Hello nairalander, i have a question that have been bothering me. I have this guy that i like, we are friends, but the thing is that he really like me and he want us to be dating. We decided that will start with friendship, so that we can know each other better before start dating. We are from the same university undo he just graduated while i suppose to be in my final year now but i am on leave of absent because of financial constrain. He is a good person and i really like him. But the issue is that i am 2 years older than him. He will be 21 this year while i will clock 23. We just know our age. He asked me maybe i can date someone that is younger than me. It is just complicate. Can you advice me. I need a mature advice. Thank.

Go for it. Keep it as your couple secret between you both only. Be positive

23 - 21

I see nothing wrong with the age difference, you guys are at your peak of exploitation so use it wisely.

Just fork, sexercise and refork with the lad. I am of the opinion that guys try their best to satisfy ladies older than them.

So sharpen your puna.ni sister and enjoy that irrigated sugarcane.

Ask Mr P of the defunct p-square.

2 years is even too small. Some couple's gap is 10 years +. If you are certain itz only d age difference dat is ur issue, go for it bcoz itz not an issue.

My fiancée is two years older than me and we've been having the best of relationship. It doesn't matter really. If you guys accept yourselves, you'll soon forget about the age thing self. If he is a matured guy, then there is no need asking you to make sure you respect him, because you'll surely respect him. Even my mama dey respect me as if I be her husband, not to talk of my just two year older fiancée. So far he respects and loves you, do same. My friend's mom is seven years older than his dad. Sounds funny, right? But it's a reality.

I don't do smallies

Yes I can, but the gap should not be much.

I can. Before. Now I used to say I cant but as time went on, I discovered that the younger guys are looking older and bigger than me . Cos when they tell their age ill be shocked like...tot he was a big brother sef.
The rate at which young boys are looking older than their age these days is alarming. And they are mature too. So me too I begin consider them as I look years younger. Although I tell them the truth and they'll be like " you this small gurl .

I know I won't marry my age mate. Its so glaring cos its the younger ones that are dotting on me these days. So yes I can.

It's just a mind thing.. but absolutely nothing wrong. If you are sure he's someone you can love and respect.. its just this part of the world we lay emphasis on numbers(age) instead of compatibility, love and personal happiness.. if he fits or can fit into these 3 categories, kindly marry him self

ODUNEWUWURA:
Hello nairalander, i have a question that hav... Can you advice me. I need a mature advice. Thank.

In your case it would not be a good idea cos a 21 year old guy is not yet mature

In most instances it works when the lady is financially well off.

In your own case however, you're broke. If you go ahead and date this guy at some point he will start asking himself why he's dating an old cargo since he's the one bringing the money

AshiraWealthy:
I can. Before. Now I used to say I cant but as time went on, I discovered that the younger guys are looking older and bigger than me . Cos when they tell their age ill be shocked like...tot he was a big brother sef.
The rate at which young boys are looking older than their age these days is alarming. And they are mature too. So me too I begin consider them as I look years younger. Although I tell them the truth and they'll be like " you this small gurl .

I know I won't marry my age mate. Its so glaring cos its the younger ones that are dotting on me these days. So yes I can.

... make I no talk

Phosphorus666:
My fiancée is two years older than me and we've been having the best of relationship. It doesn't matter really. If you guys accept yourselves, you'll soon forget about the age thing self. If he is a matured guy, then there is no need asking you to make sure you respect him, because you'll surely respect him. Even my mama dey respect me as if I be her husband, not to talk of my just two year older fiancée. So far he respects and loves you, do same. My friend's mom is seven years older than his dad. Sounds funny, right? But it's a reality.

Sabi guy

I'm not a paedophile, so NO!! we all know that girls have higher mental age and Maturity than boys.

It will be like dating my younger brother. Ewwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww²

I'll advise to remain friends now, you're still in your finals and he just finished, I assume he's serving or about to serve. How are you sure you even love him now? How are you sure when you are serving you won't meet someone that's caring than him and even working with good prospect? See life is really complicated. Focus on school and remain friends with him, What will be will be, except okay maybe u want Romance which won't really last or take u anywhere + u can get disease like Hepatitis which will deter u from getting a good job. I'm a Guy, finished serving April 2018, and I got a good okay job around September same year, I can tell you that I just got balanced in the right mind to enter a relationship this January. If I had been in a relationship with someone when I was serving, I would have just been playing around to be honest.

So make friends even with opposite sex, make the friendship grow, when u ready to go into a relationship, you will know, pick one of those friend you know his ready and has good prospect, start something with him if he feels the same way. You know how u ladies do it.

Just my 2 cent, Gracias

ODUNEWUWURA:
Hello nairalander, i have a question that have been bothering me. I have this guy that i like, we are friends, but the thing is that he really like me and he want us to be dating. We decided that will start with friendship, so that we can know each other better before start dating. We are from the same university undo he just graduated while i suppose to be in my final year now but i am on leave of absent because of financial constrain. He is a good person and i really like him. But the issue is that i am 2 years older than him. He will be 21 this year while i will clock 23. We just know our age. He asked me maybe i can date someone that is younger than me. It is just complicate. Can you advice me. I need a mature advice. Thank.

If he is mature and both of you have sense, why not?

I just hope one day, in the heat of anger, u don't tell him something like "small boy like u. U don 4get say I senior u".

AshiraWealthy:
I can. Before. Now I used to say I cant but as time went on, I discovered that the younger guys are looking older and bigger than me . Cos when they tell their age ill be shocked like...tot he was a big brother sef.
The rate at which young boys are looking older than their age these days is alarming. And they are mature too. So me too I begin consider them as I look years younger. Although I tell them the truth and they'll be like " you this small gurl .

I know I won't marry my age mate. Its so glaring cos its the younger ones that are dotting on me these days. So yes I can.

Sighs.

For a while now, I have been friends with a guy who's much younger than I. And he seems very good looking, mature, kind, intelligent and industrious. I got his first kiss and I was so much in love with him. We are never in a relationship and I am afraid that we might hurt each other because I am not sure if we would last.
I will advice that whatever suits you best, go for it.

Yes I can, age is not maturity, some guys are older but they are mumu and not matured. It's depends on how the guy is matured and sensible. Love conquers all

Nope i wnt want to be termed a paedophile,at least you must be five years older than i am, older men are the real men!!

Total turn off.

MZrapper3:
I don't do smallies

for ur mind.... u think say guys too dey find grand ma

I can't , age difference will be a disadvantage later on.

No, thank you.