I remember growing up that girls were so shy that they can hardly talk or look at a guy,but not anymore these days. What has happened to those damsels who were so shy n reserved. Now u even hear girls toasting guys or trying to predict the kind of xter a guy is likely to have based on previous exposures

I don't have any problem with them socialising, talking or looking at any guy the way they want but I have serious problem with them showing the world their boobs and bums all in the name of being sexy and you see some mothers praising them

The moral decadence today concerns everyone both make and female.
It's mischievous for OP to single out the girls only.

That's how Sharia police stone women dead for committing adultery while her partner in crime goes Scott free.

In the beginning, a guy will write letters and send his friends to woo you for him. Men were very patient and respectful those days.

FF today, the first thing a guy who hardly knows you does, is to ask for your nude pics as soon you exchange numbers.

And if you like him and decide to have a relationship, the first time he catches you alone, he's asking for anal sex.

He wants to try out his fantasies on you. He wants to do porn with you. Gone are the days when a man will just be stylishly removing your skirt in order to see your laps, today, they want to record everything on camera. Refusal from the girl and she tagged boring and dumped.

Accuracy

CharlotteFlair:
The moral decadence today concerns everyone both make and female.
It's mischievous for OP to single out the girls only.

That's how Sharia police stone women dead for committing adultery while her partner in crime goes Scott free.

In the beginning, a guy will write letters and send his friends to woo you for him. Men were very patient and respectful those days.

FF today, the first thing a guy who hardly knows you does, is to ask for your nude pics as soon you exchange numbers.

And if you like him and decide to have a relationship, the first time he catches you alone, he's asking for anal sex.

He wants to try out his fantasies on you. He wants to do porn with you. Gone are the days when a man will just be stylishly removing your skirt in order to see your laps, today, they want to record everything on camera. Refusal from the girl and she tagged boring and dumped.

you are right tho... Lots of truth in ur write up

The future is really scary

How can they be shy when they are already sleeping with their father's mates... To the 2 (f)ools above..... ....

To no 1... You don't care about how they talk or what they say, but you care about what they wear (height of hypocrisy),,, well in case you didn't know ,, it is from clap than dancing starts , soon we will soon have ladies wearing only bra and panties (g- strings for that matter) walking on the streets and 2ndly, beauty comes from within....you can't be ugly inside and hope to be pretty on the outside...( A careless person is a careless person, whether in words or appearance)


To no 2...( the more senseless one)... How does what you wrote answer the op's question... As a typical dumb Nigerian girl,, all you can say is men this, men that, cos that's what you lot always think of..... When you girls act up, it's always the fault of guys but when you whOres go about sleeping with your ancestors because of money( simply because of laziness and don't want to do anything for themselves) , you don't remember the guys you are calling up and down..


The actual problem is from nowadays parents(mostly women) who don't see any wrong in what chidren do and even go as far as supporting their excesses ... like giving their daughters to their grandfather's to marry... well this is the result and it's just the beginning


Ciao

CharlotteFlair:
The moral decadence today concerns everyone both make and female.
It's mischievous for OP to single out the girls only.

That's how Sharia police stone women dead for committing adultery while her partner in crime goes Scott free.

In the beginning, a guy will write letters and send his friends to woo you for him. Men were very patient and respectful those days.

FF today, the first thing a guy who hardly knows you does, is to ask for your nude pics as soon you exchange numbers.

And if you like him and decide to have a relationship, the first time he catches you alone, he's asking for anal sex.

He wants to try out his fantasies on you. He wants to do porn with you. Gone are the days when a man will just be stylishly removing your skirt in order to see your laps, today, they want to record everything on camera. Refusal from the girl and she tagged boring and dumped.

Eleyi gidi gan o

Men cum and defend yourselves o, is it true that you guys are this reckless?

Lol.. Have u forgot that the world is evolving every second?

But I do still believe that there are girls who are still reserved & shy. It all depends where you hanging at..

Most parents are to be blamed for this moral decadence among the females (and males inclusive).

Some parents (mothers) will go to market and buy short and shape revealing dresses for their daughters.

Most women also wear sexy dresses to work and social gatherings . Their children learn from them and later grow up with such attitudes.

Charity begins at home!

Why will they be shy when dey are marlians

With civilization comes with its effects

CharlotteFlair:
The moral decadence today concerns everyone both make and female.
It's mischievous for OP to single out the girls only.

That's how Sharia police stone women dead for committing adultery while her partner in crime goes Scott free.

In the beginning, a guy will write letters and send his friends to woo you for him. Men were very patient and respectful those days.

FF today, the first thing a guy who hardly knows you does, is to ask for your nude pics as soon you exchange numbers.

And if you like him and decide to have a relationship, the first time he catches you alone, he's asking for anal sex.

He wants to try out his fantasies on you. He wants to do porn with you. Gone are the days when a man will just be stylishly removing your skirt in order to see your laps, today, they want to record everything on camera. Refusal from the girl and she tagged boring and dumped.

Okokobioko!! Chai! NL men come oooo.

