Jaqenhghar:

Yes Its incoherent and confusing to an inconsequential dumbass like me. The person I was addressing understood and that's all that matters. Who cares and gives a Bleep about me or what I think? Afterall I'm a nonentity

Oh okay pele, Never knew you have been admitted. I thought as much lol.....

Ricchcream:
My thoughts exactly. I find her "not getting emotionally attached in the early stages of the relationship" implausible too. That xhosanostra moniker must have seen many toxic relationships in the past, for her to be so cold bent.

So you get hooked on a person from the get go? That's your cross to carry, Foolio.
With me a relationship starts with interest. I don't fall head-over-heels at 1st sight, I'm not a teenager neither am I Bobo the fool. Over time, genuine feelings may start to develop. But never on the 1st few encounters, when I don't know them from Adam. It may take weeks or months, it depends. That's why if a guy waits, thinking I will call when I barely know him...he better pack lunch because I won't. It's not trauma from any imaginary past relationship. It's just how it is with me. It's my nature, if you will.

Toseenlove:


Oh okay pele, Never knew you have been admitted. I thought as much lol.....

Is that the best you can come up with? Indeed you are jobless.

Toseenlove:


Exactly what I was about to post, I was really disappointed when I saw her recent posts. But In as much as you are right, I still believe she Is still quite Intelligent and different from the Foools hungry glutton witches we have here In Nigeria. I know say na dem wan pollute her with their filthy body odour. But e no go work....

that was why I said XhosaNostra is like a typical naija girl( didnt even know she is not from Nigeria) with little exposure.. although she is intelligent compared to people like fumistiqueen, cocorandy and others,. had it been she did not reply ubunja with that dumb post( the one I quoted), it would have been so great... now one idiot said I was attacking her, i just had to agree to disagree....

seanwilliam:
that was why I said XhosaNostra is like a typical naija girl( didnt even know she is not from Nigeria) with little exposure.. although she is intelligen compared to people like fumistiqueen, cocorandy and others,. had it been she did not reply ubunja with that dumb post( the one I quoted), it would have been so great... now one idiot said I was attacking her, i just had to agree to disagree....

What exposure are you talking about? You must be used to dating either whòring or impulsive women. I'm neither of those things. A guy has to make the 1st move & that's that. I'm not apologetic about it.

Toseenlove:


You actually mean "Him refusing to collect her number when she wanted to give Op"

Yeah, thanks for the correction.

Because what would be the reason to refuse her number? Did he gave a valid or logical reason? If there is any

The girl tried sef. If I was in the lady's shoes I'll give him back his contact card right there and with a very big hiss to provoke him.

Funny thing is that the guy didn't know the gravity of what he did.

He should have collect it. Then Wait till she calls him.

Omar09:


This wisdom. Taken.

you are calm and wise

Ricchcream:
Hello, who's the author of the wisdom on your profile? Sorry for going off topic.

I don't know I tried looking for the author but nothing pops up.

I think it was just written by someone anonymous

XhosaNostra:



What exposure are you talking about? You must be used to dating either whòring or impulsive women. I'm neither of those. A guy has to make the 1st move & that's that.

Does this mean you don't or can't go for who you like?

When a guy approach you, made some convo, offered his number which you accepted. What do you call this, 0 move?

What if a girl meet approached a guy. Strike a convo and offered her number to him.

Did she make a move or not?

Ariza:
You really tried.... I don't just know how to say it. Like last year I set up a meeting with a guy I've been into for years (2years) When he arrived, we talked asked him if he is in a relationship which he answered No to, then when it was time for me to let out the cat, I couldn't. Just went into mute mode, words didn't come ,after several attempt I decided to just enjoy his presence see me sulking in all of his perfume . If I were to draw him I would make an exact sketch of him with my eyes closed that day. like the sulking and focus wasn't from here. Lol. When he said he was leaving, I told him same here I didn't want to be left alone there. Honestly that thing isn't easy ooo I couldn't just pull it off.

eyah

XhosaNostra:


Oh, I see. Well, that's where the difference lies. I'm too much of a traditionalist. Also, early on in a relationship I'm not emotionally attached in any way, so there's no reason for me to approach a guy for anything. Liking someone is different from love & not enough motivation for me to start chasing. I can always brush that shìt off & move on to someone with similar views.
So yeah, it's interesting how we all differ in one way or another.

lolz. If I come across a girl like you... I'll flee without blinking

Shugavee:
The guy that collected her number , has sense !! U on the other hand doesn’t , alpha male rubbish,, ubunja recruits

You jealous of us redpillers. I like tough ladies,
Cause I love how I make them break after falling for me and telling them I can't ever love them back. Their face at that point is worth gold.

Reality11:


Does this mean you don't or can't go for who you like?

When a guy approach you, made some convo, offered his number which you accepted. What do you call this, 0 move?

What if a girl meet approached a guy. Strike a convo and offered her number to him.

Did she make a move or not?

Too many questions.

1st let me explain something to you, perhaps you'll understand where I'm coming from much better. Say I like a guy, right? The way I see it, those are my feelings ( my "headache" ) & just because I feel them is not an indication for me to act on them or start expressing them. I keep a lot of things under lock & key. I will never desert what I consider to be common sense & my dignity because I have "feelings". I'm an extremely proud person & my pride alone will never allow me to chase after ANYONE. Don't care who they are. If they don't make an effort, I also won't bother. Those feelings, that are my own beast to tame, I can always deal with them another time, without burdening somebody else with them. They're mine to handle, after all.

Semperty:
lolz. If I come across a girl like you... I'll flee without blinking

Good.

