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Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Kekereekun123: 4:59pm On Mar 23
Sometimes when you look back at how women treated you as a good and calm guy over the years you begin to think should I turn into a heartless beast?

I have friends who treat them like trash but the ladies still keep chasing them. Some don't even have money or cars o.

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Beckysexy(f): 5:08pm On Mar 23
Nah nah
Not me
If you treat me like trash, I'll also treat you like trash.That's my law
Me wey no gbadun before

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by viyon02: 5:12pm On Mar 23
My brother that is just my thought for today: I think being a gentleman is not enough to handle ladies, they just need to see that beast like trait in you just to correct their brain.

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by viyon02: 5:15pm On Mar 23
My brother that is just my thought for today: I think being a gentleman is not enough to handle ladies, they just need to see that beast like trait in you just to correct their brain

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by viyon02: 5:16pm On Mar 23
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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Bartork(m): 5:16pm On Mar 23
It's just funny

Ladies may not agree

But we see it daily.... They just tend to pick the ones we feel we are better than.

Flip side

What other services, treat or goodies do the guys who treat them like trash offer that you don't have. That's what outweighs your good treatment.

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by luke55720: 5:25pm On Mar 23
The feeling women get from those type of guys make their pussy wet

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by J111333(m): 5:33pm On Mar 23
They don't love bad guys, they are simply loyal to them.
Just like dogs remain loyal and obedient to tough owners even when they are not fed but attack kind owners for not feeding them on time.

Women love good guys and that's why they hurt them. They believe they can get away with it.

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Stevyne: 5:34pm On Mar 23
Beckysexy:
Nah nah
Not me
If you treat me like trash, I'll also treat you like trash.That's my law
Me wey no gbadun before
O ni gbadun o

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by mannazgee: 5:38pm On Mar 23
Beckysexy:
Nah nah
Not me
If you treat me like trash, I'll also treat you like trash.That's my law
Me wey no gbadun before

you guys never admit they guy you are currently dating did he treat you better than the ones you have friendzoned answer me.

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Bluezy13(m): 8:34pm On Mar 23
Hmmm...
Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Realmenlovetruly(m): 9:24pm On Mar 23
Beckysexy:
Nah nah Not me If you treat me like trash, I'll also treat you like trash.That's my law Me wey no gbadun before
oya come i think we go make good home
Cos me sef no gbadun

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by AfroKnight: 9:32pm On Mar 23
Bro haven’t you heard? Good guys finish last.

Most babes reserve a spot in their hearts for good guys. They treat such guys as a fall-back plan in case the cocky bastàrds they want, leave them broken. This is so they can carry their broken selves to the good guy to patch up and marry.

If they’re lucky, the bad boy sticks with them and they endure a tumultuous marriage. If not, it’s mr nice guy they’d be buzzing on Whatsapp after 5 years incommunicado.

Don’t be the nice guy. Don’t be the last option on the list of an unstable untrustworthy woman.

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Realmenlovetruly(m): 9:39pm On Mar 23
Back to the OP


Though am lazy to type but will try and give the original keypoint


When we are talking about being Nice, Please to be Nice Man is totally different from to be a Weak Man


Listen if you can not be real you when it comes to woman world then you are a weak man


A bad guy can be nice and also still wicked the wicked part is that the bad guy is always be real when it comes to ladies world


But the weak guy or over-nice guy always try to please the woman, even if what he is going to do is not that comfortable to him


He is always feel scared to says his opinion to the girl,scared of her leaving him


In which the real guy,popularly called Bad guy don't give a Bleep whether she leaves or she stays


He is always real and nice


We cant date for 2 seconds if you dont want me to be real with you


But i can still makes you pee in your pant with my jokes and attitudes

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by PRISTINEMUSCLES: 9:39pm On Mar 23
Not that they like guys who treat them as "TRASH" but those guys that are able to stamp their ground come what may. They like guys that won't "always" give up their convenience to please them. Guys that can make them go wild both publicly and privately.

Unfortunately, a nice guy cannot do such rather he does the opposite. But a "bad" guy can do all of the above and much more.

