Semaj77:


What if she's a widow , does it still make it unacceptable

Martinez39s:
Hmmmm. So in the beginning she hid her status as a single mother with three kids. She waited until she had gotten him in the strong web of the illusion called love (and probably great sex) before letting him know of her single-mom status. She hoped he would find it hard to leave the relationship (betray the love), and hence take responsibility of her and another man's three seeds. The bait and switch technique.

What a manipulative and bold lying bitćh! Sweet combination of shaming and victim playing. So taking care of another man's seeds is his responsibility? Refusing to take care of another man's seed and shoulder another man's burden is cowardly and hatred of responsibility? Oh my! Awww, the manipulative boldness of acting with all conviction that any man you date is responsible for your children (another man's seeds and responsibility).

If I were in this situation, I wouldn't bother explaining myself. I would just respond with laughing and taunting emojis, and reply with "that manipulation won't work on me. I will not raise another man's seed and deal with his leftover (you). Go sort yourself out." I would even post pictures of my bank statement and write "for me alone. Not for another man's seed and leftover. IF HE, OR THEY, ARE STILL ALIVE, GO AND SORT OUT THINGS WITH YOUR BABYDADDIES OR GO FIND WORK." I will then end it with more laughing and taunting emojis.


Ubunja, Omar09, emmaodet, JONNYSPUTE, CAPSLOCKED, AstroG.... y'all should check out this thread.

emmaodet:


Don't mind them.
That was how one single mum told my brother she has a child and if my brother wants to marry her, he should be ready to marry the child along.
A guy working in dubai and doing a Useless long distance relationship with a single mum in Nigeria.
My mum and i talked senses to his coconut brain last week.
Is that how low he is in life? Of all ladies in the world, it is a single mum he wants to choose for a start in life? A 29 yrs old boy for God sake.
I told him i will curse him.
Spits*

Martinez39s:
I hope he dumped her. Jeez, if not for your mum and you, he would have fallen prey. Indeed, it doesn't pay to be blue pilled.

emmaodet:
Nairaland has really helped my life, especially romance and relationship related issues.
Ubunja, martinez and other good guys comments really opened my eyes to the reality of things.
I was a heavy Mugu for women matter before but now i thank God.
I also promised myself that none of the people around me will fall for any yeye love or friendship, Lialai

Tajbol4splend:
When a woman is young, beautiful and without children, she's hot like Kano sun but after giving birth to children out of wedlock, she will be begging you like Kaduna alimajiris

TheGiftedOne:



[s][/s]The guy in that chat wants to eat draw soup without getting stained, you failed. To chop coconut you must work to break it. By the way go and get married and stop farming on cultivated lands. Be responsible for once[s][/s].

emmaodet:


Don't mind them.
That was how one single mum told my brother she has a child and if my brother wants to marry her, he should be ready to marry the child along.
A guy working in dubai and doing a Useless long distance relationship with a single mum in Nigeria.
My mum and i talked senses to his coconut brain last week.
Is that how low he is in life? Of all ladies in the world, it is a single mum he wants to choose for a start in life? A 29 yrs old boy for God sake.
I told him i will curse him.
Spits*

lefulefu:
doing long distance relationship with a single mom of all women
i laugh
he thinks she doesnt have a boyfriend in naija abi?

emmaodet:


Hahahaha
My broda, that is what i told the whole family that i don't subscribe to this bullshit, he should find his woman in dubai and date.
But the you know the shocking question my mum asked me as i dey para?
That did i meet my wife a virgin?
Was my wife not dating someone else before i snatched her from him?
Na so i shock, close mouth
Meaning even though the girl has a bf, when my brother comes home to pick her she will stop. As at then, mama sef never know say the girl na single mum.
The way my mum take reply me, i come dey suspect the kind life she may have likely lived during her time, just thinking sha.
Martinez39s

emmaodet:


Don't mind them.
That was how one single mum told my brother she has a child and if my brother wants to marry her, he should be ready to marry the child along.
A guy working in dubai and doing a Useless long distance relationship with a single mum in Nigeria.
My mum and i talked senses to his coconut brain last week.
Is that how low he is in life? Of all ladies in the world, it is a single mum he wants to choose for a start in life? A 29 yrs old boy for God sake.
I told him i will curse him.
Spits*

emmaodet:


Hahahaha
My broda, that is what i told the whole family that i don't subscribe to this bullshit, he should find his woman in dubai and date.
But the you know the shocking question my mum asked me as i dey para?
That did i meet my wife a virgin?
Was my wife not dating someone else before i snatched her from him?
Na so i shock, close mouth
Meaning even though the girl has a bf, when my brother comes home to pick her she will stop. As at then, mama sef never know say the girl na single mum.
The way my mum take reply me, i come dey suspect the kind life she may have likely lived during her time, just thinking sha.
Martinez39s

PharoahIII:
na so one single mother then dey form for me say she wont allow me have sex with her until after marriage. can you inagine the effrontery? a whole 39 year old single mother with 6 year old child When rotten mango think say na the same price them go price am with fresh mango

Martinez39s:
When we say all women are like that, haters think we hate all women. They don't know we are just saying the hard truth. Some even reply with "so you think even your mother, sister, aunts, etc. are like that?" as though the women that are like that aren't people's mothers, sisters, aunts, etc. What's so special about anyone that their mum, sisters, aunts etc can't be like that? Your mum's disingenuous reply shows that while blood is thicker than water, sisterhood is thicker than blood.

PharoahIII:
na so one single mother then dey form for me say she wont allow me have sex with her until after marriage. can you inagine the effrontery? a whole 39 year old single mother with 6 year old child When rotten mango think say na the same price them go price am with fresh mango

Fr33born:

What exactly is your point sir?

PharoahIII:
na so one single mother then dey form for me say she wont allow me have sex with her until after marriage. can you inagine the effrontery? a whole 39 year old single mother with 6 year old child When rotten mango think say na the same price them go price am with fresh mango