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Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by Quality20(m): 5:33am On Jan 12, 2020
I remember growing up that girls were so shy that they can hardly talk or look at a guy,but not anymore these days. What has happened to those damsels who were so shy n reserved. Now u even hear girls toasting guys or trying to predict the kind of xter a guy is likely to have based on previous exposures

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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by chiommy123(f): 5:44am On Jan 12, 2020
I don't have any problem with them socialising, talking or looking at any guy the way they want but I have serious problem with them showing the world their boobs and bums all in the name of being sexy and you see some mothers praising them

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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by CharlotteFlair(f): 5:55am On Jan 12, 2020
The moral decadence today concerns everyone both make and female.
It's mischievous for OP to single out the girls only.

That's how Sharia police stone women dead for committing adultery while her partner in crime goes Scott free.

In the beginning, a guy will write letters and send his friends to woo you for him. Men were very patient and respectful those days.

FF today, the first thing a guy who hardly knows you does, is to ask for your nude pics as soon you exchange numbers.

And if you like him and decide to have a relationship, the first time he catches you alone, he's asking for anal sex.

He wants to try out his fantasies on you. He wants to do porn with you. Gone are the days when a man will just be stylishly removing your skirt in order to see your laps, today, they want to record everything on camera. Refusal from the girl and she tagged boring and dumped.

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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by 3rdavefarms(m): 6:03am On Jan 12, 2020
Accuracy
Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by Nobody: 6:31am On Jan 12, 2020
CharlotteFlair:
The moral decadence today concerns everyone both make and female.
It's mischievous for OP to single out the girls only.

That's how Sharia police stone women dead for committing adultery while her partner in crime goes Scott free.

In the beginning, a guy will write letters and send his friends to woo you for him. Men were very patient and respectful those days.

FF today, the first thing a guy who hardly knows you does, is to ask for your nude pics as soon you exchange numbers.

And if you like him and decide to have a relationship, the first time he catches you alone, he's asking for anal sex.

He wants to try out his fantasies on you. He wants to do porn with you. Gone are the days when a man will just be stylishly removing your skirt in order to see your laps, today, they want to record everything on camera. Refusal from the girl and she tagged boring and dumped.
you are right tho... Lots of truth in ur write up

The future is really scary

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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by planetx13: 6:37am On Jan 12, 2020
How can they be shy when they are already sleeping with their father's mates... To the 2 (f)ools above..... ....

To no 1... You don't care about how they talk or what they say, but you care about what they wear (height of hypocrisy),,, well in case you didn't know ,, it is from clap than dancing starts , soon we will soon have ladies wearing only bra and panties (g- strings for that matter) walking on the streets and 2ndly, beauty comes from within....you can't be ugly inside and hope to be pretty on the outside...( A careless person is a careless person, whether in words or appearance)


To no 2...( the more senseless one)... How does what you wrote answer the op's question... As a typical dumb Nigerian girl,, all you can say is men this, men that, cos that's what you lot always think of..... When you girls act up, it's always the fault of guys but when you whOres go about sleeping with your ancestors because of money( simply because of laziness and don't want to do anything for themselves) , you don't remember the guys you are calling up and down..


The actual problem is from nowadays parents(mostly women) who don't see any wrong in what chidren do and even go as far as supporting their excesses ... like giving their daughters to their grandfather's to marry... well this is the result and it's just the beginning


Ciao

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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by Godfullsam(m): 6:39am On Jan 12, 2020
CharlotteFlair:
The moral decadence today concerns everyone both make and female.
It's mischievous for OP to single out the girls only.

That's how Sharia police stone women dead for committing adultery while her partner in crime goes Scott free.

In the beginning, a guy will write letters and send his friends to woo you for him. Men were very patient and respectful those days.

FF today, the first thing a guy who hardly knows you does, is to ask for your nude pics as soon you exchange numbers.

And if you like him and decide to have a relationship, the first time he catches you alone, he's asking for anal sex.

He wants to try out his fantasies on you. He wants to do porn with you. Gone are the days when a man will just be stylishly removing your skirt in order to see your laps, today, they want to record everything on camera. Refusal from the girl and she tagged boring and dumped.

Eleyi gidi gan o shocked

Men cum and defend yourselves o, is it true that you guys are this reckless?

