LordKO:


Say hello to your lunatic parents and direct your further mention(s) to them.

Bumpkin.

LordKO:
You've a very bad character. Eschew conceit if you wish to progress in life. I don't care whether your aunt intentionally left her house dirty or not prior to your arrival there - I don't hold brief for her in anyway though - but the fact that you disobeyed her request to clean the house, out of conceit, says a lot about how bad your character is. Obedience is better than sacrifice hence more glorifying.

Citing your said conceited attitude a lone, I don't have any reason to believe that your aunt is evil as you've painted her - only her husband can make me to believe otherwise in this regard.

LordKO:


Say hello to your lunatic parents and direct your further mention(s) to them.

Bumpkin.

Eberex:
She should count herself lucky you are raised well , if not all you have to do is put your urine in her soup

Ivebeenbanned:

Fake ass story. First of all, women don't say "am" instead of "I'm". Secondly, only naija men expect cooking and cleaning to be an only woman's chore. You've started dragging the woman, the husband no dey the dirty house too. Get a hobby, nigga

Oluwatunmise529:
Hi people

I live with my aunt who is a pastor's wife. I got there four months ago due to the fact that my dad had some problems then.

But the first day I got to my aunt's place, I got the shock of my life. The house was totally dirty, even the sink in kitchen was removing maggots. She told me to clean and wash everything but being my first time with her. I told her I can't do them. Then she said she would slap me if I don't do her wish. I ended up doing them and since then am being used like a slave.

When I told my dad about everything.. She told my dad I need home training that I can't do anything and my dad told me to stay since he doesn't want it to cause a rift between them.

My aunt am talking about is an elder sister to my late mom but the same father and different mothers. There was a day she told me my grandmother was a witch and she killed one of her children before she died and she uses my witch grandmom to describe me to people in the neighborhood. I always feel ashamed.

She has a daughter who doesn't cook and clean or do anything... I end up doing everything and still it isn't enough, at the end of the day she tells me am lazy... Am always afraid to look when I pass by a mirror because I always look so dirty and haggard. Just yesterday rain fell here and she left some things outside. I ran outside to take those things inside and the next thing she did was rain insults on me because of that..

She has never raised her hands on me but only maltreat me.. I cried myself to sleep..I was always a jovial person before but now am always crying and moody and am beginning to hate her.

I don't laugh at all anymore even at funny things.. I only have hatred for her and her family...I don't want to hate anyone and I want to go back home and be myself again....am planning to run away now but am really scared of the outcome...
Worst is everyone thinks she is a good person because she is a pastor wife....

Am so fed up and always unhappy... Someone pls help me

safarigirl:
LOL, let me not tell you what I saw when I went to my married uncle's house some days ago

There are people who don't eat in their houses, yes, they will enter car and drive to a restaurant and eat there, dem no go touch one plate.

It is very possible, I believe that one die.

safarigirl:
Nigerians are always quick to support abuse, because most of them come from abusive homes

The entire country is filled with victims of abuse, so, they think abuse is normal, that is why that LordKO person is accusing someone of having bad character simply because she wants to be treated like a human being. A country filled with messed up people, that is why government officials and every other wimp with a sniff of power, is quick to them and dehumanize them, and nothing happens in the country.

The aunty that is abusing her is a fool, how do you abuse the person cooking your meals? If That girl decides to poison their food and run away, all of them will die and nothing will happen. She has already accused her of being the spawn of a witch, after all

franchasng:
The bitter truth is 99.99% of Nigerian women are like your Aunt as soon as they get married!


My point is, all Nigerian and black women are wicked to other people's children, especially after they get married....

franchasng:
The bitter truth is 99.99% of Nigerian women are like your Aunt as soon as they get married!


You that is complaining this will do worst tomorrow when you get married too.


It is a genetic trait in most Nigerian and black women that showcases its face once they marry and feel comfortable.

Majority of Nigerian women and most black women are mostly born selfish, but their selfishness and wickedness are overlooked when they are single, but once they marry and settle down, their selfishness and wickedness starts to manifest....


The only reason women are coping in this life and living in peace with one another is men! Remove men from the world, and women, black women especially will burn down the world in few minutes!!


Their badness, wickedness, selfishness and inhumane to other people's children and those below them economically/financially varies from one woman to another, based on how comfortable she feels she and her husband is.


My point is, all Nigerian and black women are wicked to other people's children, especially after they get married....so endure or relocate back to your father's house and go there and suffer it till light shines on you, but never expect any positive change from your Aunt because it is the norm with 99.99% Nigerian married women; they maltreat other people's children in their care, especially those they believe they are economically and financially better off or those dependent on them.....the only people Nigerian married women treat well are:

1.) Their husband - if he is bringing in enough money and comfort to the family
2.) Their children - these ones are the number 1
3.) Their parents
4.) Their sugar boys - the boys that service their rusted engine



So take heart, I have heard worst stories of how Nigerian married women treat their wards and maids and helps...its horrible, only God will reward them all....if the husband dare intervene, they accuse him of sleeping with the girl or planning to sleep with her.....which makes most Nigerian men helpless in this situation

LordKO:
You've a very bad character. Eschew conceit if you wish to progress in life. I don't care whether your aunt intentionally left her house dirty or not prior to your arrival there - I don't hold brief for her in anyway though - but the fact that you disobeyed her request to clean the house, out of conceit, says a lot about how bad your character is. Obedience is better than sacrifice hence more glorifying.

Citing your said conceited attitude a lone, I don't have any reason to believe that your aunt is evil as you've painted her - only her husband can make me to believe otherwise in this regard.

Oluwatunmise529:
Hi people

I live with my aunt who is a pastor's wife. I got there four months ago due to the fact that my dad had some problems then.

But the first day I got to my aunt's place, I got the shock of my life. The house was totally dirty, even the sink in kitchen was removing maggots. She told me to clean and wash everything but being my first time with her. I told her I can't do them. Then she said she would slap me if I don't do her wish. I ended up doing them and since then am being used like a slave.

When I told my dad about everything.. She told my dad I need home training that I can't do anything and my dad told me to stay since he doesn't want it to cause a rift between them.

My aunt am talking about is an elder sister to my late mom but the same father and different mothers. There was a day she told me my grandmother was a witch and she killed one of her children before she died and she uses my witch grandmom to describe me to people in the neighborhood. I always feel ashamed.

She has a daughter who doesn't cook and clean or do anything... I end up doing everything and still it isn't enough, at the end of the day she tells me am lazy... Am always afraid to look when I pass by a mirror because I always look so dirty and haggard. Just yesterday rain fell here and she left some things outside. I ran outside to take those things inside and the next thing she did was rain insults on me because of that..

She has never raised her hands on me but only maltreat me.. I cried myself to sleep..I was always a jovial person before but now am always crying and moody and am beginning to hate her.

I don't laugh at all anymore even at funny things.. I only have hatred for her and her family...I don't want to hate anyone and I want to go back home and be myself again....am planning to run away now but am really scared of the outcome...
Worst is everyone thinks she is a good person because she is a pastor wife....

Am so fed up and always unhappy... Someone pls help me

AfroKnight:


But it doesn’t apply here. This girl says she’s saddled with domestic chores. A family that eats out cannot decide overnight to eat the cooking of a stranger.

Her story does not add up. She’s lying or hiding essential parts of the story.