pocohantas:
He didn’t have money.
Broke guys are always amazing.

XhosaNostra:


That's true. I have my own fears, as well, but I face them with bravery. I expect a man to be braver, not scream his head off.

Homeboiy:




She dey nah

Divay22:
So why you dey deny say you no get girlf girlfriend

Chi59:

You're countering yourself.
You dated a guy who gave you peace.
People who are really in Christ give peace.
Do you see you've not made a point?
And what's so special about being a virgin anyway? I am. And I don't feel a tad special.
Babe, I hope your case is not a classic story of "my pastor said"?
Because as I've observed the more religious a person becomes the less logic they apply to issues.

Deeminaj:
No,jst my legs

Nooil:



No, you were talking like peace is something you can't get when you lose it. So, I'm trying to let you know that if you have it in you and look at the right places, you can get it.

He gave me peace, I had beautiful memories with him. BUT I still had personal reasons to break up with him.

When you're in Christ there are no buts. Everything is perfect because I've submitted leadership to God.

Why do you sound bitter about virginity? Don't worry, I only used it to drive home my point.

You said I'm being superficial. If I have to be superficial to be confident of my life and the expected end God has promised me, then yes, I'll remain superficial for life.

I have seen God's hand in my life, and like Oliver Twist, I want more. And I'll prefer to be in right standing with God to be able to access the promises and blessings.

If you have chosen to put your trust in man, that's your problem, but don't try to force your limiting beliefs on someone else.

It's the last time I'm replying to you.

franchasng:
Don't doubt it. Another supporting proof that life is predestined is this: did you had a say as to the country or family you were born No child have a say on where they will be born, if they do, there won't be any other childbirth in West African countries.


And let me tell you, life's success, breakthrough, being rich, being wealthy or poor has nothing or little to do with hardwork, even the Holy book of Bible supported this when it said: the race is not for the swift nor for the strong, neither is it for the wise, but of God that showeth mercy.

and if you look around you or even Nigeria as a whole, you will see the above statement in action. If the race was for the wise or the smart, will Muhammadu Buhari be Nigeria's President

Even the intelligent people can't tell how and why they are intelligent and smarter than others, they just have it in them from birth....that dull little boy that finds it hard to comprehend the teacher's lesson, do you think it is his fault or he or she don't wish and try to be the smartest kid in class

Humans are wired to follow a script, and there is nothing anybody can do about it. If it is destiny for America to fall, when the time comes, every life indices will be working against America till they crumble!!

Britain or UK used to be one of the strongest nations conquering all parts of the world and colonizing them, but today they are struggling to hold their own.

Italy and Greece were also world powers, but there was a point Greece couldn't afford to fund national projects and even salaries. Italy is struggling today.

If you believe life is not predestined or you believe in scientists knowing it all, then tell me why Albert Einstein who happens to be my mentor in the past couldn't tell how he would die.....he died trying to murmur a nuclear physics theory he was working on, but he died with it.

Each humans have a predestined end....how he or she will die....some by accident, pestilence, natural disaster, war, communal crises, epidemic like Ebola, Coronavirus, in their sleep, in combat, in crime scene, long illness, terminal disease, childbirth, fire accident, drowning, poison, mishap, voodoo attack, etc.....you can only appeal for some of your human scripts to be changed and if it pleases the director and producer of human script to listen to your appeal, it will be done, but if the producer is not pleased, it will not be accepted, and that brings about the issue of answered prayers and no answered prayers.


Humans kind of know about predestined life, and that is why humans try to connect to the spiritual realm to seek and appeal for change in their negative script roles, and sometimes their roles get changed, while most times it doesn't.

angelfallz:

Nawa for your guy oh. Please don't mind him

XhosaNostra:


Oh, now I get you & you're not too far off in your observation, TBH. Yes, we do like amapantsula (tsotsis) or guys with a kasi vibe, because it's what we're used to. I'd say it's a "cultural thing" because almost all the guys are like that when they're much younger. Some grow out of it though, but some don't. In fact, my very 1st boyfriend was a typical, okapi-carrying township guy or a tsotsi, if you will My own father still has that kind of a thing in him to date. He carries an okapi like most people do over here, but I think it's out of habit for him than anything else lol. We're Africans, our forefathers were warriors & walked around with spears, ready to defend themselves. I think South Africans never quite outgrew that because of our history & whatnot. We like a little air of danger

Lol, I disagree with you a bit on the commitment part because when we do commit, we commit truly. I can only speak for myself of course.

