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Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by ambassadorgozie(m): 9:05am On Jan 18, 2020
Mayflowa:


You asked someone to rest and eat and the person said no. Why would you continue to bother her? Can't you face your business? A maid ought to be the one to bother you. Forget about the job and the rape. Learn. Don't bother or show care to a woman when she doesn't come to you.

hav learnt my lesson d hard way,
was being considerate
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by PrinceMajestic: 9:06am On Jan 18, 2020
Why were u so desperate that she must have a rest n eat to the point u moved closer to her n your hand got in her shoulder to ensure ur purpose. Don't wanna say the truth after messing urself up

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Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by ambassadorgozie(m): 9:06am On Jan 18, 2020
Kingsean:





when you told her to rest and she declined, you should have just left her. sometimes caring too much can put u in trouble. she knew what her madam brought her to do. your madam never trusted you and u gave her the perfect chance to sack u. she could be a deep feminist i suspect. it's a pity u fell victim to false accusation. next time, watch before u leap. when u speak to someone and the person is not interested, just stop to avoid embarrassment
tanx, remain blessed
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by TotoNaRubber: 9:06am On Jan 18, 2020
You were sent to work and you go dey touch woman, "With N1000 naira you would have found a hot olosho to Nyuo that is to Nyuoooo Jajaaaaa".

Now you don lose your job because of toto, you know say totonarubber.



ambassadorgozie:


according to her, nd which is true, i shouldnt hav gone close to her. dats why i apologized, i didnt text or apologize again
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Cchuks27(m): 9:07am On Jan 18, 2020
Openbusiness:
Too many dumb people live on this forum. You think his boss was stupid? No, she wasn't and being a lawyer too, you could see her legal wisdom in play. She gave him 2 options:
A) I invite the police (in other words, call for a police investigation)
B) I fire you
This guy chose B straight up. Because he knows he's not innocent, he knows a police investigation would find him guilty, so he jumps ship before things get too messy for him.

Very true. If he was confident in his argument he wouldn't have chosen to resign.
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Josephmumu03: 9:07am On Jan 18, 2020
Good for you, onyeoma CY you dont know business before pleasure
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by JJOF(m): 9:07am On Jan 18, 2020
SmileDance:
When a lady says no, she means no
You have no right to put ur hand on her shoulder, guy you are a stranger to her. OK, maybe rape is too big but what happened according to ur story is sexual harassment.
Abeg how is touching somebody's shoulder sexual harrasment? Na wa ooooo.

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Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by zzbrodah: 9:08am On Jan 18, 2020
You wanted to try,if not, why would you say you wanted to convince her to eat or rest by touching her low waist.

Wetin be your own if she dey hungry.na ya daughter? Mumu kill u
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Ebenezar2020(m): 9:08am On Jan 18, 2020
COURVOISier:
You're a bad guy, Mr act too nice to get the pussy grin
upon all the Ubunja teachings them still no wan swallow redpill grin

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Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by specialbobby(m): 9:08am On Jan 18, 2020
Guy that thing na plan between your boss and the maid they plan everything before coming to the office

She doesn't need your service anymore and instead of her to make it clear to you she go with this plan

Talking from experience mine i later hear the truth from one of my boss son

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Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Fourwinds: 9:08am On Jan 18, 2020
awwfar:
Lol....Op I no believe u..swear u no touch her breast grin tongue
oturugbeke
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Fourwinds: 9:10am On Jan 18, 2020
czarr:
Wetin carry your hand go her shoulder grin...i no trust you guy
to squeeze small
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by daniddan1999: 9:10am On Jan 18, 2020
You shouldn't have plead nor beg her when she was shouting if you really have nothing to fear, i think you went too far begging her for nothing. .my opinion

