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Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Bbbwings: 1:57pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
makydebbie:Yes, your first born will be a boy. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by GeneralPula: 1:57pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
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Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by DaddyRochie1642: 1:57pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Kylekent59: I love this your Analysis, #Respect |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Earth2: 1:58pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
DominusPrime:U spoke well. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by makydebbie(f): 2:00pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Bbbwings:No problem. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Oreofepeters: 2:00pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
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Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Exodora: 2:00pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
I am beginning to get tired of this topic.How many times are we going to treat this topic here for goddness sake. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Earth2: 2:03pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
DominusPrime:No biased,no insults,no foolish talk, just words of wisdom.u have spoken well my man. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Chinwe4real(f): 2:04pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
DominusPrime: Exactly. It is one year and two months I started working for my boyfriend. We dated for a year plus, then he bought me a laptop. Next thing, oga told me instead of spending my vacation at the village doing sales girl, I should start working for him. Working and schooling. I became his blog's content writer, earning as high as 30k depending on if I had kept the end of the bargain which is five articles a day. Today, his website is ranking 200,000+ plus compared to the 3million it was ranking when I started working for that. Not only that, working for him is like learning a skill for free, and receiving pay. I learnt the ropes of digital marketing, SEO e.t.c Still working for him, with increased pay. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by danot1030: 2:05pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Enemyofdarkness: You opened a mini shop and you are already nursing the idea of sleeping with your sales girl, what we happen if you open a mega shop where you employ ladies, you will sleep with them all? Oga let business be business, the girl keep the shop environment tidy is just her way of doing what she is being paid for. And for your girls to be asking your friend if you have a girlfriend means you already have been given her green light. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Nobody: 2:06pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
If you enjoy your sales girl and your sales girl enjoys you, then enjoy yourselves in every way enjoyable. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Bbbwings: 2:06pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Chidonc:Enemyofdarkness Hearken to this sagely advice, |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Brightgem(f): 2:07pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Find another job for her first. Small job as yours, With you both in each other's face everyday. Ugly. See finish. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by babadee1(m): 2:07pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Enemyofdarkness: You should never poop where you eat and you should never date where you work. Serious people do not date their workers. If you really feel like you love her so much then find another job for her and then you can date her |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Enemyofdarkness: 2:11pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
danot1030:bro I no give am green light o I never let my intention known to her but I do relate with her like she's part of my family. I normally give her transport money and feeding. That's me I'm only doing that out of kindness o, I don't like making life hard for people. But lately the way she calls and asks about my well being shows she's already loving up but |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by opemite: 2:13pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
DominusPrime:Correct my brother,life experience is different, I put my girlfriend in charge of my business, one school became two while I was away for another business.we later got married,and two school became three.that is my own experience.so watch your girl and make your decision. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Comedian2019: 2:14pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Ethically wrong and immoral |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by ekwerendi(m): 2:14pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
I will only say you shouldn't date her, don't mix business with pleasure especially at this start-up stage, allow your business to grow, keep a friendly relationship with her and not dating.... maybe with time too you can marry her if she fulfils what you need in a woman.. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by 1Sharon(f): 2:15pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Olojukokoro |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Chidonc(m): 2:16pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Bbbwings:Dispute my post in a reasonable way and stop shouting enemy of darkness. Do you think once he starts sleeping with her he will have control over her actions. Stop deceiving yourself, is either he sacks her and they start their love life while he employs another person, or he allows her face her job without mixing his business with pleasure. business and pleasure doesn't go hand in hand, you must Concentrate on one at each point in time. Shallom |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Aname: 2:16pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Davash222: Hahah...that ship has sailed long ago. At this point, OP is not looking for a "go" or "no-go" response. He is looking for a "go because..." response. My advise to you: start looking for a new sales girl quickly because you have already lost this one whether you "go" or you "no-go"... 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by FuckAllTheMODs: 2:16pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Tho I don't know much about both of you. But using everyday life scenarios. I have seen someone who his sales girl got pregnant for and they later married. That was after like 2 sale girls have left. The lucky one was the 3rd sales girl(if I am not wrong). His business moved from another man's building(rent) to his own building. Although there are rumors that he deeped his hands into something deep (I hope you understand) and again that he got funds from his dad's business while he was running it. And I have also seen people that their business crumbled because they were having affairs (dating, while some are just kpanshing) with their sales girls. My advice to you is to be careful and wise in your dealings with her. As a sales girl, she will steal (or you think she's not tapping your money), just that she will be careful not to be caught. As a girlfriend, she will still steal, just that it will now be a two-way thing: 1. Aa good girlfriend, whenever she steals, she will always try to recover it as profits from customer, so that it won't affect your business or at least she will be considerate in her stealing. 2. As the bad type, she doesn't care. She is stealing just to ensure she doesn't lose out when you finally break up with her and again, she has the mentality that it is her boyfriend's money. But all in all, she will steal, don't even think about it. Even married women who handles their husbands' businesses take money from the businesses when they need money without informing the husband. My advice to you is.... Get another sales girl and get another job for this particular girl. You can now date her away from your biz if you really love her, and, again she can help in running your biz as a helper but not as a sales girl. In that way if she has a good agenda, it will show in the business. My opinion tho. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Homguy(m): 2:18pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Enemyofdarkness:if you do that, get ready to lose your shop because she would start treating your profit as her right too. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by yomislim: 2:19pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
It is very easy bro If you want to date her, cut her off your business and look job for her in another place not associated to you, by then you can date her and employ another worker.. Dating someone working under you is a terrible idea most especially when it is business. She will eat you as she like and you won't be able to blow sense into her because you'll be seeing her, by then not as a sales girl but a lover... Shalom. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by johnchins: 2:19pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
makydebbie: Careful what you wish for! |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by lexxyrule(m): 2:20pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
My advise, keep her close, pay attention to her like a bf, but don't formalize it or ask her out. Oversee the business first |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Bbbwings: 2:22pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Chidonc:Was I not agreeing with you? |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Digmygold: 2:22pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Enemyofdarkness: You employed one FINE girl? Hmnnn. Every quality like big butt and massive boobies? Sorry for your future |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by FuckAllTheMODs: 2:23pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
DominusPrime: The thing is she will take his money irrespective of her status, either sales girl or gf. Just that the level of care or consciousness will differ. Do you know married women who handle their husbands' businesses take money from the businesses when they need it. I think the best thing for him is to get another sales girl and get another job for this particular girl. He can now date her from afar, she can help in running it as a helper but not sales girl. In that way if she has a good agenda, it will show in the business. What do you think? |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Bbbwings: 2:23pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Chidonc:Op's moniker is Enemyofdarkness |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Nobody: 2:23pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Don't sh*t where you eat. In other words, do not mix Business with Pleasure. |
Re: Is It Right To Date My Employee? by Enemyofdarkness: 2:25pm On Feb 15, 2020 |
Brightgem:I only open that shop with the spare cash I had in hand, I'm even planning opening multiple shops, I've got the money. I don't depend on it, infact I only go there because of my friend that lives around there if not I no go dey show face at all 2 Likes 1 Share |
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