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Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by koffos(m): 7:28pm On Feb 28
Giddiebabalaw:
She told me that her pastor told her that I will definitely leave her that if she is recalcitrant about leaving me alone, that I will disappoint her in the end. She attend one of the white garment church and effort to convince her that am here to stay prove abortive. She believe her pastor more than God.
.. nuh.. if two people ain't meant to be together.. they ain't. using my parents as an example.. they should have listened to the pastor.. now they're apart and messing with my gaddem life

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Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by efewizey(m): 7:44pm On Feb 28
XhosaNostra:
We weren't really dating, just getting to know each other, but I was still unsure about him because he was short & kind of boring. He was eligible in every other aspect though- educated, extremely intelligent, good paying job, nice flat, a great cook etc. What made up my mind about him was something I'm sure many people wouldn't consider such a big deal. I found him a little cowardly lol. He was scared of dogs. He actually shrieked when two little ones were coming at us! I was like, um okay, no, he's not for me. I like guys with a bit devil may care in them, not one that screams like a banshee.

Look no further.
Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by Biglittlelois(f): 7:46pm On Feb 28
proclinician:




How in the world is it funny? Are you a sadist?

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Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by proclinician: 7:50pm On Feb 28
Biglittlelois:



How in the world is it funny? Are you a sadist?

Hold it right there. I don't want any exchange with deranged kids pls. Say no more

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Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by Loaf(m): 7:51pm On Feb 28
Coolcalmcollect:
yea had to leave a girl when she said no sex before marriage, but came to me in tears about her incomplete school fees....that she needed 80k to complete it....and i told her to take 200 airtime and call her dad/mom.


U mean oo

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Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by XhosaNostra(f): 7:51pm On Feb 28
koffos:
.. that was one sissy dude.. s. a guys are weaklings, holy lord.. what kind if a man gets scared of little dogs .. we Nigerian men are not even scared if tigers not to talk of dogs .. baby come down here and lemme show how much devil may cry not care we are..


now my question from yday. have you melons on your chest??

LMFAO. Let's not go there. I grew up around daring men who grab a knife by the blade, hence I cannot be with a weasel of a man. South African men set that standard for me, not foreign men. Nigerian men talk & take off their clothes grin South African men, DO. They're not big talkers or strippers. South African men are many things, but cowards & sissies, they're not. They have way too much aggression to be cowards.
TBH, I think I may be too much for a typical Nigerian guy to handle grin

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Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by Loaf(m): 7:53pm On Feb 28
Expensiverichyb:
No regret. Everything was for a purpose.


Seems the break up was initiated by u

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Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by rex444(m): 7:55pm On Feb 28
awwww my petite ...Ella...with bubble butt that can kii d world...madt to d core and very smart ... but I told her no lies before we started dating ....3 years after she started to tell stories that don't add up...started putting some calls on silent ...

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Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by Loaf(m): 7:55pm On Feb 28
Kiddogarcia:
the way she was supporting maryam sanda during her trail was frightening. she kept blaming the husband for cheating.the thought of her words couldn't stop echoing in my head,I just had to let go of a very good girl


Tragic
Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by Jaqenhghar: 7:58pm On Feb 28
XhosaNostra:


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TBH, I think I may be too much for a typical Nigerian guy to handle grin

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Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:02pm On Feb 28
Jaqenhghar:


LMFAO. If anything written here is to be taken seriously, they may find me a little too aggressive & unyielding. Not exactly the type to take home to a religious mama because I'm raw & unapologetic about it.

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Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by Coolcalmcollect(m): 8:03pm On Feb 28
Loaf:



U mean oo
I no get joy. When relationship enter pay school fee, hospital bills level I japa.

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Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by rex444(m): 8:04pm On Feb 28
XhosaNostra:


LMFAO. Let's not go there. I grew up around daring men who grab a knife by the blade, hence I cannot be with a weasel of a man. South African men set that standard for me, not foreign men. Nigerian men talk & take off their clothes grin South African men, DO. They're not big talkers or strippers. South African men are many things, but cowards & sissies, they're not. They have way too much aggression to be cowards.
TBH, I think I may be too much for a typical Nigerian guy to handle grin
my dear sometimes fear does not necessarily mean U r a coward ....buh still on still , I'd rather be the coward oooooo this life wey dey sweet like say tomorrow no dey... I cannur coman die because I want to show power...hehehehe

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Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by keenn: 8:04pm On Feb 28
XhosaNostra:
We weren't really dating, just getting to know each other, but I was still unsure about him because he was short & kind of boring. He was eligible in every other aspect though- educated, extremely intelligent, good paying job, nice flat, a great cook etc. What made up my mind about him was something I'm sure many people wouldn't consider such a big deal. I found him a little cowardly lol. He was scared of dogs. He actually shrieked when two little ones were coming at us! I was like, um okay, no, he's not for me. I like guys with a bit devil may care in them, not one that screams like a banshee.

