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Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by Nobody: 5:54pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
Michellekabod2: If you must know, a man & a woman are programmed differently, just as our prerogatives are different. A normal man cannt just feel like washing a woman undies, its either enchantment made with efor & snail working or the man is just a weakling himself. so logically both conditions creat an enabling environment 4 enslavement. A woman washing her husband underwear is not enslavement cos its her prerogative ... no one will see her do it n flinch. 1 Like |
Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by freecocoahubby(m): 5:56pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
Brazenbabe: You're just too dumb for my liking.. Where in my comments have I ever said you were single? Gtfoh! 7 Likes |
Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by osazsky(m): 6:17pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
For u to change his mentality make sure u always wash ur clothes including that of ur wife at times and see if he wont have a change of perception the best way to teach a child is practically displaying it hope this helps 1 Like |
Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by goldmatrix(m): 6:33pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
Do you have girls too including Househelp? He might be picking it from them. Girls do mature faster than boys.. 1 Like |
Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by JONNYSPUTE(m): 6:37pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
goldmatrix:.. We have a nanny |
Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by Nobody: 7:22pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE: Like they say, "Monkey See, Monkey do." Your son must have learned that from someone close to home. If he did not learn that from you, then check with your wife or other close relatives. Things like that don't just happen. We have to remember that kids have very impressionable minds and they soak information and actions like a sponge and that's why it's necessary that as adults we watch what we say or do in front of our kids or other kids for that matter. I suggest you have a talk with him and find out how and who told him that only girls do laundry and then go from there. Don't let this opportunity slip by, use it as a teaching moment. Good luck! |
Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by Ehibiggirl(f): 7:24pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
youwanbanme:you are supposed to be aslave trader you must be part of those Libyans buying and selling women trafficking them. 2 Likes |
Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by frozen70(f): 7:30pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
Ehibiggirl: Thanks dear |
Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by Gallant12: 7:44pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE: This t 30/01/2020 This thread is for teachers and school proprietors - 1. Stop making boys class reps and girls assistants by default. Girls should be given the opportunity to also be class prefects while boys assist. Girls should not always assist if they can actually lead better. 2. Revise your social studies textbooks and stop teaching your students that fathers provide money and mothers cook, clean and wash. The conversation should be open to the fact that roles in marriage differs, and they must not be based on gender. 3. Don’t ever limit your student’s ambition using orthodox gender narratives. It’s okay if a boy wants to be a chef or model. It’s okay if a girl wants to be a mechanical engineer. Don’t sell a gender bias that’ll influence their choice of career. 4. Don’t stop girls from playing soccer if that’s what they want, and don’t ridicule boys who can’t play soccer. Girls are not meant for indoor games. Let them choose the sport they want want to engage in no matter how it defies traditional gender roles. 5. Don’t shame boys for ‘letting’ a girl do well and top the class. Things like this should never be said: “you’re not ashamed that a girl came out best in the test”. You’re belittling the girls, and socializing the boys never to accommodate a woman’s excellence. 6. Don’t make ridiculous comments like: “you talk too much like a girl...” “you walk like a girl”. You are imprinting gender stereotypes on their minds, and influencing them to feel that a girl is the yardstick of everything they should never be. Don’t tell your male students to not cry and to man up when they are teary eyed. You are enabling toxic masculinity. It’s okay for boys to cry. Boys are humans, boys have emotions, and boys should be free to express vulnerability. It is important to socialize boys and girls without unhealthy gender biases in schools. Schools contribute to the gender disparity in the society. Schools should review their social studies textbooks, and make sure that their teachers are enlightened above orthodox gender biases. 10 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by Nobody: 7:44pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
no cos 4 worries... u raising a real nigga.... lov is the inhibition of power... let him grow with that domineering man strenghth and learn through exposure that love is the negation of such power. sensitivity is overated.. chiamanda thinks "we all should be feminist". and i disagree with everthing i gat |
Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by Jepee(f): 7:56pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
When I was growing up, our last born(boy) always tell my mum that boys don't wash plates but my mum will tell him that since boys don't wash, they will not eat food or eat on dirty plates. Call him to always wash with you anytime you are doing that, even the plates. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by femi4: 8:15pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE:I m more concern about you referring to her as "your wife" and not "His Mummy" |
Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by Nobody: 8:26pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE:Best reply ever. God bless you sir. 1 Like |
Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by travelland(f): 8:31pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
bobowaja: It's not your fault. Pray that you marry a mumu 2 Likes |
Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by travelland(f): 8:34pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
Train your boy, it is not rocket science |
Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by teepain: 8:34pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE: Until now, why has your son never seen you doing laundry with respect to the part of your post in emphasis? |
Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:40pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
teepain:. My job doesn't allow me to stay with them most times. I'm into Road construction and as a contactor,im always in different states either doing a project or seeking for one. Secondly I think he said so because he heard it from somewhere. Whenever I'm around,I do my laundries especially the undies while I take the main clothes to the drycleaners. |
Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:41pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
femi4:. She is my wife first before becoming his mummy. 4 Likes |
Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by femi4: 8:43pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE:No wonder your parenting skill is questionable |
Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by JONNYSPUTE(m): 8:44pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
femi4:.. Ok |
Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by chewwie(m): 8:55pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE:You're raising a real man |
Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by teepain: 9:02pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE: Thanks for the clarification. Just keep doing your laundries in his presence and get him to do his too while you are busy doing your's. And tell him it is a cool thing to do. |
Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by JONNYSPUTE(m): 9:04pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
teepain:. Thanks bro. |
Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by Theboss100(m): 9:19pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
RisenPhoenix:I just checked oxford dictionary, i couldn't find the word pussified. Bro behave. Bk to topic. Are u saying women dnt help financially? Is that their duty? So pls leave feminism out of it. Its just a balanced equation. Help ur wife while u can. Tnx 4 Likes |
Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by SURElee(f): 9:23pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
You are worried? What is worrisome there? He is four years old, he must have picked that up from conversations of adults around him. It is now your duty as father and mother to ensure kids grow up at home with nothing like gender restricted roles. Let the boys do chores and also the ladies. No such thing as kitchen solely for girls. Get every child domesticated as early as possible to avoid issues thereby raising well rounded kids. 1 Like |
Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by Sexycardib: 11:33pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by delpee(f): 11:34pm On Feb 11, 2020 |
PrimadonnaO: @Op The earlier, the better too. He can wash a few of his personal items at 4 years. You build on it as he grows older. There’s no need to worry. What he gets used to doing from a tender age becomes routine for him. He’ll see it as normal even when others say otherwise. Teach your child the way he should go. He will not depart from it. 1 Like |
Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by Lifecanbeamazin: 3:48am On Feb 12, 2020 |
JONNYSPUTE: Start now. You and your wife are his best teachers. |
Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by goldensoul55: 4:46am On Feb 12, 2020 |
The mind of a child is an empty slate(tabular rasa ),whatever u write on it is what he will become . The question is , who wrote that in his mind ? |
Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by 9jaRealist: 6:47am On Feb 12, 2020 |
Shibaraba: You mean a toxic male? Anyway, stop blaming movies/cartoons, kids learn primarily from the HOME (if not the parents, someone else). Of course, while the chattering classes may debate these matters... Reality is most of Nigeria's various indigenous cultures are inherently SEXIST! That's where changes are needed. > 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by Ajibade123(m): 7:39am On Feb 12, 2020 |
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Re: My 4-Year-Old Son Saw Me Washing My Underwear And Said It's Girl's That Wash by JONNYSPUTE(m): 7:44am On Feb 12, 2020 |
Ajibade123:. Thanks alot. I ve already started making amends. |
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