KingSatan:


Exactly my friend.

I am not saying Northerners don't have a problem. Ofcoure they do.

Infact, their Problems poses a huge threat to our economy and sovereinity.

But for Marriage, they are still doing well.

And that because the elites know the direct impact that flamboyant weddings and cultural modifications will have on marriages and their baby breeding political agenda.

I dont understand; is it wedding youre talking about or marriage?

Their weddings may be simple, but their marriages clearly arent otherwise we wouldnt be seeing all that we are seeing.

solmus:
funny thing is this kind of couples last longer in marriage

and how did you arrive at this conclusion

starbuck:
As shared by Father Kelvin Ugwu:



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=2676569419126096&id=2149201088529601

The bride's nose is longer than some men's prick

8 years ago that was the type of wedding I did. My in-laws initially objected to it that they haven't seen such before but I told them it can start from me. Many people love it that way then. Proudly JW though.

Froshloaded:
Don't invite me to your party if its gonna be like this
BTW
This wife get nose oo

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yea, to perceive her husband concubines

KingSatan:


Tell that to the average Nigerian who is lost to religious dogmas and societal pressure.

Then let them do this type no frills church wedding on morning of traditional wedding which would double as the reception, which can be done according to pocket even if it means take away packs.

frankmoney:
and how did you arrive at this conclusion

dey definitely get married for the right reasons

frankmoney:
and how did you arrive at this conclusion

international research and statistics

midnighter:


I dont understand; is it wedding youre talking about or marriage?

Their weddings may be simple, but their marriages clearly arent otherwise we wouldnt be seeing all that we are seeing.

Sorry for the misconceptions.

They call theirs Nikah.

It's the traditional marriage ceremony.

The kind of my wedding...no stress

Yellowcandle30:
no! Don't be misled. Reception is meant for people who can afford it.
There is no shame in that

Did you see Mark Zuckerberg wedding reception NO! can he afford a $billion wedding YES!

My point is, not everybody that can afford wedding reception likes it. Me I hated wedding reception even as a kid.

GenBuhari:
Then let them do this type no frills church wedding on morning of traditional wedding which would double as the reception, which can be done according to pocket even if it means take away packs.

Exactly!

But they won't listen.

We haven't talked about those who see wedding ceremonies as a competition.

Or those who borrow for their weddings just to show off believing that they will recoup from gifts and donations?

Having consummated the marriage without stress.... Is the OP still talking about the wedding event or something else?

Yellowcandle30:
no! Don't be misled. Reception is meant for people who can afford it.
There is no shame in that

will u keep kwayet there, looking at the pics do they look like a couple who can't afford to hold a reception no matter how small? Na ur type no dey go d church wedding but attend d reception with polythene bags in order to carry food back home.

KingSatan:


Sorry for the misconceptions.

They call theirs Nikah.

It's the traditional marriage ceremony.

Okay, I understand you now

I like their style too but I dont see anything wrong with our big celebrations either. As long as the 2 people who are marrying understand each other and have good priorities

Romanoff:
I'm wedding this June and there's no reception, no asoebi, no bridal train.

I don't love that many people to spend millions to feed them.

congrats ahead!! :

yanabasee:



If she's Yoruba, forget it.....

Lol. I be Yoruba o

Joystark:
Na so e suppose be.

Yeah, easy and stress free. At a time I aid I'll only do traditional marriage, but as I see this one so. I think it a welcome step!

I want this too, just wish me pretty N loving wife to be wherever she is will understand someday sha!
Lol

Yellowcandle30:
no! Don't be misled. Reception is meant for people who can afford it.
There is no shame in that

To me honest u look lyk a prostitute. Or better still an old slay queen. From ur bleached face I can say u still de look for customer

I was at the wedding and it was wonderful.

Way to go
Who accumulated debt wedding epp?

The worst is asoebi abi wedding train.

Told my friend to always count me off such frivolous waste.
Left to me, I will do morning mass wedding and go and rest biko.

Ikjosh04:



Hmmmmm, I noticed your account is a new one. Hope you are not warming up to create a thread with a title:Hello nairaland, I just joined nairaland and I need your advice.My
hubby to be earns 1.2 million per month and he is insisting we don't have a reception after our church wedding, he claims he wants all our children birth abroad and he is currently saving towards that cause our first child is currently on his way.


I mean no harm, welcome to nairaland dear. Nice profile picture

baddest guy. You just spot her immediately! Nairaland should mod should start sporsoring wedding for people oh, may babes here are single oh

Nice and easy!

solmus:


international research and statistics

there is no statistics here just a write up curled up from a fun fact page ... Show me percentages from a reputable site

vickydevoka:

To me honest u look lyk a prostitute. Or better still an old slay queen. From ur bleached face I can say u still de look for customer

Please slow down

Tall girl

Not all this short plump dwarfs littering my area.

Short people should stop dating each other.

The average height in Nigeria is declining.

Naxo Davido go marry Chioma. And we already know Ifeanyi won't grow past 4.5 feet

cRobo:
Best wedding

Reception is meant for kids

ole , thief if they invite u to Reception na ur voice go dey go high that u never see food on ur table since and u come from far place ooo

frankmoney:
there is no statistics here just a write up curled up from a fun fact page ... Show me percentages from a reputable site

if you visit the site i showed in the screenshot you can read more on who made the research and statistics below the post.. its wtf fun facts

GOVERNMENTBOY20:
If only it were that easy.

It's all about understanding of spouse and their supportive family

Gonna say it the 10th time,not spending more than 200k on my wedding.

KingSatan:



If she is from the South South, South West and South East and her only proof of education is a university degree, please forget it.


The way those regions are going about marriage and marital rites, I fear for the future.


Just as Imo State, most especially Owerri ladies are living with a stereotype now.

You see their ladies, old and unmarried. Better still, they switch to cohabition. All because of cultural modifications.

Parents see their female children as goods to be sold to the highest bidder.

Ever wonder why parents in those regions give their children out to ritualists (Don wanny the militant), kidnappers (Evans the kidnapper), armed robbers (EMONEY the armed robber) without hesitation?

You cannot find that in the North.

PS I am not a Northerner but living with them for over a decade, I see that they have utmost respect for their marital institution.

Aboki can marry without having so much money. As long as he has a verifiable means of income.

On the day of Nikah, the bride's parents will settle her according to their financial strength. The Nikah is all about the young lady. Infact most of the expenses are footed by her parents. They celebrate her for finding a man and settle her to go build her family.

The most annoying thing is couples living separately and still making reference to their union as "fiancee's" despite being married traditionally.

This is very bad and condemnable

I really don't understand the correlation between this 'beautiful nonsense' you wrote and the thread. I've been starring at my phone for the last 15 minutes, trying to piece things together but....naah I just couldn't.