Coolcalmcollect:
yea had to leave a girl when she said no sex before marriage, but came to me in tears about her incomplete school fees....that she needed 80k to complete it....and i told her to take 200 airtime and call her dad/mom.

sense o ti poju.....gbayi!!!

bLacKGoLd3:



Why didn't you go to the Father to let him know you had something with his daughter and would be looking to take her out from time to time?

Heck! Why not even man up, so that you can take the place of her parents and have her by your side, as she was with her parents? If anyone's a kid here, it certainly wasn't the girl who was still under her parents roof and rules, but still tried to squeeze out some time for you.

vivalavida:



Hahahahaha

U and Essien na my man na.

But guy leave onye mbamiri alone

CzarChris:
She's Ijaw, I'm Igbo. I still regret loosing her till this day.

Rachel was the best thing to ever happen to me as far as relationships go.


Ethnicity is a terrible curse on this country.

Elove1:
She got everything I need in a women but she lies alot and cheated on me.
I have told her a number of times to tell me the truth even if it hurts
But I must say that distance contributed to the breakup

My advice to any guys here, long distance relationship does not work
Just know that the gal will be collecting bola from another guy out there.

Chuukwudi:


Me too. Me too. I'm trying to get over it... How did you manage? It's so difficult for me.

XhosaNostra:


Ndiyaphila Wena, unjani kulentsasa yanamhlanje, tshomi? Hope Google translate doesn't mess that one up for you lol.

Yujin:

My point is you just like the average SA girl want independence even with that particular man that ticks all your expectations. Relationships are commitments and you don't want that but would want him to be. Lol. I understand you very well. From my experience, what fits most SA ladies are the 'totsies'. Once in a while, you run away from him and savour the abundance of nature then, return to him. Lol

Ekehwinz:
My babe said that I'm a distraction to her spiritual life. She called off our relationship of 3years.

Austineva:
intle kakhulu. Lolz! Its not true. Its not Google work. My SA friend do teach me b4 she left for her studies which may take her some months now. U funny enh. Ndiright, wena?

Lumpyy:
Thank God u let the GENTLE man go,wch one is holding knife by the blade?must everyone be VIOLENT

koffos:
.. but calling guys broke is way to talk to guys yeah?? I am assuming you're old enough to mind your freaking business .. she's south African and they ain't as uptight as you lots down here

Kiddogarcia:
the way she was supporting maryam sanda during her trail was frightening. she kept blaming the husband for cheating.the thought of her words couldn't stop echoing in my head,I just had to let go of a very good girl

Nooil:



Lol, nairaland guys like gist sha.

angelfallz:

The hairs are they on your chest?

SpartanKing:
"I'm fine You, how are you this morning, friend?" You speak Xhosa; Soilsista speaks Tswana! Google translate(GT) has no option for Tswana. Some of her comments in her mother tongue made no meaning to GT. I want the translation to be impeccable. Any difference between them( Xhosa and Tswana)?

Philomathhh:
Why can't I be?

OmoAlakija:
Because I fckd her in the a*ss while she was sleeping

XhosaNostra:


I believe her home language is Sepedi, but speaks Tswana because it's the most spoken language in Pretoria. She actually writes in the kind of Tswana only spoken in Pretoria which is why you may be having a hard time translating some things. It's full of slangs.

SpartanKing:
OK, thanks! I've gone in search of GT alternatives.

vickydevoka:
The funny thing is that i still Bleep all my Xs. Married or unmarred I don't bloody Care

XhosaNostra:

Lol, why though? You're nosy

lizychimamanda:
what do u mean by that? Dating him for 10yrs and he wakes up with a flemzy excuse of my spiritual father say..... Maybe my englEng was wrong but I kno u understood what I meant

olamy7:
this is not true.. and it has never and will never be true, I will advice you change that thought now before it affects you in a bad way

XhosaNostra:


LMAO @ Ndiright. She taught you well I hope you also taught her a few things yourself. What language do you speak?

Austineva:
. Ewe. Lolz! Igbo language. Which part of SA do u stay?

Chi59:

Still high sounding superficialness.
Anyone whose presence gives you peace of mind is a great sign.
You just allowed religion and fear steal a good man from you. How many brothers in Christ have you dated that gave you peace since then?

happinezz110:
That can be scary though but something doesn't seem right cos u just don't break up because of some else issues beside u shld hv at least reason wit her nd later tested her on something similar to truly know her truly color. She might just be too emotional about Maryam issues especially because of her kids.... Anyway ur life ur choice

Wickedfacts:
I was younger and loved her dearly. She was working but I was just starting out in business. She regularly adviced me on business and helped me arrange my financials for pitches and proposals. When I eventually resigned from paid employment to face my business fully, she couldn't bear the uncertainty of income. She began finding faults in me and eventually dumped me only to get married 3 months later to one returnee big boy back then. That was the worst thing that ever happened to me. For 4 good years, I couldn't date anyone. I just faced my business.

I met her at a mutual friend's wedding in Port Harcourt mid last year and we got talking again. She told me her husband accused her of being behind his misfortune and turned her into a boxing bag. He beats her at will and both families are tired of separating their fights. I told her there's nothing I can do to help her. A part of me wants to help but I won't. Sometimes, you repay evil with evil.

Nooil:


Lol, you only get peace if you give peace. People who are really in Christ give peace. I'm not talking of those who follow you to church because you told them you're a virgin. Learn to have a discerning mind.

GMbuharii:

You resigned from paid employment to face your business of monitoring world Igbo affairs,huh?

@bolded,
No wonder you have that "declaration" on your profile


Lzaa immhotep come and see what okoyibo yaff turned into