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Why You Must Marry Your Mate by CasNova: 8:43am On Jan 20
HOW TO CHOOSE YOUR LIFE PARTNER
6 MATES YOU MUST MARRY
One of the ways your marriage will not add to the rate of divorce in our world today is for you to marry your mate and if you are married already, make your spouse your mate! You see that statement of ‘ Am I your mate?’ does not apply in marriage. You must marry your mate. I will like to talk on seven dimensions you and the person you want to marry or you have married must be mate.
1. MARRY_YOUR_SPEAKING_MATE
Marry someone you can speak together and understand each other. Communication is very crucial in marriage. Don’t marry someone that, when you are saying ‘A’ he or she will be saying ‘ Z’ Once there is dichotomy in your speaking and understanding level, you can’t enjoy that marriage. So many men go to bar to hang out with friends and gist till 11pm because they know their wives can’t engage in any meaningful intellectual discussion. So many women too prefer to hang out with their friends, because they know their husbands mentality when it comes to vital issues and discussions is very low. Marry your speaking Mate.
2. MARRY_YOUR_SCHOOL_MATE By this I mean, marry someone you can learn together and improve together. Don’t marry ‘ Mr Know all’ or ‘Miss Know all’. Don’t marry someone who is rigid and not open to new ideas, new ways of doing things, or new innovations. Marriage is a great institution. From day one till death do you part, you will keep learning. Marry your ‘school’ mate; someone who is ready to learn with you.
3. MARRY_YOUR_SPIRITUAL_MATE
Marriage is not just a social union. It is also a spiritual union. Marry someone who knows the same God you know. Don’t marry someone who’s believe of God is different from yours. Two can’t work together except they be agreed ( Amos 3:3, Joshua 23: 11-15, 2 Corinthians 6:14-18). The spiritual controls the physical, even in marriage. Check for spiritual compatibility in that person you want to marry.
4. MARRY_YOUR_SPENDING_MATE
Don’t marry someone who is stingy. There are so many expenses to cater for in marriage. A stingy guy in courtship won’t suddenly become a generous husband in marriage. Don’t marry a lady that has the financial philosophy of ‘ My husband’s money is our money, but my money is my money’. Marry someone who believes in dignity of labour , who is ready to work, not a lazy fellow who just want to be a consumer and not a contributor. Marry someone who is ready to spend and be spent for the growth and success of the family.
5. MARRY_YOUR_SEX_MATE
Marry someone you have sexual feelings for. Sexual feeling is not a sin. It is an instinct God put in every person. Sex plays a major role in the success of any marriage. Any man you don’t have emotional feelings for, don’t marry the person. If you don’t have emotional feelings for that lady, leave her alone. A spiritual being is also a sexual being. No matter how spiritual you both may be in your marriage, you won’t be praying for 24 hours in a day. You won’t be reading the Bible or worshiping God 24/7. You will have sex! You will romance! You will flirt with each other! You will make babies. So, marry someone you can connect with sexually. It will help you to enjoy your marriage so much!
6. MARRY_YOUR_SOCIAL_MATE
Don’t marry someone you won’t be proud to go out with. Don’t marry someone you will be feeling shy to introduce to people with boldness. Marry someone you are comfortable to hang out with. Marry someone you are socially compatible with. Don’t marry an anti- social person. You might be wondering if you can find all the ‘mates’ in one person. Yes! The answer is YES! You don’t need to marry 6 guys/ladies to have all these mates. One person can be all that for you. If you also work on yourself and build your life, you can be all that for the guy/lady that will marry you.

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Re: Why You Must Marry Your Mate by tonysunkan(m): 10:14am On Jan 20
Lovely.
Re: Why You Must Marry Your Mate by Nickymezor(f): 12:48pm On Jan 20
cool
Re: Why You Must Marry Your Mate by Newguyhere: 12:53pm On Jan 20
rubbish!
Scientific research encourages men to marry women who are at least five years younger undecided
Marrying your age mate is a recipe for disrespect and eventual divorce. undecided



https://amp.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2016/mar/31/women-marrying-younger-men-dying-earlier-research
Re: Why You Must Marry Your Mate by CasNova: 12:57pm On Jan 20
Newguyhere:
rubbish!
Scientistific research encourages men to marry women who are at least five years younger undecided


Give us the sources of that research.
Re: Why You Must Marry Your Mate by Newguyhere: 12:59pm On Jan 20
Google it goddammit sad
CasNova:



Give us the sources of that research.
Re: Why You Must Marry Your Mate by Thosyn12(m): 2:27pm On Jan 20
Newguyhere:
rubbish!
Scientific research encourages men to marry women who are at least five years younger undecided
Marrying your age mate is a recipe for disrespect and eventual divorce. undecided



https://amp.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2016/mar/31/women-marrying-younger-men-dying-earlier-research


Is the article hard for you to comprehend?
where did you see age mate there?

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