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Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by elmagnifico411(m): 7:06am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Calling someone ‘a big fool’ is so uncool. Baba, let’s learn to soft pedal on how we abuse/rain causes on ourselves in this part of the world. Have a nice day. Heistman: |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Mikat: 7:06am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Please pray he doesn't get a job. If he does he is going to abandon you and Children. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Nobody: 7:11am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Nice and caring ain't reason enough to marry a man Just like a girl told my friend back then LOVE IS NOT ALL THAT MATTERS IN MARRIAGE SHE SAID MARRY UR BUDDY....TAKE TIME AND DEVELOPE YOUR SELVES TO BEST FRIENDS THEN GET MARRIED NOW YOU POINTING OUT YOU'RE NOT NAGGING AND YOU LOOK GOOD BECAUSE automatically THE SOCIETY THINKS YOU MIGHT BE THE CAUSE OF HIM NOT COMING HOME BECAUSE YOUR MIGHT BE NAGGING OR NOT LOOKING AFTER YOUR SELF ANYMORE WHEN YOU MARRY YOUR BEST FRIEND HERE IS THE BENEFITS 1. HE DOESN'T CONSIDER HIM SELF ALPHA MALE 2. HE NEVER GETS TIRED OF YOU 3. HE ALWAYS RUSHING HOME TO GOSSIP WITH YOU ABOUT WHAT HAPPENED FOR THE DAY BEFORE HE FORGETS ANYTHING INTRESTING 4. HE COOKS, SWEEPS, AND DO WORKS CONSIDERED A WOMAN THING TO DO 5. IF HE STAYS LATE NIGHT LIKE THIS ALL YOU GOT TO DO AS TELL HIM ABOUT IT AND NAK HIM FRYING PAN FOR HEAD....AND HE WON'T TAKE IT TOO SERIOUS THAT YOU'RE FIGHTING MARRIAGE IS MOSTLY THE LARGE PERCENT OF YOUR WHOLE LIFE IF YOU GETS TO BE ALIVE....DON'T GO IN TO TAKE CARE OF THE CHILDREN ALONE WHEN YOUR HUSBAND IS STILL ALIVE 3 Likes |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by IMASTEX: 7:11am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Tim16:You quickly believed what she said at bolded and concluded thus. Now to the reality, how many African women being the breadwinner of the family easily maintain calm? Even most men who have full housewife sometimes unconsciously complain of their wife of not keeping the house tidy enough as that is their only job. Secondly, I am yet to see a nagging woman acknowledging that act. Let's assume none of the mentioned is obtainable here. Do you know how it feels for a man to remain idle & watch his rule shifted to his wife all because of joblessness?! He could have just leave home to job hunt or just a way of appearing to be hustling instead of just seating at home without the sign of making effort. Tell the man to always come home early or not to even leave home when he got no job hunting. And see the same woman come here with a different title: how to make an unsupportive man become more financially responsible or at least make efforts. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by srclark: 7:16am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Tim16:will you keep quiet people like you have PHD in breaking marriages .Do you know why he keeps late ? Don't just jump into conclusion ,sometimes we men like to hang around certain friends when we find ourselves in situations like this .These days the only way to see some busy friends is at night at these places they cool off after work .Just pray he finds a job soon .Dont blame him yet these keeping late might be his only way of meeting his real contacts that can help him out of this situation also it might be the way he can get little financial assistance while job hunting (transport fare and little pocket change ) it is well |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by HRMK: 7:17am On Feb 19, 2020 |
WHAT HE NEEDS IS A JOB OR WORK THAT BRINGS HIM MONEY!THAT IS THE ONLY THING THAT GIVES HIM THE CONFIDENCE TO RELAX AT HOME WITH THE FAMILY! ESPECIALLY THE KIDS WHO WONT STOP ASKING DADDY FOR LITTLE THINGS THAT HE HAS TO BUY WITH MONEY!! 2 Likes |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by olaNL: 7:18am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Ouchbabe, it would be difficult to give a good advice without understanding the full context of things. When did his attitude of staying out late start? Is it after he lost his job? If it is, then think it is as a result of the job loss. Maybe he can't stand being the man of the house and not being able to provide for his family instead having to rely on his wife for means of sustainance and how he tries to cope with that is by making himself unavailable to at least make it look like he is occupied with something. I know you might not see it this way. But you should understand that men have their egos and have different ways of dealing with when it is down. Another thing that I would advise is for you to know the kind of friends he is going out with and if you talking terms with them, you should try and make known your displeasure about his attitude to them in a respectful manner. If his friends are responsible, they will talk sense to him. They major thing that he needs is a sense of purpose and responsibility. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by kushme: 7:21am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Tim16: The same HIV/AIDS that killed your aunt and her husband kill you dia. Mumu wey dey only live for pu,say. You senseless bastard. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by ugohenry2019(m): 7:26am On Feb 19, 2020 |
madam was he like this when he had job?? if no try contacting the said friends he hangs out wit and talk to them about ur concerns for ur husband and see if they can convince him....as a man been jobless could drive a man naught....the thought of not always providing for the children could be very shameful ...so just see if u can talk to the friends |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Lumpyy(f): 7:27am On Feb 19, 2020 |
