Youngjohnosas:
it's a misery, women r just too complex to understand.i dated my ex for 3 years and fell so much in love with her because she was so understanding and nice.i messed things up by becoming too nice to her.Each time we had a disagreement she would always play d victim even when it was obvious she was clearly at fault, sometimes she would boastfully say she doesn't know how to say sorry to a guy.

it started degenerating that most times she did something wrong and I yelled at her,she would block my lines for days that I had to resort to asking my friends and siblings to beg her on my behalf because I felt I was a nice guy.it got into her head and she started misbehaving badly and on some few occasions I broke up with her but I couldn't even stay for two hours without hearing her voice, so each time I felt she was using me and broke up she won't even bother to say sorry because she knew I couldn't stay without talking to her.

I stumbled on a post here on nairaland and a particular comment got hold of me,that the only way to earn a woman's respect is to make her feel worthless and undervalued.the following week she did something outrageous and didn't even bother to apologise she was waiting for me to do the needful by calling her,yeah I did call her but to inform her I wasn't interested in the relationship anymore, she laughed and said ok thank you.

that day I was restless and couldn't eat, the urge to call her was very high but I resisted it and held on for 7days, on the 7th she called and was like so u are this heartless,I posted that I was sick on my WhatsApp status and u didn't even bother to check on me ,I just laughed and she angrily ended d call thinking I was going to call her back but I didn't.

two days later she called again and was like are u like this now, I was just laughing and ever since she has been calling over and over again.the day I mistakenly called her number and quickly ended d call she called me back over 10 times pleading that she wasn't with her phone when I called.

last night she opened up and pleaded and pleaded that I should forgive her and I told her I wasn't interested anymore,at some point she would angrily end d call and later call back to start pleading, this morning her elder sister and brother called me trying to show concern although they didn't mention her name, Right now she has dropped a lot of messages on WhatsApp .I am really surprised although I am never going back to her again.thanks nairaland.

favour32:
How you know guy?

Beckysexy:
Nah nah
Not me
If you treat me like trash, I'll also treat you like trash.That's my law
Me wey no gbadun before

pocohantas:
Women love men who treat them like trash,
Most women date men who treat them like trash.

Do you treat your woman like trash?
Does your father treat your mother like trash?
Is your sister dating a man who treats her like trash?

The answer to ALL would be NO.

Who then are these women and men?
They should be in a better position to answer.

luminouz:


What dafuq did you even say cuz you made no point!!

solasoulmusic:


You proved my point people see things differently it’s nothing to you because what a woman does is nothing to you. You may prefer guys but it doesn’t make that woman loses focus on bettering her life for her children and her family don’t look down on women because someone in your life does. You came from one you will give your seed to one to carry for you...

J111333:
They don't love bad guys, they are simply loyal to them.
Just like dogs remain loyal and obedient to tough owners even when they are not fed but attack kind owners for not feeding them on time.

Women love good guys and that's why they hurt them. They believe they can get away with it.

Alexaonfleek:
Women who like men treating them like trash have insecurity issues.
That being said,no woman likes a doormat either.
Be loving,dotting but firm as a man.


But how many times will they flog this issue on nairaland sef

bigcee:
Baba, don't mind her u're a good person. Oya give me 20k

slyfoxxjoe:
don’t mind them. The whole “women like men who treat them like trash” thing is a popular myth that quickly falls apart when you ask it in personal terms to the person who says it, like you so perfectly did.

I think it’s just an excuse used by socially inept and broke guys who can’t get a date to explain why women don’t like them. They say it’s because they are too nice not knowing it’s just because they are lame and broke.

t00dugged:
I am looking for a good guy , know any? . Poeple seem to mistake corny guys for good guys,sigh.

And people seem to mistake blunt guys for assholes smh.

emkz:
Only a trashy women would love a guy who treats her like trash. A classy woman would expect to be treated with class. If she isn't, she walks.

No one should come here and speak about alpha or beta or gamma male "bull-poo" (apologies to Nairaland textbot).

COdeGenesis:


These is one here. But the question is, are you a good girl?

slyfoxxjoe:
lol I swear. highly over-flogged and unnecessary issue. Just be yourself. Who will like you will like you.

obembet:
They sabi handle ladies well on bed. Kill your self

AfroKnight:
Bro haven’t you heard? Good guys finish last.

Most babes reserve a spot in their hearts for good guys. They treat such guys as a fall-back plan in case the cocky bastàrds they want, leave them broken. This is so they can carry their broken selves to the good guy to patch up and marry.

If they’re lucky, the bad boy sticks with them and they endure a tumultuous marriage. If not, it’s mr nice guy they’d be buzzing on Whatsapp after 5 years incommunicado.

Don’t be the nice guy. Don’t be the last option on the list of an unstable untrustworthy woman.

Yemike:
OP there's nothing like bad guys.


Let me use myself as a case study.

100 lvl I had three girlfriends the three of them are beautiful with good shap

Lola and Sandra are very obedient and always trying to please me.
Brings foodstuffs, money and I do frequent their houses for night class.

Oluwaseun never brings foodstuffs I'm the one buying her foodstuffs.
On Sunday if I fail to go to church nah wahala, she'll come and drag me commot.
The day she saw me at bet9ja she vex for me pa.
After enduring all these to get to the other room nah war but I love her most.

To me, she's the good girl. Lola and Sandra are just like friends with benefits.

The guys you're calling bad are only bad from your own perspective but they're good enough for those girls

PRISTINEMUSCLES:
Not that they like guys who treat them as "TRASH" but those guys that are able to stamp their ground come what may. They like guys that won't "always" give up their convenience to please them. Guys that can make them go wild both publicly and privately.

Unfortunately, a nice guy cannot do such rather he does the opposite. But a "bad" guy can do all of the above and much more.

Kekereekun123:
Sometimes when you look back at how women treated you as a good and calm guy over the years you begin to think should I turn into a heartless beast?

I have friends who treat them like trash but the ladies still keep chasing them. Some don't even have money or cars o.

Papadoh:

Youngjohnosas:
yes o, i received it in a thousand fold.

I will heed to ur advice, thanks a lot for your information.

J111333:
They don't love bad guys, they are simply loyal to them.
Just like dogs remain loyal and obedient to tough owners even when they are not fed but attack kind owners for not feeding them on time.

Women love good guys and that's why they hurt them. They believe they can get away with it.

t00dugged:
corny