I kinda doubt if it’s possible to exist just by oneself or sometimes wonder how it will feel if we live isolated lives. Intimate Relationships are vital for humans; the need to give love and to receive love irrespective of your personality. Quite frankly, it’s important to have goals in a relationship so we don’t get stuck in a rot or end up in a negative or an abusive relationship. Real relationship goals act as a benchmark for us to know if our relationship is headed in the right direction. Here are five goals in a relationship that could be a blueprint before getting hooked.

1. Finance
Not all might agree, but being OK financially is a major goal in relationship. Being dependent on a partner for finance brings about too many problems, with a lack of respect, and lordship being in the forefront. What chances does a disrespectful relationship actually have? It doesn’t matter so much your financial state while going into a relationship, but it should be a goal to put your finance intact as the relationship grows. A relationship where both partners are responsible financially is a joy to behold. There’ll be lots of dates, gifts, and vacations together. There’s no denying that money makes love easier a lot easier, and it doesn’t have to be limited to one partner. Both partners being responsible takes the relationship to unprecedented heights with no feeling of a lack of respect. Adequate finance makes date nights a goal, it makes weekend vacations a goal and it builds love.

2. Effective Communication
Almost everyone claims to know the role of communication in a relationship and the steps to achieving it, but if that were true, most relationships won’t be ending in breakups. Communication goes beyond words. At times, not speaking could be a better communication strategy than actually speaking. To effectively communicate, partners need to take out time to understand one another, and that’s exactly why it’s listed as a goal in a relationship.

Most women, for example, do trouble talk in a bid to get their partner’s attention. Now, if a male partner doesn’t understand his woman, he could see that as an act of insensitivity and that could lead to a serious fight. But if he understands that the trouble talking is a ploy to get his attention so he could address an issue, he’s better prepared to handle it.
Also, when women are hurting and need a solution, they often times don’t appreciate when their partner comes and drops the solution right in front of them. For most males, that would do just fine, help with the solution and I’m good to go. But females need more than the solution. They want to be pampered, listened to and cared for before you provide them with the solution.

Most men love to share their dreams with their partners, both the realistic and unrealistic ones, and I think they’ll get highly offended if their partner tells them off. Thriving to boost effective communication as a goal in a relationship is a must in order to have a happy relationship experience.

3. Maturity
Contrary to popular opinion, maturity has nothing to do with age. A mature looking guy could have the brains of a toddler. Maturity in a relationship is one of the most important goals in a relationship. In a relationship that has attained the goal of maturity, partners treat one another as equals. Any partner could voice his/her opinion if he/she finds something offensive without the fear of inferiority. A mature partner mainly for males is able to take corrections from his lady and work towards improving it without feeling offended. A mature partner is able to argue constructively without tearing down walls and hurting the other partner in the process. A mature partner gets angry and doesn’t allow rage to get the better of him/her. Maturity is about being sensitive to the feelings of your partner. Relationships were partners lack maturity are often sad and unhealthy.

4. Endless Dates
One of the main goals in a relationship is to always find one another as exciting as the day you first met irrespective of the time you’ve both spent together.

Having planned traditional dates isn’t only a goal, but it cements the relationship further.
any of the endless dates.

5. Togetherness
My mother is 66 and her favourite line to hit me up …

“who the f*** wants to be 70 and alone?”
Having a lifetime and sharing it with someone special is a dream almost everyone shares and making it a reality is definitely the highest reach of the goal in a relationship.

Ladies generally love to unwide by talking to someone they trust. So as a partner, it’s important you earn her trust and listen to all she has to say, whenever she wants to say it. Treat one another as a priority and always spend quality time together.

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