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Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by krissconnect(m): 4:49pm On Feb 14, 2020
jamesfadairo:
CC: Krissconnect
Are you not mad? Answer honestly
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by obontami: 4:50pm On Feb 14, 2020
Pass her friend to me. Make use better prick reset her bisexual brain. What nonsense! angry
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by Nobody: 4:50pm On Feb 14, 2020
Ur Wife invited her mistress into ur Home and u had ur own Desires with Her?!...Oga,It's really Simple,invite a friend and u all should just have a full blown group Orgie... Cheating is any action that would hurt your partner and betray their trust....The boundaries of what those actions might be change from one couple to the next based on what's acceptable to them....In this case u are the only one being mischievous coz any goes to ur Wife...My advise is Why Sleep with the Lady if u truly wanted Help like responsible Man,u saw the signs abi u Sef no get Sense?!Our people say "person wey masquerade dey chase suppose to run"...Carry ur Cross ohh.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by greatbuc(m): 4:51pm On Feb 14, 2020
daddytime:
Hmmm


You are quiet about the "do" as if you are sure she hasn't told your wife how it all played out.

They'd both be laughing at your hypocrisy and lame attempt at being a faithful husband.

You are obviously the third force in this same-sex relationship or swinging friends.

If I were you, na to marry her join my wife sef make everybody happy.
you are a confirmed mad man loool jokes
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by UKusedBoyfriend(m): 4:51pm On Feb 14, 2020
Your wife is a relapsing lesbian embarassed
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by Okikaneseokwu: 4:52pm On Feb 14, 2020
iLegendd:
You're complaining too much. I guess you're a pastor-to-be. Also, you act like a weak man because of the statement, "But I don’t want any issue with her so I accepted it."

Real men want issues while their wives pray for no issues. A relationship where the man does not want issues hardly last. It's more like saying, "I'm afraid of my wife because she is the boss."

I have told men countless times to learn 3 skills, else their marriages or relationships will NEVER last and those skills are

1. How to handle women skill
2. How to make money skill
3. How to manage money skill

You probably have skill 2 and 3, but lack skill 1. They are playing a game and I know the game. Go learn about women and psychology.

When your wife's best friend gets married, your wife will 100% sleep with her friend's husband whether you like it or not. The swinging has already started. They may not even be bisexual or lesbians, but swingers. Though, they exhibited the "bi" attributes.

Modified:

Extra info: I didn't want to say this because it will make you depressed, but I'll reveal it. Your wife is 100% currently sleeping with another man.

That person is probably her ex and he is so great in bed, but as a bad boy, that young man refused to commit, so she dumped him and got married to you before she hits menopause.

She has been cheating with him, but she felt she has betrayed you, so she used her friend to set you up to equalize the cheat.

Now, she no longer feels remorseful. She is so happy the equation is equal. She can now sleep with that young man or those young men day and night without feeling like a LovePeddler or a cheat.

Afterall, she'll say to herself, "I have been with these men and slept with them countless times before I met you. Moreover, you too slept with my friend, so no biggie."

Your wife gained 3 things

1. She is no longer feeling remorseful
2. She is still having the best sex of her life behind your back as she has been having before meeting you
3. If you catch her and accuse her, she will tell you the story of how you first cheated on her with her best friend and paint you as an unfaithful husband

Note: Her best friend has already told her even though they are both acting as if they didn't know what happened. It's all staged. Best friends reveal things to each other they can't even reveal to their parents or spouses.

Women love different sweet dicks and your woman now has the privilege to get as many as she wants without remorse. Why? You did it too and she knows you'll still do it again and again.



Flesh and blood couldn't have reviewed this to u

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Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by Gee64: 4:53pm On Feb 14, 2020
If this is not a fiction, please enjoy the fun while it lasts. Or better still, marry her as wife number and enjoy party candy!

