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Husband-stabbing: When Male-haters Masquerade As Feminists by potent5(m): 7:38am On Feb 18, 2020
Azuka Onwuka

There is a group of dangerous male-hating women on social media pretending to be feminists. They are bitter, bloodthirsty misandrists who hide under the cloak of championing female rights. Some are divorcees and cannot get over it; some are unmarried and unmarriageable; some were dropped by men because of their bad traits; some assumed they had a relationship when there was none; some grew up in violent homes and saw their mothers abused by their fathers; some were sexually molested and still suffering the trauma; some are mentally or psychologically unstable.

These women create different groups on social media, where they teach impressionable women the best ways to kill their husbands or boyfriends. They teach these naive women how to deal with men and show them the stuff they are made of. Even on their social media walls, they spit fire and regularly call men the scum of the earth that should be dispensed with. The pliable women lap up everything they hear and start seeing all men as monsters that should be dealt with. Their male partners become opponents and enemies that should never be given an inch of space. Such partners become guilty until proved innocent. Soon, their relationships start to crack and eventually pack up.

Some of the gullible women even take it to the next level of actually planning how to eliminate their husbands. Some put the plan into action by stabbing their husbands or poisoning them. Then, they get a life sentence or death sentence. It suddenly dawns on them that they had been deceived to take an extreme action. Even when they succeed in getting a light sentence, their life is ruined for life. They have the tag of murderer for the rest of their life. They live with the trauma and bloodguilt. Some become deranged later in life or get into substance abuse or even commit suicide.

Ironically, when they succeed in killing their husband, the misandrists who urged them on celebrate them and warn men that this is just the beginning. The men are blamed for deserving to be killed because of the allegation of infidelity against them or abuse of their wives. How can a human being support a woman stabbing a man who is asleep to death? Paradoxically, if such a man were to be their son or brother, they would argue that he does not deserve to be killed by another woman for whatever reason and would do everything possible to get back at the woman. The same women are those who raise dust at any mention of DNA test on children to ascertain their paternity.

The sad part is that misandrists are women with no scruples or morality. They believe that a woman should use what she has to get what she needs. They believe that marital fidelity is for the naive women. They are not asking for gender equality or equity; they are asking for gender domination of men by women. When they complain about patriarchy and want it eliminated, they simply want it replaced with matriarchy. They form gangs like wolves patrolling the social media space and looking for people to pounce on for not sharing their anti-male views. Any woman who does not hate men is their enemy.

This set of acerbic women has made it look as if feminism is evil. But such people must be appropriately tagged “misandrists,” so as to differentiate them from feminists. Feminism is a noble cause that seeks to empower women and remove all the barriers that put women at a disadvantage. Because men were in charge of affairs from the beginning of time, they made rules and policies that denied women many basic rights. For example, for many centuries, women could not vote or own property or go to school or bail detained people. It was people that fought for these rights to be given to women. And many of these people were men. Therefore, true feminists can be male or female.

Many countries like India, Pakistan, Germany, and the United Kingdom have even made it possible for women to be country leaders. And many of them have even performed better than men. So, women should not be held down by any handicap. However, physiologically, men are different from women, and are suited for certain roles. For example, despite all the attempts to swap roles, to get a child into the world, the man is naturally created to impregnate the woman, while the woman is naturally created to be pregnant and breastfeed the baby when born. None of these roles is inferior or superior. Rather, they are complementary.

Therefore, the relationship between married couples should be complementary rather than antagonistic. Those with failed relationships should not make every woman believe that men are enemies to women. No. Men are partners to women. Just as men disappoint women in relationships and marriages, so also do women disappoint men. Whoever gets hurt should heal and forge ahead. Nobody ever stops using water because the person’s father or mother drowned. The same water that drowns some people also gives life to people. That is why someone will say that a glass is half-empty, while another will say that the same glass is half-full. It is all about perspectives. It is the difference between negativism and positivism.

Most of the women who end up bitter against men are the agents of their own misfortune. Some women see certain men with signs of reliability, commitment, honesty and the like, but they reject them and embrace men with clear signs of dishonesty, unreliability, and non-commitment but with the gift of the gab. They see that such men cannot be trusted with women, are always involved in shady deals, and are always filled with windy tales. But they prefer such men because they are “happening dudes.” Those who warn them at that point about such men and even present evidence of past acts of fraud or deceit are tagged “enemies of progress” and ignored. Their desperation to get married and adopt the title “Mrs” blocks their sense of judgement. They convince themselves that once they are married, they will panel-beat their man into what they want. Soon, such men fleece them of all they have worked for and disappear, leaving them high and dry with their hope of marriage dashed. They feel bitter and start the chorus: “All men are the same; all men are evil.” But in truth no man hurt them; it was merely their desperation that did them in.