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by KingWarri: 9:41pm On Mar 23
The beast in you is what they see as a real man... But if you keep showing them Mr. Nice guy, they will see as a punny




author=Kekereekun123 post=87699026]Sometimes when you look back at how women treated you as a good and calm guy over the years you begin to think should i turn into a heartless beast. i have friends who treat them like trash but the ladies still keep chasing them. some don't even have money nor cars o

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by LordIsaac(m): 10:40pm On Mar 23
Realmenlovetruly:
Back to the OP


Though am lazy to type but will try and give the original keypoint


When we are talking about being Nice, Please to be Nice Man is totally different from to be a Weak Man


Listen if you can not be real you when it comes to woman world then you are a weak man


A bad guy can be nice and also still wicked the wicked part is that the bad guy is always be real when it comes to ladies world


But the weak guy or over-nice guy always try to please the woman, even if what he is going to do is not that comfortable to him


He is always feel scared to says his opinion to the girl,scared of her leaving him


In which the real guy,popularly called Bad guy don't give a Bleep whether she leaves or she stays


He is always real and nice


We cant date for 2 seconds if you dont want me to be real with you


But i can still makes you pee in your pant with my jokes and attitudes
First Class Analysis!

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Elimon(m): 10:42pm On Mar 23
Sometimes I just get confused if I'm a nice guy or a bad guy but my girlfriend love both side of me...I just believe being open to any girl I deal with...will make me rule your conscience...
A bad guy will always attract a girl but might not keep her for long
A nice guy I think might not have all a girl will want out of a guy....but she would have no option but to love him
That's what I think

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by sassysure: 10:44pm On Mar 23
So who is loving all the good guys or are they single?

Mtcheeew.

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Godwin2019(m): 11:00pm On Mar 23
Just Like My Own Case, The Girl I Love So Much, But She Treats Me Like Trash.

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by lefulefu(m): 11:04pm On Mar 23
women love bad boys@op

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Yemike(m): 11:09pm On Mar 23
OP there's nothing like bad guys.


Let me use myself as a case study.

100 lvl I had three girlfriends the three of them are beautiful with good shap

Lola and Sandra are very obedient and always trying to please me.
Brings foodstuffs, money and I do frequent their houses for night class.

Oluwaseun never brings foodstuffs I'm the one buying her foodstuffs.
On Sunday if I fail to go to church nah wahala, she'll come and drag me commot.
The day she saw me at bet9ja she vex for me pa.
After enduring all these to get to the other room nah war but I love her most.

To me, she's the good girl. Lola and Sandra are just like friends with benefits.

The guys you're calling bad are only bad from your own perspective but they're good enough for those girls

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by davillian(m): 4:20am On Mar 24
The thing is to strike a balance don't be too nice to ladies and dont be too good....

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by unmask: 4:59am On Mar 24
That is what they want....some how they are the most attractive and daring.....

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Freelane33(m): 8:44am On Mar 24
Yes they always prefer them over their hobbies . Those are the manly type and girls don’t like to be defeated easily no matter how bad you treat them they will still come back for you but been a soft guy is tar tar ... hard guy mood SEUN how far ���

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by GeneralPula: 8:50am On Mar 24
viyon02:
My brother that is just my thought for today: I think being a gentleman is not enough to handle ladies, they just need to see that beast like trait in you just to correct their brain.

Being gentle in a world full of Wolves and Tigers is absolute waste of life!

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by EVILFOREST: 8:56am On Mar 24
Kekereekun123:
Sometimes when you look back at how women treated you as a good and calm guy over the years you begin to think should i turn into a heartless beast. i have friends who treat them like trash but the ladies still keep chasing them. some don't even have money nor cars o
Their BRAINS are wired to be so

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by viyon02: 8:58am On Mar 24
GeneralPula:


Being gentle in a world full of Wolves and Tigers is absolute waste of life!
May be you are right
Bro.

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by sotherefore: 9:36am On Mar 24
On my opinion....you don't have to be a jerk......the following are those things that make you a nice guy..

1)...if a girl cross your boundary...you will just overlook which means you don't know what you want......never fail to let a girl know when she has offended you no matter how beautiful she may be...

2)..laughing stupidly when you are around her..am not saying you should be Mr.serious but laff when is absolutely necessary or only when it funny to you.....don't be so happy because you have seen her and start smiling like a child....i mean laughed maturedly

3)being afraid to let a girl go....as a man your self respect is more important than her...if she can't respect you....let her go .