MY dear everyone has a little devil they are scared of, everyone has.
Cant imagine you ignore such a potential that is rare. Getting to over come a fear is what can be learnt

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Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:09pm On Feb 28
rex444:
my dear sometimes fear does not necessarily mean U r a coward ....buh still on still , I'd rather be the coward oooooo this life wey dey sweet like say tomorrow no dey... I cannur coman die because I want to show power...hehehehe

I get that. But I don't like a man to be over-the-top about it. I'm not a shrieking female myself, so I expect a man to have some composure.

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Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:14pm On Feb 28
keenn:


MY dear everyone has a little devil they are scared of, everyone has.
Cant imagine you ignore such a potential that is rare. Getting to over come a fear is what can be learnt

That's true. I have my own fears, as well, but I face them with bravery. I expect a man to be braver, not scream his head off.

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Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by rex444(m): 8:15pm On Feb 28
XhosaNostra:


I get that. But I don't like a man to be over-the-top about it. I'm not a shrieking female myself, so I expect a man to have some composure.
I get the point ....sometimes our geographical status takes toll on us...U see guys from Liberia, I respect them all due to what they have passed thru during d civil war and likewise other African countries....all the best for u....

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Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by koffos(m): 8:23pm On Feb 28
XhosaNostra:


LMFAO. Let's not go there. I grew up around daring men who grab a knife by the blade, hence I cannot be with a weasel of a man. South African men set that standard for me, not foreign men. Nigerian men talk & take off their clothes grin South African men, DO. They're not big talkers or strippers. South African men are many things, but cowards & sissies, they're not. They have way too much aggression to be cowards.
TBH, I think I may be too much for a typical Nigerian guy to handle grin
.. shiit.. why you talking down on Nigeria men like that .. was about to save yo flat board ass from the weaklings you call men .. well keep doing your thing with them .. just tell me if you've got melons on those chest of yours why you dodging that?? .. are those flat too??

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Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by koffos(m): 8:25pm On Feb 28
XhosaNostra:


LMFAO. Let's not go there. I grew up around daring men who grab a knife by the blade, hence I cannot be with a weasel of a man. South African men set that standard for me, not foreign men. Nigerian men talk & take off their clothes grin South African men, DO. They're not big talkers or strippers. South African men are many things, but cowards & sissies, they're not. They have way too much aggression to be cowards.
TBH, I think I may be too much for a typical Nigerian guy to handle grin
.. shiit.. why you talking down on Nigeria men like that .. was about to save yo flat board ass from the weaklings you call men .. well keep doing your thing with them .. just tell me if you've got melons on those chest of yours why you dodging that?? .. are those flat too??

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Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by XhosaNostra(f): 8:33pm On Feb 28
koffos:
.. shiit.. why you talking down on Nigeria men like that .. was about to save yo flat board ass from the weaklings you call men .. well keep doing your thing with them .. just tell me if you've got melons on those chest of yours why you dodging that?? .. are those flat too??

I have slippers. Satisfied?

My ass doesn't need saving, thank you very much. I'm no damsel in distress. See, this is the major problem I have with some of you here. You can dish it out, but cannot take it. Who made the comparison & belittled others 1st?

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Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by Deeminaj(f): 8:37pm On Feb 28
I had this amazing guy but we had to break up because he was trying to make me be his kinda person,am a little bit hairy and he said i should shave my hairs off totally,like WTF,am comfortable with my hairs thats the way i was created,a lot of people has actually told me they like it.he always wanted me to beg him for every little thing and i dnt flow well with that ,i can be headstrong most times,i could not take it anymore so we broke up,tho we are still good friends,we call each other once in a while

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Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by Hilariousthiago(m): 8:40pm On Feb 28
About to end mine cause of religion difference

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Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by Biglittlelois(f): 9:05pm On Feb 28
proclinician:


Hold it right there. I don't want any exchange with deranged kids pls. Say no more


Smh, just as I suspected, you are a sadist!!!

