benji93:
I hope you are not stylishly inviting guys to send you private emails?

nsesam:
No matter what, you acted immatured and childish. Why can't you trust her and be happy with yourself Afterall she isn't your wife. What makes you think she didn't know its you even after hearing your voice? She told you she has a boyfriend right? The call was uncalled for

azimo:
have some respect for women and don't be one sided the truth remains women cheat men and men cheat women but if u felt so much cheated and you can't take it anymore just leave .

sparko1:


Madam don’t sugarcoat it!

Asking a guy to come over to your place, a stranger for that matter is completely unacceptable!

Test or not! The fact that she said yes on the first night is a sign she a hoe!

uthlaw:
which respect apart from mother's.....people like you make this bitches think they got any value,once you meet any bitch just think of how to Bleep her and nothing more,if she Introduce her best friend to you,Bleep her too....all of them na same same!

JERRY1925:


Sometimes I feel they fall for this shit not because they cheap.. But because we have a way of getting to them.. Because we know their weakness..we know what to say and what not to say.
She probably fell for you because u guys have some connection.
Truth is, it would take a new guy weeks or month to archive what u did in one day.
He might get her, but it won't be that easy.

uthlaw:
which respect apart from mother's.....people like you make this bitches think they got any value,once you meet any bitch just think of how to Bleep her and nothing more,if she Introduce her best friend to you,Bleep her too....all of them na same same!

azimo:
everyone must not reason like you please. Stop being aggressive ain't your mate celebrating 5/6/7/8 years anniversary in marriage? Are they married to ghost or is it not same women from this planet? If your dad was thinking like you your mum would have been single till now, ND there will be no you to come here to write this thanks .

Jewessgratitude:






How?

So someone now comments to attract PMs? I don't get it. Is that why you comment? To attract PMs?
When I posted this comment this morning, i didnt do it with that in mind. I sincerely poured out my heart the way I felt and nothing more.

Will the PMs add money to my bank account? Please you guys should stop all this childish talks.

uthlaw:
5/6 and 10years anniversary,hw much you pay them.... married or not just give birth,I have 5years old and life is more good and better!ask those in marriage about life,our mothers are not cheap like the bitches around now....just one outing that you spend like just 3k,gbam they go open leg....I go give sure 2odds tomorrow play with 10k to win 20k....use the profit Bleep 3 different ladies weekend....you go understand ladies senero!

SoNature:


Haunty, calm down.

Well, one could assume that the girl was playing along just for the fun of it. However, her response shows otherwise. She clearly was not.

Based on her response, OP doesn't need a soothsayer to tell him that the girl doesn't take the him seriously.

If she had claimed that she knew that he was the one all along, it would have made perfect sense. But, she didn't show any remorse even though she invited an unknown guy to her house at an ungodly hour. That girl is bold, I swear it

While OP has to take the blame of not being able to catch her red-handed, the response she gave him was inexcusable.

No picture could be this clearer: OP was her second-best lover. She's just managing OP, believing that a better man would come her way so as to ditch him. Sure, there are lots of girls like that out there.

One of my friends got married to a girl by asking her to call her guy to tell him it was over between them. She did, and he proposed the following week. Yes, most girls believe that there's a better guy out there.

uthlaw:
5/6 and 10years anniversary,hw much you pay them.... married or not just give birth,I have 5years old and life is more good and better!ask those in marriage about life,our mothers are not cheap like the bitches around now....just one outing that you spend like just 3k,gbam they go open leg....I go give sure 2odds tomorrow play with 10k to win 20k....use the profit Bleep 3 different ladies weekend....you go understand ladies senero!

1beat:
the girl is smarter than you !!!

I don't know what you want to achieve by doing what you did. NO EVIDENCE TO SHOW

if you don't know, the lady will tell you she knows that you're the one talking but she decided to play along with you. you will be surprised majority of people will agree with her.
so, next time be man enough to control all situation

Kingrexyl:
Date beautiful white girls dem no go hear..

Chisomhustler:

I agree with you.. Baby mama sure pass

darediamond:


Gbam!!!!

That is exactly what is on my mind bro.

Most of this Naija girls old and young are just useless liabilities who have nthing to offer except there dirty stinking OBO!

Imagine you saying one of them faithfully but she is making you realise until you place a ring on her leprosy-ridden finger, she is open and Can go out with any man.

There mothers too do support this non-sense!

Filmewell:
Why can't people not do this stupid test on the people they claim to love. There is no one except Jesus of the Holy Bible that can withstand any test. People are not that bad is just sometimes good people do bad things. It does not condemn them to bad people.
Op swear since you met your girlfriend that you have not chyked any order girl even though you did not go through with hooking up.