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Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by blaze7x(m): 9:10am On Jan 18, 2020
Some years back i came back from work early which was quite unusual back then and there was no light. so i strolled around my new neighborhood which was a developing area with zero commercial activities, i was so carried away in my thought to the extent that i didn't know i had covered a long distance and it was dusk, i quickly turned back to go home, on my way back i saw some children waving at me and calling me uncle. i didn't respond, as they started moving towards me i took to my heels grin before somebody will come out and call me kidnapper.
The point is, in this present time one has to be careful, giving thorough thought to all his actions. For me its not logical for you to move close to a lady before you convince her to eat. I just pray God helps you get it resolved

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Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by tomzman: 9:11am On Jan 18, 2020
OP, you went out of line. You shouldn't have bothered her further after you invited her to eat and she refused. You even went to meet her and put your hands on her shoulder when you hitherto had no relationship with her, haba!

Well, I think God is trying to use this experience to teach you a lesson that would help you in the future. See, it is not everyone you help or try to get close to. You have to be sensitive enough to know the help that can potentially put you in trouble. Also, you must be careful when helping women. I would not say more than that. You must also understand that at times, it's best to help people by saying a prayer for them in your heart rather than physically reaching out to help them.

You should stop begging your boss and move on with your life. To get over the depression, go out and have fun. Go dance in concerts as if you just won a jackpot. Stay positive, trust God and begin to send out your CV to other companies. I'm sure you'd get a better job in no time.

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Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by pnarthanyl: 9:12am On Jan 18, 2020
ambassadorgozie:


oga cool down, dats how two of us chat most tyms
bro, your written English was poor in the text you sent your Boss. Back to the matter, I think you should try to pray that God vindicates you.
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Nobody: 9:13am On Jan 18, 2020
Babara1994:

The bress was his next destination na. If the maid had just laughed or smiled, he would go straight to her bress. I better stop here, cos I'm already feeling somehow mentioning 'bress'.

How are you doing baiby? I need ur advice on an issue. How do we discuss?
what issue is that.
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by MisterKings(m): 9:13am On Jan 18, 2020
I don't believe it is just shoulder you touched and even if it is.
Why would you be so insistent on trying to convince her to eat. What is your business? Eat your own food if she is hungry she can find her own way since you say she is a grown up.
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by fkj950ax(m): 9:14am On Jan 18, 2020
You weren't wrongly accused or unjustly sacked.
I will have you sacked also.

It is not your responsibility to feed or look out for the welfare of someone else's staff.

You asked once, she declined
You asked twice, she declined
You asked thrice, she declined
You then got up, walked to her space, and reached out with your hand to touch, hold her...

Oga, this is 2020. Mind Your FZUKING Business.
You have eleven months more.

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Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Cchuks27(m): 9:14am On Jan 18, 2020
Kingsean:





when you told her to rest and she declined, you should have just left her. sometimes caring too much can put u in trouble. she knew what her madam brought her to do. your madam never trusted you and u gave her the perfect chance to sack u. she could be a deep feminist i suspect. it's a pity u fell victim to false accusation. next time, watch before u leap. when u speak to someone and the person is not interested, just stop to avoid embarrassment

Very true to the bolded! Being a politician as well, they live and die by trust. In fact, their (politicians) lives depend on it and how far they'll go and hurdles they'll overcome.

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Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Fourwinds: 9:14am On Jan 18, 2020
Bola146:
grin grin don't let me say anything again.... cheesy
hmmmmmm
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 9:15am On Jan 18, 2020
JJOF:

Abeg how is touching somebody's shoulder sexual harrasment? Na wa ooooo.
bros abeg u stop that habit now o, grin grin grin if u kontinue like this, one day from tapping the shoulder u go end up tapping the arse of a General's wife in his presence.

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Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Martin0(m): 9:15am On Jan 18, 2020
egopersonified:
What was your concern with her well being that you were begging her to stop work and rest? You see what you guys ' I took alomo and invited her but she didn't come' attitude has cost you?


hahahahahahgringrin I nor fear you ooo but na who nor fear you I dey feargrin
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by EteBabaagba222(m): 9:15am On Jan 18, 2020
ambassadorgozie:
6th of January 2020 is the day I won’t forget. I work as a personal assistant/secretary to my boss who happens to be a former politician.