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Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by ChristineC: 4:53pm On Feb 14, 2020
this one is strong.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by maasoap(m): 4:54pm On Feb 14, 2020
DenreleDave:


Op is lucky jare.. Sweet free sex

Even a female moniker approves of this? Interesting time we are!
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by madridsta007(m): 4:55pm On Feb 14, 2020
Overlordship:
Hello all, I got married to my wife 9 months ago and it has been a wonderful experience all through until her friend showed up two months ago. That was actually the first time I was meeting her as she wasn’t around for our wedding as she was doing her masters programme in South Africa. I knew she and my wife were closed as she was always talking about her best friend while we were courting.

She showed up at our house and I thought she came to visit and catch up with old times with my wife so I gladly welcome her. Later in the night, my wife told me she will be staying with us for sometimes while she gets a job. I was upset because we never discussed it before and I made my feeling known. Nevertheless, I had to give in since she said the friend also accommodated her in her room back at school for a session. So, I accepted her living with us and I felt it was only for a short time. We gave her the visitor’s room.

The first trouble started when I noticed her night gown barely covered her bum and sometimes were transparent with her boobs showing whenever she comes to the sitting room. I expressed my reservations about it to my wife and she dismissed it playfully that it was nothing and that what were my eyes wandering there for, so I let it go. Sometimes, she will enter her bedroom without knocking saying she wants to gist with her friend. And I will just stay on my side of the bed playing with my phone while the both talked. I noticed my wife doesn’t care, but I don’t want any issue with her so I accepted it with the hope her friend will soon leave the house.

I must admit that the friend was a bit useful in the house. My wife closes late than I, and her friend stays home when she’s not job hunting, so sometimes she would have cooked before we arrived. Though, I complained about this also, but wifey believe it was trivial. Her friend was intelligent and as times goes on, we talked on a wide range of topic while waiting for wife to come back from home so I stopped complaining about her to my wife.

It became so normal about her dressing that I accepted it like that. There was a day she came to our room to gist with my wife and playfully, my wife hit me with a pillow and before you know it, the three of us were throwing pillows about and playing like kids. They were both jumping on me and incidentally, I had a hard on as we were playin. I noticed her friend was slightly brushing her hand on me. I had to quickly stop and stylishly use the pillow to cover myself until I came down. I was really uncomfortable with the whole situation, but I didn’t complain to my wife again since I know what she will say. What I just keep asking my wife is when her friend was leaving.

The incident that happened two weeks really changed things. My wife took one week leave and decided to visit her parents outside the state we reside. I wasn’t okay with it leaving her friend alone with me, but she said I will just do fine. I tried to come home late for the first three days so I can completely avoid her, until the fourth day when she came into my room. I didn’t want to be rude by asking her to leave, so I asked her to sit down on the sofa in the bedroom. We first spoke about football, politics and other things. I can’t really say what happened, but in a lapse of judgement, we started kissing and then I had sex with her. I felt regret immediately and started apologizing to her for taking advantage of her. What she said really dazzled me. She said I shouldn’t be sorry as my wife never keep talking of our big I am and how sex was so great. And how she wishes her friend can experience what she was talking about.

My regrets turned to anger immediately and I asked her if she and my wife planned this whole episode just to confirm what my wife was boasting about. She denied being in cohort with my wife, but said something that devastated me. She said my wife wouldn’t mind as they sometimes share things together as they are besties for life right from their school days. I had to quickly exit the room to the balcony. We barely talked again until wife came back, though she tried to initiate some conversation, which I rebuffed. My wife further heightened my apprehension when wife asked if her friend really took care of me and that I couldn’t have missed her much since her friend was around. The dilemma now is that I can’t confront my wife about the incident as I will be admitting I slept with her friend. Her friend is also acting normal and I am afraid if she will inform her “bestie for life”. I have been thinking, what if they had been “Sex partners” before and I married a bisexual cos of the way they do play together. I had just been asking her when her friend was leaving and I don’t want to be forceful because of what happened between us.

Note, my wife has been a good wife. All my family member love her like she’s part of them and she is so comfortable with them. We never had any issues except this. I need advice on how to go on so I don’t destroy my marriage.

