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Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by Beth2000: 9:19pm On Feb 20
A 22-year-old Lady had shared on Reddit about her fiance asking her to "allow" his father to check her hymen on the eve of their wedding day.

She wrote: "Everything was going great. He seems absolutely perfect and we are very much in love," said the 22-year-old Lady.

According to her statement, her fiance had once told her that it was the tradition and a norm that his father check the virginity of the brides in the family, the night before weddings.

She furthermore narrated; "No turns out he was dead serious. He wants me, the night before to open my legs up in a small ceremony type thing so his dad can check me while him, his brothers and uncle can watch so that they know I am still 'pure'," wrote the woman. She wasn't having any of it though. "I told him fat chance I am going to do that and he was begging to me to go through with it and how important it is for him."

Her fiance then pointed to his mother undergoing the sexist practice to make his case. "He said he knew it was slightly embarrassing for me but his mom did and it will prove how much I love him and that I have nothing to hide anyway as I am still a virgin," wrote the woman.

Continue reading here
http://opr.news/s7c71f76d200220en_ng

Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by MrBrownJay1(m): 9:23pm On Feb 20
what type of nonsense is this?! but the dude did tell the babe that this was his tradition (however disgusting it may be)....so she can accept or bounce!

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Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by Skmoda360(m): 9:30pm On Feb 20
what sort of Rubbish is this now? undecided

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Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by Beth2000: 9:30pm On Feb 20
Don't you think the lady should have accepted knowing the fact that it is a tradition?
Here's the whole story sha
http://opr.news/s7c71f76d200220en_ng
MrBrownJay1:
what type of nonsense is this?! but the dude did tell the babe that this was his tradition (however disgusting it may be)....so she can accept or bounce!
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by BethRichie: 9:35pm On Feb 20
cool cool cool
Skmoda360:
what sort of Rubbish is this now? undecided
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by Freestainworld(m): 9:36pm On Feb 20
what kind if stupid tradition is that, if it was his mum, its even better, but father, hell no, the guy sef na real time mugu, how can my precious food by exposed for flies ?

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Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by BethRichie: 9:43pm On Feb 20
You haven't read the whole story, have you?
She isn't exposing it at the market square!
Freestainworld:
what kind if stupid tradition is that, if it was his mum, its even better, but father, hell no, the guy sef na real time mugu, how can my precious food by exposed for flies ?
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:05pm On Feb 20
Beth2000:
Don't you think the lady should have accepted knowing the fact that it is a tradition?
Here's the whole story sha
http://opr.news/s7c71f76d200220en_ng

she has the right to decide if she wants to go through that awkward test or not... but they should have confirmed earlier that she was ok with it.

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Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by uboma(m): 10:47pm On Feb 20
She thought the Groom and father were trying to play a fast one on her


Culture cannot be looked

I would do same if I was the bride.
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by godofuck231: 10:47pm On Feb 20
He must be igbo, na them de know fake and genuine goods
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by Sixfeetbelle: 11:25pm On Feb 20
BethRichie:
You haven't read the whole story, have you?
She isn't exposing it at the market square!

Even at that, it's wrong. I can accept if the mother was asked to check, but another male is out of the question. And how do you know what the procedure would entail? Will he not penetrate her using his dick? Now imagine a girl's first time sex would be with her father-in-law. angry angry

I disagree completely.

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Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by Fejimummy: 11:32pm On Feb 20
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Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by BabbanBura(m): 11:37pm On Feb 20
Beth2000:
A 22-year-old Lady had shared on Reddit about her fiance asking her to "allow" his father to check her hymen on the eve of their wedding day.

She wrote: "Everything was going great. He seems absolutely perfect and we are very much in love," said the 22-year-old Lady.

According to her statement, her fiance had once told her that it was the tradition and a norm that his father check the virginity of the brides in the family, the night before weddings.

She furthermore narrated; "No turns out he was dead serious. He wants me, the night before to open my legs up in a small ceremony type thing so his dad can check me while him, his brothers and uncle can watch so that they know I am still 'pure'," wrote the woman. She wasn't having any of it though. "I told him fat chance I am going to do that and he was begging to me to go through with it and how important it is for him."

Her fiance then pointed to his mother undergoing the sexist practice to make his case. "He said he knew it was slightly embarrassing for me but his mom did and it will prove how much I love him and that I have nothing to hide anyway as I am still a virgin," wrote the woman.

