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My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Michool60: 6:12am On Mar 05
My boyfriend hasn't called me for a week now and I went to his place this week Monday to ask him what the matter was but he didn't give me any valid reply.I even called him that same day when I got home but he didn't pick up and didn't call back.I even message him the following day when I didn't see his call that if there is anything bugging him or if he wants to break up,that he should let me know instead of keeping me in the dark.He replied by saying "is alright and good day"I don't know what to do again because we didn't have any issue and he hasn't called nor text me up still now
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Skmoda360(m): 6:15am On Mar 05
he might be having some personal issues that he is trying to deal with and he doesn't wanna involve you.

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Durhleepee(f): 6:16am On Mar 05
You are now disturbing yourself when the writing on the wall can't be anymore clearer. Sis, ignore him and start deleting him from your heart. grin

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Michool60: 6:18am On Mar 05
That shouldn't stop him from texting or viewing my status
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by donbachi(m): 6:20am On Mar 05
Ur bobo just buy dat honda accord wey nigerians dey call "end of discussion"..and u wan come force am to buy "discussion continues"...my advice na make u find passat buy.

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Bilabong(m): 6:21am On Mar 05
Michool60:
That shouldn't stop him from texting or viewing my status

View ur status and be seeing things like "I can change u in a minute"

He might be staying safe... Base on Corona.
U never can tell if it can be transmitted through phone calls and viewing status.

Lol...

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by CanadaOrBust: 6:22am On Mar 05
Michool60:
My boyfriend hasn't called me for a week now

When was the last time he fvcked u

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by femiphillips007(m): 6:26am On Mar 05
Durhleepee:
You are now disturbing yourself when the writing on the wall can't be anymore clearer. Sis, ignore him and start deleting him from your heart. grin
It isnt about "writing on the wall " always.
There are situations in which someone is disorientated and wouldn't wanna get in touch or relate with anyone..
And by the way it's just a week,she can give him some more time,if he doesn't come clean after that then she can take actions.

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by bogdaddy(m): 6:36am On Mar 05
Give us your number, we will call you
Michool60:
My boyfriend hasn't called me for a week now and I went to his place this week Monday to ask him what the matter was but he didn't give me any valid reply.I even called him that same day when I got home but he didn't pick up and didn't call back.I even message him the following day when I didn't see his call that if there is anything bugging him or if he wants to break up,that he should let me know instead of keeping me in the dark.He replied by saying "is alright and good day"I don't know what to do again because we didn't have any issue and he hasn't called nor text me up still now

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by MiVida(m): 6:43am On Mar 05
He's ghosting you!

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Heistman: 6:49am On Mar 05
[b]U sure he never see something he no sups see from your side ? cheesy ,there was a time I used to love one babe who Sabi form saint like that,I actually trusted her no be small untill the day devil pushed me to go through her WhatsApp, mehn even though there was no concrete evidence she was banging those other guys but I saw stuffs I didn't like, she went to cook for a guy(coursemate) and from the chat,it wasn't the first time cos the guy told her to come along with some stuff wey don finish sad and me and this babe dey always update ourselves about our movements like all day ,so I was surprised how I missed out on that part ,there was another guy who invited her on a date on the Island and she obliged and I wasn't updated either,plus she was always going to the Island to buy stuffs ,so who knows if trully she was always going to get stuff or meet up..I actually didn't confront her though..I just pushed her away and she went on whinnying to my people same way you're doing now, looking back,I'm glad I did[/b]

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Nobody: 6:57am On Mar 05
I agree with MiVida, he's most likely ghosting you... Why? That's the problem... You haven't brought anything concrete here. Your story is kinda vague...

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Innobee99(m): 7:02am On Mar 05
If he has seen ur pant, my sis Japa. Oga has seen it all

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by CAPSLOCKED: 7:06am On Mar 05
Innobee99:
If he has seen ur pant, my sis Japa. Oga has seen it all

SO ALL THERE IS TO BE SEEN IN A WOMAN IS HER PANTIES?
THIS MENTALITY IS DEAD SICKENING, AND IF YOU DON'T FIX YOUR LIFE IN YOUR OBVIOUSLY YOUNG STAGE, YOU'LL GROW UP TO BECOME UNREASONABLE AND DUMBER THAN MOST SHIT TALKING REDPILLER/ALPHA DRUNKS OF NAIRALAND.