Who dey teach una all these baaad things. . .

planetx13 [s:
post=85721749]How can they be shy when they are already sleeping with their father's mates... To the 2 (f)ools above..... ....

To no 1... You don't care about how they talk or what they say, but you care about what they wear (height of hypocrisy),,, well in case you didn't know ,, it is from clap than dancing starts , soon we will soon have ladies wearing only bra and panties (g- strings for that matter) walking on the streets and 2ndly, beauty comes from within....you can't be ugly inside and hope to be pretty on the outside...( A careless person is a careless person, whether in words or appearance)


To no 2...( the more senseless one)... How does what you wrote answer the op's question... As a typical dumb Nigerian girl,, all you can say is men this, men that, cos that's what you lot always think of..... When you girls act up, it's always the fault of guys but when you whOres go about sleeping with your ancestors because of money( simply because of laziness and don't want to do anything for themselves) , you don't remember the guys you are calling up and down..


The actual problem is from nowadays parents(mostly women) who don't see any wrong in what chidren do and even go as far as supporting their excesses ... like giving their daughters to their grandfather's to marry... well this is the result and it's just the beginning


Ciao

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Trash!

Quality20:
I remember growing up that girls were so shy that they can hardly talk or look at a guy,but not anymore these days. What has happened to those damsels who were so shy n reserved. Now u even hear girls toasting guys or trying to predict the kind of xter a guy is likely to have based on previous exposures

The media told them so. The musics are possessed with immoral lyrics. So why won't girls feel liberal with sex. Western life, unfortunately we are in west Africa.

Quality20:
I remember growing up that girls were so shy that they can hardly talk or look at a guy,but not anymore these days. What has happened to those damsels who were so shy n reserved. Now u even hear girls toasting guys or trying to predict the kind of xter a guy is likely to have based on previous exposures

Well....you can't generalize when you haven't met every girl.
I am still shy especially when someone I like is talking to me. I can't look him in the eyes. Like seriously at my age. But if I dont feel anything for you, wetin? I'll look on top of your head jor!! Hehehe... Though in some cases even when Im not into you and you're way older and chyking me, hey I can't look at you o. It made one man ask me one day, come how old are you, when I told him and he was like wow, mehn..I tot you're 22 bla bla you're doing like a small girl. You dont look it. Look at me when I talking to u. Still, I couldn't look at bobo's face o hahaha..

I guess its the way one was brought up. My dad was very very strict. He'll beat you up if he sees you standing with a guy those days. So we kukuma maintain.

So, yea there are still shy girls like us.

CharlotteFlair:

He wants to try out his fantasies on you. He wants to do porn with you. Gone are the days when a man will just be stylishly removing your skirt in order to see your laps, today, they want to record everything on camera. Refusal from the girl and she tagged boring and dumped.

You're the object of his affections. I mean who should he try out his fantasies on/with if not you?

Personally, I'm all for confident women. As sexually expressive and eager to please as they come. It's never a dull moment with those sorts.

Youruba girls will form shy for you even when they want ur d*ck , Igbo girls are the real deal and best to date. Note I'm a Yoruba guy.

If they begin to shy like cat.na you go still complain..

Pls leave person pikin

CorGier:


You're the object of his affections. I mean who should he try out his fantasies on/with if not you?

Personally, I'm all for confident women. As sexually expressive and eager to please as they come. It's never a dull moment with those sorts.

I know a man who doesn't keep relationships. When he is in need, he goes to prostitutes.
His reason is that and I quote "Dem go take their church mind fvck you wella".

Are you that guy?

Sex is a very sensitive issue with majority viewing it very seriously. So it's wrong to begin to push for your fantasies without first finding out what her preference is.

Why should a girl be shy?

What about niggurs.... previously it'll take 7 Eke market days for a guy to brace up and ask a girl out...

But now niggurs get mind....even small boys no dey fear again..

Jewessgratitude:



Well....you can't generalize when you haven't met every girl.
I am still shy especially when someone I like is talking to me. I can't look him in the eyes. Like seriously at my age. But if I dont feel anything for you, wetin? I'll look on top of your head jor!! Hehehe... Though in some cases even when Im not into you and you're way older and chyking me, hey I can't look at you o. It made one man ask me one day, come how old are you, when I told him and he was like wow, mehn..I tot you're 22 bla bla you're doing like a small girl. You dont look it. Look at me when I talking to u. Still, I couldn't look at bobo's face o hahaha..

I guess its the way one was brought up. My dad was very very strict. He'll beat you up if he sees you standing with a guy those days. So we kukuma maintain.

So, yea there are still shy girls like us.

You shy?
HahahahababHah

planetx13:
How can they be shy when they are already sleeping with their father's mates... To the 2 (f)ools above..... ....

