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I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Ngozey: 4:05pm On Mar 23, 2020
I don’t know how to start, am very scared right now. I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy.

Actually I stay with my sister, her husband, her baby and her husband's brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now. Am now 8 weeks pregnant.

I told him he said I should abort before people find out. We went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us is too much. We are students depending on my sister and brother in law. We are both stuck and confused. Am scared if my sister comes to find, out she will send me back to the village. I don’t want to go back.

I need help please on what to do about it. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks, please no insult.

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by KaideeGee(m): 4:12pm On Mar 23, 2020
You had beta have that baby oh
It is beta 2 be guilty of fornication dan 2 be guilty of fornication and child murder

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Shyluck(m): 4:13pm On Mar 23, 2020
I don't know what to tell you except that you shouldn't opt for abortion. Abortion is too risky. It might take your life

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by donbachi(m): 4:14pm On Mar 23, 2020
Every exam get result..show dem ur report card.

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Nobody: 4:15pm On Mar 23, 2020
You can marry each other, at least you're not blood relatives grin

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Nobody: 4:15pm On Mar 23, 2020
KaideeGee:
You had beta have that baby oh
It is beta 2 be guilty of incest dan 2 be guilty of incest and child murder

Where is the incest? Is she related by blood to her brother in law?

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by walkwithgod(m): 4:16pm On Mar 23, 2020
What a big family grin grin grin

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by thorpido(m): 4:16pm On Mar 23, 2020
Well,you are not blood relations so you can have the baby.
If you like yourselves so much to be sleeping with each other then maybe you can progress to marriage.
You can just have a small introduction and the wedding later.

Corona virus no even fear una.

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Winneygirl(f): 4:18pm On Mar 23, 2020
You are looking for a "Cheap" hospital to do an abortion?
I wont say anything.
You won't be the first to get pregnant. The world will not come to an end because of it.

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Sisijetue(f): 4:18pm On Mar 23, 2020
That’s the least of our worries for now ma’am
You will be alright laslas

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Kingosytex(m): 4:21pm On Mar 23, 2020
When you opened your legs wide screaming' harder, harder, harder' you never knew that pregnancy will occur right?

In your mind, you thought your brother in law was sterile...

You must be a joker.


I will advise you to remove abortion from the picture cos you might not come out of it alive.

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by crackkhaus: 4:21pm On Mar 23, 2020
8weeks gone, and you called it only? shocked
That will be a high-risk abortion and I doubt drugs will still work at this stage.

I really like it when secret lovers keep their sexual indiscretions within the family though cheesy

Just inform your sister and her husband, they may even help you two wed each other properly.

Congratulations in advance mummy.

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Authoreety: 4:23pm On Mar 23, 2020
When Una dey do am, e dey sweet dey scatter brain, finally now e don set...

Aunty, I'm so sure you wr the one that was going after the young chaps dickk..


Aunty u beta hav the baby o..

Double inlaw ain't a bad idea after all

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Ngozey: 4:34pm On Mar 23, 2020
I can’t keep this pregnancy we are both young and too young to get married. Am in ss3 he is in ss2. Please we are begging you in the name of God help us with remedies to remove this pregnancy and we promise not to sleep together anymore please

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Pusyiter(m): 4:35pm On Mar 23, 2020
When you decided to spread those legs wide open like Abuja express road, you were not scared.
Now someone pissed inside your punanny, you did not know the consequences until some thing happened.
Well, the choice is yours.
Have the baby or attempt suicide (abortion).

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by emeijeh(m): 4:38pm On Mar 23, 2020
Ngozey:
I can’t keep this pregnancy we are both young and too young to get married. Am in ss3 he is in ss2. Please we are begging you in the name of God help us with remedies to remove this pregnancy and we promise not to sleep together anymore please

Stop talking and go tell your sister's husband!
Stop talking.
Stop typing.
Go and see your sister's husband, tell him everything.

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Inspectorsuga22(m): 4:42pm On Mar 23, 2020
Imagine the effrontery asking us to suggest a cheap abortion drug or hospital for u. So after commiting fornication, u now want us to join u in a conspiracy to commit murder abi?

If u abort that child eh! Chineke a gbaa gi oku. Ewu

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by nlPoster: 4:47pm On Mar 23, 2020
You might not appreciate the importance of setting appropriate boundaries for yourself in your interactions with others. It's what you should do nonetheless.

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Oyindidi(f): 5:01pm On Mar 23, 2020
Weldone!

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Oyindidi(f): 5:05pm On Mar 23, 2020
Ngozey:
I can’t keep this pregnancy we are both young and too young to get married. Am in ss3 he is in ss2. Please we are begging you in the name of God help us with remedies to remove this pregnancy and we promise not to sleep together anymore please
SS2&3? Learn from your mistake dear, hope you're enjoying sex with him?

