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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Originalsly: 3:23pm On Feb 17
Diligentnigga:


Lol iam, shes not a wayward lady, infact i brought her out of her shell and she lost her virginity to me


Hmmm.... I learn something new today!

The girl has been showing her true colours..... can you change the stripes of a tiger? Move on bro.
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Ardar(f): 3:26pm On Feb 17
Diligentnigga:


Alright this is it,, we were having a discussion on how to break the news to her parents on the pregnancy cos we both have plans of keeping the pregnancy,her phone was with me, and during the discussion she got angry when i said if she cant bear the shame and pass through all dis when the baby bump hasnt show,please how will she cope when we start facing tough tough issues later on and i immediately said and if she cant cope with it we cn go for abortion then and all this nags and insults will stop

Then she got angry immediately stood up and told me to give her back her phone i refused saying we need to really discuss this and she shouldn't be getting angered at everything and we shouldnt run away from this discussion as she has always been trying not to discuss the pregnancy thing

Before you know it she started shouting give me my phone and i refused infact the shouts was just too much but i refused cos i was having an important discussion with her and shes trying to walk away

Haba who does that

Uncle you're the problem here, you don't tell a girl who is going through so much cuz of a pregnancy you're responsible for to just suck it up and bear the shame.

Like it or not people will talk and it won't be you they'll be pointing accusing fingers at.
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Nobody: 3:29pm On Feb 17
Diligentnigga:


Yes sir..
That's just her only bad side

Anger

Am running she did see a psychiatrist instead she a narcissist
Even Sigmund Freud will not be able to solve anger problems in some ladies!!
Don't try to medicalize this trait in her...

All she need is someone crazier than her . Someone that can send shiver down her spine with more craze..
That is the type of guy that should marry her ...


You are not that guy OP..

Japa, Japa.....

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Jim99: 3:30pm On Feb 17
eni4real:
Even Sigmund Freud will not be able to solve anger problems in some ladies!!
Don't try to medicalize this trait in her...

All she need is someone crazier than her . Someone that can send shiver down her spine with more craze..
That is the type of guy that should marry her ...


You are not that guy OP..

Japa, Japa.....

God bless you for this.

I know of a friend who had the same issue with his wife. Today he's late, he died from HBP. I learnt my lesson from him

Violence is the only answer.
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Nobody: 3:31pm On Feb 17
Jim99:


God bless you for this.
You too bruh cool
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by woleabayo(m): 3:32pm On Feb 17
i will advice you to just cut off the relationship now that its still good i did not pray for your untimely death brother she might wake up in the night one day and do something stupid or nasty . for the sake of the unborn baby just let your people no your reason and tell them you are collecting the baby but not the mother ... i rule against abortion too
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by iLegendd: 3:32pm On Feb 17
Diligentnigga:


Trust me bro, am not stupid alot of crazy feminist women are out there,she will beg and do all manners, kneel down cry that she will change but me i know it wont change,,i already told her to get in touch with a counsellor concerning her anger.. She wasnt like this during the start of the relationship so if i had seen red flags i would have leave the relationship a long time

I have plans of leaving her but the ish is the pregnancy is tieing me down now

Thanks for clearing the air. I was really upset at first after reading it. This is the reason I never make women my girlfriends. They stay in the friend zone and work on themselves as I observe their behaviors.

See the chat below. That is how you treat women. Don't take nonsense. When they put you on suspense, warn them. When they cheat, dump them. When they insult you or your parents, dump them. When they demand money, warn them and dump them. The white/Asian women I have been with don't demand even a cent, so Nigerian women should take their time with the way they demand. They should only demand when they meet nice guys or stupid richmen, not people like us wey know whatsup.

And the greatest of all, let them stay in the friend zone forever until you have money or ready to finally settle down.

I have lots of women in my friendzone and I'm happily single with no single relationship issues. You people that commit to relationships are the ones who always put yourself in trouble.

Women love a mysterious guy they chase to trap, but he never yields. The day he yields, the chase stops and they lose the spark and start cheating and getting angry at everything.

Men need to understand women physically and psychologically if they want a lasting relationship or marriage. Failure to do this, you'll cry at last or become depressed from the way they'll torment you.

I like women and I'll never want anyone to harm them, but I'll always tell everyone the truth as usual and the truth is: women are mini-Devils and they love to torment men. For a man to stand, you must first of all be a real man and learn how these mini-Devils operate. Just the same way a pastor takes his time to learn how the real Devil operates by reading the Bible regularly.

