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Getting Tired Of Relationship by Nobody: 12:31pm On Feb 20, 2020
I have a girl I have dated for six years, since my secondary school time, I want to marry her. I checked her phone the other day and noticed that she saved my name as fb and smart. While I was going through her contact I saw another number saved as desire, I checked it and the number is wasn't mine. I went ahead to check her text massages and I saw some romantic massages they have been sending to each other. When I confronted her she told me that he is just a friend, then I told her that if he is just a friend that why will she save his number as desire and save mine as fb and smart.
She told me that she is not cheating on me that she loves me, that I shouldn't mind what I saw. When I pressed harder on it she told me that after all we are not yet married.
Pls what should I do, and I love her, am just confused
Re: Getting Tired Of Relationship by Akukaliaa(m): 12:45pm On Feb 20, 2020
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Re: Getting Tired Of Relationship by Nobody: 12:48pm On Feb 20, 2020
You want her to open mouth to tell you to go make money? grin
Re: Getting Tired Of Relationship by Officialgarri: 12:55pm On Feb 20, 2020
stupidity:
You want her to open mouth to tell you to go make money? grin

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Re: Getting Tired Of Relationship by Sanchez01: 12:55pm On Feb 20, 2020
Andersonc:
When I pressed harder on it she told me that after all we are not yet married.
Pls what should I do, and I love her, am just confused
You already have your answer but you still want to explore other possible options?

Share 'The Grace' and move on already.

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Re: Getting Tired Of Relationship by CAPSLOCKED: 12:56pm On Feb 20, 2020
Andersonc:
I have a girl I have dated for six years, since my secondary school time, I want to marry her. I checked her phone the other day and noticed that she saved my name as fb and smart. While I was going through her contact I saw another number saved as desire, I checked it and the number is wasn't mine. I went ahead to check her text massages and I saw some romantic massages they have been sending to each other. When I confronted her she told me that he is just a friend, then I told her that if he is just a friend that why will she save his number as desire and save mine as fb and smart.
She told me that she is not cheating on me that she loves me, that I shouldn't mind what I saw. When I pressed harder on it she told me that after all we are not yet married.
Pls what should I do, and I love her, am just confused

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Re: Getting Tired Of Relationship by CAPSLOCKED: 12:57pm On Feb 20, 2020
YOU DID NOT CREATE A NEW ACCOUNT TO HIDE YOUR IDENTITY BECAUSE YOU'RE QUITE POPULAR HERE?
YOU FALL HANDS BROS.

BUT AT LEAST YOU ADDED "WHAT SHOULD I DO" AND "AM CONFUSED PLS".
SO YOU HAVE HALF-MARK.

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Re: Getting Tired Of Relationship by crackkhaus: 12:59pm On Feb 20, 2020
I wonder what this one wants us to tell him.

Okay, buy her an iPhone.

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Re: Getting Tired Of Relationship by EricksonDick: 2:34pm On Feb 20, 2020
Re: Getting Tired Of Relationship by bukatyne(f): 3:14pm On Feb 20, 2020
Andersonc:
I have a girl I have dated for six years, since my secondary school time, I want to marry her. I checked her phone the other day and noticed that she saved my name as fb and smart. While I was going through her contact I saw another number saved as desire, I checked it and the number is wasn't mine. I went ahead to check her text massages and I saw some romantic massages they have been sending to each other. When I confronted her she told me that he is just a friend, then I told her that if he is just a friend that why will she save his number as desire and save mine as fb and smart.
She told me that she is not cheating on me that she loves me, that I shouldn't mind what I saw. When I pressed harder on it she told me that after all we are not yet married.
Pls what should I do, and I love her, am just confused

You need to love yourself and place a premium on yourself.

Decide if you are so desperate for company that you would be in a 'situationship' because you are not married.

Like the Bible says, if you are not faithful in small things, how can bigger things be entrusted in you?

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Re: Getting Tired Of Relationship by Lamanii22(f): 3:57pm On Feb 20, 2020
Ubunja needs a new student... This OP needs to enroll into y'all redpills gang...

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Re: Getting Tired Of Relationship by Nobody: 4:12pm On Feb 20, 2020
Lamanii22:
Ubunja needs a new student... This OP needs to enroll into y'all redpills gang...

