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Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 11:20am On Jan 05
I have been privilege to chat with some white females and believe Me when I say that these white folks knows how communication and chatting works even when they don't know u in real life
You meet a white lady online and chat her
Hey how are you

Her reply I'm good what about u

But our Nigeria girls

Mostly

Hey how are you?

Her reply

I'm fine.....

That's the end

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by donproject(m): 11:25am On Jan 05
Follow your normal route. Don't do anything extraordinary, love is a natural phenomenon but make sure you give her clue of what you feel for her. From the way you wrote about her, I see her as a mature calm lady, don't rush and don't be too slow, just stay in the middle where everything balances up.

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Davash222(m): 11:28am On Jan 05
Keep sending her recharge card every 2 days, she will definitely fall in love. No be Nigerian girl again

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Nobody: 11:31am On Jan 05
Never try to force a lady to love you, it won't work. In fact, you can't force anyone to love. Everyone has who they are naturally attracted to and if they are not attracted to you, forget it, they won't yield.

1 week wooing is enough to make a woman fall for you if she is truly into you.

"This guys are so hard of hearing. I dont know why " SMH

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by gunners160(m): 11:31am On Jan 05
why do u want to make r ur wife? because she did not accept the 100 naira credit or at most 500 credit u wanted sending to her or because you guys communicate well? my brother u need to ask yourself first want you want in a woman and secondly love is mutual I call it 50/50. If she does not fall in love with u, u too don't fall in love with her bye bye to yeye gf.The trick is not about getting
married but rather staying married...

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Mood11: 11:34am On Jan 05
Davash222:
Keep sending her recharge card every 2 days, she will definitely fall in love. No be Nigerian girl again
Not everyone has been as unfortunate as you have been with women.

Not all women are for money/recharge cards or fake lashes.
Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by gunners160(m): 11:35am On Jan 05
Jewessgratitude:
Never try to force a lady to love you, it won't work. In fact, you can't force anyone to love. Everyone has who they are naturally attracted to and if they are not attracted to you, forget it, they won't yield.

1 week wooing is enough to make a woman fall for you if she is truly into you.

"This guys are so hard of hearing. I dont know why " SMH
Read this, read it again, screen shoot it, read it and memorize this

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Mood11: 11:37am On Jan 05
OP wants to tell us he sent her recharge Card and got only a text message grin grin

This is 2020 my guy. Don't start what you can't finish. Let her develop natural feelings for you and not based on what you can give her.

Let that be the first and last time you sending her cards without her asking. Except she has officially become your babe

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Offpoint: 11:38am On Jan 05
Never make a mistake of "trying to make someone fall in love with you" let nature run its course.

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Davash222(m): 11:39am On Jan 05
Mood11:

Not everyone has been as unfortunate as you have been with women.

Not all women are for money/recharge cards or fake lashes.
OK.
Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Ariza: 11:39am On Jan 05
Ladies like that are difficult to tame, love for them comes naturally. Just be yourself, enjoy your moments with her,make your intentions known and wait.

When she finally sees you as someone she can date, the relationship will happen without you asking.

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Lamanii22(f): 11:41am On Jan 05
She will eventually like you ... Keep doing you.. Just be yourself.. But I hope you've told her how you feel already...

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by MJBOLT: 11:43am On Jan 05
minister of communication well done sir

Slimdada:
I have been talking to this lady for a month now,call her everyday we flow well in our communication,when she misses my calls,she calls back so yesterday i
Asked her the network she preferred so I can send her airtime
But to my suprise she was like no you don't have to
I had to explain and convince her why I wanted to send her the card,when I eventually did she replied with a text
Thank you so much!

I love this lady so much that I would like to wife her in few year's coming as I tend to get married early as the first and only child from my late parents
But how do I make her fall in love with me

Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by StandUpGuy247: 11:44am On Jan 05
Brotherman, just be yourself because the last thing you want to do is start acting just so a woman can fall in love with you.

You want her to fall in love with you abi? Then work on yourself. Hustle and work on your communication skills, characters that build a healthy relationship. Learn bro, keep learning. But never pretend so a girl can love you.