Sorry, Sir. There are some fairly easy conclusions to make here.
1. One, your wife is probably a bisexual. That’s why that “bestie” was brought in. If she went to an all girls’ school with that “bestie” then that’s her lesbian mate. Bisexuals are very jealous people and unless the cord with their partner is broken, they will always reach out to her.

2. Your wife probably knows you guys had sex. Girls talk. If they are close besties, they’ve talked. They are only waiting for one day to use it against you.

3. They are probably waiting for a time to have a party with you.

4. Sorry sir; but your marriage is on the ropes. You didn’t mention “God” or any spiritual connotation in all of your epistle. This means you are far from God. Not sure where any help can come.

5. What you can do is to try and make sure that “Bestie” leaves.

6. In all honesty, it is hard to advice you. You’ve had adultery with her friend. You don’t have a moral leverage.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by bet9ja(m): 4:55pm On Feb 14, 2020
The fact that your wife only told you about her friend staying while she was already in your house really speaks volume of the kind of Man that you are. You should enjoy what comes after that. NO WIFE DOES THAT TO A RESPECTED HUSBAND.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by Vyolet(f): 4:56pm On Feb 14, 2020
I don't understand how some men find it hard to resist a woman's body like you saw all the signs that the woman wants you to Bleep her yet you could not stand your ground and tell her off. You are nothing but a cheat, even if she stripped herself naked right in your front, couldn't you have moved away from there?
Busuru.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by shogsman(m): 4:56pm On Feb 14, 2020
otipoju:
There is one case i am witnessing now oo.
I just feel sorry for the guy if he marries the girl.

If he marries his wife?, you obviously didn't read the content.
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by shogsman(m): 4:58pm On Feb 14, 2020
Nigerians take things like this too seriously, I don't see anything wrong with this as long as your wife don't mind, judging by the look of things you certainly don't mind too.
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by MrBONE2(m): 4:58pm On Feb 14, 2020
Overlordship:
Hello all, I got married to my wife 9 months ago and it has been a wonderful experience all through until her friend showed up two months ago. That was actually the first time I was meeting her as she wasn’t around for our wedding as she was doing her masters programme in South Africa. I knew she and my wife were closed as she was always talking about her best friend while we were courting.

She showed up at our house and I thought she came to visit and catch up with old times with my wife so I gladly welcome her. Later in the night, my wife told me she will be staying with us for sometimes while she gets a job. I was upset because we never discussed it before and I made my feeling known. Nevertheless, I had to give in since she said the friend also accommodated her in her room back at school for a session. So, I accepted her living with us and I felt it was only for a short time. We gave her the visitor’s room.

The first trouble started when I noticed her night gown barely covered her bum and sometimes were transparent with her boobs showing whenever she comes to the sitting room. I expressed my reservations about it to my wife and she dismissed it playfully that it was nothing and that what were my eyes wandering there for, so I let it go. Sometimes, she will enter her bedroom without knocking saying she wants to gist with her friend. And I will just stay on my side of the bed playing with my phone while the both talked. I noticed my wife doesn’t care, but I don’t want any issue with her so I accepted it with the hope her friend will soon leave the house.

I must admit that the friend was a bit useful in the house. My wife closes late than I, and her friend stays home when she’s not job hunting, so sometimes she would have cooked before we arrived. Though, I complained about this also, but wifey believe it was trivial. Her friend was intelligent and as times goes on, we talked on a wide range of topic while waiting for wife to come back from home so I stopped complaining about her to my wife.

It became so normal about her dressing that I accepted it like that. There was a day she came to our room to gist with my wife and playfully, my wife hit me with a pillow and before you know it, the three of us were throwing pillows about and playing like kids. They were both jumping on me and incidentally, I had a hard on as we were playin. I noticed her friend was slightly brushing her hand on me. I had to quickly stop and stylishly use the pillow to cover myself until I came down. I was really uncomfortable with the whole situation, but I didn’t complain to my wife again since I know what she will say. What I just keep asking my wife is when her friend was leaving.