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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by QueenSuccubus(f): 6:39am On Jan 12, 2020
grin

Lol.. Have u forgot that the world is evolving every second? undecided

But I do still believe that there are girls who are still reserved & shy. It all depends where you hanging at..

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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by Godfullsam(m): 6:46am On Jan 12, 2020
Most parents are to be blamed for this moral decadence among the females (and males inclusive).

Some parents (mothers) will go to market and buy short and shape revealing dresses for their daughters.

Most women also wear sexy dresses to work and social gatherings . Their children learn from them and later grow up with such attitudes.

Charity begins at home!

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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by Hypnotise: 6:51am On Jan 12, 2020
Why will they be shy when dey are marlians
Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by palmshots: 6:56am On Jan 12, 2020
With civilization comes with its effects
Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by alezzy13: 7:07am On Jan 12, 2020
CharlotteFlair:
The moral decadence today concerns everyone both make and female.
It's mischievous for OP to single out the girls only.

That's how Sharia police stone women dead for committing adultery while her partner in crime goes Scott free.

In the beginning, a guy will write letters and send his friends to woo you for him. Men were very patient and respectful those days.

FF today, the first thing a guy who hardly knows you does, is to ask for your nude pics as soon you exchange numbers.

And if you like him and decide to have a relationship, the first time he catches you alone, he's asking for anal sex.

He wants to try out his fantasies on you. He wants to do porn with you. Gone are the days when a man will just be stylishly removing your skirt in order to see your laps, today, they want to record everything on camera. Refusal from the girl and she tagged boring and dumped.

Okokobioko!! shocked Chai! NL men come oooo. grin

Who dey teach una all these baaad things. . .

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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by CharlotteFlair(f): 7:28am On Jan 12, 2020
planetx13 post=85721749:
How can they be shy when they are already sleeping with their father's mates... To the 2 (f)ools above..... ....

To no 1... You don't care about how they talk or what they say, but you care about what they wear (height of hypocrisy),,, well in case you didn't know ,, it is from clap than dancing starts , soon we will soon have ladies wearing only bra and panties (g- strings for that matter) walking on the streets and 2ndly, beauty comes from within....you can't be ugly inside and hope to be pretty on the outside...( A careless person is a careless person, whether in words or appearance)


To no 2...( the more senseless one)... How does what you wrote answer the op's question... As a typical dumb Nigerian girl,, all you can say is men this, men that, cos that's what you lot always think of..... When you girls act up, it's always the fault of guys but when you whOres go about sleeping with your ancestors because of money( simply because of laziness and don't want to do anything for themselves) , you don't remember the guys you are calling up and down..


The actual problem is from nowadays parents(mostly women) who don't see any wrong in what chidren do and even go as far as supporting their excesses ... like giving their daughters to their grandfather's to marry... well this is the result and it's just the beginning


Ciao





Trash!

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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by zexy2030(m): 7:30am On Jan 12, 2020
Quality20:
I remember growing up that girls were so shy that they can hardly talk or look at a guy,but not anymore these days. What has happened to those damsels who were so shy n reserved. Now u even hear girls toasting guys or trying to predict the kind of xter a guy is likely to have based on previous exposures
The media told them so. The musics are possessed with immoral lyrics. So why won't girls feel liberal with sex. Western life, unfortunately we are in west Africa.

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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by Nobody: 7:41am On Jan 12, 2020
Quality20:
I remember growing up that girls were so shy that they can hardly talk or look at a guy,but not anymore these days. What has happened to those damsels who were so shy n reserved. Now u even hear girls toasting guys or trying to predict the kind of xter a guy is likely to have based on previous exposures


Well....you can't generalize when you haven't met every girl.
I am still shy especially when someone I like is talking to me. I can't look him in the eyes. Like seriously at my age. But if I dont feel anything for you, wetin? I'll look on top of your head jor!! Hehehe... Though in some cases even when Im not into you and you're way older and chyking me, hey I can't look at you o. It made one man ask me one day, come how old are you, when I told him and he was like wow, mehn..I tot you're 22 bla bla you're doing like a small girl. You dont look it. Look at me when I talking to u. Still, I couldn't look at bobo's face o hahaha..

I guess its the way one was brought up. My dad was very very strict. He'll beat you up if he sees you standing with a guy those days. So we kukuma maintain.

So, yea there are still shy girls like us.