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by hahn(m): 11:50am On Jan 05
Slimdada:
I have been talking to this lady for a month now,call her everyday we flow well in our communication,when she misses my calls,she calls back so yesterday i
Asked her the network she preferred so I can send her airtime
But to my suprise she was like no you don't have to
I had to explain and convince her why I wanted to send her the card,when I eventually did she replied with a text
Thank you so much!

I love this lady so much that I would like to wife her in few year's coming as I tend to get married early as the first and only child from my late parents
But how do I make her fall in love with me

Push her so she can fall

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by bigpriik: 11:58am On Jan 05
my own is whatever you do make her see you as a confident guy who is worthy of her , women love men who are proud of themselves and are not afraid to go after what they want wether it works out or not.

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by stanliwise(m): 11:59am On Jan 05
Slimdada:
I have been talking to this lady for a month now,call her everyday we flow well in our communication,when she misses my calls,she calls back so yesterday i
Asked her the network she preferred so I can send her airtime
But to my suprise she was like no you don't have to
I had to explain and convince her why I wanted to send her the card,when I eventually did she replied with a text
Thank you so much!

I love this lady so much that I would like to wife her in few year's coming as I tend to get married early as the first and only child from my late parents
But how do I make her fall in love with me
Dont relate with her like her female friend nor a male friend.

Just remain patient and please please please, reduce too much silly conversations.

Asking her out for a date or for an outing or something would be better but if should be in nice interval.
You tell her how you feel on the let's say second date or third.

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Kseafresh(m): 12:08pm On Jan 05
So in ur Small African Mind, She is a Wife material because she told you not to bother to send #500 naira credit which you still sent anyway and she said thank you!
You never told us if she called you or her other boyfriends with the card..

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 1:59pm On Jan 05
stanliwise:
Dont relate with her like her female friend nor a male friend.

Just remain patient and please please please, reduce too much silly conversations.

Asking her out for a date or for an outing or something would be better but if should be in nice interval.
You tell her how you feel on the let's say second date or third.

Thank you so much I really appreciate
Pls don't be offended pls what do you mean by not relating with her like her female friend nor a male friend pls explain more
Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 2:03pm On Jan 05
donproject:
Follow your normal route. Don't do anything extraordinary, love is a natural phenomenon but make sure you give her clue of what you feel for her. From the way you wrote about her, I see her as a mature calm lady, don't rush and don't be too slow, just stay in the middle where everything balances up.
Thank you
She just graduated and would be defending her project next week
Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 2:04pm On Jan 05
Kseafresh:
So in ur Small African Mind, She is a Wife material because she told you not to bother to send #500 naira credit which you still sent anyway and she said thank you!
You never told us if she called you or her other boyfriends with the card..
She did call me yesterday evening after I ran out of credit when we talking on phone
Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 2:05pm On Jan 05
bigpriik:
my own is whatever you do make her see you as a confident guy who is worthy of her , women love men who are proud of themselves and are not afraid to go after what they want wether it works out or not.
Wow thanks pretty Much
Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 2:06pm On Jan 05
StandUpGuy247:
Brotherman, just be yourself because the last thing you want to do is start acting just so a woman can fall in love with you.

You want her to fall in love with you abi? Then work on yourself. Hustle and work on your communication skills, characters that build a healthy relationship. Learn bro, keep learning. But never pretend so a girl can love you.
Thank you
You mean I should read and learn about characters that build a healthy relationship?
Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 2:09pm On Jan 05
Lamanii22:
She will eventually like you ... Keep doing you.. Just be yourself.. But I hope you've told her how you feel already...

Thank you dear no I haven't told her my feelings for her yet, don't want to rush things with her
I'm planning to tell her that on the 2 or 3 time we would go out to see a movie?
What do u think?

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 2:15pm On Jan 05
Jewessgratitude:
Never try to force a lady to love you, it won't work. In fact, you can't force anyone to love. Everyone has who they are naturally attracted to and if they are not attracted to you, forget it, they won't yield.