The incident that happened two weeks really changed things. My wife took one week leave and decided to visit her parents outside the state we reside. I wasn’t okay with it leaving her friend alone with me, but she said I will just do fine. I tried to come home late for the first three days so I can completely avoid her, until the fourth day when she came into my room. I didn’t want to be rude by asking her to leave, so I asked her to sit down on the sofa in the bedroom. We first spoke about football, politics and other things. I can’t really say what happened, but in a lapse of judgement, we started kissing and then I had sex with her. I felt regret immediately and started apologizing to her for taking advantage of her. What she said really dazzled me. She said I shouldn’t be sorry as my wife never keep talking of our big I am and how sex was so great. And how she wishes her friend can experience what she was talking about.

My regrets turned to anger immediately and I asked her if she and my wife planned this whole episode just to confirm what my wife was boasting about. She denied being in cohort with my wife, but said something that devastated me. She said my wife wouldn’t mind as they sometimes share things together as they are besties for life right from their school days. I had to quickly exit the room to the balcony. We barely talked again until wife came back, though she tried to initiate some conversation, which I rebuffed. My wife further heightened my apprehension when wife asked if her friend really took care of me and that I couldn’t have missed her much since her friend was around. The dilemma now is that I can’t confront my wife about the incident as I will be admitting I slept with her friend. Her friend is also acting normal and I am afraid if she will inform her “bestie for life”. I have been thinking, what if they had been “Sex partners” before and I married a bisexual cos of the way they do play together. I had just been asking her when her friend was leaving and I don’t want to be forceful because of what happened between us.

Note, my wife has been a good wife. All my family member love her like she’s part of them and she is so comfortable with them. We never had any issues except this. I need advice on how to go on so I don’t destroy my marriage.
grin
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by shogsman(m): 4:58pm On Feb 14, 2020
Vyolet:
I don't understand how some men find it hard to resist a woman's body like you saw all the signs that the woman wants you to Bleep her yet you could not stand your ground and tell her off. You are nothing but a cheat, even if she stripped herself naked right in your front, couldn't you have moved away from there?
Busuru.
You can't understand Cos you aiiint a man so stop judging and move on.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by Kentiamhere(m): 4:59pm On Feb 14, 2020
Overlordship:
Hello all, I got married to my wife 9 months ago and it has been a wonderful experience all through until her friend showed up two months ago. That was actually the first time I was meeting her as she wasn’t around for our wedding as she was doing her masters programme in South Africa. I knew she and my wife were closed as she was always talking about her best friend while we were courting.

She showed up at our house and I thought she came to visit and catch up with old times with my wife so I gladly welcome her. Later in the night, my wife told me she will be staying with us for sometimes while she gets a job. I was upset because we never discussed it before and I made my feeling known. Nevertheless, I had to give in since she said the friend also accommodated her in her room back at school for a session. So, I accepted her living with us and I felt it was only for a short time. We gave her the visitor’s room.

The first trouble started when I noticed her night gown barely covered her bum and sometimes were transparent with her boobs showing whenever she comes to the sitting room. I expressed my reservations about it to my wife and she dismissed it playfully that it was nothing and that what were my eyes wandering there for, so I let it go. Sometimes, she will enter her bedroom without knocking saying she wants to gist with her friend. And I will just stay on my side of the bed playing with my phone while the both talked. I noticed my wife doesn’t care, but I don’t want any issue with her so I accepted it with the hope her friend will soon leave the house.

I must admit that the friend was a bit useful in the house. My wife closes late than I, and her friend stays home when she’s not job hunting, so sometimes she would have cooked before we arrived. Though, I complained about this also, but wifey believe it was trivial. Her friend was intelligent and as times goes on, we talked on a wide range of topic while waiting for wife to come back from home so I stopped complaining about her to my wife.

It became so normal about her dressing that I accepted it like that. There was a day she came to our room to gist with my wife and playfully, my wife hit me with a pillow and before you know it, the three of us were throwing pillows about and playing like kids. They were both jumping on me and incidentally, I had a hard on as we were playin. I noticed her friend was slightly brushing her hand on me. I had to quickly stop and stylishly use the pillow to cover myself until I came down. I was really uncomfortable with the whole situation, but I didn’t complain to my wife again since I know what she will say. What I just keep asking my wife is when her friend was leaving.