Can you tell me one pastor who has NEVER read the Bible since he was born, but has been on pulpit preaching the word of God from year to year as he quotes Bible verses? None.

This is to say, for you to understand mini-Devils, you need to read Alpha Male Relationship Bibles. If you can't read, you can't pass. A lot of men ignore the basics/fundamental and head straight to the details and this is why they usually fail in money making, financial management, and relationship management.

As I always say, there are 3 essential skills all men MUST learn or suffer and they are

1. How to handle women skill
2. How to make money skill
3. How to manage money skill

Let me drop my pen before I end up writing a long reply because I have a lot to say, but don't want to say it yet.

Look at the chat I had yesterday below and you'll see the authority and leadership in it as she begs to know where she stands which I'll never tell her.

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Orubebe01: 3:33pm On Feb 17
Shibaraba:
I'm done with people who come online to ask questions they know the answer to already.

My question is, how una Preeq dey strong when una broke. When I'm broke Ogbeni my Preeq no dey get life. My Preeq has the same feeling with shibaraba. I'm suspecting it has a brain sef. Once my account balance is pink if you like open the punna to my face, make your Yansh be like buffalo own, make your breasts be like oganigwe own, e no go strong.

But make account green. E dey strong even for sleep

Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Victoronah1: 3:33pm On Feb 17
Davash222:
No be every woman wey get belle for man dem marry.
Never marry such woman!
She's carrying your child, no doubt, but please don't marry that girl out of pity.
She'll be kind, caring and loving to you from now henceforth, but, please don't fall for all these gimmicks.
If you truly value your life, don't marry that girl!
people that marry others out of pity are usually rich and have future ambition. Just look at the ops post, unemployed and staying at home and he can't even do anything about it yet the modafacka want to give birth to a child to come to this country and drink garri with groundnut.

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 3:38pm On Feb 17
Ardar:


Uncle you're the problem here, you don't tell a girl who is going through so much cuz of a pregnancy you're responsible for to just suck it up and bear the shame.

Like it or not people will talk and it won't be you they'll be pointing accusing fingers at.


Even before the pregnancy she has been ruthless and anger driven

I know anger of pregnancy from anger of stupidity don't defend her can u advise ur brother to marry a lady that insults ur parent and inflct bite wounds and slap u cos shes preggy
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Ardar(f): 3:45pm On Feb 17
Diligentnigga:


Even before the pregnancy she has been ruthless and anger driven

I know anger of pregnancy from anger of stupidity don't defend her can u advise ur brother to marry a lady that insults ur parent and inflct bite wounds and slap u cos shes preggy

I should not defend her but I should defend you? When they say use protection while fvcking, una no go hear. Abort now, no. Now you've been caged with pregnancy and looking for who will defend you.

She was behaving like that before the pregnancy yet you still stuck with her, you are still at fault here.

If na me, I for don japa since. I can't deal.

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 3:47pm On Feb 17
Ardar:


I should not defend her but I should defend you? When they say use protection while fvcking, una no go hear. Abort now, no. Now you've been caged with pregnancy and looking for who will defend you.

I dont need your defense

I only need solution to her anger issues and how to go about dealing with an anger driven woman that is pregnant
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Ardar(f): 3:49pm On Feb 17
Diligentnigga:


I dont need your defense

I only need solution to her anger issues and how to go about dealing with an anger driven woman that is pregnant

Stop aggravating her, sometimes you need to compromise knowing fully well that she's volatile.

Endure o, after all you saw the signs earlier.
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Victoronah1: 3:50pm On Feb 17
Diligentnigga:


I dont need your defense

I only need solution to her anger issues and how to go about dealing with an anger driven woman that is pregnant
young man go and make money. Look at how you confidently come online and post that you're unemployed and about to have a baby. You should be ashamed of yourself.

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 3:52pm On Feb 17
Ardar:


Stop aggravating her, sometimes you need to compromise knowing fully well that she's volatile.

Endure o, after all you saw the signs earlier.

I actually didn't she was peaceful and calm for almost 6 month nd people that knew her confirmed this ,, we do quarel tho but am always the one with the anger issues then

But u see that anger that will make u do stupid things thats where the problem is
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by makydebbie(f): 3:52pm On Feb 17
Shibaraba:
I'm done with people who come online to ask questions they know the answer to already.

