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Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by kepstone: 11:52am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Good day my people. Moderator Please I need you to move this to front page I need sound and matured advice. I am AS..Life has been so good to me because of God, my parents, good friends. But this aspect of my life has left me crying. Since 2008 I have been praying for a life partner, like from my University days, I have never lived a bad life never entered into relationship until 2011 after my graduation. I asked my University girl out it went well only to discover after 5yrs we were not compatible because of oga genotype, I saw this girl crying in my room when we decided to part ways, she was the most amazing gf I had then, I never had sex with her, she was saying you are all I desire but why us, why why. After that I got hook to another 2015 ending by my friend her genotype was AA, this girl was the nightmare of my life it did not workout more than 18 months, I met another 2017 church member who was AA later turn to scammer I gave my all but Still it ended. I rested a bit met another in 2018 Holy Moses drama queen though AA, the relationship was money centred I have to quit. All the good girls I have met are AS who loved me deeply and ready for marriage I have lost 5 good AS l mean Matured rich ladies due to genotype issue. I am not getting younger at all, many ppl ask me why is that you don't want to settle down I keep saying in God's time but the major factor has been oga genotype. I recently met a lady she is everything I have ever prayed for in a wife, she loves me to piece but I asked her about genotype, she said AS 0+ I was eating when she told me I lost appetite and started crying lord why me, I was in my room chatting with her and eating. Amazingly my parents were AS and they gave birth to all of us AA and AS I can't say how this miracle happened we are 7 in number no SS at all. Should I forget about this girl and keep waiting for someone with AA good character and the one I love. Can I talk to her that we can push through this, knowing that I only plan to have 2 kids in my family AS+AS=AA,AS kids I am not happy, did not go to work today just thinking lord why me. I need help. |
Re: Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by Davash222(m): 11:54am On Feb 19, 2020 |
What if I tell you some of these girls don’t know what genotype is or even know their genotype. They have to tell you AA or AS cos they don’t want to look stupid in your eyes. Endeavor to take them to a hospital to confirm their genotype next time. I once asked a girl her genotype and she said O positive. The mumu girl was mistaking genotype for blood group. 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by Bola146(f): 11:56am On Feb 19, 2020 |
Same here with me, I have missed alot of good guys due to my genotype. It's well. God understand better. I just need a miracle to change my genotype to AA 6 Likes |
Re: Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by Reelstar: 12:02pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
I will advise u asked any girl u are interested in before going far in the relationship of her genotype . This will save u unnecessary nightmares. I pray u find the lady that suite u soon. Amen. 3 Likes |
Re: Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by BrutusOj(m): 12:07pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Davash222:Lol.. 1 Like |
Re: Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by Ginaz(f): 12:43pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Then I’m in luck then... I always meet AA dudes. 1 Like |
Re: Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by Nobody: 12:48pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
It seems you have bad luck. Fishers of men. |
Re: Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by proclinician: 1:00pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Davash222: Very correct 1 Like |
Re: Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by CAPSLOCKED: 1:01pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Bola146: YOU WILL LIVE WITH YOUR GENOTYPE FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. CAN'T BE CHANGED BY ANY PRAYERS OR MIRACLES. 5 Likes |
Re: Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by zexy2030(m): 1:08pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
kepstone:Two suggestion 1.let's open a genotype thread, I'm AA, from here may find a match with goodly character if only u don't mind her age. 2. Choose from AS that u love so much get married and decide on just two kids but very very prayerful, even before n after sex and sow seeds of healthy children to a place your faith works. Don't forget to return worship to God who gives all things and with him nothing is impossible. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by Skmoda360(m): 1:17pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Ginaz:Same here...all em girls have been meeting are AA, anyway I'm AA. |
Re: Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by Professorcplus(m): 1:22pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Op just keep searching I hope you found the lady you are compatible with. The crises you might experience during searching for AA is nothing compared to marring incompatible lady and giving birth to SS and other with sickle cell. Beside most people never knew what genotype means and some don't even know theirs. I used to claim AA since it is the only genotype I grew up to know until I went for medical check up for admission and found out that my genotype was AC . Did few research on Google and found out that the best partner for me should be AA. genotype. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by TonyeBarcanista(m): 1:37pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Take heart brother |
Re: Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by Omar09(m): 1:37pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
CAPSLOCKED: . |
Re: Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by Babis1: 1:45pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
I am here to read comments |
Re: Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by Oppy4God(f): 1:51pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