The incident that happened two weeks really changed things. My wife took one week leave and decided to visit her parents outside the state we reside. I wasn’t okay with it leaving her friend alone with me, but she said I will just do fine. I tried to come home late for the first three days so I can completely avoid her, until the fourth day when she came into my room. I didn’t want to be rude by asking her to leave, so I asked her to sit down on the sofa in the bedroom. We first spoke about football, politics and other things. I can’t really say what happened, but in a lapse of judgement, we started kissing and then I had sex with her. I felt regret immediately and started apologizing to her for taking advantage of her. What she said really dazzled me. She said I shouldn’t be sorry as my wife never keep talking of our big I am and how sex was so great. And how she wishes her friend can experience what she was talking about.

My regrets turned to anger immediately and I asked her if she and my wife planned this whole episode just to confirm what my wife was boasting about. She denied being in cohort with my wife, but said something that devastated me. She said my wife wouldn’t mind as they sometimes share things together as they are besties for life right from their school days. I had to quickly exit the room to the balcony. We barely talked again until wife came back, though she tried to initiate some conversation, which I rebuffed. My wife further heightened my apprehension when wife asked if her friend really took care of me and that I couldn’t have missed her much since her friend was around. The dilemma now is that I can’t confront my wife about the incident as I will be admitting I slept with her friend. Her friend is also acting normal and I am afraid if she will inform her “bestie for life”. I have been thinking, what if they had been “Sex partners” before and I married a bisexual cos of the way they do play together. I had just been asking her when her friend was leaving and I don’t want to be forceful because of what happened between us.

Note, my wife has been a good wife. All my family member love her like she’s part of them and she is so comfortable with them. We never had any issues except this. I need advice on how to go on so I don’t destroy my marriage.
it is so sad that even when you are not comfortable with her being around you could still sleep with her....rather than sleep with her why not just tell her to leave to avoid the drama. If your wife's best is is going to crash your marriage you just gave it to her so you have no excuse ( your wife is not at fault you are cos you gave in lol )
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by Softenergy(m): 5:00pm On Feb 14, 2020
Mykel51:
Good Script !

I would produce it for you. Tony Umez would be the Husband, Genevieve the Wife and Ini Edo the wife's friend.

Movie Title: My Two Wives
Your have stirred the beehives, Desmond Elliott, Zack Orji and Patience Ezokwor want to play roles

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Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by maasoap(m): 5:01pm On Feb 14, 2020
spiralwedge:


The marriage is okay if you see things the way they both do. If all of you are okay with it, no qualms. Outside, keep it discreet, at home -you should all help one another. Cheating is when you do things secretly. When you're all playing together, put her friend on your laps and caress her in your wife's presence... And wait for what happens next.

What a lucky man you are.


Problem dey o! This na marriage now, not make believe
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by saniby: 5:01pm On Feb 14, 2020
Overlordship:
Hello all, I got married to my wife 9 months ago and it has been a wonderful experience all through until her friend showed up two months ago. That was actually the first time I was meeting her as she wasn’t around for our wedding as she was doing her masters programme in South Africa. I knew she and my wife were closed as she was always talking about her best friend while we were courting.

She showed up at our house and I thought she came to visit and catch up with old times with my wife so I gladly welcome her. Later in the night, my wife told me she will be staying with us for sometimes while she gets a job. I was upset because we never discussed it before and I made my feeling known. Nevertheless, I had to give in since she said the friend also accommodated her in her room back at school for a session. So, I accepted her living with us and I felt it was only for a short time. We gave her the visitor’s room.