My boss came to work with her housemaid for her to help in sweeping, cleaning and tidying up the office being the resumption day. She instructed us on how to go about it before she stepped out from the office promising to come back in the afternoon.

We started the work immediately until afternoon time when I decided to rest and eat. While eating I beckoned the grown up housemaid to come and eat or at least rest before she continues the cleaning but she declined. After like an hour, I told her to rest small, she declined yet again. This prompted me to go close to her in order to convince her to eat something or rest.

My worst mistake and nightmare was attempting to put my hand on her shoulder in my stupid bid to convince her. Immediately my hand touched her shoulder she started shouting continuously that I want to rape her, that she will deal with me; in fact that I will get sacked. At first I told her my intention, but she wouldn’t hear me, I then resorted to pleading, I even knelt down begging her that it wasn’t my intention to rape or grab her. She couldn’t stand my talks and pleading, she called the boss immediately telling her that I want to rape her. We narrated everything to the boss, (a lawyer), when she returned. After hearing from us she said she has stayed with her maid for couple of years, thus she trust her, and it may be true that I wanted to rape her or lure her for sex. She couldn’t see my explanation, pleadings and even crying. She said she has two options; either to call police for me or to sack me. That’s how she later sacked me that day.

I have been devastated and depressed since that day, not because of the sack but the allegation and accusation that was not even on my mind. The worst is that as an introvert I have no one to talk to, I am damn down.

Notes: 1. I have no intention of raping, grabbing or having sex with her
2. I will not be so stupid to rape or have sex with the housemaid in the office knowing that the boss will come at any time
3. I have not raped anyone or plan to do so in the future because I know is morally and legally wrong.





My father once said, stop being nice to woman and don't be alone wt dem bc dey don't need evidence to bring men down. Learn to be on your lane. However, if you r true wt dis both her n your boss won't go free. Just stay n watch

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Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by emperorzz(m): 9:15am On Jan 18, 2020
Tolu121:
guy you be porn addict oo grin grin grin grin
grin grin not really oo. I just have understanding of some things.
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Mrpojj(m): 9:16am On Jan 18, 2020
ambassadorgozie:
6th of January 2020 is the day I won’t forget. I work as a personal assistant/secretary to my boss who happens to be a former politician.

My boss came to work with her housemaid for her to help in sweeping, cleaning and tidying up the office being the resumption day. She instructed us on how to go about it before she stepped out from the office promising to come back in the afternoon.

We started the work immediately until afternoon time when I decided to rest and eat. While eating I beckoned the grown up housemaid to come and eat or at least rest before she continues the cleaning but she declined. After like an hour, I told her to rest small, she declined yet again. This prompted me to go close to her in order to convince her to eat something or rest.

My worst mistake and nightmare was attempting to put my hand on her shoulder in my stupid bid to convince her. Immediately my hand touched her shoulder she started shouting continuously that I want to rape her, that she will deal with me; in fact that I will get sacked. At first I told her my intention, but she wouldn’t hear me, I then resorted to pleading, I even knelt down begging her that it wasn’t my intention to rape or grab her. She couldn’t stand my talks and pleading, she called the boss immediately telling her that I want to rape her. We narrated everything to the boss, (a lawyer), when she returned. After hearing from us she said she has stayed with her maid for couple of years, thus she trust her, and it may be true that I wanted to rape her or lure her for sex. She couldn’t see my explanation, pleadings and even crying. She said she has two options; either to call police for me or to sack me. That’s how she later sacked me that day.

I have been devastated and depressed since that day, not because of the sack but the allegation and accusation that was not even on my mind. The worst is that as an introvert I have no one to talk to, I am damn down.

Notes: 1. I have no intention of raping, grabbing or having sex with her
2. I will not be so stupid to rape or have sex with the housemaid in the office knowing that the boss will come at any time
3. I have not raped anyone or plan to do so in the future because I know is morally and legally wrong.