This type of woman then moves around with such bitterness, infecting other gullible women, and ruining the joy of the world. They teach other women why they should not allow their husbands to take them for granted, because “if you give men a yard, they will take a mile.” Some of the gullible women introduce undue aggression in their relationships and destroy relationships that had no problem. Then they all call themselves feminists, not knowing that they are misandrists that contribute nothing positive to the progress of women in the world. Ironically, the moment a gullible woman loses her man through her indiscretion, one of these so-called feminists steps into his life and takes him over, and starts giving the man all the “tender loving care” she spoke against.

Any woman of any age who wants to have a happy life and marriage should flee from such women like the coronavirus. They have nothing positive, valuable, or sweet to add to anyone’s life or to the fate of women in the world.
Re: Husband-stabbing: When Male-haters Masquerade As Feminists by donbachi(m): 7:49am On Feb 18, 2020
One chidubem just ended her marriage,over her advice on Facebook.how women should remove their husbands car break...which will leave him either dead or in a vegetable state after the accident.....why kill each other when u can just walk away and walk into the arm of another person dat will love,care,cherish and treat u better....marriage no be by force.

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Re: Husband-stabbing: When Male-haters Masquerade As Feminists by elektra(f): 8:08am On Feb 18, 2020
Some women be taking marriage too damn serious.
Just walk away!
Nobody’s life is worth taking just because you exchanged some vows with them.

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Re: Husband-stabbing: When Male-haters Masquerade As Feminists by Perra: 9:16am On Feb 18, 2020
They are all getting what they deserve. Why marry a full grown woman and continiously disrepect her by cheating?? They are unrepentant and behave like dogs. Some give their wives all sorts of disease, ..Hiv, StI ...some women die from these diseases, ...some continiuosly have health issues for life .

If as a man your wife is no longer enough or ok for u, and u make cheating your lifestyle, ( not that u made some mistakes and repented) ...then i tell you, you deserve whatever comes your way! It is allowed!

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Re: Husband-stabbing: When Male-haters Masquerade As Feminists by AfroKnight: 9:26am On Feb 18, 2020
Said it before, and I’m saying it again.

Feminists have no business getting married. And the truth is feminists are man haters these days. Save us all the stress. grin Marry your fellow women abeg. And that’s if they would put up with the bitterness that drives you.

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Re: Husband-stabbing: When Male-haters Masquerade As Feminists by Liliyann(f): 3:16pm On Feb 18, 2020
Why cheat on a woman you pledge to love for eternity?
It's ok for a man to cheat but once a woman does the same, she is sent back to her father's house?
God forbid if you should leave your husband as a woman or even complain to people, God forbid you should introduce yourself as a divorced woman or a single mum, your fellow woman judges you, your family view you as a failure, your church members sees you as someone that is spiritually weak, your neighbor sees what the man shows them and not the beast he is to his family...all you get is pray pray pray, he will change, go down on your kneels, nothing prayer can't solve undecided
And then, the woman goes home bitter, no one to talk to or even confide in, she takes it all in, frustrated, unappreciated, tired, unloved, unsexed, bittered, worst of it all the society expects her to smile, take it all in because you are a woman!!
Then the man gallivants around, strutting like a peacock, grooming a bitter and unappreciated woman, what do you all think will happen when she can't take it again? Of course she will strike back in any way and anyhow she knows how to...until we change our mentality about a woman, until we start giving our wife's audience, a listening ear, a helping hand, being appreciative, and kind to them because we are all equal, no one has the monopoly to cheat in marriage while the other endures, until then...

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Re: Husband-stabbing: When Male-haters Masquerade As Feminists by Nobody: 5:46pm On Feb 18, 2020
The only people who are frustrated and filled to the brim with hatred for women are red piller alfa mails.

So I find this thread ironic cause those frustrated mails exhibit their hate every day here on this forum.

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Re: Husband-stabbing: When Male-haters Masquerade As Feminists by Nobody: 5:53pm On Feb 18, 2020
Perra:
They are all getting what they deserve. Why marry a full grown woman and continiously disrepect her by cheating?? They are unrepentant and behave like dogs. Some give their wives all sorts of disease, ..Hiv, StI ...some women die from these diseases, ...some continiuosly have health issues for life .