The first trouble started when I noticed her night gown barely covered her bum and sometimes were transparent with her boobs showing whenever she comes to the sitting room. I expressed my reservations about it to my wife and she dismissed it playfully that it was nothing and that what were my eyes wandering there for, so I let it go. Sometimes, she will enter her bedroom without knocking saying she wants to gist with her friend. And I will just stay on my side of the bed playing with my phone while the both talked. I noticed my wife doesn’t care, but I don’t want any issue with her so I accepted it with the hope her friend will soon leave the house.

I must admit that the friend was a bit useful in the house. My wife closes late than I, and her friend stays home when she’s not job hunting, so sometimes she would have cooked before we arrived. Though, I complained about this also, but wifey believe it was trivial. Her friend was intelligent and as times goes on, we talked on a wide range of topic while waiting for wife to come back from home so I stopped complaining about her to my wife.

It became so normal about her dressing that I accepted it like that. There was a day she came to our room to gist with my wife and playfully, my wife hit me with a pillow and before you know it, the three of us were throwing pillows about and playing like kids. They were both jumping on me and incidentally, I had a hard on as we were playin. I noticed her friend was slightly brushing her hand on me. I had to quickly stop and stylishly use the pillow to cover myself until I came down. I was really uncomfortable with the whole situation, but I didn’t complain to my wife again since I know what she will say. What I just keep asking my wife is when her friend was leaving.

The incident that happened two weeks really changed things. My wife took one week leave and decided to visit her parents outside the state we reside. I wasn’t okay with it leaving her friend alone with me, but she said I will just do fine. I tried to come home late for the first three days so I can completely avoid her, until the fourth day when she came into my room. I didn’t want to be rude by asking her to leave, so I asked her to sit down on the sofa in the bedroom. We first spoke about football, politics and other things. I can’t really say what happened, but in a lapse of judgement, we started kissing and then I had sex with her. I felt regret immediately and started apologizing to her for taking advantage of her. What she said really dazzled me. She said I shouldn’t be sorry as my wife never keep talking of our big I am and how sex was so great. And how she wishes her friend can experience what she was talking about.

My regrets turned to anger immediately and I asked her if she and my wife planned this whole episode just to confirm what my wife was boasting about. She denied being in cohort with my wife, but said something that devastated me. She said my wife wouldn’t mind as they sometimes share things together as they are besties for life right from their school days. I had to quickly exit the room to the balcony. We barely talked again until wife came back, though she tried to initiate some conversation, which I rebuffed. My wife further heightened my apprehension when wife asked if her friend really took care of me and that I couldn’t have missed her much since her friend was around. The dilemma now is that I can’t confront my wife about the incident as I will be admitting I slept with her friend. Her friend is also acting normal and I am afraid if she will inform her “bestie for life”. I have been thinking, what if they had been “Sex partners” before and I married a bisexual cos of the way they do play together. I had just been asking her when her friend was leaving and I don’t want to be forceful because of what happened between us.

Note, my wife has been a good wife. All my family member love her like she’s part of them and she is so comfortable with them. We never had any issues except this. I need advice on how to go on so I don’t destroy my marriage.

Why is OP wasting his time writing long grammar. This matter is simple. Ask your wife if she will kindly accept her friend into your matrimonial home as a co-wife. There is LOVE in sharing. She should accept her friend as second wife, so they can complement each other.
If you are successful with stage 1, then you can now the friend if she will like to stay permanently in your house.
That's it. Very simple.
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by Juliearth(f): 5:01pm On Feb 14, 2020
Overlordship:
Hello all, I got married to my wife 9 months ago and it has been a wonderful experience all through until her friend showed up two months ago. That was actually the first time I was meeting her as she wasn’t around for our wedding as she was doing her masters programme in South Africa. I knew she and my wife were closed as she was always talking about her best friend while we were courting.

She showed up at our house and I thought she came to visit and catch up with old times with my wife so I gladly welcome her. Later in the night, my wife told me she will be staying with us for sometimes while she gets a job. I was upset because we never discussed it before and I made my feeling known. Nevertheless, I had to give in since she said the friend also accommodated her in her room back at school for a session. So, I accepted her living with us and I felt it was only for a short time. We gave her the visitor’s room.

