I created this topic below a year and a half ago about my gf cheating on me wit her cousin when she went to another state (ede, osun) for exam,what we share and involve together can't be termed as mere play, we were gonna get married in d nearest future as tins moves on

https://www.nairaland.com/4646015/girlfriend-cheated-me-cousin

now guys adviced me to do away with her but I didn't listen cos dat was her first, thought she will change but D one she did now wrecked me.....Four months after she apologized, I was still angry but forgave her cos dat a first, she travelled to Lagos, ajah to be precised to work for sometime with her sister, she used a total of a year there.
The tin is i found out she was dating another guy,i have her facebook password, but she wouldn't think I would check, dis time she do pass d night at his place,imagine d amount of time d guy wud av had sex with her, she do visit him well, this is a girl I never left and kept letting her know how my football career is moving,
I play in Amateur 1 of the Nigeria football league for a team in Ibadan, kept assuring her we wud be together,i can't focus in training and matches....i found out wit prove, she couldn't deny it... I was down cos I always speak wit her, so after she drops my call, she visit d guy... let assume I never found out..

mind u her father has two wives,her mum loves me, I and d second wife not on same page, we've had a scuffle and she assured me I won't marry d girl,who knows where all dis battle is coming from,d girl's behaviour or d woman....
she has been apologizing sha,but I've packed her out in my mind, it just hurting for been foolish twice...

You caused it bro

Only you dey complain. Only you dey console yourself. Only you dey advise yourself to reconsider her> @ I deflowered her though.
Bro, do as you please.
One thing is sure, what she is doing now, shell continue in marriage. That is if the Aja guy never win her heart.

Take heart.

The way you didn't listen before, they won't listen now. Where women are concerned, men are victims of their own blindness. They must drink poison before they believe that it kills.

Good for you sha.

Your girl is cheating on you and you are trying to pin it on her step mother. Red pillers, come and advice your member, he might listen this time.

To give you uppercut dey hungry me.. why bringing this bullcrap here? Dont disturb our peace...

You getting on my last innermost nerves in my body

sigh..

Oluwasaeon:
You caused it bro

in what way.. I might need to know

hkidola00:
I created this topic below a year and a half ago about my gf cheating on me wit her cousin when she went to another state (ede, osun) for exam,what we share and involve together can't be termed as mere play, we were gonna get married in d nearest future as tins moves on

https://www.nairaland.com/4646015/girlfriend-cheated-me-cousin

now guys adviced me to do away with her but I didn't listen cos dat was her first, thought she will change but D one she did now wrecked me.....Four months after she apologized, I was still angry but forgave her cos dat a first, she travelled to Lagos, ajah to be precised to work for sometime with her sister, she used a total of a year there.
The tin is i found out she was dating another guy,i have her facebook password, but she wouldn't think I would check, dis time she do pass d night at his place,imagine d amount of time d guy wud av had sex with her, she do visit him well, this is a girl I never left and kept letting her know how my football career is moving,
I play in Amateur 1 of the Nigeria football league for a team in Ibadan, kept assuring her we wud be together,i can't focus in training and matches....i found out wit prove, she couldn't deny it... I was down cos I always speak wit her, so after she drops my call, she visit d guy... let assume I never found out..

mind u her father has two wives,her mum loves me, I and d second wife not on same page, we've had a scuffle and she assured me I won't marry d girl,who knows where all dis battle is coming from,d girl's behaviour or d woman....
she has been apologizing sha,but I've packed her out in my mind, it just hurting for been foolish twice...

Visit www.nairaland.com/ubunja and read everything Ubunja has written till you have sense, because of obviously don’t have sense.

Martinez39, abeg come help dis dude I no get time

egopersonified:
Your girl is cheating on you and you are trying to pin it on her step mother. Red pillers, come and advice your member, he might listen this time.

Hi, how have you been?

DonFreshmoney:
To give you uppercut dey hungry me.. why bringing this bullcrap here? Dont disturb our peace...

You getting on my last innermost nerves in my body

bro,u Don vex

If you have been swallowing the red pills, you would not be in this position. People told you to abandon her but you didn't listen. If I advise you now, will you listen?

Anyway, you don't have to waste time lamenting and crying. Just break up with her. Two red pills you must swallow are:
1) Once a cheat, always a cheat.
2) Never go back to your ex.

If you like don't listen.

