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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by happinezz110(f): 9:03pm On Jan 04, 2020
Hope that change the poor mentality of some guy's cos i do tell people that not all ladies are after ur money nd is one of the reason y I don't go on a date with a guy if I'm not buoyant.

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by sirEAGLES(m): 9:04pm On Jan 04, 2020
I went through your profile back, 2 weeks ago u posted a topic about your galfwend showing u true love like u never experienced b4,a week b4 that u were openly asking a married woman here for sex, I wonder the kind of morally bankrupt and irresponsible fella u re, JST 2 weeks later u re taking another lady out, Bros u re despicable, work on urself this new year nd stop soliciting sex online from married ladies
milemimi93:
My First Date In 2020. What A Nigerian Lady Did.

What happened yesterday left me in shock.
I least expected it. Not from a Nigerian lady.

Yesterday I went to visit a lady in her state. Arriving her state, I told her I've dropped.
She texted me to go to an eatery and wait for her. I didn't want to spend much on her so I asked for an average eatery bought a drink and waited for her.
She came and told me she didn't like the place that it was crowded. She took me to one bigger eatery within there. Just as I entered the eatery I said to my self "I ain't spending more than 5k here". We sat and she called the waiter and asked me to make my order I told her to make first. She ordered for food and drinks for herself. I later ordered for mine. What I ordered outweigh hers in price because I said to myself "I can't spend less on me and more on a leech".

After eating we sat down to gist. Along the line I felt pressed and I went to the gent. Came back gist and it was time to go. I went to the waiter asked her how much the bill is. She said 11,600. I pulled out my purse to get my card I heard the waiter said "She has paid". I asked "She? who?" She said "the lady you followed paid". I was shocked and felt ashamed.

Since I was born, this is the first time a Nigerian girl has ever spent on me.

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Twoclans(f): 9:05pm On Jan 04, 2020
Who are this ladies that always leech on Nigerian men ,abeg how much do they have sef undecided .I will always say it ,ladies ,young girls ,women please make your money and hold your side its far sweeter than having to sit all day thinking of how to swindle a poor guy of his hard earned 5,000.

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by tellwisdom: 9:05pm On Jan 04, 2020
That gurl can’t be a Nigerian. Ask her very well sad

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Smile4daddy(m): 9:05pm On Jan 04, 2020
SweetBuns:
Another one.... See what ubunja and co have caused? Now you think every girl is out to spend your money



Understandable... Naija is hard



The biggest problem with guys like you is that you love stereotypes. How can you just assume that a girl who you just went out with is a leech? Judging humans without evidence is the lowest a man can get. Very daft and ugly way of life.




There he goes stereotyping again..
Fvck... I give up on you. You're bent on this stereotype thing. I wonder how you went out with all the ladies below 26 in Nigeria.

By the way, otedola's daughter is below 26 and she will take you and buy you out fine fine. Stop running you mouth because you have a dick and testicles. That one no EPP anybody

E pain her.. na them

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Openbusiness: 9:05pm On Jan 04, 2020
milemimi93:
My First Date In 2020. What A Nigerian Lady Did.

What happened yesterday left me in shock.
I least expected it. Not from a Nigerian lady.

Yesterday I went to visit a lady in her state. Arriving her state, I told her I've dropped.
She texted me to go to an eatery and wait for her. I didn't want to spend much on her so I asked for an average eatery bought a drink and waited for her.
She came and told me she didn't like the place that it was crowded. She took me to one bigger eatery within there. Just as I entered the eatery I said to my self "I ain't spending more than 5k here". We sat and she called the waiter and asked me to make my order I told her to make first. She ordered for food and drinks for herself. I later ordered for mine. What I ordered outweigh hers in price because I said to myself "I can't spend less on me and more on a leech".

After eating we sat down to gist. Along the line I felt pressed and I went to the gent. Came back gist and it was time to go. I went to the waiter asked her how much the bill is. She said 11,600. I pulled out my purse to get my card I heard the waiter said "She has paid". I asked "She? who?" She said "the lady you followed paid". I was shocked and felt ashamed.

Since I was born, this is the first time a Nigerian girl has ever spent on me.

Hahahaha, it felt good shey? Some of us women like to spoil our man but the problem is after spoiling him, they turn around and treat you like trash. It discourages you from doing so again. For me oh, let everybody carry their cross. I cannot be babysitting another woman's son again.

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by TGM2015: 9:06pm On Jan 04, 2020
milemimi93:
I'll be 30 this year. I have bin in so many relationships. The first woman to spend on me among all the ladies I have ever dated is an Asian woman. This is my first time seeing a Nigerian lady spent on a date. 2020 is starting off nice.
So you are footballer. I don't think the Lady deserves you.
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by pennywys(m): 9:06pm On Jan 04, 2020
milemimi93:
My First Date In 2020. What A Nigerian Lady Did.