More like the op needs a new teacher; Ubunja pls save him.

Maybe Ubunja should start a webinar for all these NL boys sef. I don't know what is their problem. I don taya pata pata. This is the kind of thing that will make somebody deactivate o. It is like swimming against a river. Don't these boys have fathers ni? What did these fathers teach them about women?

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Re: Getting Tired Of Relationship by ubunja(m): 4:32pm On Feb 20, 2020
Lamanii22:
Ubunja needs a new student... This OP needs to enroll into y'all redpills gang...
"Red Pills Gang"


I love the sound of that.

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Re: Getting Tired Of Relationship by ubunja(m): 4:35pm On Feb 20, 2020
bukatyne:


You need to love yourself and place a premium on yourself.

Decide if you are so desperate for company that you would be in a 'situationship' because you are not married.

Like the Bible says, if you are not faithful in small things, how can bigger things be entrusted in you?

so refreshing to see ladies give real advice to guys in here. Keep it up.

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Re: Getting Tired Of Relationship by Liliyann(f): 4:38pm On Feb 20, 2020
I'm glad she has a second option cool
6yrs and you can't do the right and proper thing!!
You are single until you say I do!!
From your writeup, you sound like a boy that is yet to figure out his purpose!!
Stay away from her phone in order not kill yourself!

PS: I wonder why some of these NL alpha male are changing their gender to Female cheesy Does it mean that they are secretly in love with the gender they hate so much?

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Re: Getting Tired Of Relationship by Youngzedd(m): 4:43pm On Feb 20, 2020
I am tired of boys of this generation.

Why are you guys so stup1d

Chai! The harvest is plenty but the labourers are few.

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Re: Getting Tired Of Relationship by Youngzedd(m): 4:50pm On Feb 20, 2020
Andersonc:
I have a girl I have dated for six years, since my secondary school time, I want to marry her. I checked her phone the other day and noticed that she saved my name as fb and smart. While I was going through her contact I saw another number saved as desire, I checked it and the number is wasn't mine. I went ahead to check her text massages and I saw some romantic massages they have been sending to each other. When I confronted her she told me that he is just a friend, then I told her that if he is just a friend that why will she save his number as desire and save mine as fb and smart.
She told me that she is not cheating on me that she loves me, that I shouldn't mind what I saw. When I pressed harder on it she told me that after all we are not yet married.
Pls what should I do, and I love her, am just confused

Side bobo is complaining grin grin

Bro, you need to have standard. Just stop all these nonsense. Majority of naija babes have no love to give.

Watch. Never put up with a girlfriend's Sh1t >
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xX7W5ay_TrU

Lies and manipulations are how she survives >>

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2-9u9kBoFzQ

Recognise and avoid damaged goods >>

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8lAdgC6OZRM

Go through the following threads >>

https://www.nairaland.com/5520205/ubunjas-miseducation-chosen

https://www.nairaland.com/5251159/ubunjas-miseducation-choosing-girl

https://www.nairaland.com/5520169/ubunjas-miseducation-no-green-lights


https://www.nairaland.com/5322792/ubunjas-miseducation-how-women-gold


Finally go through other of his threads https://www.nairaland.com/ubunja


Download the essential Red Pill book every man must read. Atleast one link must work.

the manipulated man by Esther Villar:

https://forum.bodybuilding.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=1211941&d=1206227136


https://pdfs.semanticscholar.org/e29a/99c8a6322e40d27b9c6ff5e152ed24110831.pdf

https://ia801609.us.archive.org/7/items/TheManipulatedMan1971-EstherVilar/Esther%20Vilar%20-%20The%20Manipulated%20Man.pdf


If you don't have sense after watching and reading the above, then you can never have sense in the world.

You need to understand women to be able to enjoy them. You simply don't understand them.

Women aren't as complicated as you see them, it's just that she has been performing successfully sh1t tests on you which gave her the morale to do Sh1t because she knows that you will allow it as a weak man you're.


Thank me later.
Re: Getting Tired Of Relationship by ubunja(m): 4:56pm On Feb 20, 2020
Youngzedd:


Side bobo is complaining grin grin

Bro, you need to have standard. Just stop all these nonsense. Majority of naija babes have no love to give.