Some pple too do
Why will u start touching some 1 u just met for few hours

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Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by gambia(m): 9:16am On Jan 18, 2020
Why persuading her to eat? There's more to this story.
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by pnarthanyl: 9:16am On Jan 18, 2020
blaze7x:
Some years back i came back from work early which was quite unusual back then and there was no light. so i strolled around my new neighborhood which was a developing area with zero commercial activities, i was so carried away in my thought to the extent that i didn't know i had covered a long distance and it was dusk, i quickly turned back to go home, on my way back i saw some children waving at me and calling me uncle. i didn't respond, as they started moving towards me i took to my heels grin before somebody will come out and call me kidnapper.
The point is, in this present time one has to be careful, giving thorough thought to all his actions. For me its not logical for you to move close to a lady before you convince her to eat. I just pray God helps you get it resolved
i agree with, if this story is real, he has a lot to do in his manner of approach
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by madgoat(m): 9:16am On Jan 18, 2020
ambassadorgozie:
6th of January 2020 is the day I won’t forget. I work as a personal assistant/secretary to my boss who happens to be a former politician.

My boss came to work with her housemaid for her to help in sweeping, cleaning and tidying up the office being the resumption day. She instructed us on how to go about it before she stepped out from the office promising to come back in the afternoon.

We started the work immediately until afternoon time when I decided to rest and eat. While eating I beckoned the grown up housemaid to come and eat or at least rest before she continues the cleaning but she declined. After like an hour, I told her to rest small, she declined yet again. This prompted me to go close to her in order to convince her to eat something or rest.

My worst mistake and nightmare was attempting to put my hand on her shoulder in my stupid bid to convince her. Immediately my hand touched her shoulder she started shouting continuously that I want to rape her, that she will deal with me; in fact that I will get sacked. At first I told her my intention, but she wouldn’t hear me, I then resorted to pleading, I even knelt down begging her that it wasn’t my intention to rape or grab her. She couldn’t stand my talks and pleading, she called the boss immediately telling her that I want to rape her. We narrated everything to the boss, (a lawyer), when she returned. After hearing from us she said she has stayed with her maid for couple of years, thus she trust her, and it may be true that I wanted to rape her or lure her for sex. She couldn’t see my explanation, pleadings and even crying. She said she has two options; either to call police for me or to sack me. That’s how she later sacked me that day.

I have been devastated and depressed since that day, not because of the sack but the allegation and accusation that was not even on my mind. The worst is that as an introvert I have no one to talk to, I am damn down.

Notes: 1. I have no intention of raping, grabbing or having sex with her
2. I will not be so stupid to rape or have sex with the housemaid in the office knowing that the boss will come at any time
3. I have not raped anyone or plan to do so in the future because I know is morally and legally wrong.

Nonsense..... Why were u pleading in the first case? This shows u actually wanted to rape her or tried luring her for sex. U wanted to be a sharp man grin
And u being an introvert, u wont have babes. By now konji go don dey deal with u seriously because u go don over full grin
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Fivepercent: 9:16am On Jan 18, 2020
Actually....it is possible...She(the maid) might have had similar experience and is reliving that trauma....but Bros should've just stayed in his lane..

Ebenezar2020:
it's utterly impossible for a girl u met for the first time to start shouting of rape when u got close to pat and comfort her to eat.
it's either the guy has been asking the said house maid out or there is something he isn't telling us.
no be kids dey this forum
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by Babara1994(m): 9:16am On Jan 18, 2020
virgoquin:
what issue is that.
It's an important issue. Can we chat via WhatsApp
Re: How I Was Wrongly Accused Of Rape And Got Sacked by fkj950ax(m): 9:17am On Jan 18, 2020
pnarthanyl:
bro, your written English was poor in the text you sent your Boss. Back to the matter, I think you should try to pray that God vindicates you.

The Boss and Employee and the OP are unserious.
Who still types like that?
The same way he's typing here on NL

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