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Shocking: Why Most Husbands In Africa Die Before Their Wives by mrkia(m): 9:22pm On Feb 03, 2020
Why do husbands in Africa die most times before wives? A husband in Africa in most cases is under intense tension because he is responsible for:

● Children school fees

● house rentals

● Electricity bills

● Medical bills

● Car fuel and repairs

● Feeding of family

● Clothes for children

● Christmas and New year bills

● Furniture & House maintenance

● In-laws demand

● His own aged parents

● His siblings most times

● His wife's demands

● Erecting Building

● Religious demands

● Family social bills

● Electronics bills

● Recharge cards

● Extended family bills

● Community demands

On top of the above, he also faces:

● Wife stress/insults

● Boss stress at work

● Police stress on the way

● Area boys stress

● Friends stress

● Economy stress

● Fear of job loss

● Unemployment pains

● Children misbehaviour

● Neighbours stress

● Bank loan payment stress

● Enemies stress

● Demonic attack stress

● Sex stress

..and so on!!!

Are these reasons not enough for all African Wives to understand and give their husbands peace at home? Are men not trying? How can an African man with these kind of loads be romantic like an American man?

Women, please give your husband's peace at home. Encourage your husbands. Stop being sarcastic to them. Except if you like to join the widows club early! Note:

That club is not funny. Ask members. Help your husband. Contribute to the family. Be a helper. Be submissive. Stop nagging. Build your home and marriage. It is not greener outside there. Don't be deceived!!

Help your husband to live longer .

Thank you for reading,

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Re: Shocking: Why Most Husbands In Africa Die Before Their Wives by Ladylite: 9:26pm On Feb 03, 2020
mrkia:
Why do husbands in Africa die most times before wives? A husband in Africa in most cases is under intense tension because he is responsible for:

● Children school fees

● house rentals

● Electricity bills

● Medical bills

● Car fuel and repairs

● Feeding of family

● Clothes for children

● Christmas and New year bills

● Furniture & House maintenance

● In-laws demand

● His own aged parents

● His siblings most times

● His wife's demands

● Erecting Building

● Religious demands

● Family social bills

● Electronics bills

● Recharge cards

● Extended family bills

● Community demands

On top of the above, he also faces:

● Wife stress/insults

● Boss stress at work

● Police stress on the way

● Area boys stress

● Friends stress

● Economy stress

● Fear of job loss

● Unemployment pains

● Children misbehaviour

● Neighbours stress

● Bank loan payment stress

● Enemies stress

● Demonic attack stress

● Sex stress

..and so on!!!

Are these reasons not enough for all African Wives to understand and give their husbands peace at home? Are men not trying? How can an African man with these kind of loads be romantic like an American man?

Women, please give your husband's peace at home. Encourage your husbands. Stop being sarcastic to them. Except if you like to join the widows club early! Note:

That club is not funny. Ask members. Help your husband. Contribute to the family. Be a helper. Be submissive. Stop nagging. Build your home and marriage. It is not greener outside there. Don't be deceived!!

Help your husband to live longer .

Thank you for reading,

Marriage in most parts of Africa is slavery and colonialism.... In some cases its terrorism.

Because of the mentality that the woman is always to be taken care of, hence ladies generally dream of a lazy life where a very rich dude comes to their rescue,

Why men can not add a great financial standard for the lady they can accept to date.

Movies, music and media generally portray such notion in a subliminal way.

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Re: Shocking: Why Most Husbands In Africa Die Before Their Wives by olabrinks(f): 9:30pm On Feb 03, 2020
Both women and men have serious responsibilities in the household. Both must make huge sacrifices. God gave men the physical and mental capacity to work, that’s what you were called on earth to do. It’s called life.
Re: Shocking: Why Most Husbands In Africa Die Before Their Wives by donstan18: 9:56pm On Feb 03, 2020
Women, please give your husband's peace at home.
Only poor men begs for peace from a woman he's feeding in his own house.

Reason every man should hustle and work so hard before going into marriage. It helps a lot.

You dare not deprive a rich man his peace in his own house. Who are you? cheesy

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Re: Shocking: Why Most Husbands In Africa Die Before Their Wives by Nobody: 7:55am On Feb 04, 2020
olabrinks:
Both women and men have serious responsibilities in the household. Both must make huge sacrifices. God gave men the physical and mental capacity to work, that’s what you were called on earth to do. It’s called life.
in this era of equality. Women are getting the jobs more than men. Creating an in balance.

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Re: Shocking: Why Most Husbands In Africa Die Before Their Wives by Nobody: 7:57am On Feb 04, 2020
donstan18:

Only poor men begs for peace from a woman he's feeding in his own house.

Reason every man should hustle and work so hard before going into marriage. It helps a lot.

You dare not deprive a rich man his peace in his own house. Who are you? cheesy

how many men can be rich in this nigeria You can even lose your job or business.in an instant. I have married friends who keep begging for money for one emergency or the other. The last one his wife has double evacuation and he just paid rent of 350k. E no easy

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Re: Shocking: Why Most Husbands In Africa Die Before Their Wives by Ganjafama(m): 10:34am On Feb 04, 2020
I believe one major reason is because majority of men marry far younger women. A man who marries a woman who is 5 years older may outlive the woman.

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