bad things it will lead to. She needs monitoring and mentoring from your mother.

I pray she listen and amend her ways

Chi59:
The way I dey use eye follow my 12 year old sister. She just develop finish. I fit kill person for her matter.

I did more than that. my sister is 16yrz now. I can't be spying her around. what will happen will happen.

smat101:
I Am Planing To Seriously Beat My Kid Sister 2moro Morning

What I was scared of is finally happening...
I've a lot to say but let me try to be brief...

It's been 4years+ since I last went home to see my mum and siblings. I really love my kid sister so much even more than my mum.

There is a lot to say but to cut the long story short, when I came back she had already developed breast but she is just 14 years.
Just today I talked to her about sex, boyfriends, pornography relationship, sex, everything in that area.

Recently she was using my phone for Facebook, then I asked her consent to read some of her messages which she agreed. As I was reading through she dragged the phone from my hand when I wanted to click a particular chat. I became inquisitive but respected her privacy. I then asked her to log out when she is done...

Just this night I wanted to login to my Facebook then I clicked the Facebook icon her account was still logged in... What I saw broke my heart, she was planning to send nudes to a guy and the guy was planning to have sex with her this weekend, she kept on telling him that she was afraid, but he kept on telling her he will use condom, that she should not be afraid...

My problem is that she is a minor and this guy is 27...

So this is what I plan to do, Flog her thoroughly very early tomorrow, then later talk to her again...
Then that bastard beat him up in the evening with two other guys...

I really love this girl and Want the best for her pls parents preferably how should I handle this matter .

..Talk to your sister.. Don't beat her.., and for the guy.. It is better to invite him and calmly talk to him.. Don't go fighting him.. Diplomacy coated with love approach is the best.

Get the guy arrested and counsel your sister.

so Facebook still day reign

Ishilove:
Beat the pedophile, not the ignorant teenager.

You just have to talk to her again and spice the lecture with some hot slaps because you counselled her TODAY about sex and it's ramifications, yet she still wants to go ahead to waka useless waka. No, this is a very dangerous step she wants to take. Some factory resetting slaps are in order for disregarding all your advice less than 24hours after giving it.

After the slaps, draw her close and counsel her again because that is the best you can do. You can only show these children the right way; whether they choose to take it is entirely up to them.

Spice the lecture with some hot slaps

Ishilove:
Beat the pedophile, not the ignorant teenager.

You just have to talk to her again and spice the lecture with some hot slaps because you counselled her TODAY about sex and it's ramifications, yet she still wants to go ahead to waka useless waka. No, this is a very dangerous step she wants to take. Some factory resetting slaps are in order for disregarding all your advice less than 24hours after giving it.

After the slaps, draw her close and counsel her again because that is the best you can do. You can only show these children the right way; whether they choose to take it is entirely up to them.

Spice the lecture with some hot slaps

smat101:

I just finished talking to her like an hour ago, and she is still wanting to give in to sex...
I think if I beat her it will help her remember what I told her.

Really!!! There's more to this story. Let the slaps reign!!. NB she may already be sexually active.

Pedophiles are everywhere best believe, i have been away from home for about three years, came back to meet my kid sisters all grown up. No biggie.

Spent just a day at my moms shop just at the front of the house where my sisters help her onfe they back from school... Im a sharp guy the way those guys including grown ass men looking at them under the guise of wanting to buy stuff. I actually felt uneasy all day. It's real. Op protect as much as u can.

The real matter here is you should help your sister, Not by flogging her but telling her the truth, she's young (at puberty age), she will feel it, help her to overcome it by keeping her busy (thank God you are aware) to save her from the mess.

[quote author=spiralwedge post=85489426]Smat101,
1. The guy might not know she's 14. It's SM.
2. Though she's a minor, she's giving her consent. So, this isn't a rape, especially if the guy doesn't know her age. She will still have sex without your knowledge, but maybe best with her agemates. So, you need to intensify your counseling. You can deter the guy by responding to his FB chat or deleting his account and phone number.
3. Beating your sister shows you will be a wife beater. You display ignorance and entitlement to physically abuse her because "you feel you have the right or love"; same way you will do to your wife.
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Don't be silly. There is a reason a case like this is called statutory rape. That the pedophile did not know she is of majority (old enough) is of no substance. That defense won't hold up in court when he is charged. And there is no such thing as consent from a minor. The law does not presume a minor has the legal capacity to grant consent as she is still under the law a minor. So if the guys perpetrates the act, it will sure amount to statutory rape and would go away for a long time.
My advice to Op is to get closer to the his sister than ever. Beating her will be a big mistake. He should constantly talk to her and tell her the guys just want to sleep with her and dump her after bragging to his friends of his conquest. If she's smart as he alleges then she should be well guided

spiralwedge:
Smat101,
1. The guy might not know she's 14. It's SM.
2. Though she's a minor, she's giving her consent. So, this isn't a rape, especially if the guy doesn't know her age. She will still have sex without your knowledge, but maybe best with her agemates. So, you need to intensify your counseling. You can deter the guy by responding to his FB chat or deleting his account and phone number.
3. Beating your sister shows you will be a wife beater. You display ignorance and entitlement to physically abuse her because "you feel you have the right or love"; same way you will do to your wife.

Don't be silly. There is a reason a case like this is called statutory rape. That the pedophile did not know she is of majority (old enough) is of no substance. That defense won't hold up in court when he is charged. And there is no such thing as consent from a minor. The law does not presume a minor has the legal capacity to grant consent as she is still under the law a minor. So if the guys perpetrates the act, it will sure amount to statutory rape and would go away for a long time.
My advice to Op is to get closer to the his sister than ever. Beating her will be a big mistake. He should constantly talk to her and tell her the guys just want to sleep with her and dump her after bragging to his friends of his conquest. If she's smart as he alleges then she should be well guided

SMH

It didn't just get to this point like that. If u research properly she must have been demanding & receiving freebies from d guy who now wants recoup his investment. Start by discouraging her from collecting such stuff.

smat101:
I Am Planing To Seriously Beat My Kid Sister 2moro Morning

What I was scared of is finally happening...
I've a lot to say but let me try to be brief...

It's been 4years+ since I last went home to see my mum and siblings. I really love my kid sister so much even more than my mum.

There is a lot to say but to cut the long story short, when I came back she had already developed breast but she is just 14 years.
Just today I talked to her about sex, boyfriends, pornography relationship, sex, everything in that area.

Recently she was using my phone for Facebook, then I asked her consent to read some of her messages which she agreed. As I was reading through she dragged the phone from my hand when I wanted to click a particular chat. I became inquisitive but respected her privacy. I then asked her to log out when she is done...

Just this night I wanted to login to my Facebook then I clicked the Facebook icon her account was still logged in... What I saw broke my heart, she was planning to send nudes to a guy and the guy was planning to have sex with her this weekend, she kept on telling him that she was afraid, but he kept on telling her he will use condom, that she should not be afraid...

My problem is that she is a minor and this guy is 27...

So this is what I plan to do, Flog her thoroughly very early tomorrow, then later talk to her again...
Then that bastard beat him up in the evening with two other guys...

I really love this girl and Want the best for her pls parents preferably how should I handle this matter .

Sit your sister down, talk sense to her and show her how much you care for her and her future!

please make sure you feed us back about the 27 old idiot after treating his Bleep up!
I can't wait!

Fourwinds:
but what is wrong with all these teenagers self.... It is like all they know is looking for friendships and how to fvck