My question is, how una Preeq dey strong when una broke. When I'm broke Ogbeni my Preeq no dey get life. My Preeq has the same feeling with shibaraba. I'm suspecting it has a brain sef. Once my account balance is pink if you like open the punna to my face, make your Yansh be like buffalo own, make your breasts be like oganigwe own, e no go strong.

But make account green. E dey strong even for sleep

Same here.
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 3:54pm On Feb 17
Victoronah1:
young man go and make money. Look at how you confidently come online and post that you're unemployed and about to have a baby. You should be ashamed of yourself.

I am doing my best,iam not lazy, you just know the Nigeria we are now

Plus we all make mistakes in life no one is perfect
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by jasman1: 3:58pm On Feb 17
Wow! Today’s generation don’t mind breading bastards, even their parents could careless
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by smogia: 4:10pm On Feb 17
Shibaraba:
I'm done with people who come online to ask questions they know the answer to already.

My question is, how una Preeq dey strong when una broke. When I'm broke Ogbeni my Preeq no dey get life. My Preeq has the same feeling with shibaraba. I'm suspecting it has a brain sef. Once my account balance is pink if you like open the punna to my face, make your Yansh be like buffalo own, make your breasts be like oganigwe own, e no go strong.

But make account green. E dey strong even for sleep
you are indeed a mad man i don laugh tire
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Kobicove(m): 4:40pm On Feb 17
Diligentnigga:


Yeah and shes very caring too she can go through hell and stress herself to make sure am fine

But bro she knows alot of ladies are into me and its keeping her on her toes.. Plus shes riding on the luck that my parents like her thereby using it to misbehave.. The anger started may last year and since then it has been getting worst...
What broke the carmels back was her stoning me out of anger,,

Maybe she needs a psychiatrist or a therapist

You girlfriend threw a stone at you and your did nothing?

Dem never born the woman wey go stone me and get away with it!

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Nobody: 4:50pm On Feb 17
eni4real:
You are making money for girls grin

Me, making money for girls ke? It just makes me feel happy with myself and when I am happy, I wanna have something to press.
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Duru009(m): 4:53pm On Feb 17
If you marry that girl, you will be totally unhappy for the rest of your live....



Be warmed !!

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Elina123(f): 5:36pm On Feb 17
Hmmm this is exactly the same issue with my man's ex. The girl is over controling, has anger issues and insults parents at her will. Thank God my man ran away after 3 years of endurance with her character. Well I am even thinking ur girlfriend is my man's ex with ur story
Diligentnigga:
Good morning Nairalanders i will make this as short as possible and please dont mind my punctuation as iam typing this in a rush

Iam a graduate though unemployed but doing one or two menial jobs to keep mind and soul together

I have this girlfriend i have been dating for almlst two years now, we both love eachother but the issue at hand is she's a stubborn anger driven person that insult my parents, infact hit me sometimes and say all manner of words at me,of recent, i find out she's pregnant this February now the issue is she's a finalist in the University as she will be serving this year October,but we had plans of not doing abortion but shes so ashamed of everything and just irrational and saying all manners like what people will say this and that, and i have told her i will stay by her through everything i informed my mum and my immediate siblings about the pregnancy,they were angry but they were like its fine sha since shes loved in the family

Now the issue is
1 She's very stubborn
2 she insult my parents at every small argument
3 shes anger driven,, yes am anger driven to an extent also but i have never use my anger to do stupid things like hitting her before compare to many times she has slapped locked my shirt and punch me
4 we had an issue last night and it was in public and she was just shouting at me passers by and onlookers were just amused that why would a lady be like this that she now had to take a big stone and throw at me though i dodged the stone all because i was gearing her to lets leave the public scene and go home
5 A baby is on the line cos shes pregnant and even if you will advise me to leave the relationship as its toxic,, what about the unborn child.
6 Iam currently unemployed and infact am still at home not yet balance up well enough,but she has use nags to kill me,,saying all manners at me


All insults are welcomed please iam in die need of advise thank you

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by LordKO(m): 5:43pm On Feb 17
@OP

Citing your submissions, she has neither moral nor psychological nor intelligence deficiency; instead she has emotional deficiency (low emotional quotient). This means she can never help herself much, no amount of therapy/counselling can heal her completely, so bulk of the work is on your desk. You can bring the best out of her if you can effectively become tactically unassuming - and she'll forever remain loyal in particular and faithful in general to you. This is with the believe that both of you truly love each other/have altruistic interest towards each other as you stated.

