Bbbwings:

Please kindly shove that up your ass.
That is the worst kind of deception
anyone who suspects a child is not his is free to do a DNA test

So if the child now turned out to become yours after DNA , how do you think your wife will see your lack of trust ?

This guy go break many homes with this post

Ryan03:
abeg leave this quote, how many barren do we have? Even with the rise of technology, almost no woman is barren

Ok ooo.

Okay. I will think about it.

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Mftivi:
Unless they all birthed bastards for their husbands, I don't see how he attacked them. Telling men to go for DNA test is good advice.

It's good advice for you.
Based on this wonderful advice, I think everyone especially if you are the first born should go for a paternity test with their fathers.
You never can tell.
Maybe your 'father' is not your father too.

rosy1992:
A man who marries a virgin doesnt fall in this category.

Very sure

Zoroaster:
chai

q
Dangerously wonderful

Bbbwings:

I helped you delete the rubbish you included at the end.

Yeah, I thought you might not care for that. But, what to do with a situation where after several years, a guy finds that "his" kid, who looks up to him and calls him Daddy, is not biologically his? How to handle that, after both financial and emotional investment in the kid, who did nothing wrong but get born? If I were such a father, I believe I would continue to think of the child as mine...as for all intents, it is. I have no idea how I would handle things with the wife...deception is a killer...would depend a lot on circumstances, and who knew what, when...but I could see turning a bad situation to good as far as the child went...just to spite the script-writers who say I must fill myself with hate and vengeance, and derail my destiny and that of the child, by disowning it.

What would you do in the situation, as a "father"?
How would you react, as the child?
How would you react if you discovered that a dear relative was not actually your biological relation?
I ask you these things in all seriousness.

Jewessgratitude:


Nope. I dont do fair guys.

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Eleponblue:

Yaaay!!!! Aunty am black o! Howfar na?!�

I dont do black either. I do hot chocolate or dark caramel complexion.

Jewessgratitude:


I dont do black either. I do hot chocolate or dark caramel complexion.

^^^^racist female wit slave mentality...u date only half cast guys?..u really dumber than expected (No oofeense)

Winneygirl:


It's good advice for you.
Based on this wonderful advice, I think everyone especially if you are the first born should go for a paternity test with their fathers.
You never can tell.
Maybe your 'father' is not your father too.

Likewise yours.

rosy1992:
A man who marries a virgin doesnt fall in this category.

Eehhhh F9.

Jewessgratitude:


I dont do black either. I do hot chocolate or dark caramel complexion.

I can bobrisky my skin you know?

Jewessgratitude:


I dont do black either. I do hot chocolate or dark caramel complexion.

hi sis please im in lagos now at ojodu berger. send me your number

im stranded here

gbami:
The average Nigerian girl has 3-4 boyfriends at the same time....

She sleeps with all of them at different occasions. You are probably training another man's child. Do you know why? Let me explain..

She gets pregnant for one of you? She may not know who impregnated her or she knows (Thank God)... But Amongst the 4 boyfriends...You are the most decent, maybe smartest (intelligent) or even richer than the others. She comes to your house with tears in her eyes, telling you that she is pregnant, and she can't have a child outside wedlock. You the foolish and decent guy feels sorry for her. Rush to see her parents, in 3months times before the pregnancy can be noticed by people. You are married.

Married to a cheater, that's probably carrying another man's child...Guys... don't be fooled... Don't wait till 18yrs or more to know that you are training another man's Child. Do it immediately after birth or in few months after birth, then make a decision to continue or not... Don't be deceived into training another man's child.

Paternity fraud is real. One In three children especially the first child are being trained by non-biological father...

Be wise

Newsflash! Nothing new here-its universal! The world over men are cucked constantly by ruthless hos. Its just that the easy availability of DNA testing has revealed the true nature of women. Btw,this is the real reason Hutus and Tutsis will never be friends-Tutsi women!?

rosy1992:
A man who marries a virgin doesnt fall in this category.

I really wish to end up with a virgin. So signal/pm if u are one, let's start up sumtyn....

Ironman15:


hi sis please im in lagos now at ojodu berger. send me your number

im stranded here

Huh...
I told you ill let you know if anything comes up. Nothing yet.

My dear, wish I can help but right now a lot of bills on my neck. And my schools have not even started talking about Payment.
Ive been out all morning sourcing for more schools. Not had time to go through my phone, reason I'm just seeing your message.

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Nothing to be ashamed of. Some graduates are doing it and using it to take care of family.

I'm very buoyant for now.

czarina:
You actually sound bitter yourself, I don't know the details but you can heal.



Yeah true, we've all been programmed to look forward to marriage but I wouldn't call it a "deception".

Everyone who's not deluded knows a partnership whether professional or romantic/marital is a lot of work, we only chose to focus on "the happily ever after".


The result when reality hits? Disappointments.

I don't know what happened in your case but feel better.

That's the latest version of "who hurt you?"

Jewessgratitude:


Huh...
I told you ill let you know if anything comes up. Nothing yet.

My dear, wish I can help but right now a lot of bills on my neck. And my schools have not even started talking about Payment.
Ive been out all morning sourcing for more schools. Not had time to go through my phone, reason I'm just seeing your message.

If you can make it to any security outfit or you see any company or this bank security guys meet them to direct you to their office where they recruit. Go there hopefully you might get posted to a company immediately. Some pay well. You can be managing with that while we wait for something better.

Nothing to be ashamed of. Some graduates are doing it and using it to take care of family.

I'm very buoyant for now.

Nkem, ibo-la-chi

Adebowalay:
I like ds guy but he no wan look my side kind of jealousy speech in play...lintun this one dey shoot her shot

no

sinceraconcept:
Did you marry your wife as a virgin?

Yes.

UnitedFront:


Yes.

My question pls and i want you to be sincere with me. Has she ever been curious about what other dicks would taste like or making up for what she didn't get as a spinster like some guys are saying in some other threads? Or do you see it as a rare case or myth about virgins?

franklingud:

But where man go see Virgin to marry?
Even a girl in primary 6 is no longer a Virgin, so where dem dey?

Primary 5?

NiCurious:


Yeah, I thought you might not care for that. But, what to do with a situation where after several years, a guy finds that "his" kid, who looks up to him and calls him Daddy, is not biologically his? How to handle that, after both financial and emotional investment in the kid, who did nothing wrong but get born? If I were such a father, I believe I would continue to think of the child as mine...as for all intents, it is. I have no idea how I would handle things with the wife...deception is a killer...would depend a lot on circumstances, and who knew what, when...but I could see turning a bad situation to good as far as the child went...just to spite the script-writers who say I must fill myself with hate and vengeance, and derail my destiny and that of the child, by disowning it.

What would you do in the situation, as a "father"?
How would you react, as the child?
How would you react if you discovered that a pdear relative was not actually your biological relation?
I ask you these things in all seriousness.

Once you find out, you wouldn't think of the child as yours over time. It is impossible. You would probably reason out that it wasn't his fault and still be there for him, but your emotional investment in his progress would crash from former levels.

RisenPhoenix:


Once you find out, you wouldn't think of the child as yours over time. It is impossible. You would probably reason out that it wasn't his fault and still be there for him, but your emotional investment in his progress would crash from former levels.

Thank you for your considered answer. I've had cause to think on these questions, recently. But without either of us being in that actual position, it's all conjecture and hypotheticals.

RisenPhoenix:


Primary 5?

You tell me. Huh!

AdaoraNK:


Very sure

A virgin cannot have extra marital relationship in the marriage

He can do the paternity test and not let his wife know about it. It is turn out to be his child, he moves on with his life; if not, he can escalate it.