Homeboiy:



Na game we de play


Gf wey be say e no ft call her bf for phone na gf

Its over 2 wks we saw last

Anyday she come my house ,na that day she be my gf

Equity15:
nice point. but I don't think everything is predestined. there are some things we can dictate how they go. that's why God gave us brains and other parts of the body. well, thanks for the enlightenment. I love the film and producer scenario you painted.

Divay22:
Lol. Now i see

GMbuharii:

You resigned from paid employment to face your business of monitoring world Igbo affairs,huh?

@bolded,
No wonder you have that "declaration" on your profile


Lzaa immhotep come and see what okoyibo yaff turned into

keenn:


What if he is braver, tall and lively but with no good paying job, what you say?

Yujin:

Lol. It's good you agreed with my observation. One thing I'll say again is commitment. It's very difficult over there irrespective of the abundance of love you may have for your man. You know what I'm talking about.
Lastly, I think your men understand you better. I got used to seeing a guy brutalizing a girl without interfering because I- a helper might end up being a victim of both partners. It's just unfortunate that they end up killing the ladies with reckless abandon. Tough love I'd say.

Wickedfacts:


It was a good move. Today, the money I spend on diesel in a month is more than the money used to marry your mother.

XhosaNostra:
We weren't really dating, just getting to know each other, but I was still unsure about him [b]because he was short & kind of boring. [/b]He was eligible in every other aspect though- educated, extremely intelligent, good paying job, nice flat, a great cook etc. What made up my mind about him was something I'm sure many people wouldn't consider such a big deal. I found him a little cowardly lol. He was scared of dogs. He actually shrieked when two little ones were coming at us! I was like, um okay, no, he's not for me. I like guys with a bit devil may care in them, not one that screams like a banshee.

Chi59:

You're countering yourself.
You dated a guy who gave you peace.
People who are really in Christ give peace.
Do you see you've not made a point?
And what's so special about being a virgin anyway? I am. And[b] I don't feel a tad special[/b].
Babe, I hope your case is not a classic story of "my pastor said"?
Because as I've observed the more religious a person becomes the less logic they apply to issues.

XhosaNostra:


Lol, what kind of women did you associate with? I honestly don't think it's that hard when you meet the right person.

Hmmmm...

Bblessing37:
Dude just came up one day and told me he needed space.after everything I did for him. Go over to his place every weekends ,to cook, clean and , wash for him ,even assisted him with cash times without numbers,when he had non. I almost commmited sucide when he told me it was over between us.cus I was so much in love with him . Guess he was just using me, and never loved me. Heart breaks are painful sha. I had to pick up my broken pieces and move on.. I wish him good lucks. But I know he will never find a woman like me.

how will you know he is not gonna find another woman like you

merahki:


Make me understand this
How was he amazing then?

omotola90:
...cheated...

franchasng:
no time to check time at all

LZAA:
.

Tajbol4splend:



U couldn't give him hot sex, the one who could stole him from you

AfroKnight:


My fren, both of you dated each other for 10 years. Nothing like you gave him 10 years.

tushbobo:


Your subconscious had already rejected him because he was short and and kind of boring. This controlled everything and a conscious and logical reason was required to end it all...
If he was tall and interesting the dog scare would have been laughed off by both of you while holding hands. That's how the brain works.

Homeboiy:



So na wetin I de do na em I talk


U be esan?

Yujin:

Lol. I'm very observant and analytical. I see the big picture and for SA, it's a big problem. The family system has been so distorted that I fear for the future.
Forgive my dwelling on your story. The world is changing fast and very few countries are immuned to the effect. I wonder if marriage will still be fashionable in 20yrs from now.

Ekehwinz:
My babe said that I'm a distraction to her spiritual life. She called off our relationship of 3years.

Ishilove:

My stowee is: he was hot headed and immature, I was stubborn and immature. We broke up in a flurry of rage and when both our eyes cleared it was too late.

We are still friends though. He is the only one who hails me with a high pitched ''biaaaaatch!!'' and I reply with "your left nyaaaaaash!"

Kai, Freezle my love.

He told me: "Ishi, in my next life I will seek you out, and if we can't be lovers then, I will be your child."

Me too baby, me too...