This is no issue

ericmor:


My cousin got married to a white girl abroad last yr August because the black girl he was to marry always demand, anytime he get a new iPhone, the girl will also ask him for her own and they go for shopping d girl will even get things more than him self. Why they were planning on when to take her to the ulter, he met the white girl and notice that reverse is the case. He get a phone, the babe will get her own with her money, they go for shopping, the girl will pay for her own goods. My cousin just reason am that the girl is not costing him like the black girl and she has a good character, he just switch gear n marry the whitee o. They are both doing fine after their wedding in Portugal

UBGG:


He tried to play mind games with her, one I am almost certain isn't a first(She asked him to grow up). He's insecure for sure. He definitely spies on her. He likes to play the victim. He's underemployed. He's immature(I mean, he brought their private conversation here!!!)

Now, how long do you think any sane person would survive a man like that before going insane?

Kingrexyl:
Date beautiful white girls dem no go hear..

soobaba:


She wrote: Don't even get me more angry.

soobaba:


Moderator please help me move this to front page...

soobaba:
Hi guys,
So I'll be very direct and summarize this as possible. But please bear with me if I get carried away...

I've been been dating my girlfriend for a year now and we are very serious and I'm even considering proposing to her, but we are not based in the same town.

So I called her with another number last night, she couldn't recognize my voice cause I sounded different, so I decided to play around cause we gist and make fun of each other a lot. So I acted like I was someone who got her number and is trying to toast her.

She asked who was speaking and I said Victor, that I got her number when I saw her in the bank, we were on the same queue, so I copied her number from her teller, she laughed and all, so after all the lines I poured out, she was just laughing and flowing along, so I asked if we could see that night, but she said it was late but I had to persuade her, so she agreed that I instead come to her place to see her. "This is someone she hasn't met before and she agreed for him to come see her at her place, in the night for that matter".

So I asked for her address and she gave out her real address, asked if she has a boyfriend and she said yes but we ain't in the same town.
I got upset and had to open up and ask why she's cheating on her guy? At this point she was mute and ended the call. I called back but she didn't answer anymore.

So I just dropped a message on WhatsApp that I was disappointed.

Her reply was devastating: she wrote;
"keep your disappointment in your pocket.
Don't even get me more angry.
Just do yourself a favor by not ever mentioning me in your mouth again.
Remove everything that has to do with me in your phone and life.
Rubbish.
No be only disappointment.
Grow up.
Comot for my front make I see road jor..."

I haven't replied her yet, don't even know what to say to her right now, thought about calling her but my brother told me not to, that I should just free her. Please guys what should I do?

Moderator please help me move this to front page...

1beat:
the girl is smarter than you !!!

I don't know what you want to achieve by doing what you did. NO EVIDENCE TO SHOW

if you don't know, the lady will tell you she knows that you're the one talking but she decided to play along with you. you will be surprised majority of people will agree with her.
so, next time be man enough to control all situation

TheGift:
Like your brother said "free Her", if you have any iota of respect for yourself cos She doesn't respect you and you may be opening your self up to more disrespect.

My advice: , go to a corner of your room think of how much and all the things you are going to miss about Her. Feel the pain, and if possible cry ( but no more than 15 minutes) Then move on with Your life, especially as She is not your Wife.

There is more loving and learning on the way to true matured love, so yoy better get cracking.

All the best.

soobaba:
Hi guys,
So I'll be very direct and summarize this as possible. But please bear with me if I get carried away...

I've been been dating my girlfriend for a year now and we are very serious and I'm even considering proposing to her, but we are not based in the same town.

So I called her with another number last night, she couldn't recognize my voice cause I sounded different, so I decided to play around cause we gist and make fun of each other a lot. So I acted like I was someone who got her number and is trying to toast her.

She asked who was speaking and I said Victor, that I got her number when I saw her in the bank, we were on the same queue, so I copied her number from her teller, she laughed and all, so after all the lines I poured out, she was just laughing and flowing along, so I asked if we could see that night, but she said it was late but I had to persuade her, so she agreed that I instead come to her place to see her. "This is someone she hasn't met before and she agreed for him to come see her at her place, in the night for that matter".

So I asked for her address and she gave out her real address, asked if she has a boyfriend and she said yes but we ain't in the same town.
I got upset and had to open up and ask why she's cheating on her guy? At this point she was mute and ended the call. I called back but she didn't answer anymore.

So I just dropped a message on WhatsApp that I was disappointed.

Her reply was devastating: she wrote;
"keep your disappointment in your pocket.
Don't even get me more angry.
Just do yourself a favor by not ever mentioning me in your mouth again.
Remove everything that has to do with me in your phone and life.
Rubbish.
No be only disappointment.
Grow up.
Comot for my front make I see road jor..."

I haven't replied her yet, don't even know what to say to her right now, thought about calling her but my brother told me not to, that I should just free her. Please guys what should I do?

Moderator please help me move this to front page...