To no 1... You don't care about how they talk or what they say, but you care about what they wear (height of hypocrisy),,, well in case you didn't know ,, it is from clap than dancing starts , soon we will soon have ladies wearing only bra and panties (g- strings for that matter) walking on the streets and 2ndly, beauty comes from within....you can't be ugly inside and hope to be pretty on the outside...( A careless person is a careless person, whether in words or appearance)


To no 2...( the more senseless one)... How does what you wrote answer the op's question... As a typical dumb Nigerian girl,, all you can say is men this, men that, cos that's what you lot always think of..... When you girls act up, it's always the fault of guys but when you whOres go about sleeping with your ancestors because of money( simply because of laziness and don't want to do anything for themselves) , you don't remember the guys you are calling up and down..


The actual problem is from nowadays parents(mostly women) who don't see any wrong in what chidren do and even go as far as supporting their excesses ... like giving their daughters to their grandfather's to marry... well this is the result and it's just the beginning


Ciao

You are actually the fool here. Anybody can marry anybody.A young lady marrying a far older man isn't something new.its been here from time immemorial so STFU and stop insulting your elders here

chiommy123:
I don't have any problem with them socialising, talking or looking at any guy the way they want but I have serious problem with them showing the world their boobs and bums all in the name of being sexy and you see some mothers praising them

U are such a sweetheart! That's the problem I have with our ladies of today; revealing sensual parts of their bodies; and involving in hook ups(sex for money)

CharlotteFlair:
I know a man who doesn't keep relationships. When he is in need, he goes to prostitutes.
His reason is that and I quote "Dem go take their church mind fvck you wella".

Are you that guy?

Sex is a very sensitive issue with majority viewing it very seriously. So it's wrong to begin to push for your fantasies without first finding out what her preference is.

Not at all. I only do exclusive relationships.

It's all about compromise, which is what these sorts we would tag as "boring" fail to understand. I admire your objectivity though, you're on point about the average male's needs in contemporary relationships becoming almost insatiable. So I understand if the traditional, reserved African lady just can't keep up.

I think it's part of the reason why some mothers try to bridge this gap, by " poshing" up their daughters from a very young age. It seems the decent dressing, prude church girl persona isn't exactly dating material for millennial men.

CharlotteFlair:
The moral decadence today concerns everyone both make and female.
It's mischievous for OP to single out the girls only.

That's how Sharia police stone women dead for committing adultery while her partner in crime goes Scott free.

In the beginning, a guy will write letters and send his friends to woo you for him. Men were very patient and respectful those days.

FF today, the first thing a guy who hardly knows you does, is to ask for your nude pics as soon you exchange numbers.

And if you like him and decide to have a relationship, the first time he catches you alone, he's asking for anal sex.

He wants to try out his fantasies on you. He wants to do porn with you. Gone are the days when a man will just be stylishly removing your skirt in order to see your laps, today, they want to record everything on camera. Refusal from the girl and she tagged boring and dumped.

Lalasticlala, your attention is needed here.
These generation of male folks need to learn some morals and think twice with the way they go about their moral decay and having no one to caution them.
Fp please!!

CharlotteFlair:
The moral decadence today concerns everyone both make and female.
It's mischievous for OP to single out the girls only.

That's how Sharia police stone women dead for committing adultery while her partner in crime goes Scott free.

In the beginning, a guy will write letters and send his friends to woo you for him. Men were very patient and respectful those days.

FF today, the first thing a guy who hardly knows you does, is to ask for your nude pics as soon you exchange numbers.

And if you like him and decide to have a relationship, the first time he catches you alone, he's asking for anal sex.

He wants to try out his fantasies on you. He wants to do porn with you. Gone are the days when a man will just be stylishly removing your skirt in order to see your laps, today, they want to record everything on camera. Refusal from the girl and she tagged boring and dumped.

Moral decadence? Really hanty? OP is talking about girls going for what they want and you call that moral decadence?

Women need to support women more. Some folks think I hate women but they don't know that the best way to love someone is to provoke them to stand up for themselves.

Before Men had respect fo the women folk but now they tag all olosho forgetting that all the females in their PA and MAs lineage are captured.

chiommy123:
I don't have any problem with them socialising, talking or looking at any guy the way they want but I have serious problem with them showing the world their boobs and bums all in the name of being sexy and you see some mothers praising them

I just checked your profile pic... And I need you to follow the instructions there.. Please don't deprive us from those boobs

Is called jet age like season people also change, at the end it's ending

CorGier:


Not at all. I only do exclusive relationships.

It's all about compromise, which is what these sorts we would tag as "boring" fail to understand. I admire your objectivity though, you're on point about the average male's needs in contemporary relationships becoming almost insatiable. So I understand if the traditional, reserved African lady just can't keep up.

I think it's part of the reason why some mothers try to bridge this gap, by " poshing" up their daughters from a very young age. It seems the decent dressing, prude church girl persona isn't exactly dating material for millennial men.

Yes mothers share the blame for sexualizing their little girls with the way they dress them up.

But as a mother, I can tell you deep down that the mother's motives are quite different even though the results or consequences are bad.

We still have shy boys and girls but most if them don dey mad finish besides its never good to be shy

OP is looking for easy bush meat ......naija girl have upgraded lambo is very accessable thanks to technology