Martinez39:
If you have been swallowing the red pills, you would not be in this position. People told you to abandon her but you didn't listen. If I advise you now, will you listen?

Anyway, you don't have to waste time lamenting and crying. Just break up with her. Two red pills you must swallow are:
1) Once a cheat, always a cheat.
2) Never go back to your ex.

If you like don't listen.

i won't be hammered d third time,no need to be told again, love can blind a man.. I got u chief

CAPSLOCKED:
the previous advice from the officials, you took none. now you're here again for more advice, that you'll never take.

one thing that is so sure is that these things are best experienced. when you're through with killing yourself over crap, you either take your life or take the lessons and grow up. I have no sympathy for you and other "what should I do" crew members.

sigh...

CAPSLOCKED:
the previous advice from the officials, you took none. now you're here again for more advice, that you'll never take.

one thing that is so sure is that these things are best experienced. when you're through with killing yourself over crap, you either take your life or take the lessons and grow up. I have no sympathy for you and other "what should I do" crew members.

What should I do?

Take heart, but I see a gullible man who believes in unreal things! With this thing you wrote up there, she can easily manipulate you into thinking she was possessed or her step mom is attacking her. Face the fact! She's not loyal. Forget anything else. Loyalty is the first thing I consider in any relationship.

hkidola00:

mind u her father has two wives,her mum loves me, I and d second wife not on same page, we've had a scuffle and she assured me I won't marry d girl,who knows where all dis battle is coming from,d girl's behaviour or d woman....
she has been apologizing sha,but I've packed her out in my mind, it just hurting for been foolish twice...

Did her step mother forced her to sleep around?

You lots don't listen. Once you go hoe you never coming back.

Jewessgratitude:
Only you dey complain. Only you dey console yourself. Only you dey advise yourself to reconsider her> @ I deflowered her though.
Bro, do as you please.
One thing is sure, what she is doing now, shell continue in marriage. That is if the Aja guy never win her heart.
Take heart.

Tho a good advice, but I'm not sure if your brain is aware of this write up.

Take up a job as a nairaland mod, it'll help you take out your frustration on those betting dudes.

You'll move on from your 'situationship' pretty fast.

Trust me, you'll feel better giving bans that will be at least 500 years long.

Don't be careful, don't give the chance at all, once broken will always have cracks that'll never be smooth. You'll keep having problems.

RisenPhoenix:
The way you didn't listen before, they won't listen now. Where women are concerned, men are victims of their own blindness. They must drink poison before they believe that it kills.

Good for you sha.

And most times they won't live to regret it

Seems like when you deflowered her she turned out to be a cheat.

You're still very much attached which means you'll still stick with her.

I like that as I believe that bitter lessons like this will help shape u properly. It won't happen immediately but it will happen

egopersonified:
Your girl is cheating on you and you are trying to pin it on her step mother. Red pillers, come and advice your member, he might listen this time.

that dude is a bona-fide member of blue pillers.. He doesn't have any trait of redpiller in him.

Houseofglam7:
Take up a job as a nairaland mod, it'll help you take out your frustration on those betting dudes.

You'll move on from your 'situationship' pretty fast.

Trust me, you'll feel better giving bans that will be at least 500 years long.

what u saying?

Let's. Go. Foreign.

You deserved it

tstx:
You deserved it

common man y?.. u make mistakes too, haven't u Don sumtin u wish d person gives u second chance, dat wot i did but she showed me in ten folds this time..im just angry everyday morning going to training

Thiwalade:
Take heart, but I see a gullible man who believes in unreal things! With this thing you wrote up there, she can easily manipulate you into thinking she was possessed or her step mom is attacking her. Face the fact! She's not loyal. Forget anything else. Loyalty is the first thing I consider in any relationship.

ohh didn't see ur comment earlier, thanks chief... logic over emotions from now on.. loyalty comes first,but I feel hurt at heart though.. anyway thanks

"...dis time she do pass d night at his place,imagine d amount of time d guy wud av had sex with her..."

Just look at the bolded. This bro is in pain, chai.

hkidola00:
common man y?.. u make mistakes too, haven't u Don sumtin u wish d person gives u second chance, dat wot i did but she showed me in ten folds this time..im just angry everyday morning going to training

Atleast this will teach you a lesson... PEOPLE NEVER CHANGE°°° FORGET THE TEARS