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Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by A305: 9:24pm On Feb 28
Early this year, I met Sandra (Fictitious name) on IG , we flowed well, went on a date and every thing seems great - she's so beautiful with curves, big boo bs, curvy big butt just like I love them, well read and adventurous.

She respects me being Atheist even though she's hardcore MFM member- she works and earns, she's quite a fashionista.

On the third day after our date and beginning of a new relationship - I had to call her up to break up because she was a high maintenance chick, insecure and isn't as intelligent to satisfactory personally.

She asked me - "A305, Did I ask you for any money yet for you to say am a high maintenance chick?"

I replied - "Nope! But it will happen in the future"

Her - "So you mean I will make you broke?"

Me - "I don't even have money to start with and not ready for a relationship now" and hung up.

Babe be posting break up lines on WhatsApp status like .....All I want is you but you causing me chestache.

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Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by luvyaself95(m): 9:37pm On Feb 28
XhosaNostra:
We weren't really dating, just getting to know each other, but I was still unsure about him because he was short & kind of boring. He was eligible in every other aspect though- educated, extremely intelligent, good paying job, nice flat, a great cook etc. What made up my mind about him was something I'm sure many people wouldn't consider such a big deal. I found him a little cowardly lol. He was scared of dogs. He actually shrieked when two little ones were coming at us! I was like, um okay, no, he's not for me. I like guys with a bit devil may care in them, not one that screams like a banshee.

LOL you like bad and strong minded guys
Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by Homeboiy: 9:38pm On Feb 28
I have never loved a girl
I play games with them and move to the next one.

broke girls everywhere

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Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by missimelda01(f): 9:38pm On Feb 28
Dude you're mean grin
A305:
Early this year, I met Sandra (Fictitious name) on IG , we flowed well, went on a date and every thing seems great - she's so beautiful with curves, big boo bs, curvy big butt just like I love them, well read and adventurous.

She respects me being Atheist even though she's hardcore MFM member- she works and earns, she's quite a fashionista.

On the third day after our date and beginning of a new relationship - I had to call her up to break up because she was a high maintenance chick, insecure and isn't as intelligent to satisfactory personally.

She asked me - "A305, Did I ask you for any money yet for you to say am a high maintenance chick?"

I replied - "Nope! But it will happen in the future"

Her - "So you mean I will make you broke?"

Me - "I don't even have money to start with and not ready for a relationship now" and hung up.

Babe be posting break up lines on WhatsApp status like .....All I want is you but you causing me chestache.

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Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by missimelda01(f): 9:40pm On Feb 28
I guess I got tired of the relationship and then the long distance thingy, he was a good guy who truly loved me... He still feels we're soulmates, I really don't know what the future holds for us.

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Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by A305: 9:47pm On Feb 28
missimelda01:
Dude you're mean grin
it isnt my fault, I instantly get "emotional unavailable" to any girl I perceive not intelligent even if she has it all.

As an Atheist, my standard is just too high - I know - i will lower my standards in due time but but for now, I love the trill. I have turned down 4 women so far this year alone.

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Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by A305: 9:52pm On Feb 28
missimelda01:
I guess I got tired of the relationship and then the long distance thingy, he was a good guy who truly loved me... He still feels we're soulmates, I really don't know what the future holds for us.
if he is a good guy who communicates and spoil you with attention, keep him.

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Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by luvyaself95(m): 9:56pm On Feb 28
Kiddogarcia:
the way she was supporting maryam sanda during her trail was frightening. she kept blaming the husband for cheating.the thought of her words couldn't stop echoing in my head,I just had to let go of a very good girl

Good girl for where that your future killer man thank God you dodge her bullet.
I was once in this kind of scenario before but mine is different.
The babe was calling one guy common person that impregnated her coworkers because he was not well educated as the girl and i asked her do the guy and girl love other she didn't want to answer at first i keep asking her until she tell me that they love other very much and that how was annoying her most that when i look at her like ( Person doesn't have headache and you Want to have headaches for them ).
Since that that day my mind and love for her reduce not up to one month we breakup at first i was pain because of the love i have for her but when i think it through i kick out the pain and move on unto next relationship.

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Re: Have You Ever Had To Break Up With An Amazing Partner And Why? by chatinent(m): 9:59pm On Feb 28
Differing philosophies.

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