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Nobody: 7:07am On Mar 05
Why some men act like kids sometimes, I don't understand. If their girlfriends did such, they'd get a new moniker and come here to lament. Aunty, it's best you move on. Don't wait for him.

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by illicit(m): 7:18am On Mar 05
listen to Jesus, he said it is finished.
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by WorWorBoy: 7:20am On Mar 05
Michool60:
My boyfriend hasn't called me for a week now and I went to his place this week Monday to ask him what the matter was but he didn't give me any valid reply.I even called him that same day when I got home but he didn't pick up and didn't call back.I even message him the following day when I didn't see his call that if there is anything bugging him or if he wants to break up,that he should let me know instead of keeping me in the dark.He replied by saying "is alright and good day" I don't know what to do again because we didn't have any issue and he hasn't called nor text me up still now
What a cold and soulless reply lol.

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by uthlaw(m): 7:20am On Mar 05
Heistman:
sure he never see something he no sups see from your side cheesy ,there was a time I used to love one babe who Sabi form saint like that,I actually trusted her no be small untill the day devil pushed me to go through her WhatsApp, mehn even though there was no concrete evidence she was banging those other guys but I saw stuffs I didn't like, she went to cook for a guy (coursemate) and from the chat,it wasn't the first time cos the guy told her to come along with some stuff wey don finish sad and me and this babe dey always update ourselves about our movements like all day ,so I was surprised how I missed out on that part ,there was another guy who invited her to a date on the Island and she obliged and I wasn't updated either,plus she was always going to the Island to buy stuffs ,so who knows if trully she was always going to get stuff or meet up...I actually didn't confront her though..I just pushed her away and looking back,I'm glad I did cool
u collect ur 3point b4 u step aside!

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by uthlaw(m): 7:22am On Mar 05
CAPSLOCKED:


SO ALL THERE IS TO BE SEEN IN A WOMAN IS HER PANTIES?
THIS MENTALITY IS DEAD SICKENING, AND IF YOU DON'T FIX YOUR LIFE IN YOUR OBVIOUSLY YOUNG STAGE, YOU'LL GROW UP TO BECOME UNREASONABLE AND DUMBER THAN MOST SHIT TALKING REDPILLER/ALPHA DRUNKS OF NAIRALAND.
don't blame him...after seeing the panties,nothing else in the relationship!

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Heistman: 7:23am On Mar 05
uthlaw:
u collect ur 3point b4 u step aside!
baba I did o..home and away were wins back to back plus I even played unbeaten runs ..later I got tired of the league.

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by 1StopRudeness: 7:24am On Mar 05
Michool60:
My boyfriend hasn't called me for a week now and I went to his place this week Monday to ask him what the matter was but he didn't give me any valid reply.I even called him that same day when I got home but he didn't pick up and didn't call back.I even message him the following day when I didn't see his call that if there is anything bugging him or if he wants to break up,that he should let me know instead of keeping me in the dark.He replied by saying "is alright and good day"I don't know what to do again because we didn't have any issue and he hasn't called nor text me up still now

This is likely a classic breakup protocol used to partially remain in the relationship Incase you want free sex later or you regret and wanna have your cake after eating it.
as an ex youruba demon...breaking up this way is even worse than breaking up straight-up verbally.
You have the opportunity to use emotional blackmail..blame the babe for not being supportive when u were going through stress, call her names like impatient, nag and insensitive..
Only entry level and evening newspapers(35yrs and above babes) fall for this....be smart and tell him to go fvck himself. But if he has already fvcked you.....Pele

You have learnt one extra lesson, abstaining is key.... it doesn’t just save you from early pregnancy, cascade of abortions, and STDs... it also saves u from the psychological feeling of being used like a tissue paper..

