ambassadorgozie:


dat was my ist time of seeing her

AntiWailer:


Read the guy's chat to his boss.

Also have u asked urself what kind of persuasion to come and eat and 'rest' goes beyond talking to holding shoulders ?

FortuneDeGreat:
May I make this simply plain to you, YOU'RE SO EVIL!

Snapchat:


I am an Introvert and I strongly disagree to what you meant by Introvert finding it hard to strike a convo.

There might be some sort of resistance but i find it more easier to start a conversation when I am happy, convenient and especially when the person I want to talk to is "alone".

It was only both of them in that office, talking from my personal experience, being alone with her it's easier to strike a convo.

ambassadorgozie:


i know, dats why i said i made a stupid mistake,
but my intent was to cajole her to eat or rest, cos she has been working since morning

StrongandMighty:
Let's hear her own side of the story first..
Una too dey lie for this forum

ambassadorgozie:


i was pleading cos i went close to her,
guy chill, i can never tink of rape or sex, how can i do so in an office,
pls don't call me names,
tanx

AMI3:



Op, i feel ur pains
i hope ur boss did not even sent the lady to trap u?
I hope ur boss did have some other feelings about u in which u did not notice or look her way.
iBecausre has a lawyer she suppose sense the truth not on the bases of ,i trust my house maid'

U are too nice a guy just forget the past and move on .
Always becarful about ur emotion

i hate working for people think of becoming ur boss make ur cash and visit her office i dont think been a salary earner can take u to ur destination.
thanks

czarr:
If na me, I go arrange boys for the girl. Wey go show am pepper.

nnamdiosu:
In as much as I sympathize with you, the truth is your story doesn't add up.
Bro trust me, there is something you aren't telling us. Eben the text message you sent to your boss is implicating you....why were you just apologising over and over again?
The fault also came from your side. Someone said she's fine, thrice you are forcing her to eat...

Anyways ..its fine. If your hands are truly clean God will defend you.
PLEASE STOP SENDING TEXT MESSAGES OF APOLOGY TO YOUR BOSS, YOUR PUTTING YOURSELF IN A MORE MESS.
may God help you. Its gonna be fine. Just breath. Breath

ambassadorgozie:
6th of January 2020 is the day I won’t forget. I work as a personal assistant/secretary to my boss who happens to be a former politician.

My boss came to work with her housemaid for her to help in sweeping, cleaning and tidying up the office being the resumption day. She instructed us on how to go about it before she stepped out from the office promising to come back in the afternoon.

We started the work immediately until afternoon time when I decided to rest and eat. While eating I beckoned the grown up housemaid to come and eat or at least rest before she continues the cleaning but she declined. After like an hour, I told her to rest small, she declined yet again. This prompted me to go close to her in order to convince her to eat something or rest.


Why trying to convince her to eat and rest? You said she is a grown woman. You want to use your village wooing code on her. You placed your hand over her shoulder as what? As her father, husband or boyfriend? No girl will react that way if you have not been trying to play dirty games with her. Is not as if you guys had issues or live in the same house. Man tell yourself the truth and stop this nonsense.
My worst mistake and nightmare was attempting to put my hand on her shoulder in my stupid bid to convince her. Immediately my hand touched her shoulder she started shouting continuously that I want to rape her, that she will deal with me; in fact that I will get sacked. At first I told her my intention, but she wouldn’t hear me, I then resorted to pleading, I even knelt down begging her that it wasn’t my intention to rape or grab her. She couldn’t stand my talks and pleading, she called the boss immediately telling her that I want to rape her. We narrated everything to the boss, (a lawyer), when she returned. After hearing from us she said she has stayed with her maid for couple of years, thus she trust her, and it may be true that I wanted to rape her or lure her for sex. She couldn’t see my explanation, pleadings and even crying. She said she has two options; either to call police for me or to sack me. That’s how she later sacked me that day.

I have been devastated and depressed since that day, not because of the sack but the allegation and accusation that was not even on my mind. The worst is that as an introvert I have no one to talk to, I am damn down.

Notes: 1. I have no intention of raping, grabbing or having sex with her
2. I will not be so stupid to rape or have sex with the housemaid in the office knowing that the boss will come at any time
3. I have not raped anyone or plan to do so in the future because I know is morally and legally wrong.

livebyday:


You do know this nonsense story doesn't make sense right ?

Boundaries exist for a reason and you clearly are used to crossing them

This is a well deserved lesson ..I have a deep feeling you are actually a molester and have escaped this heinous act in the past

ambassadorgozie:
6th of January 2020 is the day I won’t forget. I work as a personal assistant/secretary to my boss who happens to be a former politician.

My boss came to work with her housemaid for her to help in sweeping, cleaning and tidying up the office being the resumption day. She instructed us on how to go about it before she stepped out from the office promising to come back in the afternoon.

We started the work immediately until afternoon time when I decided to rest and eat. While eating I beckoned the grown up housemaid to come and eat or at least rest before she continues the cleaning but she declined. After like an hour, I told her to rest small, she declined yet again. This prompted me to go close to her in order to convince her to eat something or rest.

