God gifted married people with the most enjoyable act — the act of sexual intimacy. The importance of sex has been debased and ignominiously represented by the world to the extent that believers have joined the trend.

Sadly, many Church leaders reject the idea of teaching accurately on sex. This has led to incestuous, unimaginable and sacrilegious practice of the act called sex.

Hence, it is incumbent upon me to disseminate accurate biblical teaching to believers, especially every young people who want to live to please the Lord.
I hereby present to you, five basic things every believers must know about sex.

FIVE THINGS BELIEVERS MUST KNOW ABOUT SEX
(1) Sex Is Ordained To Be Within The Ambit Of Marriage
Genesis 2:25

And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.

According to Scriptures, the opposite sex can get naked with his or her partner, without any iota of shame. This is biblical! Sexual intercourse that is not done within the ambit of marriage is sin.

Adam and Eve were the first couple in the Bible as they have been joined together by God. So, they were unashamed of their unclothedness. Sex is for couples not for unmarried people.

Paul, the Apostle said those who could not keep themselves should get married. He said, to avoid fornication, let every man have his own wife. And every woman should have her own husband. This is quite instructive!

Today, young people have sex with people they are not married to. While some men go as far as paying prostitute to have sex with them. This violates the original intention of God for sex. For believers, no marriage, no sex.

2) It Is Possible To Live Without Sex

7 For I would that all men were even as I myself. But every man hath his proper gift of God, one after this manner, and another after that.

8 I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, it is good for them if they ABIDE EVEN AS I.

1 Corinthians 7:7-8

Paul said he had the gift to keep himself and even wished that some unmarried people could be like him. But he said it’s a function of gift. My point here is that stop assuming that every man cannot stay without sex.

There are several men in the Bible that sexual activity could not be traced to them. They are men like John the Baptist, Jesus, Jeremiah, Paul and so on. These men lived without sex. There are still more other people today who can do without sex.

However, I’d implore you to get married if you can’t stay without sex because that is God’s provision.

(3) Pornography Is Sex

Pornography pollutes the mind and destroys the eye. It promises satisfaction, yet, it cannot satisfy anyone’s sexual urge. What many Christians fail to realize is that, pornography is also seen as sex before God.

Matthew 5:28

But I tell you that anyone who LOOKS at a WOMAN LUSTFULLY has already committed ADULTERY with her in his heart

There is adultery of the heart and this is done by people who look lustfully at the opposite sex. Pornography provides viewers with the opportunity of looking at people lustfully.

Because people watch live sex and they are left to gaze and stare at naked bodies. In Jesus words, that one is called ADULTERY OF THE HEART. Beware!

(4) Married People Should Have Sex Often

Every married man and woman have been given the prerogatives to have good sex together. However, God’s Word is against lesbianism and same sex marriage (Romans 1:26 – 27). Paul wrote to the Church at Corinth in 1 Corinthians 7:5 saying;

1 Corinthians 7:5

Defraud ye not one the other, except it be with consent for a time, that ye may give yourselves to fasting and prayer; and come together again, that Satan tempt you not for your incontinency.

Couple can abstain from sex in order to fast but they’re not to take too long to come together. Married women who deny their spouse of sex unnecessarily are doing their spouse a great deal of harm.

When you are married, stop giving excuses. Enjoy yourself and stop denying your spouse of the sex he or she deserves. Make your reasons known to your spouse if you are not going to have sex for the time being.

5) Sex Before Marriage Is Sin

1 Thessalonians 4:3 (KJV)

3 For this is the will of God, even your sanctification, that ye should ABSTAIN FROM FORNICATION:

The fact that the world sees sexual purity as lack of exposure does not invalidate God’s stance on it. They may call this old-fashioned but if it is God’s way. And I am ready to follow that way. What about you?

Be reminded that sex before marriage is still a sin. And sexual pleasure outside marriage brings heartache and endless sorrow. You can’t be wiser than God who detests such practice.

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Let me know your thought after reading this piece.

Thank you so much for reading.

Source: http://www.tundekorede.com/five-things-every-believer-must-know-about-sex/

Ask yourself if this is word of God?

Song of Solomon 8:10 "Dear brothers, I'm a walled-in virgin still, but my breasts are full— And when my lover sees me, he knows he'll soon be satisfied." 

May your breasts be like the clusters of the vine, the fragrance of your breath like apples, and your mouth like the best wine.  (The NIV Bible, Song of Songs 7:1-4, 8-9)" 

Then David sent messengers to get her. She came to him, and he slept with her. Then she went back home(2 Samuel 11:2-4 )

The sons of God saw that the daughters of humans were beautiful, and they married any of them they chose.(genesis 6vs 2)lool..so did they give birth to God or Human?

(6) Sex is sweet
(7) Don’t try to impress a lady by taking sex enhancing drugs, if you die, you die alone she is going to move to the next available D.

Number 3 and 5 loud gan...that's if some people will heed to it...The internet tends to pull a string on that Number 3.

Sin commited by Nigeria for sex before married


From 1950 to 1980...... 40% of Nigerian
From 1981 to 2000.......65% of Nigerian
From 2001 to 2010.......85% of Nigerian
From 2011 to 2020.......96% of Nigerian

Forecasts shows that by 2030... it will not be term as sin any more.

Christians are perverts too! They just hide themselves in Christianity.

As for the Christians whose aim is to tell lies on Islam let their Bible curse them.

May the curse of telling lies from your Bible be on you

Proverbs 19:5
A false witness will not go unpunished, and he who breathes out lies will not escape. (You will be punished and won't escape)

John 8:44
You are of your father the devil, and your will is to do your father's desires. He was a murderer from the beginning, and has nothing to do with the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks out of his own character, for he is a liar and the father of lies.