Continue reading here
http://opr.news/s7c71f76d200220en_ng

Some.cultures have refused to evolve!
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by Coolcalmcollect(m): 11:44pm On Feb 20
she's stupid, since she was told of the tradition at the beginning why back out when the time came to act? she's an idiot.
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by TomMary(f): 7:45am On Feb 21
Stupid tradition ... The father should have slept with her to confirm it not just checking.... Rubbish
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by Bigmanpickin: 9:52am On Feb 21
godofuck231:
He must be igbo, na them de know fake and genuine goods
Your brain is on vacation

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Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by babakelove: 11:26am On Feb 21
Agreement is an agreement .

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Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by godofuck231: 11:31am On Feb 21
Bigmanpickin:
Your brain is on vacation
lol
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by BethRichie: 12:27pm On Feb 21
But time waits for no one especially you Ladies
Getting another man can take extra years; if you're ugly that's will be grin cheesy grin
uboma:
She thought the Groom and father were trying to play a fast one on her


Culture cannot be looked

I would do same if I was the bride.
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by BethRichie: 12:31pm On Feb 21
Kai cheesy grin that man fit be your uncle ooo
Una go dey do the same thing undecided lipsrsealed
godofuck231:
He must be igbo, na them de know fake and genuine goods
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by rafindo(m): 1:13pm On Feb 21
MrBrownJay1:


she has the right to decide if she wants to go through that awkward test or not... but they should have confirmed earlier that she was ok with it.


Not when millions have been invested.

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Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:16pm On Feb 21
rafindo:
Not when millions have been invested.

come on bro! anyone has the right to walk away, for whatever reason, no matter how much money/time/effort has been invested.

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Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by BethRichie: 1:25pm On Feb 21
She can; only when he pays back for expenses the guys have done so far!
I won't tolerate she walking out the relationship like that angry sad angry
MrBrownJay1:


come on bro! anyone has the right to walk away, for whatever reason, no matter how much money/time/effort has been invested.
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by MrBrownJay1(m): 1:36pm On Feb 21
BethRichie:
She can; only when he pays back for expenses the guys have done so far!
I won't tolerate she walking out the relationship like that angry sad angry

bro, as much as it certainly aint ideal, would you rather force someone to marry you, even though they didnt want to do so any longer?!?!?!?
changing your mind about marrying someone isnt something that would be taken lightly.... the fact that your sole concern would be financial says a lot about your state of mind.... i would be much more concerned about losing the woman i was ready to spend the rest of my natural life with.
i guess we see things differently.
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by Fountainofyouth(f): 2:08pm On Feb 21
I don't blame her.

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Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by Fountainofyouth(f): 2:11pm On Feb 21
BethRichie:
You haven't read the whole story, have you?
She isn't exposing it at the market square!


Hello, the father and brothers are market square, they are flies.

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Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by Fountainofyouth(f): 2:13pm On Feb 21
Coolcalmcollect:
she's stupid, since she was told of the tradition at the beginning why back out when the time came to act? she's an idiot.


Did you read where she's said she thought he was joking? Meaning he first told her jokingly, you are the idiot here.

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Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by BethRichie: 2:23pm On Feb 21
Is it not checking just the heymen or are they going to insert something there? What if she's in the hospital won't the doctors and nurses see vagi... too or are they not humans?
Fountainofyouth:



Hello, the father and brothers are market square, they are flies.
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by LilMissFavvy(f): 4:02pm On Feb 21
Wow, if all the brides there would act like this, the evil tradition would be wiped out.

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Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by Coolcalmcollect(m): 5:57pm On Feb 21
Fountainofyouth:



Did you read where she's said she thought he was joking? Meaning he first told her jokingly, you are the idiot here.
the elders of your village and family are idiots. what's the meaning of he told her jokingly? a guy will tell you that and you think it's joke... fish brain
Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by Adgideon(m): 6:38pm On Feb 21
Why not the mother, you didn't say how the father Will do the checking, your man must b from 1860

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Re: Bride Cancels Wedding After Fiancé Insist His Father Check Her Hymen In A Gather by Lostz(m): 7:02pm On Feb 21
Beth2000:
Don't you think the lady should have accepted knowing the fact that it is a tradition?
Here's the whole story sha
http://opr.news/s7c71f76d200220en_ng
which whole story? we already got what we want here. no one will click that link.

the part we got is enough for us to argue and abuse ourselves a little

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