Guys before you proceed with a new relationship always ask if she has a child.....don't assume she doesn't, single mothers may try to keep that information from you until they see you are heavily invested emotionally and then they break it to you in tears or they let you find out and start shedding crocodile tears, don't fall for it....it's manipulation and witchcraft. Some may say they love you so much they were afraid you'll leave them if they told you....don't fall for it...don't fall for the tears, life is not a movie, don't raise another man's child.

Not everyone shares the truth about their lives so easily. She can in turn be trying to shield herself from elements who are quick to judge.
All I'm saying is this not a one way street.

good points!! well noted!! thank u!

I'd prefer a lady with a child than the one that aborted

Only fools hide children. Na package deal, you either accept or wakapass, it is not a do or die affair.

maiunguwar:
I'd prefer a lady with a child than the one that aborted

even a lady with child may have aborted b4

"Don't raise another man's child".....what is bad about dat?

OP is by far one of the most myopic person I've come across online or offline. It's peeps like him that would date and Marry a white lady with 12 children and still come here to yarn trash.

donbachi:
"Don't raise another man's child".....what is bad about dat?

If a treacherous woman manipulates someone into raising another man's child... in the end when one realises he had been cheated, one will be unhappy about it.


To Manipulate means to have everything planned out before hand and to use deception and lies to lead the man on and play tricks on his sensibilities... especially if he never wanted to..



And the woman and the child would still be ungrateful

TheGiftedOne:
OP is by far one of the most myopic person I've come across online or offline. It's peeps like him that would date and Marry a white lady with 12 children and still come here to yarn trash.

what do you call it, white lady abi?,,,

donbachi:
"Don't raise another man's child".....what is bad about dat?

I wonder !

They'll be making it seem like it's a curse .

TheGiftedOne:
OP is by far one of the most myopic person I've come across online or offline. It's peeps like him that would date and Marry a white lady with 12 children and still come here to yarn trash.

wow.