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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by CorGier: 8:28am On Jan 12, 2020
CharlotteFlair:

He wants to try out his fantasies on you. He wants to do porn with you. Gone are the days when a man will just be stylishly removing your skirt in order to see your laps, today, they want to record everything on camera. Refusal from the girl and she tagged boring and dumped.

You're the object of his affections. I mean who should he try out his fantasies on/with if not you?

Personally, I'm all for confident women. As sexually expressive and eager to please as they come. It's never a dull moment with those sorts.
Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by OmoAlakija: 8:35am On Jan 12, 2020
Youruba girls will form shy for you even when they want ur d*ck , Igbo girls are the real deal and best to date. Note I'm a Yoruba guy.

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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by itzprezy(m): 8:39am On Jan 12, 2020
If they begin to shy like cat.na you go still complain..

Pls leave person pikin

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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by CharlotteFlair(f): 8:40am On Jan 12, 2020
CorGier:


You're the object of his affections. I mean who should he try out his fantasies on/with if not you?

Personally, I'm all for confident women. As sexually expressive and eager to please as they come. It's never a dull moment with those sorts.
I know a man who doesn't keep relationships. When he is in need, he goes to prostitutes.
His reason is that and I quote "Dem go take their church mind fvck you wella".

Are you that guy?

Sex is a very sensitive issue with majority viewing it very seriously. So it's wrong to begin to push for your fantasies without first finding out what her preference is.

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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by Jodha(f): 8:43am On Jan 12, 2020
Why should a girl be shy?

What about niggurs.... previously it'll take 7 Eke market days for a guy to brace up and ask a girl out...

But now niggurs get mind....even small boys no dey fear again..

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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by CharlotteFlair(f): 8:43am On Jan 12, 2020
Jewessgratitude:



Well....you can't generalize when you haven't met every girl.
I am still shy especially when someone I like is talking to me. I can't look him in the eyes. Like seriously at my age. But if I dont feel anything for you, wetin? I'll look on top of your head jor!! Hehehe... Though in some cases even when Im not into you and you're way older and chyking me, hey I can't look at you o. It made one man ask me one day, come how old are you, when I told him and he was like wow, mehn..I tot you're 22 bla bla you're doing like a small girl. You dont look it. Look at me when I talking to u. Still, I couldn't look at bobo's face o hahaha..

I guess its the way one was brought up. My dad was very very strict. He'll beat you up if he sees you standing with a guy those days. So we kukuma maintain.

So, yea there are still shy girls like us.
You shy?
HahahahababHah grin

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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by Hisduchess(f): 9:05am On Jan 12, 2020
planetx13:
How can they be shy when they are already sleeping with their father's mates... To the 2 (f)ools above..... ....

To no 1... You don't care about how they talk or what they say, but you care about what they wear (height of hypocrisy),,, well in case you didn't know ,, it is from clap than dancing starts , soon we will soon have ladies wearing only bra and panties (g- strings for that matter) walking on the streets and 2ndly, beauty comes from within....you can't be ugly inside and hope to be pretty on the outside...( A careless person is a careless person, whether in words or appearance)


To no 2...( the more senseless one)... How does what you wrote answer the op's question... As a typical dumb Nigerian girl,, all you can say is men this, men that, cos that's what you lot always think of..... When you girls act up, it's always the fault of guys but when you whOres go about sleeping with your ancestors because of money( simply because of laziness and don't want to do anything for themselves) , you don't remember the guys you are calling up and down..


The actual problem is from nowadays parents(mostly women) who don't see any wrong in what chidren do and even go as far as supporting their excesses ... like giving their daughters to their grandfather's to marry... well this is the result and it's just the beginning


Ciao






You are actually the fool here. Anybody can marry anybody.A young lady marrying a far older man isn't something new.its been here from time immemorial so STFU and stop insulting your elders here undecided

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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by Tunagee(m): 9:19am On Jan 12, 2020
chiommy123:
I don't have any problem with them socialising, talking or looking at any guy the way they want but I have serious problem with them showing the world their boobs and bums all in the name of being sexy and you see some mothers praising them

U are such a sweetheart! That's the problem I have with our ladies of today; revealing sensual parts of their bodies; and involving in hook ups(sex for money)

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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by CorGier: 9:22am On Jan 12, 2020
CharlotteFlair:
I know a man who doesn't keep relationships. When he is in need, he goes to prostitutes.
His reason is that and I quote "Dem go take their church mind fvck you wella".