same here... Genotype wahala |
Re: Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by kepstone: 1:57pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
zexy2030:Yes exactly my thoughts.. I love this girl and she loves me too. I just want 2 kids in life so dt I all take good care of them to any level on life.. then adopt other kids if need be. How do I explain this to her, how do I convince her we can push through I have the faith I believe in miracles, I once had a deadly disease that ended after much prayers and faith in God. I believe in the supernatural. 1 Like |
Re: Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by Cchuks27(m): 2:03pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
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Re: Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by kepstone: 2:12pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Not that I have not see AA but this girl's don't even love me at all. The AA girl now who shows me love as a friend had a serious relationship and our age difference is 14yrs. I am looking for a mature lady 28-33 AA I don't sleep around, celebrate for 3decades now that I have desired to settle down all this are happening. If I had gone ahead to marry the other girls I will see hell on Earth. Is it adviceable to marry with 14yrs difference I am not even considering breaking my friends relationship with her guy I HV waited for 3yrs now the relationship no wan break.. although I told her I would have loved to marry her. She said I know she has someone. |
Re: Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by Sezi01: 2:14pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Guy the probability of having SS children is just 1/4..i.e your kids have a higher percentage of being AS[2/4 percent]. Also its not a must to have kids, you can always adopt one. If you must have kids, you can always opt for surrogate mothers[she can be AA] or IVF from a donor [He can be AA], or if you can afford it, test tube babies[outside the countryy. Please don't let your genotype decide your happiness abeg... |
Re: Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by Brooke60(f): 3:14pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
I am also AS and guy, its not easy. Lost a good one because of this. I ask 'What is your genotype' before liking a guy. Its not easy bro. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by Breezzy(m): 3:29pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
We wey be AA no no wetin God do for us |
Re: Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by Foodqueen(f): 3:30pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Hmmmm, inside life!!! During my undergraduate days, i had a roommate that was AS and her boyfriend too was AS. After some time they decided to break. The guy said the lady should hook up first before he will follow suit. The lady dated other guys but it didn't work out, after like 3yrs the guy came back and they are happily married now. They usually check for baby's genotype before proceeding with the pregnancy. 2 Likes |
Re: Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by franklingud(m): 3:59pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Bola146:Am AA, and O+. Can we work something out? |
Re: Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by soleexx(m): 5:12pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Oppy4God: You want to mingle? |
Re: Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by Lamanii22(f): 5:13pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Davash222: Maddo! Your comment make sense init... OP kindly follow this advice... |
Re: Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by Rexology: 6:41pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
kepstone:In life, 1+1 does not necessarily equal to 2. God is in charge of our lives, no mortal has absolute contol over his life. It is very important you marry a lady that loves you more, than the one you love more. A lady that loved you deeply is an asset, but what did you do? you left her because of her Genotype and by extension, the genotype of your children. While you are still pondering on the possibility and fear of giving birth to SS should you marry AS, also ponder on these: What if you end up getting married to a lady with AA and she bears no child? What if you end up with AA that will send you to your early grave? What if you marry an AA lady and give birth to a child with down syndrome? Too many WHAT IFs to ponder on. What God has prepared for you might be inconsistent with what the world want or expected but the end thereof lies his Glory. Listen to your inner spirit and follow your conviction ,don't listen to the world. 2 Likes |
Re: Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by Nyceguy92: 7:25pm On Feb 19, 2020 |
Simply put, you have been unlucky so far. But not to worry. Your equation: AS+AS = AA, AS kids caught my attention. Bros, it doesn't work like that. Each time AS + AS couple is expecting a child, the baby's genotype is like a raffle draw. Depending on whether the baby received A or S material from either parent, the possible genotypes are AA, AS, AS, SS. That is, the odds that your baby will be born with the SS problem is 25%. It seems small but it happens. You may be unlucky with the first child, second, even all of them. As others suggested, confirm the genotype yourself before you call it quits. Any reasonable person will understand the need to not go further. Your parents were super lucky that they did not have a stickler among the 7 of you. You may not be as lucky as them. I have a thread on this topic in my posts. 1 Like |
Re: Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by kepstone: 4:37pm On Feb 21, 2020 |
Rexology: |
Re: Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by brownemmanuel43(m): 11:56am On Feb 24, 2020 |
kepstone:op at the bolded, u are more or less than her. |
Re: Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by kepstone: 3:16pm On Feb 29, 2020 |
brownemmanuel43:More than her |
Re: Genotype Is Scattering My Ability To Settle Down by AlphaSoul: 7:29pm On Feb 25, 2021 |
Davash222:/ Word! / |
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