The first trouble started when I noticed her night gown barely covered her bum and sometimes were transparent with her boobs showing whenever she comes to the sitting room. I expressed my reservations about it to my wife and she dismissed it playfully that it was nothing and that what were my eyes wandering there for, so I let it go. Sometimes, she will enter her bedroom without knocking saying she wants to gist with her friend. And I will just stay on my side of the bed playing with my phone while the both talked. I noticed my wife doesn’t care, but I don’t want any issue with her so I accepted it with the hope her friend will soon leave the house.

I must admit that the friend was a bit useful in the house. My wife closes late than I, and her friend stays home when she’s not job hunting, so sometimes she would have cooked before we arrived. Though, I complained about this also, but wifey believe it was trivial. Her friend was intelligent and as times goes on, we talked on a wide range of topic while waiting for wife to come back from home so I stopped complaining about her to my wife.

It became so normal about her dressing that I accepted it like that. There was a day she came to our room to gist with my wife and playfully, my wife hit me with a pillow and before you know it, the three of us were throwing pillows about and playing like kids. They were both jumping on me and incidentally, I had a hard on as we were playin. I noticed her friend was slightly brushing her hand on me. I had to quickly stop and stylishly use the pillow to cover myself until I came down. I was really uncomfortable with the whole situation, but I didn’t complain to my wife again since I know what she will say. What I just keep asking my wife is when her friend was leaving.

The incident that happened two weeks really changed things. My wife took one week leave and decided to visit her parents outside the state we reside. I wasn’t okay with it leaving her friend alone with me, but she said I will just do fine. I tried to come home late for the first three days so I can completely avoid her, until the fourth day when she came into my room. I didn’t want to be rude by asking her to leave, so I asked her to sit down on the sofa in the bedroom. We first spoke about football, politics and other things. I can’t really say what happened, but in a lapse of judgement, we started kissing and then I had sex with her. I felt regret immediately and started apologizing to her for taking advantage of her. What she said really dazzled me. She said I shouldn’t be sorry as my wife never keep talking of our big I am and how sex was so great. And how she wishes her friend can experience what she was talking about.

My regrets turned to anger immediately and I asked her if she and my wife planned this whole episode just to confirm what my wife was boasting about. She denied being in cohort with my wife, but said something that devastated me. She said my wife wouldn’t mind as they sometimes share things together as they are besties for life right from their school days. I had to quickly exit the room to the balcony. We barely talked again until wife came back, though she tried to initiate some conversation, which I rebuffed. My wife further heightened my apprehension when wife asked if her friend really took care of me and that I couldn’t have missed her much since her friend was around. The dilemma now is that I can’t confront my wife about the incident as I will be admitting I slept with her friend. Her friend is also acting normal and I am afraid if she will inform her “bestie for life”. I have been thinking, what if they had been “Sex partners” before and I married a bisexual cos of the way they do play together. I had just been asking her when her friend was leaving and I don’t want to be forceful because of what happened between us.

Note, my wife has been a good wife. All my family member love her like she’s part of them and she is so comfortable with them. We never had any issues except this. I need advice on how to go on so I don’t destroy my marriage.





Wow!
All I can say is that there is a high probability that your wife is bisexual. The whole besty thingy becomes limited and restricted once a party gets married (well unless there is more to it and in this case, the bisexual alarm is blaring loudly)

Secondly, your wife may have set you up, judging from your write up. No married woman would tolerate her "besty" living under the same roof with her husband and dressing provocatively, not maintaining boundaries and going as far as travelling and leaving you with another woman. Believe you me, that pillow fight was premeditated to resort to a party, but thank God you were able to control yourself.



Las las, your wife may be (what nairaland alpha males call) a ********


Come clean, confess (to avoid future blackmail from the friend) and let hell let loose. Sometimes, the change you seek can only come to being when the structure on ground is destroyed. The marriage is still young so its very possible to rebuild or totally disengage if needs be.
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by ceeceeuwa: 5:02pm On Feb 14, 2020
Another nairaland script.
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by Juliearth(f): 5:02pm On Feb 14, 2020
kenodrill:
Oga your wife is bisexual.she and her friend are both lesbians.