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Nobody: 5:28pm On Mar 23, 2020
See wetin nairaland done turn to

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Tripitaka: 5:31pm On Mar 23, 2020
One would never understand how stupid and out-of-touch nairaland is until they post certain questions.

OP, mine may not be a popular opinion, but you are within your rights to have an abortion if that's what you want and feel is best for you. You wear the shoe, so you certainly know if it fits or not, so don't be cajoled by the hypocrisy of Nigerians. If you want an abortion, talk to your sister or parents about having it, as no one, even the guy has the right to tell you what to do with your body. But You must also not pin parental responsibility on the guy for a kid he didn't consent to having. You have done nothing wrong by having sex, but you have done everything wrong by having unprotected sex knowing fully well the possible consequences - a consequence that you are unprepared for.

Virtually everyone here castigating you will not let their teenage daughter or sister keep a pregnancy out of wedlock, if the decision was theirs to make. A study by PMA2020.org stated that an average of 3million abortions takes place in Nigeria annually. Yes, the same Nigeria where a probable 97% of Nairalanders hail from.

You must know that the decision to keep or abort that pregnancy is a life changing one - either positive or disastrous - a decision that you would live with for the rest of your life. You must also know that abortions pose a threat to life, especially when not done by professionals.

What do I think you should do? Talk to your sister now! Tell her you're sorry but let her know that you do not wish to keep the pregnancy. Going forward, please use a condom.

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Nobody: 7:10pm On Mar 23, 2020
Ngozey:
I don’t know how to start am very scared right now I don’t know what to do about this pregnancy. Actually I stay with my sister ,her husband ,her baby and her husband brother who is a year younger than me. We have been sleeping together for sometimes now am now 8 weeks pregnant. I told him he said I should abort before people found out , we went to the hospital together to remove it but the money they are asking us it’s too much , we are students depending on my sister and brother in law , we are both stuck and confuse . Am scared if my sister came to found out she will send me back to the village I don’t want to go back. Please does anyone know any good cheap hospital for abortion in Abuja or if you can recommend something I can take for abortion without going to the hospital. The pregnancy is only 8 weeks please no insult
Do the right thing by keeping the pregnancy.
I reside in Abuja, too. Invite me for the naming ceremony in nine months time.
I pray you deliver triplets.

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Graxie(f): 7:45pm On Mar 23, 2020
Your best bet is to tell your sister. Just meet her and confess.

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Nobody: 7:48pm On Mar 23, 2020
Hi Ngozey,
Why do you cry over a spilled milk?, the harm is done and you should be looking at how to confess to your sister, her husband and stop the abortion. The consequences of progressing with the abortion is dangerous and harmful. Your future is still bright. If you decide to progress in error, these are the disadvantages:
1. You would not be in the good books of God
2. You will not forgive yourself and the man who impregnated you
3. You might end up aborting the baby and removing your womb
4. You might not be privileged to have a child in the nearest future
5. No Child

Advantages:
1. Peace with God
2. Child of your own
3. More express than your peers
4. No guilt
5.Your womb is intact and ready for other children.

I know you are afraid of the future, how you would take care of your child, your education and what people would say. It is the duty of man to talk and act irrationally, but it's in your duty to act rationally and refine their negativity to propel you to greatness.

Always remember that you are made of God and can do exploit/all things through Christ Jesus.
Let us talk some more on Facts of Life. www.hightaughts.com

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by Ishilove: 8:23pm On Mar 23, 2020
Ngozey:
I can’t keep this pregnancy we are both young and too young to get married. Am in ss3 he is in ss2. Please we are begging you in the name of God help us with remedies to remove this pregnancy and we promise not to sleep together anymore please
I was going to give you a good talking to but this your post has stopped me in my tracks.

You children of nowadays, wetin dey hungry una no dey market. If you have unprotected sex, na belle go enter, not plasma TV.

Well, wetin don happen don happen. Tell your sister the truth. You have been doing adult things without realizing being adult comes with adult responsibilities. Tell her and let real adults handle the situation.

Don't go for any nonsense abortion. Or do you want to die?? She will be disappointed (Lord knows I will slap the teeth out of your mouth and leave my palm prints on your back if you were my sister), but after the disappointment she will help you to find a solution. What that solution is I don't know, but at least you will not be putting your life at risk any longer.

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Re: I’m Pregnant For My Sister's Brother-In-Law. I’m Scared To Tell My Sister by IMASTEX: 8:48pm On Mar 23, 2020
The outcome shouldn't be surprising, the house was obviously having two couples living therein, one official & one non official. Jokes apart. Just open up to your sister. She will in turn tell her husband. And you guys will certainly face the real music of life but years from now all will be fine.

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