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Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by healthserve(m): 6:30pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
franchasng: We is wait to hear more details from her |
Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by franchasng: 6:30pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
kiddkash:ewo |
Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by Dejex4(m): 6:30pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
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Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by logizorla: 6:31pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
My Dear, treat with caution, your hubby may not be what you think, give him the benefit of doubt, investigate and finally decide what to do, but don't kill anybody oh, remember where Sandas end her story. thanks 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by franchasng: 6:32pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
healthserve:keeping waited na, op is disappeared as plenty we is giving her goodly advices ; |
Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by gbasquare: 6:33pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
I hope you are not comparing him with those or one of those you left to marry him. Don't mind them, most men are the same. Just carry your own cross and move on. |
Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by makydebbie(f): 6:36pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
Originalsly: Eish so much stupidity in one post. |
Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by gbeseun(m): 6:36pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
Wetin u dey find for his phone. Why dont you allow sleeping dog to lie jejely. Sister,everybody get their issue oo. U own smallnfor.anoda person side. Dey manage am else na after 1 be that o 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by sylve11: 6:37pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
@ op, i'v read through your story; just looking for the wink part, but i couldn't find it. |
Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by healthserve(m): 6:37pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
franchasng: Ayam not a talking till she samankwe back to za thread ( in buhari's voice ) |
Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by pocohantas(f): 6:37pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
generationz: Babe I don’t know o. |
Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by wizkidblogger(f): 6:37pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
You are still a learner because all these are trivial issues. FOCUS on making him love you more instead of just causing drama here n there. It can be so tiring and frustrating! 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by saasala(m): 6:38pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
womanscorned: You have taken things too far. There is no single evidence that he is cheating on you. He is just being a mad. You took things overboard and became an overnight nag. You are the cause of your own problem 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by franchasng: 6:38pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
healthserve:samankwe |
Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by EJanni(f): 6:38pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
franchasng:if you both are comfortable admiring the opposite gender, who am I?. But believe it or not, that thing is so nauseating and embarrassing. If you want to look, go on but don't lust after and don't cheat. I wise man once said that if you see a good thing that's not yours look once and remove your eyes, if you look a second time, you get into trouble. Shalom. |
Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by healthserve(m): 6:39pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
franchasng: |
Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by bluefilm: 6:39pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
And so what? What is so special about you that he MUST only look at you? Nonsense. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by franchasng: 6:40pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
wizkidblogger:Wizkid is has spoketh, respects brother |
Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by linearity: 6:40pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
You sound conflicted. On one hand, you said “... I did feel like he was marrying me for ulterior motives..” and the next second, you said “...I thought he just really cared about me”. The two don’t go together. I seriously don’t know how a self acclaimed ‘smart’ lady will get married to someone they feel have an ulterior motives towards them. All in all, you saw the warning signs before stepping in and took no actions against them, therefore you are as complacent as your husband or you saw some huge advantages despite the troubling disadvantages ie the pros outweighed the cons hence you decided to move ahead. The question is, what truly changed for you? Is it because he is now rude and does not care about you as much as before? Also, why do you think you are ‘stuck’? You always have options, don’t ever think you are stuck, it can emotionally incapacitate one. Take a deep breath and jot down, what you can take and what your limits are and discuss with him. If he refuses to see reasons with you, try to consult close elderly relatives and if that does not work, start making plans to protect yourself and your babies, STDs and HIV are real and you don’t want to willingly get yourself infected...Yes, I know I used the word ‘willingly’, but if you look closely, it is not that you are in the dark about it. Lesson for next time...if you didn’t check his phone while you guys were dating, you should not check their phone after marriage. If you suspect them to have an ulterior motive before you guys get married, it is disingenuous on your part to expect something else after marriage. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by Nobody: 6:41pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
Op, you saw all the signs but still allowed your emotions to cloud your reasoning. You are the only one who wears the shoes and know where it pains. If the pain is too much take a walk, else stay and bear the consequences of your ill decision. Good luck! |
Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by CSTR2: 6:44pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
Marry God fearing man so that you can rest. But they won't. He is not as spontaneous as emeka. They say they Want God fearing men but they hardly ever marry them. If women marry men that truly fear God, 99% of the stories I read here will not happen. 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by bendazum: 6:45pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
Originalsly: Spilt which milk? Don't just start. Its enough that the husband is cheating on her, why blame the husband's behavior on her. You can blame her for not quitting at the onset when she discovered the slime she was marrying. |
Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by Sweeetheart(m): 6:46pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
franchasng: the bolded is not something to be proud of. you need psychological overhaul and what's with these when you get married nonsense people do chant here you can't use your unfaithfulness to judge others. there are many married men who what concerned them most is how to build wealth, give their family financial sustainability. right from my time I don't do two ladies except when my ex was out of the state I lived you can't marry someone with those qualities you mentioned above and still cheat, where is the love? |
Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by hammerU: 6:48pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
CSTR2: Commot jooooooor! Where is the high blood pressure and headache in dat? U dont know nagging requires some sought of causation factor. Even women of God, marrying Church goers and bench warmers over the born again brothers. |
Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by franchasng: 6:49pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
EJanni:men must be men, you cannot take it away from men. Maybe I will attach a mild drama that happened between President Obama and his wife Michelle during Nelson Mandella's burial in SA some years back. Obama even though he was the number one person at that occasion with all media attention on him couldn't resist flirting with Danish Prime Minister, a very beautiful woman, to the extent Obama forgot his wife was sitting beside him I was watching it live that day. The wife couldn't take it, she had to tell Obama to switch seat with her so that she will be the one close to the lady lol Many world leaders and celebrity men married to hottest women have been caught severally staring and even flirting with other women, it's how men are wired and women shouldn't force themselves to start doing same just to get at their men, if it's not natural don't force it. 2 Likes
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Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by Amanda4life: 6:50pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
Kemight15: If your marriage is young . please leave him He will get worst with gray hair. As he ages it will get worst. He cannot change . its in built 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by hammerU: 6:51pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
Amanda4life: Lasttime u said he will get better as he gets old. Wat happened? |
Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by CSTR2: 6:51pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
I made a covenant with my eyes not to look lustfully at a young woman Job31:1 A God fearing man would be like Job. Ladies, marry truly God fearing men so that we can rest on nairaland. |
Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by Sundaycomputer: 6:51pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
No kill ur self oooo, okay, |
Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by hammerU: 6:53pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
CSTR2: AHHHHH! U don come again Oooooo... Will he shag dem like a porrnstar? Will he be able to stimulate their little minds and entertain dem? Does he have money? |
Re: My Husband Keeps Looking At Other Women, Winks At My Friends by Dexlomo: 6:53pm On Feb 22, 2020 |
Mandelus: Which one be seduce with sexy dresses when she fit dey use birthsuit do the same thing? |
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