My thoughts too
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by AreaFada2: 5:02pm On Feb 14, 2020
Dude, they were lovers at university. Almost from the beginning of your post it was obvious she wants freedom to sleep with the "bestie" in your house. You have two bisexual women under your roof.

Many women marry to appear "responsible" in our conservative cultural environment. Your wife probably leans more towards lesbianism than straight. She might already have had lesbian affairs behind your back during marriage and courtship.

Their ultimate goal is a regular sizzling three-some.

Even if she leaves your house, the bestie won't move too faraway. So they will remain lovers.

The bestie might even marry and your wife might be having a three-some with them. Some guys would have got the three-some memo long ago and wouldn't "slack" as you have done.

I hope you have no baby together yet.

Good luck sir. You will surely need it.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by Vyolet(f): 5:03pm On Feb 14, 2020
shogsman:

You can't understand Cos you aiiint a man so stop judging and move on.
I'm human and have blood running through my veins, the man is also human, we both have emotions and feeling, we are both faced with temptation which we have a choice to either fall into or we walk away to avoid complications, so that I'm not a man is not an excuse.
He is a goat who has no respect for his marriage.

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Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by OgaBuhari: 5:03pm On Feb 14, 2020
Skmoda360:
Your wife is a bisexual my bro and she came with her partner to come stay with you guys....
the Guy don enter one chance cheesy
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by OgaBuhari: 5:07pm On Feb 14, 2020
dinachi:

Foolish man, your wife is a lesbian and has been a lesbian under your nose, fucking and enjoying her lesbian partner why your foolish self like most men failed to notice anything!

My dear I am sorry for you, you married a lesbian. And let me tell you, your wife will rather dump your clueless ass than her real lover who truly satisfies her!

Now that they have roped you in, watch as they are free to explore themselves in front of you, if you make any noise your lesbian wife will divorce you and claim that you committed adultery with her friend and the pain drove her to lesbianism!

That's how women lie, she will cry while saying it and a lot of men, you know most young men are mostly foolish will support her and blame you!

They set you up!


Solution.
Install coded cameras in your house, and observe your wife sucking her bestie pussy!
Confront your wife, ask her directly if her friend is her lesbian partner, keep a hidden camera and recording device nearby
you have been blessed with the wisdom of the gods. cool

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Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by Nobody: 5:08pm On Feb 14, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
your wife and her friend have to be lesbians
True
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by simplesearch: 5:08pm On Feb 14, 2020
What a pity you got married to a lady with low moral and spiritual value because of your taste for class. However, If you are buoyant enough get her another accommodation immediately, if otherwise let out your feelings and give her some days to sort herself out. If your house breaks or go on fire she will gently vamoose and get herself to a better treat. If your wife resist all this options then she's into lesby stuff, at that point you are in for something big only God can deliver you from.
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by maasoap(m): 5:09pm On Feb 14, 2020
FLYFIRE:
What do you guys think bringing personal, private matters to NL.

You would rather wish he dies in silence? Or take the matter to his parents?

Just look at how irresponsible, unmarried kids will ALMOST DESTROY your marriage, that is if this is not a made up story, before this thread is finally closed. Besides, if you know what the devil is doing to your marriage nobody will ask you to RUN from sin.

How have you been helped to him now?
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by Ayoslimzy(m): 5:09pm On Feb 14, 2020
MarianaTrench:
You bought 1 and got 1 free. grin
EPIC grin
Re: I Suspect My Wife Is Setting Me Up With Her Friend by Ladylite: 5:10pm On Feb 14, 2020
Ifejiswag:

If u don't knw wat to said shut that ur shithole u call mouth �
It's nt a must to reply to adult conversation

LOL empty soul... Scroll through the thread, those whose destinies are brighter than yours have been liking and mentioning me and quoting my msg.

Your pained ego came here to try to insult yourself. Who u epp. Whomever gave birth to you should have used a condom

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