Why do you want to tell him? To make him mock you more ? You don't need to tell him, face your life!!!

Please as per marriage issues that they are discussing here, don't be in a hurry to go into such. If your baby father is not what you are ready to stay with for life, please don't. The same people trying to preach marriage will still call you names for choosing wrongly. Just make sure you guys are there for your baby. Marriage is not for everybody.

Ngo24:


He is not the friendly type, he treat outside better and his children that aside , he can sleep with anything under skirt, aged and under age to the point of harassing my close friend.....
He also accused me of seducing his friend some years ago even when I never knew what they call boyfriend.
Before I left his place he had actually sent me packing twice and the third time, because i asked him why he treat his children badly, that I'm always scared when he is around, that instead of that he should let me know if he don't want me to stay with him,that despite all his attitude I stayed even when the rest ran away. So, he sent me packing. I'm 26years old now, I have a child but he is not aware of it

are u legally married now? just asking though but all the way tell him the truth about your baby .

thorpido:
They aren't mostly orphans,they are children who have parents but were abandoned or left their parents.
My work gets me involved with motherless babies homes and rehab homes for children.These children have parents but they were/are not present.

Yes some have both parents who abandoned them, some are orphans etc, for you to assume that most misfits are from single parents is very wrong, that is my point.

Biglittlelois:



I will type whatever I feel like typing here you cannot stop me, let the kids chose the one that suits them, after all its a free world, not everyone wants to be shackled with living with a particular person for the rest of their life, the world has gone beyond the myopic thinking that ladies must marry bla bla bla, you Nigerians should better flow with the tide and stop being archaic, marriage is not for everyone.

if you can't give same advice to your daughter, don't give it to the general public.

Biglittlelois:




What is wrong with single parenthood? Marriage is not for everyone, why can't you guys constantly saying this understand this simple fact?

single parenthood is not ideal as children need both parents to be balance human beings, if marriage is not for you why bring in a child to come and suffer? Is that not selfishness? This baby mama, baby daddy, single parenthood is wrecking society like never before.

Biglittlelois:



Yes some have both parents who abandoned them, some are orphans etc, for you to assume that most misfits are from single parents is very wrong, that is my point.

Well,you said most are orphans and that is not true.Most have parents but come from disjointed families.

LadySarah:
Okay. The deadbeat dads we need to show sympathy at old age.

The ones who already know come what may, the children will come home and ask for forgiveness for the sins they themselves committed.

What can I say? Op, forgive him.

This your Sharp mouth like knife ehn. Dead beat dad's. Too much nollywood movies

What do you stand to gain by telling him ?

Sentiments apart, why has your father neglected you? If there is no good reason then it is better to let him be.

The bible teaches us to forgive but if you are not a strong believer and practitioner there is no need for you to ridicule yourself with a man that doesn't care about your existence.

Biglittlelois:




What is wrong with single parenthood? Marriage is not for everyone, why can't you guys constantly saying this understand this simple fact?

I'm married but I get u. In this part of the world, if u are not married, u dont have worth