Revelation 21:8
But as for the cowardly, the faithless, the detestable, as for murderers, the sexually immoral, sorcerers, idolaters, and all liars, their portion will be in the lake that burns with fire and sulfur, which is the second death.”

Proverbs 19:9
A false witness will not go unpunished, and he who breathes out lies will perish. (You will perish with your likes)

Exodus 20:16
“You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor.

Colossians 3:9
Do not lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old self with its practices

Proverbs 12:22
Lying lips are an abomination to the Lord, but those who act faithfully are his delight. (You all become an abomination for your lies)

Just say Aamin if you're truthful!

Sex is good
Sex relieves stress
Sex makes u younger
Sex makes your brain function better
Sex is for reproduction


Thats it mate

Pornography ain't active participating.....its just stimulating the brain and very educative

The truth is bitter but people will always want to do things their way.
Sex before or outside marriage is a sin... take it or leave it.

Sex is overated, it just a tool women use .

Youths no wan here this one oo
God help us to abide by his words

Lol

nairalanduseles:
Sex is good
Sex relieves stress
Sex makes u younger
Sex makes your brain function better
Sex is for reproduction


Thats it mate

Ma man

PUSSYHOE:
Sex is overated, it just a tool women use .

You need to have sex, I mean good, mind blowing SEX

Very Interesting

As I Keep Earning

God Should Help Me Keeping Clean.... Ain't easy to maintain purity these days

God gave us all this raging hormones and expect us not to do anything. Not fair.

God bless you bro for this beautiful topic

God's word will not upgrade to suit your generation, His word is the same yesterday, the same today and the same forever. If God can deliver me from Pornography, you are not beyond redemption.

He loves and cares about you.

nairalanduseles:
Sex is good
Sex relieves stress
Sex makes u younger
Sex makes your brain function better
Sex is for reproduction


Thats it mate

Pornography ain't active participating.....its just stimulating the brain and very educative

Big W

Thank you, Jesus.


forgive me, father. cos I have sinned a lot. been fvcking since my mid teen-age.

still sinning though. but, I know you are a forgiver.



I praise your Holy Name, baba.

Gbam

Please I want to know if deeper life married do have sex, and who initiate it first?

Lastly, do they moan, any style, pre-intimacy?

Thank you....

Spot on

Blessed forevermore be unto your holy name Almighty God!

AntiChristian:
Christians are perverts too! They just hide themselves in Christianity.

As for the Christians whose aim is to tell lies on Islam let their Bible curse them.

May the curse of telling lies from your Bible be on you

Proverbs 19:5
A false witness will not go unpunished, and he who breathes out lies will not escape. (You will be punished and won't escape)

John 8:44
You are of your father the devil, and your will is to do your father's desires. He was a murderer from the beginning, and has nothing to do with the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks out of his own character, for he is a liar and the father of lies.

Revelation 21:8
But as for the cowardly, the faithless, the detestable, as for murderers, the sexually immoral, sorcerers, idolaters, and all liars, their portion will be in the lake that burns with fire and sulfur, which is the second death.”

Proverbs 19:9
A false witness will not go unpunished, and he who breathes out lies will perish. (You will perish with your likes)

Exodus 20:16
“You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor.

Colossians 3:9
Do not lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old self with its practices

Proverbs 12:22
Lying lips are an abomination to the Lord, but those who act faithfully are his delight. (You all become an abomination for your lies)

Just say Aamin if you're truthful!

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Stop spamming every thread, u notorious head head slammer ..

AntiChristian:
Christians are perverts too! They just hide themselves in Christianity.

As for the Christians whose aim is to tell lies on Islam let their Bible curse them.

May the curse of telling lies from your Bible be on you

Proverbs 19:5
A false witness will not go unpunished, and he who breathes out lies will not escape. (You will be punished and won't escape)

John 8:44
You are of your father the devil, and your will is to do your father's desires. He was a murderer from the beginning, and has nothing to do with the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he lies, he speaks out of his own character, for he is a liar and the father of lies.

Revelation 21:8
But as for the cowardly, the faithless, the detestable, as for murderers, the sexually immoral, sorcerers, idolaters, and all liars, their portion will be in the lake that burns with fire and sulfur, which is the second death.”

Proverbs 19:9
A false witness will not go unpunished, and he who breathes out lies will perish. (You will perish with your likes)

Exodus 20:16
“You shall not bear false witness against your neighbor.

Colossians 3:9
Do not lie to one another, seeing that you have put off the old self with its practices

Proverbs 12:22
Lying lips are an abomination to the Lord, but those who act faithfully are his delight. (You all become an abomination for your lies)

Just say Aamin if you're truthful!

Waitooo... what are you trying to insinuate.....
Muslims are hypocrites just as their Christian counterparts......stop reading the Bible just to justify ur wrongs....

.... religion of peace... indeed.....
Shift from here

Many of u would agree that this is a problem with nairaland....the Christian section is left naked...while those terrorist Muslims section is protected... And later seun would claim to be fair religiously....
Seun u must rearrange this..
It's not fair to Christianity

Some youths will not find this thread interesting

Stop the hypocrisy. Bleep if you wanna fuk. Some choir mistresses sucked dick last night and are leading praise now. Crap

Mikelarteta:
(6) Sex is sweet
(7) Don’t try to impress a lady by taking sex enhancing drugs, if you die, you die alone she is going to move to the next available D.

if you love her you will try to impress her

Have been trying to get in touch with someone on this platform (Explorers,the guy that sells project topics)I have a huge business for you

Is he not seeing my comments or what??
That's how some people will miss out when you try to reach them

Paul na the real MVP. Single man we Sabi say body no be firewood.

You posted your business without putting your number


So annoying

Onebabe:
if you love her you will try to impress her

I want to impress you, not sexually though