What happened yesterday left me in shock.
I least expected it. Not from a Nigerian lady.

Yesterday I went to visit a lady in her state. Arriving her state, I told her I've dropped.
She texted me to go to an eatery and wait for her. I didn't want to spend much on her so I asked for an average eatery bought a drink and waited for her.
She came and told me she didn't like the place that it was crowded. She took me to one bigger eatery within there. Just as I entered the eatery I said to my self "I ain't spending more than 5k here". We sat and she called the waiter and asked me to make my order I told her to make first. She ordered for food and drinks for herself. I later ordered for mine. What I ordered outweigh hers in price because I said to myself "I can't spend less on me and more on a leech".

After eating we sat down to gist. Along the line I felt pressed and I went to the gent. Came back gist and it was time to go. I went to the waiter asked her how much the bill is. She said 11,600. I pulled out my purse to get my card I heard the waiter said "She has paid". I asked "She? who?" She said "the lady you followed paid". I was shocked and felt ashamed.

Since I was born, this is the first time a Nigerian girl has ever spent on me.
welcome to the clique bro
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Nobody: 9:06pm On Jan 04, 2020
milemimi93:
There's something I learned yesterday. If you want to date a Nigerian lady, go for the ones that are less active on social media and are not the hipsters.
Also, don't go for any lady below 26years..
Gbaaaaaabesky grin

Some( not all) the Social media-entangled ladies odikwa dangerous to date, hian!

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Nobody: 9:07pm On Jan 04, 2020
Well good luck with dat
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Gforce2019: 9:08pm On Jan 04, 2020
SweetBuns:
Another one.... See what ubunja and co have caused? Now you think every girl is out to spend your money



Understandable... Naija is hard



The biggest problem with guys like you is that you love stereotypes. How can you just assume that a girl who you just went out with is a leech? Judging humans without evidence is the lowest a man can get. Very daft and ugly way of life.




There he goes stereotyping again..
Fvck... I give up on you. You're bent on this stereotype thing. I wonder how you went out with all the ladies below 26 in Nigeria.

By the way, otedola's daughter is below 26 and she will take you and buy you out fine fine. Stop running you mouth because you have a dick and testicles. That one no EPP anybody

With this your attitude..I doubt if any man can cope with you.
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Nobody: 9:08pm On Jan 04, 2020
pickatyou:
Nigerian girls are something else but bro you are lucky. Here is my experience with a girl I met and took outing within 24 hours, me I can't shout I rebuked her ASAP

Avoid hungry gals
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Nobody: 9:08pm On Jan 04, 2020
It rarely happens . I once experienced one too, while i was single.
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by dominique(f): 9:09pm On Jan 04, 2020
It's easy to spot a woman that wants to settle down. They know how to turn men to putty in their hands. Marry some of them and watch their true character come out. I hope for Op's sake she will be the same sweet and generous lady after they tie the knot.

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by samtol4(m): 9:09pm On Jan 04, 2020
happinezz110:
Hope that change the poor mentality of some guy's cos i do tell people that not all ladies are after ur money nd is one of the reason y I don't go on a date with a guy if I'm not buoyant.
Not all girls are after money but majority are after money ! Just a date a lady will eat as if her life depend on that date and she will even ask for transport fare

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by sophtcopy: 9:09pm On Jan 04, 2020
If this your story is true, bro never ever let her go. She's the rarest kind of woman

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by divineuk(m): 9:10pm On Jan 04, 2020
SweetBuns:
Another one.... See what ubunja and co have caused? Now you think every girl is out to spend your money



Understandable... Naija is hard



The biggest problem with guys like you is that you love stereotypes. How can you just assume that a girl who you just went out with is a leech? Judging humans without evidence is the lowest a man can get. Very daft and ugly way of life.




There he goes stereotyping again..
Fvck... I give up on you. You're bent on this stereotype thing. I wonder how you went out with all the ladies below 26 in Nigeria.

By the way, otedola's daughter is below 26 and she will take you and buy you out fine fine. Stop running you mouth because you have a dick and testicles. That one no EPP anybody

most girls may have that money but aren’t willing to spend on a guy because they believe they should always be on the receiving end
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by samtol4(m): 9:10pm On Jan 04, 2020
When a lady spent on you Don't let her go

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Lordswazz(m): 9:10pm On Jan 04, 2020
happinezz110:
Hope that change the poor mentality of some guy's cos i do tell people that not all ladies are after ur money nd is one of the reason y I don't go on a date with a guy if I'm not buoyant.
People say Africa is a poor continent and it's true; yet, inside this same Africa, some people wash down every meal daily with $100 champagnes and have fancy boats.
The reason why these people don't change the narrative of Africa being poor is that they are too small to distort the statistic.
Nigerian girls who open their purses to split bills with guys on first date, that don't feel excessively entitled to the guy's money, or make little or no demands on the guy even after months of dating exist; but they are too small in number to change the narrative that Nigerian girls are billing machines.