My worst mistake and nightmare was attempting to put my hand on her shoulder in my stupid bid to convince her. Immediately my hand touched her shoulder she started shouting continuously that I want to rape her, that she will deal with me; in fact that I will get sacked. At first I told her my intention, but she wouldn’t hear me, I then resorted to pleading, I even knelt down begging her that it wasn’t my intention to rape or grab her. She couldn’t stand my talks and pleading, she called the boss immediately telling her that I want to rape her. We narrated everything to the boss, (a lawyer), when she returned. After hearing from us she said she has stayed with her maid for couple of years, thus she trust her, and it may be true that I wanted to rape her or lure her for sex. She couldn’t see my explanation, pleadings and even crying. She said she has two options; either to call police for me or to sack me. That’s how she later sacked me that day.

I have been devastated and depressed since that day, not because of the sack but the allegation and accusation that was not even on my mind. The worst is that as an introvert I have no one to talk to, I am damn down.

Notes: 1. I have no intention of raping, grabbing or having sex with her
2. I will not be so stupid to rape or have sex with the housemaid in the office knowing that the boss will come at any time
3. I have not raped anyone or plan to do so in the future because I know is morally and legally wrong.

ambassadorgozie:


this issue really hurt me, i don't drink alcohol, didnt even tell anyone,
just bearing d pain alone

Carinaflo:


From the story he told, he may not be guilty of rape but he is surely guilty of sexual harrasment.
Guys do not have the right to go about placing their hands on random ladies.
The society needs to educate young guys, we should let them know that touching someone you don't know is a form of harrasment.

Moniya4Real:
May wisdom not depart you bro.

Fivepercent:
This one is not alcohol problem. Just move on and learn boundaries. In a work/professional setting, don't get sentimental....She was being professional...you were less than professional but I won't judge. I just ask that you learn from this and always do ONLY what is required of you.

DAVE5:



Bros there is no proving his innocence here, any body would stand on the girl's side on this case

Innocence is in the mind, action is the result

He asked her to rest, she refused

After an hour, he asked her to rest again, she refused AGAIN!!!

Then he stood up, from where HE was resting and eating while she was minding her business, then he went close to her(why), then he put his hand on her shoulder(who send am, for what reason, is she his girlfriend/wife, if she no eat how e take affect am)

Is that how you walk around putting your hands on every opposite sex's shoulder even when you are barely know each other

For crying out loud, she is a girl, they were alone, they are not friends according to his story, women are more fragile than men, he could overpower her.

What if he went beyond her shoulder, women bress no far from their should ohh

I would raise concerns against you if you came close to my daughter and put your hand on her shoulder even after she refused your advances several times

His continued intentions after "shoulder touching" are still only known to him alone while his actions has made a statement


I get at least five female workers, I dey fear to dey alone with them, when one was in my office, I purposely tried to leave the office door open so all cld see and I dey quick quick dismiss long talk

mikezuruki:


You actually wanted to lure her into having sex with you with your 'act of kindness'. Your boss is right.

I didn't see the need in you touching her over the shoulder, someone that has repeatedly declined answering your questions.

I know for sure that if the maid were to be a guy, you wouldn't be that 'concerned'. There was an ulterior motive there.

franchasng:
You maybe right because there are different levels of introvert. Mine was extreme level mixed with male-chauvism and religious-extremism based on excessive desire to adhere to every pint of early-childhood-inculcated religious-doctrines

ambassadorgozie:
6th of January 2020 is the day I won’t forget. I work as a personal assistant/secretary to my boss who happens to be a former politician.

My boss came to work with her housemaid for her to help in sweeping, cleaning and tidying up the office being the resumption day. She instructed us on how to go about it before she stepped out from the office promising to come back in the afternoon.

We started the work immediately until afternoon time when I decided to rest and eat. While eating I beckoned the grown up housemaid to come and eat or at least rest before she continues the cleaning but she declined. After like an hour, I told her to rest small, she declined yet again. This prompted me to go close to her in order to convince her to eat something or rest.

My worst mistake and nightmare was attempting to put my hand on her shoulder in my stupid bid to convince her. Immediately my hand touched her shoulder she started shouting continuously that I want to rape her, that she will deal with me; in fact that I will get sacked. At first I told her my intention, but she wouldn’t hear me, I then resorted to pleading, I even knelt down begging her that it wasn’t my intention to rape or grab her. She couldn’t stand my talks and pleading, she called the boss immediately telling her that I want to rape her. We narrated everything to the boss, (a lawyer), when she returned. After hearing from us she said she has stayed with her maid for couple of years, thus she trust her, and it may be true that I wanted to rape her or lure her for sex. She couldn’t see my explanation, pleadings and even crying. She said she has two options; either to call police for me or to sack me. That’s how she later sacked me that day.

I have been devastated and depressed since that day, not because of the sack but the allegation and accusation that was not even on my mind. The worst is that as an introvert I have no one to talk to, I am damn down.

Notes: 1. I have no intention of raping, grabbing or having sex with her
2. I will not be so stupid to rape or have sex with the housemaid in the office knowing that the boss will come at any time
3. I have not raped anyone or plan to do so in the future because I know is morally and legally wrong.

ambassadorgozie:


guy all dis ur yarn nd names won't fetch u money, i know i made a mistake, don't conclude bc u don't know me nd u wia not dia,
much regards nd have a great weekend

ambassadorgozie:


i was trying to show concern