Hi guys,am really in love with my girl friend.But there is a little problem here and i need your hhelp.I recently found her that she is a lesbian.Should i quit or move on with her?Pls reply ,

How can you be asking whether to move on with a lesbian??

Don't you love yourself at all??

the truth is that even if both of you mutually decide to keep going, sooner or later her real her will take over, and where does that leave you if you guys have gone far??
If she's a defined lesbian, I suggest you quit at the top of the game, and prevent both parties any future dissapointments and heart break and ruined dreams

If she's bisexual on the other hand, thats a different story. Your chances of loosing her to another lady will be pretty much the same chances of loosing your straight girl to a fellow guy, you just have to keep your fingers crossed, No one can predict tomorrow

dandagreat:

Hi guys,am really in love with my girl friend.But there is a little problem here and i need your hhelp.I recently found her that she is a lesbian.Should i quit or move on with her?Please reply ,

Well if she is a true lesbian she wouldn't be with u, unless as a cover up for her family n friends or even work - Meaning there is no point in continuing.
- How did u find out?
If she is Bi it can have it's benefits (trust me)

DAMN --- which is more agonizing, the thot of losing your chic to a guy or a chic ?

sorry, i no envy you at all. recent census showed that ladies in naija are fewer than the males; now your girl is a les. does she want our sex (male) to be extinct. quit now, i v :De 2 girl friends, i can borrow you one.

dandagreat:

Hi guys,am really in love with my girl friend.But there is a little problem here and i need your hhelp.I recently found her that she is a lesbian.Should i quit or move on with her?Please reply ,

Guy, she's not a lesbian to have gone out with you. The proper word is a Bisexual!

She does both males and females.

fynewaka:

Guy, she's not a lesbian to have gone out with you. The proper word is a Bisexual!

She does both males and females.

Word!

fynewaka:

Guy, she's not a lesbian to have gone out with you. The proper word is a Bisexual!

She does both males and females.

Word!

watever she is; Les or Bi, the whole dubs is that she is a queer. my guy pack you things and ,

If shez still with u, then shez Bi and its still ok to b with her if u trully love and trust her and if she feels d same, cos u know she mos def wont b carrying a baby if she cheats on u!

RuuDie:

DAMN --- which is more agonizing, the thot of losing your chic to a guy or a chic ?

LMFAO - Talk about throwin petrol on fire

Your girlfriend cannot be a lesbian! She's either bisexual or not your girlfriend. If she's bisexual then you may just stand a chance of winning the grand prize: A party! Goodluck bro, What I wouldn't give to be you.

@ topic/peeps

Its not in all cases the person has to be "bi" to stick with their opposite sex partners

It is possible (i said possible) that she's a lesbian - - - like IBDat mentioned, its not very easy to reveal that being in you. Some will want to deny it not to bring dissappointment and shame to their family and live under the umbrella of supressing their true feelings and desires

They know what the world consider normal is getting married to an opposite sex, make babies and unite a family, some want that though deep down, who they are contradicts

So yea its possible she's lesbian even though she's still with him

@ poster
u should leave her if she's lesibian b/c u cant really please her, and if she's bi u should leave her b/c eventually she will end up cheating on u

IBDat:

Well if she is a true lesbian she wouldn't be with u, unless as a cover up for her family n friends or even work - Meaning there is no point in continuing.
- How did u find out?
If she is Bi it can have it's benefits (trust me)

benefits ko , fitting ni
abeg dandagreat , please dont mind IBDAT i would if it will be beneficial when she's in her 50s and 60s ?
eventually u will probably want her to urself and if u know u cant have then wats the point of the relationship ?

omogenaija:

@ poster
u should leave her if she's lesibian b/c u can't really please her, and if she's bi u should leave her b/c eventually she will end up cheating on u

benefits ko , fitting ni
abeg dandagreat , please don't mind IBDAT i would if it will be beneficial when she's in her 50s and 60s ?
eventually u will probably want her to yourself and if u know u can't have then wats the point of the relationship?

Hold on - A bisexual can't be commited in a relationship?

IBDat:

Hold on - A bisexual can't be commited in a relationship?

i'm not gonna generalize but the bisexuals i know always cheat b/c some days they want men and other days they want women

@ poster: Is she a lesbian or she just masturbates? _{Lotta ppl mis 'em up!}

thats good. i'm happy for you. just go on with her and try to enjoy the part of her thats for you
LMAO

she is a bisexual else she would not be with u. no problem as long as u r not sharing her with other guys.

Bros or whatever, I ought to have replied your post for long, but I lost my pssword and just retrieved that today, what I can say to your girlfriend been a Lesbian is dat. maybe she likes to masturbate or She's fund of cheatin on you,.She is bi-sexual and if she feels like you're not pleasing her d way she wish to be pleased, she'll go off one very good day and play games with women.
If you really Luv her, Just try and endure a lil bit but if it's getting off your neck, Ma guy!!! I no go lie Just try and Pack up your things, and 4get abt her. Safe

pannyman:

she is a bisexual else she would not be with u. no problem as long as you're not sharing her with other guys.

but its ok to share her with other girls

Thanks guys for your advice.I think i better leave that girl alone.because she was the one hat asked me out and she is quiet older than me.She is acting real strange.She said that ladies attract her most and that she can never cheat on with another guy.If i accuse her of cheat,"she will say hey Dany boy,u know i cannot cheat on,if i have any intentions of cheating,then why did i ask u out".To me,the girl is possessed.She told me that the last time she had sex was last year December and that was with her gf.Am really sick of her,but i love her.I dont think i can leave her.Any way thanks guys for the replys,

so she even ask u out sef?. . . . if u rily love her, then i'l advice u try things dat'l regenerate ur love for her cos by saying ur tired of her, i doubt if it'l last

Man! as 4 me if u lyk ha just keep up wit d relationship n try 2 make it work there is no use leaving her coz all girls ar lesbians in my eyes!

i agree with chaz. a good percentage of nigerian girls are bisexual. it is one of the most well kept secrets. i can't vouch for any girl. honestly

IF she"s a lesbains so what. from research lesbains are the best lovers you can believe that.
just get to know her better and ask her why is she doing what shes doing,tell her to give you an honest answer.

i run a lesbain and bi ladies club so i know what am talking about

take care

Well from experience many lesbos change latter especially when they grow up. Though some remain so for life. But i think that you need to tutor her on the defects of the game as a woman and after effect during marriage. You could be lucky she listens to you. But if not just make her a Bleep Buddy and scram when you have the time.

bros, no do mistake Ooooooo, since you've made up your mind to let go of her, fine let her go and go get yourseelf seated and keep listening to OJB's track:::: Am d one who's searchin
you'll find a serious relationship sooner,,,
Oju lope siii

Dude, no vex, but can I get her number?

gaygal:

Dude, no vex, but can I get her number?

hehe hahahaha gud for poster.

gaygal:

Dude, no vex, but can I get her number?

PURPLECODE:
IF she"s a lesbains so what. from research lesbains are the best lovers you can believe that.
just get to know her better and ask her why is she doing what shes doing,tell her to give you an honest answer.

i run a lesbain and bi ladies club so i know what am talking about

take care

Okay I have a question pls??