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by mrpaedo(m): 9:11pm On Jan 04, 2020
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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by golddust6000(m): 9:11pm On Jan 04, 2020
adaperry25:
God I need such ladies in my life Biko..pm my signature if available..we could work something out grin
you will never make heaven angry
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by ToyinDipo(m): 9:11pm On Jan 04, 2020
SweetBuns:
Another one.... See what ubunja and co have caused? Now you think every girl is out to spend your money



Understandable... Naija is hard



The biggest problem with guys like you is that you love stereotypes. How can you just assume that a girl who you just went out with is a leech? Judging humans without evidence is the lowest a man can get. Very daft and ugly way of life.




There he goes stereotyping again..
Fvck... I give up on you. You're bent on this stereotype thing. I wonder how you went out with all the ladies below 26 in Nigeria.

By the way, otedola's daughter is below 26 and she will take you and buy you out fine fine. Stop running you mouth because you have a dick and testicles. That one no EPP anybody

She might just be one 'chess player', give 10k to get a return of 100k in the long run.

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by mrpaedo(m): 9:11pm On Jan 04, 2020
davillian:
Lmao
I don't believe this cooked story
grin grin It sounds soooo fake
My alarm bells started ringing when I read the "Guys don't go for ladies under 26 " line grin grin

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Gforce2019: 9:12pm On Jan 04, 2020
sophtcopy:
If this your story is true, bro never ever let her go. She's the rarest kind of woman


You can judge a lady with one good deed .... let c how it goes after a long time

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by favour32(m): 9:12pm On Jan 04, 2020
milemimi93:
There's something I learned yesterday. If you want to date a Nigerian lady, go for the ones that are less active on social media and are not the hipsters.
Also, don't go for any lady below 26years..
Nor be only less active.
Go for one wey nor too dey flashy.
Wey nor dey take photos in front of expensive ride or house.
Avoid d ones wey dey bend leg like say nail chuk one leg.

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by centboy123456(m): 9:12pm On Jan 04, 2020
milemimi93:
I believe naija women are turninh g a new leafAs early as 7am today, she don already called me to know how my journey was.


bro u are very lucky pls make her ur wife as soon as possible
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Cutehector(m): 9:12pm On Jan 04, 2020
milemimi93:
U got me on this..Thanks
I am happy for you bro. Your hustle has paid.. I pray to find mine soon. wink

And please, you dont owe any broke girl in here explanations.. Just leave them let them cry grin
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Nat404: 9:13pm On Jan 04, 2020
milemimi93:
I am not angry or complainingI am just shocked and feeling guilty.. I had to take her to a shopping mall to buy her stuffs. Getting to the mall I told her to pick any thing she wants that I will pay.

she picked just 3 things. When we got to the counter the cashier said the bill is 870.
I was shocked again that she didn't get more things for herself. With joy, I gave the cashier 1000 and told him to keep the change.

Does she have a sister please? I need someone to take me out. cheesy

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by kennyjam: 9:13pm On Jan 04, 2020
milemimi93:
There's something I learned yesterday. If you want to date a Nigerian lady, go for the ones that are less active on social media and are not the hipsters.
Also, don't go for any lady below 26years..




very true... they seem to be morally okay than those on social media..


I will not give up on the one I am trying to get
Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by unbitchable(m): 9:14pm On Jan 04, 2020
see as you come give Nairaland ladies mouth to talk.

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by Sweeetheart(m): 9:14pm On Jan 04, 2020
cry

so Op, what's your conclusion? we should not have a date with a lady 26 below and inactive one? you're just too naive and a kid


many 26yrs and active on social media are reliable than some of this old church extremist ladies. because someone paid for 11,600 now you dey do write up yeye. check Dominique post and educate yourself


you don't draw your conclusion because of one instance. anyway congrats for meeting someone who pay for your lunch yeye

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Re: My First Date In 2020: A Lady Paid Our Bill by janejive(f): 9:15pm On Jan 04, 2020
milemimi93:
I am not angry or complainingI am just shocked and feeling guilty.. I had to take her to a shopping mall to buy her stuffs. Getting to the mall I told her to pick any thing she wants that I will pay.

she picked just 3 things. When we got to the counter the cashier said the bill is 870.
I was shocked again that she didn't get more things for herself. With joy, I gave the cashier 1000 and told him to keep the change.


You have found her, keep her

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