Listen to durhleepee

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by personal59(m): 7:24am On Mar 05
Let him be jere life is too short for all this thinking


He is not mature yet to be in a relationship even though I don't believe in relationships
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by CAPSLOCKED: 7:31am On Mar 05
uthlaw:
don't blame him...after seeing the panties,nothing else in the relationship!

IF THIS IS THE CASE, IT WAS NEVER A RELATIONSHIP IN THE FIRST PLACE.

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by MiVida(m): 7:33am On Mar 05
Blu03:
I agree with MiVida, he's most likely ghosting you...
Why? That's the problem...
You haven't brought anything concrete here. Your story is kinda vague...
How's it been?

Anything for me for the weekend?


Btw, I heard my neighbor (female) who just celebrated her birthday recently, telling a guy over the phone that her birthday is next week and needs to buy things...
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by NaijaRoyalty(m): 7:35am On Mar 05
Is sex the only thing you bring to the table ??

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by teemotee: 7:39am On Mar 05
My dear you have been replaced
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by omale88(m): 7:42am On Mar 05
live him alone aunty,do your thing stop worrying,just wish him well and move on.
Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by XhosaNostra(f): 7:42am On Mar 05
He's playing games. Probably has somebody else, but doesn't wanna directly end things with you, in case he needs you as a backup plan in the future. End things, to shut down that window of opportunity for him & if he dares try to test your temperature later on, FÙCKING SCALD HIM. Muahahaha. That's how you deal with confused A-holes.

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Coolcalmcollect(m): 7:45am On Mar 05
Michool60:
My boyfriend hasn't called me for a week now and I went to his place this week Monday to ask him what the matter was but he didn't give me any valid reply.I even called him that same day when I got home but he didn't pick up and didn't call back.I even message him the following day when I didn't see his call that if there is anything bugging him or if he wants to break up,that he should let me know instead of keeping me in the dark.He replied by saying "is alright and good day"I don't know what to do again because we didn't have any issue and he hasn't called nor text me up still now
that's what you deserve for not agreeing to date the former guy that truly loved you....you preferred a guy that didn't....enjoy.

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by JERRY1925(m): 7:51am On Mar 05
Michool60:
My boyfriend hasn't called me for a week now and I went to his place this week Monday to ask him what the matter was but he didn't give me any valid reply.I even called him that same day when I got home but he didn't pick up and didn't call back.I even message him the following day when I didn't see his call that if there is anything bugging him or if he wants to break up,that he should let me know instead of keeping me in the dark.He replied by saying "is alright and good day"I don't know what to do again because we didn't have any issue and he hasn't called nor text me up still now

He might probably be surprised at your actions.. Not every man know how to argue.
I hope he has not seen all your smart moves.
If u think he has.. Just move on.
But if u innocent, just give him time

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by proclinician: 7:52am On Mar 05
This is just a reaction to a whole huge action.

What went wrong?

Were you cheating on him and he can't take it anymore? If this is the case kindly let him be

Or eating deep into his meagre finances with bills for human hair, embellishments, clothes, outings, data, food, school, house rent while you are of zero value to him and he can't continue to be sinking because he's dating you? If this is the case understand he needs to be useful to himself and his family. The money for your hair can help his lil bro offset some bills so let him be.


Are u the type with numerous besties in endless preposterous frolicking while you rub it on his face there's nothing going on? If this is the case you need to understand that no man likes to raise another man's child. It's catastrophic.

Did you tell him no sex till marriage and he couldn't continue? Did he just plainly got tired? Well here's the big one. Sex could be very important.


Answer these questions to yourself and move on.

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Re: My Boyfriend Doesn't Call Anymore by Nobody: 7:54am On Mar 05
shocked
MiVida:
How's it been?

Anything for me for the weekend?


Btw, I heard my neighbor (female) who just celebrated her birthday recently, telling a guy over the phone that her birthday is next week and needs to buy things...
okay...

You don't mean it? Well, the boyfriend is now her mugu. The sad thing is that he would send her the money...

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