^^
He don expire!

I think we need to uninstall his programme running in your system.

Accept my loving proposal to be my wife and I'll make you forget about your ex. , lol just joking .

Honestly, babe the rule of the thumb is to let yourself go, try to begin to see life in the world of your own rather than yours and your ex. Try to avoid as much as possible any contact whatsoever at least for sometime and pls whenever you find a new guy make sure he's someone you really like and not someone you can fill the gap with. I don't know how to explain better than this but I believe we have some love doctors on nl who can help better.

goodluck

Osama10:

I think we need to uninstall his programme running in your system.

u are not well , y dont u download vista for her

@freecocoa
i fil u gal i was so in ur shoes b4 , advice is hard to give on dis 1 watever we say ur ex memories  wud still remain wit u , til u find love so be focus and open minded till dat special one comes to occupy dat spot , wish u luck gall  

Osama10:

I think we need to uninstall his programme running in your system.

@ poster- Did you ever hear the expression "the grass is always greener on the other side"? I suspect that the reason you are still stuck on him is that he is unattainable for you now. Obviously, there is a reason why you are not together anymore, and it's probably a good reason. I suspect that lack of closure could be the reason. It's natural to wonder "what if we made a mistake?", or "Could he be the one I am meant to spend my life with?" Happy memories about the relationship last much longer than unhappy ones, so it's easier to idolize the person than remember him for the pain he was. If you need closure, you can contact him one last time, and perhaps talking with him will remind you of why you broke up, and why he is not "the one" for you. This, in turn, will remind you of what you deserve in a relationship, and help you to move on to bigger and better things. Best wishes!

Idowuogbo:

u are not well , y dont u download vista for her

Whats your problem, Do you need one of my programmes?

^nope cus i havent installed my anti-viruses 

Well cocoa
get 2 open ur mind jor
plenty guys 2 toy wt dey
inbtw u find sm1 u cant breath witout
bt den jst toy wit a few

Idowuogbo:

^nope cus i havent installed my anti-viruses

Maybe the fault of why the relationship went into rupture was yours if he was the cause what you should be feeling for him now is how he should see you living better and being far better without him.Letting him or someone like him realise that you have been tutored by life and becoming stronger and wiser .No messing around with your life again by any guy because you've risen from the fall and rise to SHINE and let the new sun rise gild your beauty.

190:

What of K-money!!

K-money dey na and we'll soon get married but i want to make sure i clear every bit of my ex from my heart so that it won't complicate things as i don't want to loose k-money.infact k's the reason why i opened this thread.

Osama10:

I think we need to uninstall his programme running in your system.

Hmmm u are right you know cos i swear i'm wondering just what he did to me,maybe he installed a you-can-never-stop-loving-me-microchip into my system when i wasn't looking.seriously though i need to have it uninstalled,just tell me how abeg.

Topic

Open your heart to love again.

freecocoa:

Hmmm u are right you know cos i swear i'm wondering just what he did to me,maybe he installed a you-can-never-stop-loving-me-microchip into my system when i wasn't looking.seriously though i need to have it uninstalled,just tell me how abeg.

now i believe your story in the other thread.

Specialist900:

Topic

Open your heart to love again.now i believe your story in the other thread.

My dear even i didn't believe i could do some of the things i did for him.

OP Hmmm, seriously? But b4 givin out my own piece of idea,did d love jst fade away naturally or who has fault btw u both?

p.wiz:

OP Hmmm, seriously? But b4 givin out my own piece of idea,did d love jst fade away naturally or who has fault btw u both?

He was kinda insecure,he kept saying am too friendly and nice to guys,he said i was supposed to be strict to guys,he complains at the slightest things, inshort he wanted me to be perfect,one day while we were arguing about something i got mad and told him i needed some time and space to think about our relationship,after about a week he called and said that we should forget what happened,i told him that i have but that i wanted to be alone for a while,he got angry,stopped talking to me and travelled to another state,then sent me an sms saying,i've given you the space you wanted,you should have just told me you've found someone else,after sometime i decided to call him and tell him there was no one else but he wouldn't believe so i left him.i think he bears a grudge against me.

freecocoa:

He was kinda insecure,he kept saying am too friendly and nice to guys,he said i was supposed to be strict to guys,he complains at the slightest things, inshort he wanted me to be perfect,one day while we were arguing about something i got mad and told him i needed some time and space to think about our relationship,after about a week he called and said that we should forget what happened,i told him that i have but that i wanted to be alone for a while,he got angry,stopped talking to me and travelled to another state,then sent me an sms saying,i've given you the space you wanted,you should have just told me you've found someone else,after sometime i decided to call him and tell him there was no one else but he wouldn't believe so i left him.i think he bears a grudge against me.

you asked for chance he gave you chances, correct guy.

And they say guys are not jealous?

I forget to add that his pride or ego is a bit on the high side,he tries his possible best to hide his emotions.

freecocoa:

My dear even i didn't believe i could do some of the things i did for him.

blinded love. Thank God for your liberation.

Specialist900:

blinded love. Thank God for your liberation.

It wasn't one sided anyway,he reciprocated and he is still in my system so if you think i need liberation,i'm not completely liberated yet.

^
Give it time you'll pull through.

Hey cmon gúrl, if u seriously are in2 diz guy , just try talkin tinz ova wif him. D picture ù presentd of ur disagreement here iz nt somtin dat kant be resolvd. Unlez u ve sumtin élse against d guy or u ar just fed ùp, den i dnt c y u cant make up again. Bt hey if u realy wana get him outa ur system, just try a long distance vacation. It workz lyk magic. My 2 centz

On the day you accept that in life everything must come to an end, will be the day you get over him, even the bestest lifelong marriages must end they will end in death. With every end there has to be the beginning. I've just learned this, that everything in life happens in duality, for every night there's day, for every old there's new, for every end there's the beginning so stop standing in your own way and open another door for a new beginning and anticipate the best.

@my freecocoa are you just trying to create a thread or this is happening to you for real? Well I feel sorry about this no wonder you could not love me the way I do to you. Just try to love again I am here to love you in return.

@freecocoa, sori i mite b ruff wit u here.
U said u wantd him 2giv u br8 rite? U pulld d trigger gal. 4cryin out loud he's nt a toy u cud reject at some pt. Evryman got an ego,d devil u knw is far beta off than d god u dnt knw.
Truthfully speakin,we men believ if a lady doesnt want us anymor it surely means she's got anoda man,period!
U just discovered age isnt ur frnd anymor after d br8.
If i may ask,hw many guys hv u dated after him?
Sweety,u nid 2wear them sleeves &go after ur heart.

Try to change environment.

OP.
You name is not Freecocoa but

[size=40pt]Freecasava [/size]

You rid him off your mind if you want to. He's stil there because you want him to be there.

D-sense:

OP.
You name is not Freecocoa but

[size=40pt]Freecasava [/size]

I often wonder how u came about your username,i've told you it should be DSENSELESS.',D