1 week wooing is enough to make a woman fall for you if she is truly into you.

"This guys are so hard of hearing. I dont know why " SMH

Thank you but i haven't told her my feelings for her or wooed her yet
After
we met and I requested for her number of which she gave me she traveled with her family for the season's Holiday and should be back next week all
we do now
Is talk on phone until when she w
Would be back then I w
Would ask her out
Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 2:18pm On Jan 05
Offpoint:
Never make a mistake of "trying to make someone fall in love with you" let nature run its course.
Thank you
Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 2:19pm On Jan 05
Mood11:
OP wants to tell us he sent her recharge Card and got only a text message grin grin

This is 2020 my guy. Don't start what you can't finish. Let her develop natural feelings for you and not based on what you can give her.


Let that be the first and last time you sending her cards without her asking. Except she has officially become your babe

Thank you,noted
Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by hazard7(m): 2:20pm On Jan 05
Slimdada:
I have been talking to this lady for a month now,call her everyday we flow well in our communication,when she misses my calls,she calls back so yesterday i
Asked her the network she preferred so I can send her airtime
But to my suprise she was like no you don't have to
I had to explain and convince her why I wanted to send her the card,when I eventually did she replied with a text
Thank you so much!

I love this lady so much that I would like to wife her in few year's coming as I tend to get married early as the first and only child from my late parents
But how do I make her fall in love with me
Look dude you can just decide to marry to marry her. You need to think deep but if you want to make her fall in love with you, u need to send mixed signals trust me when I say it works.
Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Slimdada(m): 2:22pm On Jan 05
hazard7:

Look dude you can just decide to marry to marry her. You need to think deep but if you want to make her fall in love with you, u need to send mixed signals trust me when I say it works.
Mixed signals how bro
Pls throw more light
Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by stanliwise(m): 2:29pm On Jan 05
Slimdada:


Thank you so much I really appreciate
Pls don't be offended pls what do you mean by not relating with her like her female friend nor a male friend pls explain more
when I said tell her you have feelings, it could be over the chat and conversation, but you don't have to spell it out, it is called kino, there are some ways you do something that gives her the tip.
Don't take her to three date just to tell her you love her o grin my hand nor dey dere o..... it should be a relationship request, infact it is best on the second date. if you're aren't ready for relationships yet then let the normal chats continue o and don't date too much.

why not rushing things too quickly, don't let conversation get to the extent she see you as a gist partner or a person she just talk with. you have to be true from day one. No over compliments, just do if you really thinks she does something that can be complimented and buy gift only on occasion that worth it e.g birthdays and Valentine. Ask out her for a date. Pay her person to person visit on interval like once a month. And ensure she does same for you in return too o. even if it small. Except na one sided relationship.

You love her, let her and your actions ring in that direction, aside knowing yourself better and understanding each other, all form of conversation should be low until you two can confirm you want to take the decision of wanting each other.

In all this, have an open mind, talk and spend time with other female friends, it will show how much you think you love her. If she friendzone you, friendzone her also, Let any girl know you can be a reason but never an option. PLEAS NEVER BE AN OPTION.

peace.

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by hazard7(m): 2:30pm On Jan 05
Slimdada:

Mixed signals how bro
Pls throw more light
How do I put this, mixed signals is part of a seduction ploy to get a woman confused and excited. It is also called push and pull. I can't explain it cause its long but I will post about it soon.

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Re: Why is our women and girls not romantic in Nigeria? by Nobody: 2:31pm On Jan 05
Slimdada:


Thank you but i haven't told her my feelings for her or wooed her yet
After
we met and I requested for her number of which she gave me she traveled with her family for the season's Holiday and should be back next week all
we do now
Is talk on phone until when she w
Would be back then I w
Would ask her out

Tone don change.

So why were you expressing fears like youve tried wooing her but shes not responding to your love?
Anyways my stand remains still. Dont force her to love you.
As for your question, there's nothing you can do to make a woman fall in love with you. Nothing! Dont let anyone fool you by telling you to do this or that.

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