EVILFOREST:So insensitive!! 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by kushme: 7:28am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Bugatie: Don't mind the pusay niccur... |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Lumpyy(f): 7:29am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Bugatie:Its so easy especially for ladies to INSULT another woman's husband�,imagine adding salt to an open wound!! |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by donsheddy1(m): 7:31am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Tim16:You don't just conclude issues this way my friend. That you know that your aunt's husband was promiscuous doesn't mean another is. What if he was ashamed of looking at his wife's face for being the bread winner of the house presently? Not all men are comfortable seeing their responsibilities being carried out by their wives. Have a heart to heart conversation with him and even arrange to go with him once or twice just to gain his trust. While out with him and his friends, (that's if he agrees to take you along) Tell him it's time to go home in a very cool manner. He'll come around. Trust God and yourself. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by gbemishile: 7:31am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Am not married yet,but with my nature I like the night life a lot.started way back in the uni.i like coming home very late cus I wanna see the street life of Lagos. If I get married,I pray I change,cus it's gonna be a problem to me and my wife |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Nobody: 7:33am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Tim16:naso e pain u reach? See u barking incoherently like a dog..Foolish fool |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by crestdevelopers: 7:35am On Feb 19, 2020 |
olisaEze:Very true... most men go through things they would rather not say. So as not to appear a weaker vessel. She should let him be. I pray by the grace of God that he finds his big break. I am positive that he would stop the late nights. 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Nobody: 7:44am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Pray for him God will arrest his soul, in this particular situation I'm not sure he can listen to your advice on that |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by cococandy(f): 8:02am On Feb 19, 2020 |
The number of posts supporting his irresponsible actions. The number of posts asking her to ignore his behavior, pray for him, wait until he gets old and tired, beg him, bla bla bla. Sigh Meanwhile who will be providing for everyone,raising the children, keeping the home and taking care of him as well while he hops about town bringing nothing to the home. Her I suppose . Right? There’s a reason why I have little sympathy for NL men. 5 Likes |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Tallesty1(m): 8:05am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Tim16:if you continue like this then you're going to be a perpetual victim of one side of the story. The OP thinks something is not right....... Right in whose perspective? Her? Him? Everybody? If you live in a place where all man is back in his hut with his family by 7pm. That is right, normal. But if you live in a city where nightlife thrives, you will see that coming home by 12 is normal. Their normal but for you, it's abnormal. By the way, an adage says that a man who eats without asking questions dies without falling sick. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by zakkxx: 8:11am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Please madam don’t kill the young man, is not easy to be Jobless; at times when a man cannot provide for his family he feel less of a man. Men cry too be calm and very gentle if not he will interpret your little complaint as a result of him being Jobless. Be calm beat him with your good character. God bless u 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Nobody: 8:11am On Feb 19, 2020 |
elmagnifico411:thanks sir, I understand...but still it doesn't make sense to just go about poisoning people's mind with what u are unsure of.. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by DavidEsq(m): 8:19am On Feb 19, 2020 |
So vampires dey lagos 1 Like |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by andycom(m): 8:21am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Gwagone: Check my profile very well I don't know comment on marital issues cos I have mine to contend with, but you see this bullshit you adviced her to do ehh!! Stop it. Change your mindset this is 2020. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by andycom(m): 8:23am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Gwagone: Let me even ask you, if as a married man and your wife monitors your movements will you like it? Capital NO. But you're advising her to do it to another person abi? |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by Nobody: 8:27am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Some men cannot do without bro time. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by thelegend1(m): 8:28am On Feb 19, 2020 |
magkhan: Spot on. I like you for this |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by mukthar2000(m): 8:39am On Feb 19, 2020 |
sister pls calm ur mind, the guy was always at the vendor spot reading news and argue politice to keep his self from thinking, i was once in that same position, but thank almight Allah today, just calm urself sister. |
Re: Help! My Husband Is A Night Crawler by adedayourt(m): 8:40am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Bugatie: You have spoken sense. Av just been seeing home wreckers trying to destroy another home with their family issues |
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