If as a man your wife is no longer enough or ok for u, and u make cheating your lifestyle, ( not that u made some mistakes and repented) ...then i tell you, you deserve whatever comes your way! It is allowed!


It’s people like this the OP is referring to. Brothers please be safe, the white people preaching monogamy to us are actually serial polygamists, they divorce and get married to someone they have been eyeing resulting in a broken home.

Please kings, when your babe/woman exhibits these kind of traits just run as far as your leg can carry you.

Shalom.
Re: Husband-stabbing: When Male-haters Masquerade As Feminists by Nobody: 5:57pm On Feb 18, 2020
Liliyann:
Why cheat on a woman you pledge to love for eternity?
It's ok for a man to cheat but once a woman does the same, she is sent back to her father's house?
God forbid if you should leave your husband as a woman or even complain to people, God forbid you should introduce yourself as a divorced woman or a single mum, your fellow woman judges you, your family view you as a failure, your church members sees you as someone that is spiritually weak, your neighbor sees what the man shows them and not the beast he is to his family...all you get is pray pray pray, he will change, go down on your kneels, nothing prayer can't solve undecided
And then, the woman goes home bitter, no one to talk to or even confide in, she takes it all in, frustrated, unappreciated, tired, unloved, unsexed, bittered, worst of it all the society expects her to smile, take it all in because you are a woman!!
Then the man gallivants around, strutting like a peacock, grooming a bitter and unappreciated woman, what do you all think will happen when she can't take it again? Of course she will strike back in any way and anyhow she knows how to...until we change our mentality about a woman, until we start giving our wife's audience, a listening ear, a helping hand, being appreciative, and kind to them because we are all equal, no one has the monopoly to cheat in marriage while the other endures, until then...

Na them.

Woman, check well, the westerners promoting monogamy be serial polygamists! Divorce today, marry another one tomorrow. Na their way, think well, African man just get side-chick now unto say una no want second wife, una still dey kill them ontop the matter.

Women should be supporting women, not all women would get married, let the single ones get a feel of the married men.

“*Ye !! Who slap me”

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Re: Husband-stabbing: When Male-haters Masquerade As Feminists by cococandy(f): 6:47pm On Feb 18, 2020
I’m almost pretty sure none of those who killed their husbands ever identified as a feminist.

If anything, they are the type who swear to die in their marriages no matter how bad it is. Those ones who don’t have any identity outside of being married. They Specifically are the none feminist type.

Y’alls unreasoning hatred for women who want the same basic respect that you expect won’t let any of you be sensible.

A feminist won’t kill you. she will dump you when you try to limit her because she’s married to you.

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Re: Husband-stabbing: When Male-haters Masquerade As Feminists by Biofil84(m): 7:37pm On Feb 18, 2020
I am not and I will not be a subscriber to cheating in marriage, but be that as it may voilence is never the right way to resolve issues...if you can't stay take a walk.


Why spill blood..

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Re: Husband-stabbing: When Male-haters Masquerade As Feminists by yeyeosoronga: 8:13pm On Feb 18, 2020
Since you know these females and their groups who plan to murder men, kindly inform the police quickly. It is your civic and moral responsibility to do so, otherwise you are also culpable.
Unless, of course you're just assuming things and being dramatic, otherwise pls kindly report to the police. Send a tweet/post to the social media handles of the NPF, also their PRO in Lagos. Thanks

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Re: Husband-stabbing: When Male-haters Masquerade As Feminists by potent5(m): 7:21am On Feb 20, 2020
A feminist, sorry misandrist, spotted.
Perra:
They are all getting what they deserve. Why marry a full grown woman and continiously disrepect her by cheating?? They are unrepentant and behave like dogs. Some give their wives all sorts of disease, ..Hiv, StI ...some women die from these diseases, ...some continiuosly have health issues for life .

If as a man your wife is no longer enough or ok for u, and u make cheating your lifestyle, ( not that u made some mistakes and repented) ...then i tell you, you deserve whatever comes your way! It is allowed!
Re: Husband-stabbing: When Male-haters Masquerade As Feminists by potent5(m): 7:24am On Feb 20, 2020
They get into marriage, not for the sake of matrimony, but just to get back at men and make an example of their victim-husband's. grin
AfroKnight:
Said it before, and I’m saying it again.

Feminists have no business getting married. And the truth is feminists are man haters these days. Save us all the stress. grin Marry your fellow women abeg. And that’s if they would put up with the bitterness that drives you.

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