Shugavee:
yeye Dey smell

Maybe it's just your unwashed puna

XhosaNostra:


So you get hooked on a person from the get go? That's your cross to carry, Foolio.
With me a relationship starts with interest. I don't fall head-over-heels at 1st sight, I'm not a teenager neither am I Bobo the fool. Over time, genuine feelings may start to develop. But never on the 1st few encounters, when I don't know them from Adam. It may take weeks or months, it depends. That's why if a guy waits, thinking I will call when I barely know him...he better pack lunch because I won't. It's not trauma from any imaginary past relationship. It's just how it is with me. It's my nature, if you will.

What does Foolio mean? Urban dictionary said; "A person from Minnesota who is clumsy, socially awkward, slow at getting jokes, and very bad at dancing. They are not dependable and should ...". I don't know how that applies to me.

Anyway, It's like I struck a cord, I did not mean to be irritable, but I would like you to understand that my perspective is coming from a background that does believe in love at first sight -the language that everyone on earth is capable of understanding in their heart. So, I don't have to know someone for a long time before I see qualities that I want in a partner. This is why I found your position unnatural, and deny it as you may, it is not normal.

Ricchcream:
What does Foolio mean? Urban dictionary said; "A person from Minnesota who is clumsy, socially awkward, slow at getting jokes, and very bad at dancing. They are not dependable and should ...". I don't know how that applies to me.

Anyway, It's like I struck a cord, I did not mean to be irritable, but I would like you to understand that my perspective is coming from a background that does believe in love at first sight -the language that everyone on earth is capable of understanding in their heart. So, I don't have to know someone for a long time before I see qualities that I want in a partner. This is why I found your position unnatural, and deny it as you may, it is not normal.

No, you didn't @ bolded. The rest of your post, that's how you handle YOUR life. I'm not you. I handle mine how I see fit. The end.

Make a pick.

Ladyhippolyta88:

I don't know I tried looking for the author but nothing pops up.

I think it was just written by someone anonymous

Ok, I'll do my own research and intimate you when I find something.

I'm interested in it because the words reel off as if from a book. Lol.

Ladyhippolyta88:

He rejected me he wasn't interested he only saw me as a friend in his word "a younger sister" that was 3 years ago.Immediately he told me that I automatically went back to my senses.I am happy I did because after that I started thinking straight around him I was happy I got it off my chest. when I told him.
I have no problem approaching a man I like or love and making the first move.


I am not a traditionalist or believe in relationship stereotypes.I prefer the modern day kind of relationships.

Very nice of you.....You aren't like those Cowards Ari.za and Co...

XhosaNostra:


No, you didn't @ bolded. The rest of your post, that's how you handle YOUR life. I'm not you. I handle mine how I see fit. The end.

Lol. If you had tuned your gangsta vibes down, maybe I wouldn't have been so misguided.
Well, just do a lil bit of introspection to be sure you're leading a life that's truly based on your own terms, and not one dictated by past happenstances and "situationships", will you?

XhosaNostra:


No, you didn't @ bolded. The rest of your post, that's how you handle YOUR life. I'm not you. I handle mine how I see fit. The end.

Make a pick.

None. Lol. You're a liar. I struck a chord.

Lightangel65:


You jealous of us redpillers. I like tough ladies,
Cause I love how I make them break after falling for me and telling them I can't ever love them back. Their face at that point is worth gold.

YIMU

Ricchcream:
Lol. If you had tuned your gangsta vibes down, maybe I wouldn't have been so misguided.
Well, just do a lil bit of introspection to be sure you're leading a life that's truly based on your own terms, and not one dictated by past happenstances and "situationships", will you?

Oh, I'm very sure.

XhosaNostra:


Oh, I'm very sure.

Very well then.

Guys are working hard to make d mulla, invest in biz & properties, develop themselves for great opportunities, start a family and enjoy life. Some people lifetime goals is to get ladies running after dem without any visible achievement.
In 5 years time life will tell who has used their time judiciously. Time they say is the true test of success.

Shugavee:
YIMU

Whatever i pray you jam a pro red piller

This alpha male and feminist crap gat me wondering?

Toseenlove:


Lol why are you this pained and bittered.....Things can pain you females sha. Is It your Singleness lol......No go Vex jam Corona Ooooh.....

.

Reality11:


Only a foolish ugly guy would put himself so low by begging for girls number

How about this?

Correct

ozodigboo:
My guy and I ran into two babes at a mall.
I told my own that I like her, that we need to hang out, and I gave her my card ( with my number on it of course). She wanted to give me her number but I smiled and declined. I wanted her to feel free to call.

My guy didn't buy the idea. He collected the his girls number, and lated called. But the girl hasn't yet agreed to any date and promised to call later, but hasn't.

Mine hasn't called either. Lol

Who between the both of us did the right thing? How long should we wait before giving up.?

your friend is an alpha you are a beta,a man should go for what he wants and not be concerned about being manly as long as it's not offensive,you needed her number then you gave her yours instead?please don't do that next time,lol hope she calls.

Shugavee:
.

You no fit use me do anything lol. I'm like a bone stuck In you ladies lungs lol.....You people that will still beg us the Alphas to marry you last last so you can feel our Gbola, Infact heavy Gbola fall on you there.....

XhosaNostra:



LOL! Oh well then.

It's sissy to me because, traditionally a man leads. Finish. One who expects a female to court him & reach out to him 1st is not a man, at least in my book.

No one said he shouldn't lead. But he uses his brain to make sure he is Extremely loved and needed where he wants to Lead


The many rejection all this males suffer up and down is because they keep leading on a woman who have Zero feelings for them..

You haven't seen a situation a man finally made the move and she replied " have been expecting you to say this all this whilleeeeeeeeee " .

Only few men can relate.