However, if you can't embrace the above, it'll be better you cut ties with her completely because acts of disingenuousness and/or imperiousness towards her will only make her condition worse and will put you in more danger in relating with her. And no matter what you do, eschew the idea of taking battle to her in her own coin, not because you're weaker than her, no, but because she doesn't act wittingly - remember emotional deficiency is different from psychological deficiency and she cannot match you physically. Either of you'll kill each other with weapon, should you decide to take to anger like her.

As bad as her deficiency is, it's still better than moral and psychological deficiencies. You only need to master the art of handling her, provided you're certain that she loves you/has altruistic interest towards you and vice versa.

Meanwhile, if she has more than emotional deficiency, that's if she has emotional deficiency in addition to either moral (this in particular) or psychological deficiency, then don't bother to make the sacrifice of managing/bettering her at all for the sake of your sanity in particular and life in general.

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Wtfork: 5:51pm On Feb 17
eni4real:
What does he expect the mum to do??
The mum knows that her daughter has a problem of hot temperament...
She will continue to plead with op until the OP make the mistake of marrying the lady!!!

One day, hot water will happen undecided

Very hot one oh.
Shey she don start with stones ( what nonsense )
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by ednut1(m): 5:54pm On Feb 17
the one na doom
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by shiwex: 5:55pm On Feb 17
Diligentnigga:
Good morning Nairalanders, I will make this as short as possible and please don't mind my punctuation as I am typing this in a rush

I am a graduate, though unemployed but doing one or two menial jobs to keep mind and soul together

I have this girlfriend I have been dating for almost two years now. We both love each other but the issue at hand is she's a stubborn, anger driven person that insults my parents. In fact hit me sometimes and says all manner of words at me.

Of recent, I found out she's pregnant this February. Now the issue is she's a finalist in the University as she will be serving this year October, but we had plans of not doing abortion but she's so ashamed of everything and just irrational and saying all manners like what people will say this and that, and I have told her I will stay by her through everything. I informed my mum and my immediate siblings about the pregnancy, they were angry but they were like it's fine sha since she's loved in the family

Now the issue is
1 She's very stubborn
2 she insults my parents at every small argument
3 she's anger driven, yes am anger driven to an extent also but I have never used my anger to do stupid things like hitting her before compare to many times she has Slapped, locked my shirt and punched me.
4 we had an issue last night and it was in public and she was just shouting at me, passers by and onlookers were just amused that why would a lady be like this that she now had to take a big stone and throw at me, though I dodged the stone all because i was gearing her to let's leave the public scene and go home
5 A baby is on the line cos she's pregnant and even if you will advise me to leave the relationship as it's toxic, what about the unborn child.
6 I am currently unemployed and in fact am still at home not yet balanced up well enough, but she has used nags to kill me, saying all manners at me

All insults are welcomed. Please I am in die need of advise thank you.





Start to dey pack your bags..........
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Ausrichie(m): 5:55pm On Feb 17
Pay her off and take your child or leave her with the child. If you don't have money man you are a major fvck up.
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by keleman992000(m): 5:55pm On Feb 17
`Bros i will advice you to check if that baby is yours. besides if you living with your parents then plan to move out. finally you said you are unemployed and you having a pregnant girl friend. hmmm go and hustle oooo.
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by donprinyo: 5:56pm On Feb 17
Na hormone
Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by SangoOlukosoOba(m): 5:56pm On Feb 17
Great!

But her pvsssy was not stubborn when you were pounding her, rasing her legs up and smashing her from behind.

Her Pvssy wasn't stubborn when you were pouring all your Akamu inside.

My brother, you bought what you wanted. Carry your cross.

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Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Xisnin(m): 5:58pm On Feb 17
Diligentnigga:
Good morning Nairalanders, I will make this as short as possible and please don't mind my punctuation as I am typing this in a rush

I am a graduate, though unemployed but doing one or two menial jobs to keep mind and soul together

grin
I thought having a baby mama is a perfect thing to do and married people are the ones suffering?
Since you are not married, why are you complaining?

She thinks you have ruined her future.

Some people are advising you not to marry her as if it will make any difference.
Here is the bitter truth, whether you marry her or not is irrelevant.
Unless you decide to forgo that baby, there is a big problem ahead of you.

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