Imarnuel08:


Have you ever thought for a moment it's not about loyalties? A lady committing herself to a man is a big deal. The least you can do as a man is to reassure her and make her feel secure.
What gift is he talking of? I can bet it's not up to 500k. What gift please? These kind of guys can't help their egos.
And to answer your question I didn't get embarrassed in public because I was there for my fiancee. She knew this man would be there for here and stand by her. It wasn't a public showy proposal and she said yes. We have been happy ever since.
I still maintain that she dodged a bullet, if the guy thinks he spent too much then he's a broke ass. He can come back when he's ready to be a man

luminouz:


Your last paragraph stinks like locust beans. What makes u so special that a man cannot think he has spent too much to lose it? Are u God? So he should go back when he is ready to be a man? Lmaoooo. See entitlement mentality. Well,deal with it darling,that girl would walk home on bare feet. Next time,she would refuse gifts from a man she sees no future with.

luminouz:



Thats immaturity to you?

Mūmu men plenty for here sha

HORLADSTAR:


I think it will do more good than harm if you can just be wise for once, but I can't blame you since you are a fool anyway.
As for our rejected guy, what message is he trying to pass, I am sure that shoe and food is not the only thing that he has spent on the girl so if he really wants to pass a message he should have ask the lady to return everything he has given her.Then I would praise him as a guy can not be mess with.
And also, as per his action of his "has he won " .
Moreover there would be a reason why the lady rejected her.

AfroKnight:
She had the audacity to collect his gifts and tell him no? The truth is the guy owns those items. If she has any dignity she would reject the gifts of a man she cannot settle down with.

He didn’t do anything wrong.

If you can reject him publicly then you can refund in public too.

NaijaOlosho:


That's Bad energy IPOB IGBO Youth

Weak Afonja Stay Far Away.

playapayaski:


A friends elder brother almost died last week cos he just found out on Tuesday his babe he been sponsoring in uniben n waiting to marry is getting married march 7th.. Guy almost mad, till now never calm down or regain e self.

OgbanjeProphet:
I stand firmly with that guy biko.

If you don't like him, don't accept his gifts.

If na me, I for collect the cloths join

AfroKnight:
She had the audacity to collect his gifts and tell him no? The truth is the guy owns those items. If she has any dignity she would reject the gifts of a man she cannot settle down with.

He didn’t do anything wrong.

If you can reject him publicly then you can refund in public too.

OgbanjeProphet:
I stand firmly with that guy biko.

If you don't like him, don't accept his gifts.

If na me, I for collect the cloths join

tenderjunkie:

See as person fine

tsdarkside:


to me,he is a weak man full of anger....

nanakgh:
Women always tell men if they're not serious they should move over for a more serious man to come and take over.

This woman was enjoying all the perks of the relationship without actually being serious about the guy. Classic use and dump, yet women always speak as if this practice is exclusively a male one. I've seen women rend their clothes and rain curses on men for 'using and dumping' them.

This is one very patient guy, he shudda slapped that parasitic hoe for good measure. Nonsense.

Midas01:
You mean she's a hoe just like your mother?

luminouz:


I'm sure you're not a lady...most Naija babes no dey reason like u oh...your comments on this thread surprised me


Who are u gangan?


N.B: dont mind the men who were yakking in support of that girl...na beta cucks(SIMPs) full NL na..dem want likes using alternates so women go say dem be nice guys

Evercurious:


Lol.. Abeg I be woman not man. But we need to be realistic

luminouz:


I'm glad you are being realistic.
Holla me when its ur birthday, trips on me.

AfroKnight:



Mumu talk. Your assumption shows how shallow your reasoning is. A person doesn’t need to have a personal experience to have an opinion. The items belong to the buyer. It is poverty, greed and a disgusting sense of entitlement that prevents you from refusing gifts or refunding them.

Tunar18:
Big hand for you my guy. It's basically because of this response that I had to read all the pages. Thought you wouldn't respond to the Empty comment

My Submission

Instead of people to condemn the action that triggers a reaction, they will be busy condemning the reaction. Obviously the next girl will do the same thing since the guy will be blamed.

If every mouth condemn the girl for moving around and collecting the guy's money/gift or whatever you call it since she doesn't have the intention of marrying him, perhaps some other ladies will think twice before romancing someone they cannot marry.

Either mature or not mature, It's a win-win situation for the two of them. The guy does not have to go home moody and sad, and the girl too has been able to move to the next guy.

Walk away Ko Cry away ni

patoski39:
hope u no go collect d trips back if she no comply?

luminouz:



I'm glad you are being realistic.

Holla me when its ur birthday, trips on me.

luminouz:

Lmaoooooo... No

Offer was strictly platonic