Are you that guy?

Sex is a very sensitive issue with majority viewing it very seriously. So it's wrong to begin to push for your fantasies without first finding out what her preference is.

Not at all. I only do exclusive relationships.

It's all about compromise, which is what these sorts we would tag as "boring" fail to understand. I admire your objectivity though, you're on point about the average male's needs in contemporary relationships becoming almost insatiable. So I understand if the traditional, reserved African lady just can't keep up.

I think it's part of the reason why some mothers try to bridge this gap, by " poshing" up their daughters from a very young age. It seems the decent dressing, prude church girl persona isn't exactly dating material for millennial men.

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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by Preshy561(f): 9:29am On Jan 12, 2020
CharlotteFlair:
The moral decadence today concerns everyone both make and female.
It's mischievous for OP to single out the girls only.

That's how Sharia police stone women dead for committing adultery while her partner in crime goes Scott free.

In the beginning, a guy will write letters and send his friends to woo you for him. Men were very patient and respectful those days.

FF today, the first thing a guy who hardly knows you does, is to ask for your nude pics as soon you exchange numbers.

And if you like him and decide to have a relationship, the first time he catches you alone, he's asking for anal sex.

He wants to try out his fantasies on you. He wants to do porn with you. Gone are the days when a man will just be stylishly removing your skirt in order to see your laps, today, they want to record everything on camera. Refusal from the girl and she tagged boring and dumped.
Lalasticlala, your attention is needed here.
These generation of male folks need to learn some morals and think twice with the way they go about their moral decay and having no one to caution them.
Fp please!!

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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by Newboss(m): 9:30am On Jan 12, 2020
CharlotteFlair:
The moral decadence today concerns everyone both make and female.
It's mischievous for OP to single out the girls only.

That's how Sharia police stone women dead for committing adultery while her partner in crime goes Scott free.

In the beginning, a guy will write letters and send his friends to woo you for him. Men were very patient and respectful those days.

FF today, the first thing a guy who hardly knows you does, is to ask for your nude pics as soon you exchange numbers.

And if you like him and decide to have a relationship, the first time he catches you alone, he's asking for anal sex.

He wants to try out his fantasies on you. He wants to do porn with you. Gone are the days when a man will just be stylishly removing your skirt in order to see your laps, today, they want to record everything on camera. Refusal from the girl and she tagged boring and dumped.

Moral decadence? Really hanty? OP is talking about girls going for what they want and you call that moral decadence?

Women need to support women more. Some folks think I hate women but they don't know that the best way to love someone is to provoke them to stand up for themselves.
Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by LadySarah: 9:31am On Jan 12, 2020
Before Men had respect fo the women folk but now they tag all olosho forgetting that all the females in their PA and MAs lineage are captured.

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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by shawnfamous(m): 9:40am On Jan 12, 2020
chiommy123:
I don't have any problem with them socialising, talking or looking at any guy the way they want but I have serious problem with them showing the world their boobs and bums all in the name of being sexy and you see some mothers praising them
I just checked your profile pic... And I need you to follow the instructions there.. Please don't deprive us from those boobs
Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by Nobody: 10:17am On Jan 12, 2020
Is called jet age like season people also change, at the end it's ending

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Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by CharlotteFlair(f): 10:20am On Jan 12, 2020
CorGier:


Not at all. I only do exclusive relationships.

It's all about compromise, which is what these sorts we would tag as "boring" fail to understand. I admire your objectivity though, you're on point about the average male's needs in contemporary relationships becoming almost insatiable. So I understand if the traditional, reserved African lady just can't keep up.

I think it's part of the reason why some mothers try to bridge this gap, by " poshing" up their daughters from a very young age. It seems the decent dressing, prude church girl persona isn't exactly dating material for millennial men.
Yes mothers share the blame for sexualizing their little girls with the way they dress them up.

But as a mother, I can tell you deep down that the mother's motives are quite different even though the results or consequences are bad.
Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by sunshineV(f): 10:48am On Jan 12, 2020
We still have shy boys and girls but most if them don dey mad finish besides its never good to be shy
Re: Why Are Girls No More Shy These Days by izospindle(m): 10:55am On Jan 12, 2020
OP is looking for easy bush meat cheesy grin grin grin grin grin ......naija girl have upgraded lambo is very accessable thanks to technology

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