Watch. Never put up with a girlfriend's Sh1t >
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xX7W5ay_TrU

Lies and manipulations are how she survives >>

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2-9u9kBoFzQ

Recognise and avoid damaged goods >>

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8lAdgC6OZRM

Go through the following threads >>

https://www.nairaland.com/5520205/ubunjas-miseducation-chosen

https://www.nairaland.com/5251159/ubunjas-miseducation-choosing-girl

https://www.nairaland.com/5520169/ubunjas-miseducation-no-green-lights


https://www.nairaland.com/5322792/ubunjas-miseducation-how-women-gold


Finally go through other of his threads https://www.nairaland.com/ubunja


Download the essential Red Pill book every man must read. Atleast one link must work.

the manipulated man by Esther Villar:

https://forum.bodybuilding.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=1211941&d=1206227136


https://pdfs.semanticscholar.org/e29a/99c8a6322e40d27b9c6ff5e152ed24110831.pdf

https://ia801609.us.archive.org/7/items/TheManipulatedMan1971-EstherVilar/Esther%20Vilar%20-%20The%20Manipulated%20Man.pdf


If you don't have sense after watching and reading the above, then you can never have sense in the world.

You need to understand women to be able to enjoy them. You simply don't understand them.

Women aren't as complicated as you see them, it's just that she has been performing successfully sh1t tests on you which gave her the morale to do Sh1t because she knows that you will allow it as a weak man you're.


Thank me later.
good effort. We need to save every guy who wants to be saved.

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Re: Getting Tired Of Relationship by Firstorderwizard(m): 4:59pm On Feb 20, 2020
RisenPhoenix:


More like the op needs a new teacher; Ubunja pls save him.

Maybe Ubunja should start a webinar for all these NL boys sef. I don't know what is their problem. I don taya pata pata. This is the kind of thing that will make somebody deactivate o. It is like swimming against a river. Don't these boys have fathers ni? What did these fathers teach them about women?

Our fathers fvck up big time.
Could you Imagine that it's mama that advised me on how to handle women ( treat her like a queen shit) while papa looked on . I got wise when I was bitten by my supposed queen and while searching for the antidote, I came across Ubunjas red pill that opened the way for me to access other red pills.
Papas them no try at all.

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Re: Getting Tired Of Relationship by Firstorderwizard(m): 5:01pm On Feb 20, 2020
Youngzedd:
I am tired of boys of this generation.

Why are you guys so stup1d

Chai! The harvest is plenty but the labourers are few.
Re: Getting Tired Of Relationship by CaveAdullam: 8:23pm On Feb 20, 2020
Relationship ought to be enlisted among the courses offered in the higher institutions or maybe at secondary level.

Relationship these days is getting more complicated than econometrics and calculus combined.

And for the way my fellow guys are handling this relationship issue is really bothering. Young men no longer focus on grand breaking inventions or discoveries especially here in Africa/Nigeria, upon the economic struggles and bad governance, they still allow themselves to be played back and forth by "audio love."

My brother, the signals are there for you to decipher, and it's not a difficult theory to understand.

Run for your dear life, and focus on a better thing.

Thanks.

God bless.
Re: Getting Tired Of Relationship by TonyeBarcanista(m): 7:40am On Feb 21, 2020
Andersonc:
I have a girl I have dated for six years, since my secondary school time, I want to marry her. I checked her phone the other day and noticed that she saved my name as fb and smart. While I waQs going through her contact I saw another number saved as desire, I checked it and the number is wasn't mine. I went ahead to check her text massages and I saw some romantic massages they have been sending to each other. When I confronted her she told me that he is just a friend, then I told her that if he is just a friend that why will she save his number as desire and save mine as fb and smart.
She told me that she is not cheating on me that she loves me, that I shouldn't mind what I saw. When I pressed harder on it she told me that after all we are not yet married.
Pls what should I do, and I love her, am just confused
I just don't understand what you mean by the emboldened. You know what to do but you are only in a confused state because you don't want to lose someone that doesn't care about you.

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Re: Getting Tired Of Relationship by Zombiekiller010: 9:59am On Feb 21, 2020
Break her heart before she break your heart

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