4)not having a life......as a man activists in your life should be the most important.....don't always be too available..she called you to come over...don't just agreed as if you are desperate...tell her that you have to check your schedule if there is Time.........don't cancel important events to hang out with a lady..

5)..don't give her money so easily....she ask you for 3000 and you just give to her like that without making her work for it...

MOST IMPORTANTLY.....Don't always try to make her happy....do only thing that you like whether she likes it or not as Long as you are comfortable with it........e.g....a girl may say you like ignoring her but when you start giving her too much attention...boom ! ...she throw you to the nice guy section because she has change you.....ignoring her was the challenge she was facing
.now she has changed you and no mystery left............IN A SIMPLE EXPLANATION...PLAY HARD TO GET...NEVER BE A CHEAP GUY..

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Graysons: 9:39am On Mar 24
Beckysexy:
Nah nah
Not me
If you treat me like trash, I'll also treat you like trash.That's my law
Me wey no gbadun before
hello stranger! are you really a lady?

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Re: Why Do Women Love Those Guys That Treat Them Like Trash??? by Leezah(f): 9:41am On Mar 24
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I don’t think they start out looking for a guy to treat them wrongly.

They start out looking for a guy who is assertive, stands his ground, demands his dues, is confident, does not back down, is not a doormat. This would imply that he has what it takes to later on protect her and the kids. Quite justifiable from a primordial point of view.

The problem is that there are limits to acceptable behavior. If you take it to an extreme, all of the above qualities could be associated with wife and child abusers, sociopaths and psychopaths. If the woman doesn’t have a gauge for “when is this too much of a good thing”, she may end up with quite the jerk.

It doesn’t help if the woman’s Father was a guy who abused or mistreated his wife, her mother. Because whatever our rational intentions, we do tend to become and marry our parents. Find me a woman who is a doormat and I have a pretty good idea of what her Father was like.

Guys have an obligation to get our s**t together when it comes to raising our daughters. Too many women with Father issues out there. Love and attraction are based on both psychology and spark of chemistry. It has been scientifically proven that both pleasure and pain are needed to create a long lasting attraction. Therefore, hot and cold formula to spicy up love life always seems to win.

However, if one consciously chooses their romantic partner who treats them badly only its a strong indicator of one's low self esteem. The person doesnt believe s/he can be loved by their partner, thus will keep choosing people who treat them badly to get a confirmation of their own beliefs.

In many cases such as person may also refuse the other person who doesnt communicate their intentions in the way they are familiar with.

Unfortunately, this is the first step towards creating a toxic relationships. I would highly suggest working on one's self esteem before deciding to get involved with the other person. Hope this answer helps.

This is an age-old conundrum wrapped up in a riddle. I’ve heard arguments bandied back and forth between girls and there male “friend zone” counterparts. Often, I’ve heard women say that they pray for and would kill for a “nice guy” as long as he is physically attractive, funny, smart, etc. I’ve had female friends who dated these nice guys and they would complain that these men are “too nice” and they could walk all over them, hence they are no longer attracted to them.

-It goes back to the hunter-gatherer days, where the alpha male was the most sought after. 10,000 years of societal evolution has yet to ween humanity of this attraction. The beta males (or alpha aspirants) wait for the scraps of the hunt, and contend for the women who would settle for them.

-Alpha males can either be benevolent or bullies. They are seen as dominant, so even a “nice alpha male” can be resented for being seen as a tyrant. Most women see the alpha as their ideal - though alphas may not be compatible with them.

-There are also sigma males - they don’t subscribe to alpha or beta tendencies, but are in a class by themselves and don’t care for anyone’s opinion of them. They don’t necessarily treat women poorly. They do their own thing and there is that breed of woman who finds this trait attractive.

-Bad boys and rebels - women find them attractive as well. They think these men have more courage than the other men, and chutzpah is an attractive trait.

Do nice guys finish last? Not necessarily.

Many successful men exist in the workplace today that are very kind and compassionate. The smart women prize these men who bring home the
proverbial bacon, or the “largest kill”, yet are generous, loving and in their eyes attractive.

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